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billcom6
07/05/17 8:34:38 PM
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Hasn't responded to any texts.

I have too many nights like this, and I don't mean nights where a girl doesn't respond, but just when something doesn't go well so I spent the rest of the night focusing on the negatives and being sad.
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SomeLikeItHoth
07/05/17 8:40:41 PM
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Don't worry about it. She's probably busy having sex with a couple of guys. She'll reply in a few hours.
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SpiralDrift
07/05/17 8:42:14 PM
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If you're pretty sure she's flaking you should send her a message telling her not to bother, and be very conclusive about it. It doesn't matter if she even responds. You'll feel better taking control like that, and also so you don't end up waiting all day based on some slim hope.
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iosifsvoboda
07/05/17 8:43:14 PM
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Instead of seeing it as your loss you need to start seeing it as her loss
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alexander37
07/05/17 8:44:06 PM
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SpiralDrift posted...
If you're pretty sure she's flaking you should send her a message telling her not to bother, and be very conclusive about it. It doesn't matter if she even responds. You'll feel better taking control like that, and also so you don't end up waiting all day based on some slim hope.

Don't do this.
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SpiralDrift
07/05/17 8:47:39 PM
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alexander37 posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
If you're pretty sure she's flaking you should send her a message telling her not to bother, and be very conclusive about it. It doesn't matter if she even responds. You'll feel better taking control like that, and also so you don't end up waiting all day based on some slim hope.

Don't do this.

Only if he's sure she's flaking, in which case there would be no loss incurred.
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V-E-G-Y-
07/05/17 8:51:55 PM
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billcom6
07/05/17 8:52:53 PM
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We only talk on tinder (so I don't have her number if that matters). Sometimes she takes awhile to respond, but the fact that we talked about hanging out today, I would hope she would make sure to check today.

She hasn't unmatched me though, so who the fuck knows.
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TheSingingHobo
07/05/17 8:55:54 PM
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Pics?
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_Kowalski_
07/05/17 8:57:27 PM
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Oh man you gotta move the conversation off tinder ASAP. Just be like I never use the app so I'll forget sometimes. It's way easier if we just text here's my digits what's yours?

Don't do what that dude above said that just reeks of petty desperation. Just be chill. Maybe life got in the way. Maybe she doesn't know you well enough to kick it. Maybe your plans were whack but she didn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no. Idk. Just give her time to respond and if she don't? Oh well. Plenty of fish out there.
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billcom6
07/05/17 9:02:43 PM
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And another girl hasn't responded to a text I sent 3 hours ago.

WHY ME??????????
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SpiralDrift
07/05/17 9:04:12 PM
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_Kowalski_ posted...
Don't do what that dude above said that just reeks of petty desperation.

I don't see how ruling out a meeting or future contact is an act of desperation. It's more for peace of mind, so he doesn't passively sit there all day wondering whether something's going to happen or not. Cut the loss and move on.
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_Kowalski_
07/05/17 9:05:12 PM
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billcom6 posted...
And another girl hasn't responded to a text I sent 3 hours ago.

WHY ME??????????



Three hours? You're kidding me right? You need a hobby, son. If you're stressing about the fact a chick hasn't responded in three hours you might not be the type that chicks want to respond to in a timely manner.
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SpiralDrift
07/05/17 9:06:24 PM
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billcom6 posted...
tinder

That's that problem.
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billcom6
07/05/17 9:07:47 PM
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_Kowalski_ posted...
billcom6 posted...
And another girl hasn't responded to a text I sent 3 hours ago.

WHY ME??????????



Three hours? You're kidding me right? You need a hobby, son. If you're stressing about the fact a chick hasn't responded in three hours you might not be the type that chicks want to respond to in a timely manner.

I was joking about being upset by that.
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