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Smackems
04/08/24 3:19:22 PM
#51:


KogaSteelfang posted...
It just feels so hopeless. It's been over 4 years since my last attempt and it feels like that took everything I had left. I've been considering trying again, but I'm so tired of it all, I don't feel like I have it in me. I wish I could just meet someone and hit it off and go from there.

Thanks.

Not recently. My previous one made fun of me for this. Insulted me too.
You have to try try try

Try another therapist. It took my fiance 2 or 3 different ones before she found one she likes

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loafy013
04/08/24 3:41:30 PM
#52:


kurdt032 posted...
Can't imagine getting to my 40s (or 30s for that matter) and not just getting a prostitute. You must genuinely not want to have sex.
I'm a 49 year old wizard. To me, I see sex like skydiving. Curious what it is like, but don't actually care enough to make the effort to find out.

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STEROLIZER
04/08/24 6:04:43 PM
#53:


Guide posted...
I think ease depends on location. People out in bumfuck nowhere don't exactly have options.

I agree. Ive learned that before giving literal advice to figure that portion out first

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STEROLIZER
04/08/24 6:13:22 PM
#54:


loafy013 posted...
I'm a 49 year old wizard. To me, I see sex like skydiving. Curious what it is like, but don't actually care enough to make the effort to find out.

Are you happy?
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loafy013
04/08/24 6:33:05 PM
#55:


STEROLIZER posted...
Are you happy?
Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore.

Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies.

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STEROLIZER
04/08/24 6:48:51 PM
#56:


loafy013 posted...
Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore.

Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies.

Well, everyone deserves to be happy, and some people legitimately are happy just being alone by themselves. But if you do actually want to lose your virginity, get a girlfriends, get married, start a family...all that stuff starts with recognizing that it is something you want.

Most folks who die alone and unhappy, did so because they deluded themselves into thinking thats what they wanted. It's a coping mechanism, but one hats ultimately detrimental.
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Antifar
04/08/24 6:52:48 PM
#57:


Couldn't you have done a normal search instead of asking the chatbot to do it?

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STEROLIZER
04/08/24 7:52:19 PM
#58:


Antifar posted...
Couldn't you have done a normal search instead of asking the chatbot to do it?

No
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haloiscoolisbak
04/08/24 8:04:11 PM
#59:


loafy013 posted...
Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore.

Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies.


That "being afraid of them saying yes" hits so hard for me. I spent ages 17-20 in this weird semi confident but not really state because I'd made out with a few girls but hadn't gone further yet so the first part of dating had become easy and automatic but the next step felt impossible. I screwed up so many situations from being afraid to be vulnerable and just admit I was a virgin. Looking back it's so funny I thought being 20 and a virgin was some huge shocking thing, obviously dumb peers of mine using virgin as an insult (not at me but in front of me) didn't help

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projectpat72988
04/08/24 8:29:55 PM
#60:


loafy013 posted...
Went from being afraid of girls saying no to asking them out (in high school), to being afraid of them saying yes due to my lack of experience (college and beyond), to accepting that I'm single and fine with it and not really thinking about it anymore.

Wouldn't say the situation makes me happy or unhappy. Its just a part of my life, same as my job or hobbies.

That's a super power if actually true and you're not just lying to yourself.

Sex AND the right person? Something to hold onto.

But I've often thought, damn I really don't like the power this can hold over me at times.
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Master_Kazuya
04/08/24 11:16:23 PM
#61:


KogaSteelfang posted...
Paying for sex would just hurt me more, and it would be something I could never take back.

You're already bleeding dude. How long do you want to bleed for? Just imagine you find that "one" girl you love. She might have a vacation coming up that ruins the chances, she might not like the way your feet smell, she might link back with her ex. What are you willing to wait for? This is real life, there's no guarantee that will work out.

If anything, harness the experience to make it even more appealing to find the one you want. Like, 'yeah I had sex with an escort, but now I really get why finding the one matters'.

You haven't even found what you like sexually yet. Maybe youll find you like thinner than thicker or something, or vice versa, something different than what you thought. Maybe you have things you thought were nice, aren't nice, and maybe you'll be curious to try something else next time.That'll make your chemistry with girls you know you want due to experience better than other ones you might think you want.

idk I think this mentality is something for 20s but if you're in your 30s, fuck it

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STEROLIZER
04/08/24 11:27:57 PM
#62:


Keep in mind getting a prostitute wont change your problems any.

You might not be a virgin anymore, but the rest of the issues that plague your life will still exist.

I recommend working on the root of your issues. But first you need to decide if the issues plaguing your inability to have a relationship is even something you want to fix.

If youve gone this long without losing your virginity its probably for a reason. Meaning that unless you change something up about the way you live your life then nothings going to change.

