Current Events > Should I just give up on this girl? (long post)

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Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:02:14 AM #1:	Okay, so Ive had a big crush on her for almost a year maybe. I never asked her out for three reasons. She already had a boyfriend and she seemed so happy with him. She was my friend and we also had lots of mutual friends so I didnt want to make it rough. And then, once he dumped her, because I was a chicken. They had a bad breakup. Bad, bad, bad. He literally told her that he didnt love her for the last few months and didnt know how to admit. And they were still fucking the whole time (she told me >_>), and she had no clue he didnt have feelings anymore. So, I was there for her. After she seemed less bummed out, maybe a month after? I was at a party with her and some of her other friends. And I was really zoinked. This girl is driving me, my crush, and some guy Ive never met before home. Driver drops me off first. I get out of the car and ask my crush to come out of the car too. I just admit that I have had feelings for her for a while. She looks at me, asks if Im serious. (I do a good job of hiding my feelings.) I say yeah, she tells me shell text me when she gets home. I say sure. When she gets home, she asks me a few questions like how long I liked her for, and stuff. Then she says no, shes just not ready for a relationship. I say okay, and I ask her if maybe it could happen in the future. She says maybe. This was maybe early November? Im thinking of waiting for the dance in January to ask her to go with me. Should I give up on her? Should I ask her to something a little sooner? --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914096837] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Okay, so Ive had a big crush on her for almost a year maybe. I never asked her out for three reasons. She already had a boyfriend and she seemed so happy with him. She was my friend and we also had lots of mutual friends so I didnt want to make it rough. And then, once he dumped her, because I was a chicken. They had a bad breakup. Bad, bad, bad. He literally told her that he didnt love her for the last few months and didnt know how to admit. And they were still fucking the whole time (she told me >_>), and she had no clue he didnt have feelings anymore. So, I was there for her. After she seemed less bummed out, maybe a month after? I was at a party with her and some of her other friends. And I was really zoinked. This girl is driving me, my crush, and some guy Ive never met before home. Driver drops me off first. I get out of the car and ask my crush to come out of the car too. I just admit that I have had feelings for her for a while. She looks at me, asks if Im serious. (I do a good job of hiding my feelings.) I say yeah, she tells me shell text me when she gets home. I say sure. When she gets home, she asks me a few questions like how long I liked her for, and stuff. Then she says no, shes just not ready for a relationship. I say okay, and I ask her if maybe it could happen in the future. She says maybe. This was maybe early November? Im thinking of waiting for the dance in January to ask her to go with me. Should I give up on her? Should I ask her to something a little sooner?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 12/14/18 1:07:17 AM #2:	Well, I'll say this. Just on the virtue of her not completely distancing herself, and getting another guy to reject you for her because she was that creeped out, you're already doing better than me. If you really like her, ask her out for that dance. You might just get what you want. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 21; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, https://i.imgtc.com/Ejs0WrG.jpg <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:914097014] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Well, I'll say this. Just on the virtue of her not completely distancing herself, and getting another guy to reject you for her because she was that creeped out, you're already doing better than me. If you really like her, ask her out for that dance. You might just get what you want.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:10:41 AM #3:	Ive never creeped out a girl in my life. I pride myself on being a loser who holds year + long crushes without creeping them out. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914097124] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Ive never creeped out a girl in my life. I pride myself on being a loser who holds year + long crushes without creeping them out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 12/14/18 1:10:52 AM #4:	yeah, this doesn't sound like an impossible situation to me. I don't know what you should do though --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:914097132] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>yeah, this doesn't sound like an impossible situation to me. I don't know what you should do though</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:11:17 AM #5:	Shes too pretty for me though. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914097147] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Shes too pretty for me though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CoolBro 12/14/18 1:12:21 AM #7:	she isn't ready for you yet because she's still thinking about her ex's dick. <cite>CoolBro posted [p:914097172] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>she isn't ready for you yet because she's still thinking about her ex's dick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CoolBro 12/14/18 1:12:53 AM #8:	just saying <cite>CoolBro posted [p:914097189] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>just saying</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:13:14 AM #9:	Conflict posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... Okay, so Ive had a big crush on her for almost a year maybe. Already a red flag Its fine. This is just how I operate. My dad tells me he was the same with my mom. Well, not exactly. He had a girlfriend while he liked my mom, but still. Eventually it worked out for him. