Current Events > You know what I never understood about dudes

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How much effort they put into looking at women.

Literally walking down the street looking at every woman and going:

Hm, is she hot?
How about her?
Or her?

I'm like who cares. It's a woman, same as any other woman. All you're doing is fueling your libido.
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But bro... did you see dat ass?
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Yeah I saw it. It looked like all the others.
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It really takes minimal effort. It's practically instinctive.
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what's the deal with airline dude
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Don't think for a second there aren't women who do the same. Not just with the opposite sex either, women are always comparing each other.
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I get people checking out women, that's fine. It's the people that have to check out every woman, tell you about it, and ask what you think. Those people are fucking annoying.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DevsBro posted...

I'm like who cares. It's a woman, same as any other woman. All you're doing is fueling your libido.

I wish more men were like this.

More days than not, I get catcalled when I'm going on my run. The thing is, I'm not even dressed in skimpy clothes, I'm sweating, and my hair is a wreck.

You'd be astounded how many men are attracted by that.

News flash : women do it too, and they're just as bad about it as men.
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When Im in public I only pay attention to what Im doing not what people look like or are wearing. My wife says that on occasion I get followed around malls by teen girls, or that I get hit on or eye fucked by checkout girls.
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When Im in public I only pay attention to what Im doing not what people look like or are wearing.

Yeah exactly.
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girl im currently with constantly remarks to herself about how hot a guy or girl is, she cant even help it. she'll just mutter "jesus christ" if she starts ogling someone. it's really embarrassing for me but i dont let her know that

people shouldnt ogle it makes them look dumb

Mernardi posted...

I get people checking out women, that's fine. It's the people that have to check out every woman, tell you about it, and ask what you think. Those people are fucking annoying.

I agree. Or the people who cat-call. I've never asked my friend to validate my opinions on attractive women in public.

Also, I've never talked to a stranger just to tell her she's beautiful. I may make a joke or strike up a conversation but even that's rare. Most people don't want to be bothered. You just notice them, and then go on with your day.
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Asherlee10 posted...

More days than not, I get catcalled when I'm going on my run. The thing is, I'm not even dressed in skimpy clothes, I'm sweating, and my hair is a wreck.

right, but you're thin and have well-defined facial features

over one third of adults are obese and over half are overweight

like it or not you're hot at your worst simply by process of elimination
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Darkman124 posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

More days than not, I get catcalled when I'm going on my run. The thing is, I'm not even dressed in skimpy clothes, I'm sweating, and my hair is a wreck.

right, but you're thin and have well-defined facial features

over one third of adults are obese and over half are overweight

like it or not you're hot at your worst simply by process of elimination

Also, I just want to throw it out there, sweat is a natural aphrodisiac.

what's the big deal about women? they literally only have 3 holes and out of those 3 holes, 2 of those holes are fucked (one full of sharp bones that are used to crush whatever goes in there, the other is full of poop).

idk how people on here whine about how Pokemon games are the same each year, yet they will have sex with that same 1 hole every single time, and are willing to bend over backwards just to achieve this. all sex is is 3 pumps into that 1 hole and then it's nap time. LAME
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I have a younger friend (20) who's married, yet constantly talks about wanting to fuck random women he comes across on the street and in stores. Whenever I witness him doing this, I think to myself "was I like that at that age?"

The answer is probably yes. But now, I feel nothing when I see women dressed in skimpy clothing and all that. I'm not sure how I feel about that.
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stone posted...

News flash : women do it too,

Yes.

and they're just as bad about it as men.

Lolno.
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That_Happened posted...

stone posted...

News flash : women do it too,

Yes.

and they're just as bad about it as men.

Lolno.

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.
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Lmao what? Just because someone tells you that you have pretty eyes doesn't mean they were like, "oh that dude is a 10! I'd fuck him so hard, etc." like a lot of guys do.
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Mernardi posted...

Lmao what? Just because someone tells you that you have pretty eyes doesn't mean they were like, "oh that dude is a 10! I'd fuck him so hard, etc." like a lot of guys do.

It was completely inappropriate, though. She was on the clock at her work and I was a customer. If it was at a bar that would be different.
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DifferentialEquation posted...

Mernardi posted...