But to some people they dont want to change. To them changing their lifestyles are not worth the reward of having a relationship. Especially since maintaining said relationship will include continuing to not live your life in the manner of your acoustumed too.

Is that lifestyle change worth it to you? Thats the question that needs to be pondered and figured out first and foremost.
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Punished_Blinx
04/08/24 11:45:47 PM
#63:


Having a relationship is a constant and major social activity.

If there's no social skills and no social life there's nothing for anyone else to notice or want to be a part of.

The reasons for that can be numerous but that's what most of it comes down to.

The internet gives people a convenient outlet that gives people an excuse to never leave their comfort zone. Unfortunately most success happens when you make the effort to leave it.

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Master_Kazuya
04/09/24 12:04:59 AM
#64:


STEROLIZER posted...
Keep in mind getting a prostitute wont change your problems any.

You might not be a virgin anymore, but the rest of the issues that plague your life will still exist.

I recommend working on the root of your issues. But first you need to decide if the issues plaguing your inability to have a relationship is even something you want to fix.

If youve gone this long without losing your virginity its probably for a reason. Meaning that unless you change something up about the way you live your life then nothings going to change.

But to some people they dont want to change. To them changing their lifestyles are not worth the reward of having a relationship. Especially since maintaining said relationship will include continuing to not live your life in the manner of your acoustumed too.

Is that lifestyle change worth it to you? Thats the question that needs to be pondered and figured out first and foremost.

I don't really buy this because even people who get laid or into relationships still have plagues of life that exist for them.

He shouldn't have to be some divine monk to get laid, prob is easier than he thinks.

The experience could help, it's not a contest.

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haloiscoolisbak
04/09/24 12:16:13 AM
#65:


Master_Kazuya posted...
I don't really buy this because even people who get laid or into relationships still have plagues of life that exist for them.

He shouldn't have to be some divine monk to get laid, prob is easier than he thinks.

The experience could help, it's not a contest.

Yep. Like from my loosely related experience, a lot of my anxiety around sex was that my inexperience would be a turn off to the other person, like they might think I'm funny and sweet but if I'm not any good(or have hangups) in the bedroom they'll look elsewhere.

Even though it's probably a bit overly paranoid, it felt good kind of just learning how things worked with an escort. It was fun too.

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Punished_Blinx
04/09/24 12:16:55 AM
#66:


Master_Kazuya posted...
I don't really buy this because even people who get laid or into relationships still have plagues of life that exist for them.

He shouldn't have to be some divine monk to get laid, prob is easier than he thinks.

The experience could help, it's not a contest.

I think he means more that the issues as to why he can't have a relationship won't suddenly go away after he has sex.

Sure maybe it'll change his perspective of things but I think some people do think of a potential relationship as someone who will magically fix all of their problems and issues for them when that isn't a fair or realistic expectation. If anything a relationship puts more pressure on a person to improve and be better.

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haloiscoolisbak
04/09/24 12:18:03 AM
#67:


Punished_Blinx posted...
I think he means more that the issues as to why he can't have a relationship won't suddenly go away after he has sex.

Sure maybe it'll change his perspective of things but I think some people do think of a potential relationship as someone who will magically fix all of their problems and issues for them when that isn't a fair or realistic expectation. If anything a relationship puts more pressure on a person to improve and be better.

It's basically continue trying nothing or try something different. And I think there's very little to lose and everything to gain by doing this

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 12:30:52 AM
#68:


Master_Kazuya posted...
I don't really buy this because even people who get laid or into relationships still have plagues of life that exist for them.

He shouldn't have to be some divine monk to get laid, prob is easier than he thinks.

The experience could help, it's not a contest.


You ever hear the phrase crazy is doing the same thing everyday and expecting different results?

Thats what Im getting at. Some folks want a girlfriend and a relationship, but dont want to change up the way they live their lives.

But if youve been living a certain lifestyle your entire life and it had never resulted in getting a girlfriend then its probably not going to suddenly change.

You cant have both. You need to choose one or the other.
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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 12:35:19 AM
#69:


STEROLIZER posted...
You ever hear the phrase crazy is doing the same thing everyday and expecting different results?

From the outside looking in the answer seems obvious

  • Stop playing so many video games
  • Go outside more often
  • Learn to socialize
  • Get in better shape
  • Have better career opportunities
  • Become more competitive
  • etc


But to many people even trying to do those things would just make them more miserable.

Some folks truly just want to be alone. Being an NPC is the life they want. To live comfortably outside society with minimal stress until the day they eventually pass on.