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914097207] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>Okay, so Ive had a big crush on her for almost a year maybe. </quote> Already a red flag</quote> Its fine. This is just how I operate. My dad tells me he was the same with my mom. Well, not exactly. He had a girlfriend while he liked my mom, but still. Eventually it worked out for him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 12/14/18 1:26:32 AM #10:	I'm just going to tell you this buddy, make of this as you will. The girl I fell for at the start of the 2017-2018 school year, I fell for her harder than I fell for anyone. I experienced feelings I never thought I was capable of, and I'm not just talking about lovey-dovey, I'm talking about bad terrible feelings, jealousy filled my heart. It was overall unhealthy. For months, I kept it to myself, but on February 7th, I decided to finally tell her. I reasoned with myself that I did it because I needed to get it off my chest, but the real reason was that I wanted to her know that I was interested in her, enough to actually admit it that was, and that was when she was still with her boyfriend. Unfortunately, my biggest enemy is myself, and I couldn't help but try to be cute with her, and let me say, it didn't work. On March 15th, I asked her out (she broke up with her boyfriend), and promptly, the next day, that was when I got the message early in the morning from her off again, on again, crush. It broke my heart, and she and I never talked from that point on. It hurt badly because she was the first girl I ever admitted my feelings to, and the first girl I tried asking out. We never talked after that, a stark contrast to where she would actively talk to me, and it left a pit in me, made me realize just how unfulfilled I was. The worst part is every single day since I started developing these feelings, a portion of that day has been dedicated to thinking about her, even now. Every single day, I have to reflect on these feelings, the bad times I went through, where I went wrong, if my character is truly this terrible, and worst of all, an alternative reality where maybe she does give me a chance and now my life magically goes from terrible to awesome, she truly was just that great. My point is, you might fail, but in the end, the pain will be there regardless. There were plenty of signs that I had no chance, and I knew it too, but I went for it because I legitimately believed that if I could just give her to show any interest in me, my life could be made better as a result. As for you, the girl you talk about might have some interest in you, enough to still want to talk to you. I have a feeling you won't chase her off, so get yourself a Merry little Christmas and see if you can make your life any better. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 21; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, https://i.imgtc.com/Ejs0WrG.jpg <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:914097630] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>I'm just going to tell you this buddy, make of this as you will. The girl I fell for at the start of the 2017-2018 school year, I fell for her harder than I fell for anyone. I experienced feelings I never thought I was capable of, and I'm not just talking about lovey-dovey, I'm talking about bad terrible feelings, jealousy filled my heart. It was overall unhealthy. For months, I kept it to myself, but on February 7th, I decided to finally tell her. I reasoned with myself that I did it because I needed to get it off my chest, but the real reason was that I wanted to her know that I was interested in her, enough to actually admit it that was, and that was when she was still with her boyfriend. Unfortunately, my biggest enemy is myself, and I couldn't help but try to be cute with her, and let me say, it didn't work. On March 15th, I asked her out (she broke up with her boyfriend), and promptly, the next day, that was when I got the message early in the morning from her off again, on again, crush. It broke my heart, and she and I never talked from that point on. It hurt badly because she was the first girl I ever admitted my feelings to, and the first girl I tried asking out. We never talked after that, a stark contrast to where she would actively talk to me, and it left a pit in me, made me realize just how unfulfilled I was. The worst part is every single day since I started developing these feelings, a portion of that day has been dedicated to thinking about her, even now. Every single day, I have to reflect on these feelings, the bad times I went through, where I went wrong, if my character is truly this terrible, and worst of all, an alternative reality where maybe she does give me a chance and now my life magically goes from terrible to awesome, she truly was just that great. My point is, you might fail, but in the end, the pain will be there regardless. There were plenty of signs that I had no chance, and I knew it too, but I went for it because I legitimately believed that if I could just give her to show any interest in me, my life could be made better as a result. As for you, the girl you talk about might have some interest in you, enough to still want to talk to you. I have a feeling you won't chase her off, so get yourself a Merry little Christmas and see if you can make your life any better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