Lmao what? Just because someone tells you that you have pretty eyes doesn't mean they were like, "oh that dude is a 10! I'd fuck him so hard, etc." like a lot of guys do.

It was completely inappropriate, though. She was on the clock at her work and I was a customer. If it was at a bar that would be different.

This is why you're a virgin. I've been told I have pretty eyes a few times, and my wife gets told that all the time by guys and girls (because she has striking eyes). No need to assume they're interested in you.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

Eh, it's not something that's typically said just out of friendliness. At least with guys, the majority of the time when a guy says it he wants in the pants.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DevsBro posted...

I'm like who cares. It's a woman, same as any other woman. All you're doing is fueling your libido.

I wish more men were like this.

More days than not, I get catcalled when I'm going on my run. The thing is, I'm not even dressed in skimpy clothes, I'm sweating, and my hair is a wreck.

Thats the end result of what they wanna engage u with :^)


FrenchCrunch posted...

girl im currently with constantly remarks to herself about how hot a guy or girl is, she cant even help it. she'll just mutter "jesus christ" if she starts ogling someone. it's really embarrassing for me but i dont let her know that

people shouldnt ogle it makes them look dumb

proto-cuck
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DevsBro posted...

I'm like who cares. It's a woman, same as any other woman. All you're doing is fueling your libido.

That's a really boring view of the world. Like you're seeing all of humanity as generic gray blobs with labels denoting sex.

I'm not defending the people you saw. But there's a fun balance to be found between "Dat Ass" and "Robot". Tons of beautiful, or stylish, or cute, or rad, looking people in this world. While most people on a normal day don't put too much attention into appearance, how we appear is an expression. And, to a degree, there's nothing wrong with admiring those expressions if there's no harassment involved.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.
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DifferentialEquation posted...

That_Happened posted...

stone posted...

News flash : women do it too,

Yes.

and they're just as bad about it as men.

Lolno.

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

The fact that this tame example was the first one you went with pretty much proves my point. There are some women who will catcall a guy, and when you get a group of women together sometimes they'll talk about the men they find sexiest...but overall they're nowhere near men's level.
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That's a really boring view of the world. Like you're seeing all of humanity as generic gray blobs with labels denoting sex.

I'm not defending the people you saw. But there's a fun balance to be found between "Dat Ass" and "Robot". Tons of beautiful, or stylish, or cute, or rad, looking people in this world. While most people on a normal day don't put too much attention into appearance, how we appear is an expression. And, to a degree, there's nothing wrong with admiring those expressions if there's no harassment involved.

Nothing wrong with it, sure. I just don't understand how anyone can spare the energy for it.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.

That was not inappropriate and you're being melodramatic.

This same guy would unironically say a woman was asking for it by the way she dressed. He's not worth arguing with.
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Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.

That was not inappropriate and you're being melodramatic.

If she was just trying to be friendly, there are plenty of suitable topics for a professional environment like the weather, a recent sports game, etc. that she could have brought up instead.
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Mernardi posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.

That was not inappropriate and you're being melodramatic.

This same guy would unironically say a woman was asking for it by the way she dressed. He's not worth arguing with.

No. I've never said such a thing. Show me where I've said that.
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DevsBro posted...

Literally walking down the street looking at every woman and going:

Hm, is she hot?
How about her?
Or her?

I do this, but this thought process takes about a quarter of a second (occurs at about the same time as "is this person a threat?") and it's rarely externalized. There's very little effort in it.
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DevsBro posted...

Nothing wrong with it, sure. I just don't understand how anyone can spare the energy for it.

Emphasizing I'm not addressing the men's behavior in the OP, but your ambivalence to people's appearance:

It really doesn't take much energy at all. You see someone whose appearance affects you in some way, you notice, and you move on with your life. Stepping away from the "beautiful" argument, I was walking to a Barnes and Noble a few moths ago. Standing on the side of the building was this woman. Young, maybe late twenties. Natural red hair, pale skin. Thin, sharp features. Wearing a red top, with a black jacket and jeans. Casually propped against the building smoking a cigarette and checking her phone.

I thought she looked cool as hell. To the point where I still have some memory of her to relay to you. This impact didn't take any energy. I saw someone who I thought looked cool, noticed, and continued into the bookstore. Didn't need to say a word, didn't address the woman or try to get her attention. Just went on about my day.
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Sphyx posted...

