Current Events > Is it wrong to think that I would be better off not knowing my sibling?

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My older sister is always pacing doubt into my mind and putting me down. I tell her about how I want to be a surgeon. She tells me it's not what I want to do with my life and that I can't do it. I'm taking a timed online exam for an online course. She spams my phone with calls and text messages. I apply for a transfer to a better college. She tells me to not bother because I won't be accepted. I bring home a nice girl. She says the girl is either ugly or that her and I aren't compatible.

She called me the other night asking me how I pronounce crayon. I say "Cray-on" and want to leave it at that because I have my studies to attend to. She proceeds to have a 20 minute argument about how I'm wrong and the correct pronunciation is "crown".

If I don't go out on a Friday night, I'm a loser with no friends. If I do go out, she wants to know where I am 24/7 and who I'm with and what we are doing.

If I don't pick up the phone or click over whenever she calls, she gets mad. One time, I was talking to my older brother who was stationed in Afghanistan. He could only call like once a week so I didn't click over when she called because the signal was weak and I knew I could call her back. When I did, she accused me and my parents of considering my older brother to be more important than her and then told us to not bother calling her back.

She calls me lazy and talks about how I'm a child for still living at home in my early 20s since she moved out as soon as she turned 18. Here's the thing. Our parents spend more money on her in a year than myself and my brother combined. They fixed her first car. Bought her a new car. Pay for her tuitions. Pay her bills. Pay for her school supplies and books. They basically pay her everything because she says that she doesn't have any money even though she goes on trips to places like Mexico and California several times per year.

I'm tired of her bullshit. The biggest reason why I never call or text her is because I don't want to deal with her stupid shit. She's in her late 20s but it's like I'm dealing with a middle schooler. Whenever she gets upset, I'm supposed to call her and make her feel better according to my parents. Whenever I'm down, she'll just kick me back to make sure I stay down.

Perhaps I am an asshole but that's okay. A few minutes ago, she interrupted my studying to say how I won't make in in the medical field and blah blah blah. Can't even study anymore because of how annoyed I am due to her.
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Not really

Blood is blood, sure, but it's not an obligation.
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Muffinz0rz posted...

Not really

Blood is blood, sure, but it's not an obligation.

TC needs to do what he wants. though when you think about applying the worst fate is being told no we can't accept you. but it's worth a try always.

maybe not so much for criminal deeds or drugs gotta put my foot down on those.
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