008Zulu 12/14/18 1:30:21 AM #11:	Coming off a bad break... you don't want to be the rebound. She will get over it, in time. --- Time is a funny thing. There is always too much of it, except when you need it the most. Then there is never enough. <cite>008Zulu posted [p:914097751] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Coming off a bad break... you don't want to be the rebound. She will get over it, in time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 12/14/18 1:31:06 AM #12:	008Zulu posted... Coming off a bad break... you don't want to be the rebound. She will get over it, in time. Yup, being the rebound isnt worth it, abort <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:914097780] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>008Zulu posted...</cite> <quote>Coming off a bad break... you don't want to be the rebound. She will get over it, in time.</quote> Yup, being the rebound isnt worth it, abort</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:34:11 AM #13:	PiOverlord posted... I'm just going to tell you this buddy, make of this as you will. The girl I fell for at the start of the 2017-2018 school year, I fell for her harder than I fell for anyone. I experienced feelings I never thought I was capable of, and I'm not just talking about lovey-dovey, I'm talking about bad terrible feelings, jealousy filled my heart. It was overall unhealthy. For months, I kept it to myself, but on February 7th, I decided to finally tell her. I reasoned with myself that I did it because I needed to get it off my chest, but the real reason was that I wanted to her know that I was interested in her, enough to actually admit it that was, and that was when she was still with her boyfriend. Unfortunately, my biggest enemy is myself, and I couldn't help but try to be cute with her, and let me say, it didn't work. On March 15th, I asked her out (she broke up with her boyfriend), and promptly, the next day, that was when I got the message early in the morning from her off again, on again, crush. It broke my heart, and she and I never talked from that point on. It hurt badly because she was the first girl I ever admitted my feelings to, and the first girl I tried asking out. We never talked after that, a stark contrast to where she would actively talk to me, and it left a pit in me, made me realize just how unfulfilled I was. The worst part is every single day since I started developing these feelings, a portion of that day has been dedicated to thinking about her, even now. Every single day, I have to reflect on these feelings, the bad times I went through, where I went wrong, if my character is truly this terrible, and worst of all, an alternative reality where maybe she does give me a chance and now my life magically goes from terrible to awesome, she truly was just that great. My point is, you might fail, but in the end, the pain will be there regardless. There were plenty of signs that I had no chance, and I knew it too, but I went for it because I legitimately believed that if I could just give her to show any interest in me, my life could be made better as a result. As for you, the girl you talk about might have some interest in you, enough to still want to talk to you. I have a feeling you won't chase her off, so get yourself a Merry little Christmas and see if you can make your life any better. sorry to hear that. Merry Christmas to you too. and I know what you mean. even if she just held hands with me once my life would be better. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914097877] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>PiOverlord posted...</cite> <quote>I'm just going to tell you this buddy, make of this as you will. The girl I fell for at the start of the 2017-2018 school year, I fell for her harder than I fell for anyone. I experienced feelings I never thought I was capable of, and I'm not just talking about lovey-dovey, I'm talking about bad terrible feelings, jealousy filled my heart. It was overall unhealthy. For months, I kept it to myself, but on February 7th, I decided to finally tell her. I reasoned with myself that I did it because I needed to get it off my chest, but the real reason was that I wanted to her know that I was interested in her, enough to actually admit it that was, and that was when she was still with her boyfriend. Unfortunately, my biggest enemy is myself, and I couldn't help but try to be cute with her, and let me say, it didn't work. On March 15th, I asked her out (she broke up with her boyfriend), and promptly, the next day, that was when I got the message early in the morning from her off again, on again, crush. It broke my heart, and she and I never talked from that point on. It hurt badly because she was the first girl I ever admitted my feelings to, and the first girl I tried asking out. We never talked after that, a stark contrast to where she would actively talk to me, and it left a pit in me, made me realize just how unfulfilled I was. The worst part is every single day since I started developing these feelings, a portion of that day has been dedicated to thinking about her, even now. Every single day, I have to reflect on these feelings, the bad times I went through, where I went wrong, if my character is truly this terrible, and worst of all, an alternative reality where maybe she does give me a chance and now my life magically goes from terrible to awesome, she truly was just that great. My point is, you might fail, but in the end, the pain will be there regardless. There were plenty of signs that I had no chance, and I knew it too, but I went for it because I legitimately believed that if I could just give her to show any interest in me, my life could be made better as a result. As for you, the girl you talk about might have some interest in you, enough to still want to talk to you. I have a feeling you won't chase her off, so get yourself a Merry little Christmas and see if you can make your life any better.</quote> sorry to hear that. Merry Christmas to you too. and I know what you mean. even if she just held hands with me once my life would be better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nazanir 12/14/18 1:39:37 AM #14:	Ryuko_Chan posted... Ive never creeped out a girl in my life. I pride myself on being a loser who holds year + long crushes without creeping them out. You should put that in your resum. --- XboX GT/Steam/Wii-U - Nazanir <cite>Nazanir posted [p:914098051] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>Ive never creeped out a girl in my life. I pride myself on being a loser who holds year + long crushes without creeping them out.