It really takes minimal effort. It's practically instinctive.

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Emphasizing I'm not addressing the men's behavior in the OP, but your ambivalence to people's appearance:

It really doesn't take much energy at all. You see someone whose appearance affects you in some way, you notice, and you move on with your life. Stepping away from the "beautiful" argument, I was walking to a Barnes and Noble a few moths ago. Standing on the side of the building was this woman. Young, maybe late twenties. Natural red hair, pale skin. Thin, sharp features. Wearing a red top, with a black jacket and jeans. Casually propped against the building smoking a cigarette and checking her phone.

I thought she looked cool as hell. To the point where I still have some memory of her to relay to you. This impact didn't take any energy. I saw someone who I thought looked cool, noticed, and continued into the bookstore. Didn't need to say a word, didn't address the woman or try to get her attention. Just went on about my day.

Now see this is different. Every now and then someone is gonna stand out and make you notice passively.
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Asherlee10 posted...

Yeah, because she was definitely a mind reader and would know what particular sentences are deemed "okay" for you. Get over yourself.

To be fair, every "Sexual Harassment Training" video I've ever been shown in work orientation has presented almost any and all remarks about outward appearance as uncomfortable and offensive.

Though I think the one I'm thinking of (and have seen at least three or four times in the last ten years across different jobs) might have been filmed in the early nineties. Standards could have changed since then. <_<
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Woman are typically the best scenery. If there's a good looking woman, enjoy the view. don't get cat calling though.
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This is going to be a 500 topic, isn't it?

This topic help me understand why guys seemingly go for everything. They notice every goddamn thing. Most women I look at and feel nothing, because they're really irrelevant. Even a girl who I done it with on the regular, I never looked at her and went damn, like I see 85% of men do when we are outside. It is pathetic.

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.

That was not inappropriate and you're being melodramatic.

If she was just trying to be friendly, there are plenty of suitable topics for a professional environment like the weather, a recent sports game, etc. that she could have brought up instead.

Yeah, because she was definitely a mind reader and would know what particular sentences are deemed "okay" for you. Get over yourself.

What aspects of someone's body and physical appearance are okay to comment on and which ones are off limits? I would certainly never tell a female coworker or client that they have pretty eyes, and there's a small chance that it would get reported if I did.
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DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

DifferentialEquation posted...

Some of them are just as bad as men. This one time I was buying food at a hot dog stand and the woman working there told me that I had pretty eyes.

You're being absurd. Telling someone they have pretty eyes is not a sexual pass. It's being friendly.

It was inappropriate to make such an uninvited remark.

That was not inappropriate and you're being melodramatic.

If she was just trying to be friendly, there are plenty of suitable topics for a professional environment like the weather, a recent sports game, etc. that she could have brought up instead.

Yeah, because she was definitely a mind reader and would know what particular sentences are deemed "okay" for you. Get over yourself.

What aspects of someone's body and physical appearance are okay to comment on and which ones are off limits? I would certainly never tell a female coworker or client that they have pretty eyes, and there's a small chance that it would get reported if I did.

You could do this, provided you asked the person out first, and they said yes. It's about context. If someone agrees to go on an outing with you then you can be less formal, and might even be able to flirt a bit if you feel that flirtation might be appreciated. The office is not the place for that though. Do that on your own time.
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people seriously getting uppity at a dude cuz he felt affronted by a woman complimenting his eyes? ayyy lmao go outside nerds let ninjas be
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Linctagon7 posted...

people seriously getting uppity at a dude cuz he felt affronted by a woman complimenting his eyes? ayyy lmao go outside nerds let ninjas be

I mean, I guess if you're a bitter virgin, someone telling you that your eyes are pretty sound like an invitation to Fucktown, USA but really he's just trolling.
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Mernardi posted...

Linctagon7 posted...

people seriously getting uppity at a dude cuz he felt affronted by a woman complimenting his eyes? ayyy lmao go outside nerds let ninjas be

I mean, I guess if you're a bitter virgin, someone telling you that your eyes are pretty sound like an invitation to Fucktown, USA but really he's just trolling.

yo but why do u care tho if he trolling u all just got caught lmao
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