</quote> You should put that in your resum.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryangrad 12/14/18 1:40:31 AM #15:	https://vocaroo.com/i/s1f7hoXfwTT2 --- https://imgur.com/v3SzL0d https://imgur.com/n8MtRqd <cite>Ryangrad posted [p:914098085] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>https://vocaroo.com/i/s1f7hoXfwTT2</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 12/14/18 1:43:37 AM #16:	Ryangrad posted... https://vocaroo.com/i/s1f7hoXfwTT2 You had me scared there for a second. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 21; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, https://i.imgtc.com/Ejs0WrG.jpg <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:914098161] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryangrad posted...</cite> <quote>https://vocaroo.com/i/s1f7hoXfwTT2</quote> You had me scared there for a second.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:45:15 AM #17:	What is it. I dont feel like clicking it. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098210] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>What is it. I dont feel like clicking it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 12/14/18 1:46:40 AM #18:	Ryuko_Chan posted... What is it. I dont feel like clicking it. a recording of your title and OP. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 21; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, https://i.imgtc.com/Ejs0WrG.jpg <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:914098249] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>What is it. I dont feel like clicking it.</quote> a recording of your title and OP.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:47:53 AM #19:	PiOverlord posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... What is it. I dont feel like clicking it. a recording of your title and OP. Thats what I thought. I dont really see why Im getting attacked. But okay. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098285] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>PiOverlord posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>What is it. I dont feel like clicking it.</quote> a recording of your title and OP.</quote> Thats what I thought. I dont really see why Im getting attacked. But okay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryangrad 12/14/18 1:49:36 AM #21:	Ryuko_Chan posted... I dont really see why Im getting attacked. But okay. No one is attacking you, mate. --- https://imgur.com/v3SzL0d https://imgur.com/n8MtRqd <cite>Ryangrad posted [p:914098341] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote> I dont really see why Im getting attacked. But okay.</quote> No one is attacking you, mate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CoolBro 12/14/18 1:51:34 AM #22:	TC, your crush definitely is still loving her ex (they had lots of sex, after all) maybe that's why she still wasn't ready, she was hoping for her ex to come back for her and have another sex party. <cite>CoolBro posted [p:914098389] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>TC, your crush definitely is still loving her ex (they had lots of sex, after all) maybe that's why she still wasn't ready, she was hoping for her ex to come back for her and have another sex party.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:54:04 AM #23:	Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098454] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 12/14/18 1:54:54 AM #24:	Ryuko_Chan posted... Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West. I should let you know while CoolBro might have some truth to their statement, they also are a troll, so ignore their attempts to make you feel bad. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 21; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, https://i.imgtc.com/Ejs0WrG.jpg <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:914098481] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West.</quote> I should let you know while CoolBro might have some truth to their statement, they also are a troll, so ignore their attempts to make you feel bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
marthsheretoo 12/14/18 1:57:23 AM #25:	You have a chance to get with her, but she's not that into you. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro <cite>marthsheretoo posted [p:914098558] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>You have a chance to get with her, but she's not that into you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:58:43 AM #26:	marthsheretoo posted... You have a chance to get with her, but she's not that into you. Realistically she isnt at all. She mightve been at one point, but probably not. And I wasnt manly enough to get her. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098610] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>marthsheretoo posted...</cite> <quote>You have a chance to get with her, but she's not that into you.</quote> Realistically she isnt at all. She mightve been at one point, but probably not. And I wasnt manly enough to get her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 1:59:13 AM #27:	PiOverlord posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West. I should let you know while CoolBro might have some truth to their statement, they also are a troll, so ignore their attempts to make you feel bad. Just because hes trolling doesnt mean hes wrong. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098624] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>PiOverlord posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe. I guess it is time to listen to the greatest pop album ever. 808s and Heartbreak, by Kanye West.</quote> I should let you know while CoolBro might have some truth to their statement, they also are a troll, so ignore their attempts to make you feel bad.</quote> Just because hes trolling doesnt mean hes wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 2:09:00 AM #28:	Anyone else? --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914098910] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Anyone else?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/14/18 2:15:47 AM #29:	If she is on the rebound and you didn't even get an "I don't need him" kiss then it's hopeless. Ironically, and perhaps tragically, your only hope is that she is still in love with the guy, because at least that way there's an excuse and maybe she'll get over him and give you a chance. So... overall it doesn't look too good. You're the only one in a position to make a decision on this since you know her and we don't, but from the sound of it I'd probably just cut that part of my heart out and go back to pretending everything is ok (whilst bleeding internally). --- Bears are my spirit animal. The kings of the desert. No natural predators in water. They have fur sometimes. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914099115] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>If she is on the rebound and you didn't even get an "I don't need him" kiss then it's hopeless. Ironically, and perhaps tragically, your only hope is that she is still in love with the guy, because at least that way there's an excuse and maybe she'll get over him and give you a chance. So... overall it doesn't look too good. You're the only one in a position to make a decision on this since you know her and we don't, but from the sound of it I'd probably just cut that part of my heart out and go back to pretending everything is ok (whilst bleeding internally).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
refmon 12/14/18 2:23:55 AM #30:	Move on dude if you didnt even qualify for a rebound --- If you read this signature, then that meant that I had control of what you read for 5 SECONDS!! <cite>refmon posted [p:914099338] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Move on dude if you didnt even qualify for a rebound</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
action52 12/14/18 2:33:15 AM #31:	I've been in your situation. When you like a girl, you want to believe that she'll like you. Remember this when you try to think about what to do. I'm telling you that you should move on. You already know that she doesn't REALLY like you. Best case scenario, she kind of thinks you're okay and is mulling over whether she should settle for you instead of waiting for a guy she would rather be with. Worst case scenario is, she is not interested at all and just said she would think about it because she felt guilty about rejecting you outright the way she really wanted to. Even in the best situation, if you date her there's going to be this huge gap between how much you like her and how much she likes you. Usually that results in a bad relationship that will be short and end with her dumping you then you feel like shit for months or years or whatever. The odds of things going better than this are extremely slim. Like I said, when you like someone it clouds your judgment and makes it really easy to believe what you want to. Even if it's a million to one, you want to try right? But I think that long term you will probably be happier moving on. You should try to find someone who loves you back. --- i am truley sorry for your lots <cite>action52 posted [p:914099568] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>I've been in your situation. When you like a girl, you want to believe that she'll like you. Remember this when you try to think about what to do. I'm telling you that you should move on. You already know that she doesn't REALLY like you. Best case scenario, she kind of thinks you're okay and is mulling over whether she should settle for you instead of waiting for a guy she would rather be with. Worst case scenario is, she is not interested at all and just said she would think about it because she felt guilty about rejecting you outright the way she really wanted to. Even in the best situation, if you date her there's going to be this huge gap between how much you like her and how much she likes you. Usually that results in a bad relationship that will be short and end with her dumping you then you feel like shit for months or years or whatever. The odds of things going better than this are extremely slim. Like I said, when you like someone it clouds your judgment and makes it really easy to believe what you want to. Even if it's a million to one, you want to try right? But I think that long term you will probably be happier moving on. You should try to find someone who loves you back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 10:34:40 AM #32:	Yeah, maybe :( --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914111755] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, maybe :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Giant_Aspirin 12/14/18 10:35:42 AM #33:	i thought you were trans? --- Playing: God of War, Soul Calibur VI, Smash Ultimate *(~);} - I suppose it will all make sense when we grow up - {;(~)* <cite>Giant_Aspirin posted [p:914111797] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>i thought you were trans?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sariana21 12/14/18 10:40:24 AM #34:	How old are you? --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08) <cite>Sariana21 posted [p:914111994] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>How old are you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 10:44:54 AM #35:	17 --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914112211] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>17</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 12/14/18 10:46:07 AM #36:	honestly what other people ITT said is probably true. you will never be her priorty and her one --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:914112266] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>honestly what other people ITT said is probably true. you will never be her priorty and her one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 12/14/18 10:48:06 AM #37:	action52 posted... I've been in your situation. When you like a girl, you want to believe that she'll like you. Remember this when you try to think about what to do. I'm telling you that you should move on. You already know that she doesn't REALLY like you. Best case scenario, she kind of thinks you're okay and is mulling over whether she should settle for you instead of waiting for a guy she would rather be with. Worst case scenario is, she is not interested at all and just said she would think about it because she felt guilty about rejecting you outright the way she really wanted to. Even in the best situation, if you date her there's going to be this huge gap between how much you like her and how much she likes you. Usually that results in a bad relationship that will be short and end with her dumping you then you feel like shit for months or years or whatever. The odds of things going better than this are extremely slim. Like I said, when you like someone it clouds your judgment and makes it really easy to believe what you want to. Even if it's a million to one, you want to try right? But I think that long term you will probably be happier moving on. You should try to find someone who loves you back. This. It sucks though and I'm sorry. --- I use Gameraven and you should too. http://error1355.com/ce/teepan95.html <cite>teepan95 posted [p:914112344] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>action52 posted...</cite> <quote>I've been in your situation. When you like a girl, you want to believe that she'll like you. Remember this when you try to think about what to do. I'm telling you that you should move on. You already know that she doesn't REALLY like you. Best case scenario, she kind of thinks you're okay and is mulling over whether she should settle for you instead of waiting for a guy she would rather be with. Worst case scenario is, she is not interested at all and just said she would think about it because she felt guilty about rejecting you outright the way she really wanted to. Even in the best situation, if you date her there's going to be this huge gap between how much you like her and how much she likes you. Usually that results in a bad relationship that will be short and end with her dumping you then you feel like shit for months or years or whatever. The odds of things going better than this are extremely slim. Like I said, when you like someone it clouds your judgment and makes it really easy to believe what you want to. Even if it's a million to one, you want to try right? But I think that long term you will probably be happier moving on. You should try to find someone who loves you back.</quote> This. It sucks though and I'm sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 10:54:22 AM #38:	Yeah youre probably right. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914112636] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Yeah youre probably right.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shokan_warrior 12/14/18 11:01:46 AM #39:	She banged the stranger in the car You're such a beta She's playing you Ghost her Everyone has bad feelings, why should you console her when there are orphans and such in greater need? You need to take action and if she says no then move on asap Love doesn't start until youve banged a few times and have been together for a bit Before that you both don't truly know each other so how can you love each other? --- never don't give up <cite>shokan_warrior posted [p:914112960] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>She banged the stranger in the car You're such a beta She's playing you Ghost her Everyone has bad feelings, why should you console her when there are orphans and such in greater need? You need to take action and if she says no then move on asap Love doesn't start until youve banged a few times and have been together for a bit Before that you both don't truly know each other so how can you love each other?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sariana21 12/14/18 11:35:10 AM #40:	Ryuko_Chan posted... 17 Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least. --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08) <cite>Sariana21 posted [p:914114495] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>17</quote> Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 12/14/18 11:35:44 AM #41:	shokan_warrior posted... Ghost her this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:914114516] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote>Ghost her</quote> this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 12/14/18 11:41:00 AM #42:	Sariana21 posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... 17 Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least. Dont invite her to the dance do your own thing Space asap <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:914114757] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sariana21 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>17</quote> Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least.</quote> Dont invite her to the dance do your own thing Space asap</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 12:21:42 PM #43:	catboy0_0 posted... shokan_warrior posted... Ghost her this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914116802] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote>Ghost her</quote> this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault</quote> this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 12:21:53 PM #44:	soulunison2 posted... Sariana21 posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... 17 Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least. Dont invite her to the dance do your own thing Space asap Yeah, I probably will. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914116809] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sariana21 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote>17</quote> Yeah, I suspected. No harm in asking her to that dance, but dont invest too much into it emotionally. Youre young and have too much ahead of you. If its meant to be, youll find out in good time. If not, appreciate the friendship and move on. It sounds as though she is a nice person, at least.</quote> Dont invite her to the dance do your own thing Space asap</quote> Yeah, I probably will.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 12/14/18 12:22:08 PM #45:	Ryuko_Chan posted... catboy0_0 posted... shokan_warrior posted... Ghost her this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs I'm glad you realise this kanny --- I use Gameraven and you should too. http://error1355.com/ce/teepan95.html <cite>teepan95 posted [p:914116827] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote> Ghost her </quote> this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault</quote> this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs</quote> I'm glad you realise this kanny</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 12/14/18 12:23:02 PM #46:	well, I just hope you're right for your sake :( I just don't want to see you get hurt --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:914116869] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>well, I just hope you're right for your sake :( I just don't want to see you get hurt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
action52 12/14/18 12:23:41 PM #47:	Oh man this just gets more and more close to home. You know how I said I'd been there? The situation I was thinking about happened when I was 17. We were friends, then I asked her out, she said "Let me think about it." Then came a month or so of me agonizing and gradually losing hope. Then I called her and asked for a solid commitment and she said no. Then, like a moron, I asked if she would go to prom with me, as friends. She actually laughed before she said no. Not in a mean way. She had been trying to let me down gently. But then when I asked her to prom as she was rejecting me, she just couldn't help laughing at the stupidity. It burst out involuntarily. I don't blame her. For the record I at least didn't mope around and feel sorry for myself. It was too late to ask any of my other female friends because they'd already agreed to go with someone else while I was waiting for this girl who didn't love me. So on prom night I went to Second City with another male friend who didn't have a date. --- i am truley sorry for your lots <cite>action52 posted [p:914116902] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Oh man this just gets more and more close to home. You know how I said I'd been there? The situation I was thinking about happened when I was 17. We were friends, then I asked her out, she said "Let me think about it." Then came a month or so of me agonizing and gradually losing hope. Then I called her and asked for a solid commitment and she said no. Then, like a moron, I asked if she would go to prom with me, as friends. She actually laughed before she said no. Not in a mean way. She had been trying to let me down gently. But then when I asked her to prom as she was rejecting me, she just couldn't help laughing at the stupidity. It burst out involuntarily. I don't blame her. For the record I at least didn't mope around and feel sorry for myself. It was too late to ask any of my other female friends because they'd already agreed to go with someone else while I was waiting for this girl who didn't love me. So on prom night I went to Second City with another male friend who didn't have a date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 12/14/18 12:28:52 PM #48:	Have sex with lots of other girls who are slightly less attractive than her. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:914117158] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Have sex with lots of other girls who are slightly less attractive than her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/14/18 12:29:44 PM #49:	teepan95 posted... Ryuko_Chan posted... catboy0_0 posted... shokan_warrior posted... Ghost her this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs I'm glad you realise this kanny This line of thinking is what prevents me from going full permavirgin. --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914117200] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote><cite>teepan95 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ryuko_Chan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote> Ghost her </quote> this and do not be her shoulder to cry on. she's using her for her emotional needs and when she doesn't need you anymore she'll drop you and say it's your fault</quote> this is silly being friends with somebody isnt just using them for your emotional needs</quote> I'm glad you realise this kanny</quote> This line of thinking is what prevents me from going full permavirgin.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet_10-325 12/14/18 12:31:19 PM #50:	You miss 100% of the shots you don't take --- No one triggers the Trumpanzees quite like you do - Bullet_Wing Conservatism is a plague on society. Formerly known as The_Great_Geno. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted [p:914117289] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>You miss 100% of the shots you don't take</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumpo 12/14/18 12:39:07 PM #51:	Bang her friends <cite>Trumpo posted [p:914117713] in Should I j... [t:77300662]...</cite> <quote>Bang her friends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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