If thats the case, then they just have to accept that its not a relationship that they desire. Its legitimately just sex. In which case find a way to just obtain that without inconveniencing the other areas of your life sex without a lifestyle change.
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Rika_Furude
04/09/24 1:56:03 AM
#70:


STEROLIZER posted...
What are some hobbies you either currently enjoy or could theoretically enjoy in the future that can be done outside in the company of other people.
I enjoy gaming, web browsing, and watching anime/tv shows and reading manga

so nothing really that requires sunlight
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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 5:18:34 AM
#71:


Rika_Furude posted...
I enjoy gaming, web browsing, and watching anime/tv shows and reading manga

so nothing really that requires sunlight

Start traveling to Anime conventions. Join a manga meet up group. Try browsing the web in your phone only. No more laptop browsing. Limit your gaming to weekdays. No gaming on the weekends.
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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 4:56:01 PM
#72:


STEROLIZER posted...
Start traveling to Anime conventions. Join a manga meet up group. Try browsing the web in your phone only. No more laptop browsing. Limit your gaming to weekdays. No gaming on the weekends.

That was legitimate advice to help you meet people, without changing your lifestyle to something you'd find completely miserable. Just bumping in case you didn't see it.
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 4:56:46 PM
#73:


hey sterolizer remember when you bullied me bc I didnt push back?

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pikakaeru
04/09/24 4:58:02 PM
#74:


sterolizer is a bully to people he perceives as weak or not willing to stand up for themselves

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 5:52:12 PM
#75:


pikakaeru posted...
hey sterolizer remember when you bullied me bc I didnt push back?

No. you could be one of hundreds of people. But if its stuck with you in such a way that you feel the need to randomly bring it up then I apologize for whatever it was I said that made you feel bad about yourself.

pikakaeru posted...
sterolizer is a bully to people he perceives as weak or not willing to stand up for themselves

My DMs are open if you feel the need to elaborate with me on it. Either way, I hope that better days are ahead for you my man.
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Dragon239
04/09/24 5:58:25 PM
#76:


Sorry, is this just you asking the bot straight up?

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bsp77
04/09/24 6:00:34 PM
#77:


STEROLIZER posted...
Start traveling to Anime conventions. Join a manga meet up group. Try browsing the web in your phone only. No more laptop browsing. Limit your gaming to weekdays. No gaming on the weekends.
I do agree with this stuff. I do think gaming on the weekends is fine though. In my crazy post divorce days, I would go out both Friday and Saturday night from like 6pm to 3am, wake around 10am and game a couple hours and then maybe go for a run or something.

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:26:49 PM
#78:


Dragon239 posted...
Sorry, is this just you asking the bot straight up?

I copied this from a Reddit post that came up in my feed.
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 6:27:41 PM
#79:


STEROLIZER posted...
No. you could be one of hundreds of people. But if its stuck with you in such a way that you feel the need to randomly bring it up then I apologize for whatever it was I said that made you feel bad about yourself.

My DMs are open if you feel the need to elaborate with me on it. Either way, I hope that better days are ahead for you my man.
werent you gypsygold or something?
on discord at cautions

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:28:46 PM
#80:


bsp77 posted...
I do agree with this stuff. I do think gaming on the weekends is fine though. In my crazy post divorce days, I would go out both Friday and Saturday night from like 6pm to 3am, wake around 10am and game a couple hours and then maybe go for a run or something.

Sure its fine, its just if your trying to motivate someone whos not use to going out and socializing with others, then taking away the reason to stay inside will help edge him along.

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:36:59 PM
#81:


pikakaeru posted...
werent you gypsygold or something?
on discord at cautions

I barely go on that discord. When I do its just to yell at all those weird Reddit people to stop being so terrible

they keep on trying to adopt me like Im some type of house cat. No matter how many times I tell them that I support all that woke stuff that they hate.

It's like they just ignore it. Theyre so desperate for some form of leadership that they keep on placing on a pedestal because once upon a time I made a subreddit to complain about a moderation that overtime they managed to twist into their own personal hate group.

Point being is that if I bullied you on that discord dont take it personally. I bullied everyone. But, yea bro I have no idea who you are, sorry.
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 6:38:29 PM
#82:


I didnt take it personally I just thought you were an asshole.

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:40:51 PM
#83:


pikakaeru posted...
I didnt take it personally I just thought you were an asshole.

I totally am. It take an asshole to give blunt advice for sure. I dont tip toe around feelings. Visiting the sex board will clearly show you that.

Its just that their isnt malicious intent. Its just my personality
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CyborgSage00x0
04/09/24 6:42:14 PM
#84:


STEROLIZER posted...
party_animal07 posted...
My first thought

What does that even mean
If I had to guess, it's probably meant to clarify that sex with a blowup doll or whatever doesn't count.

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Smackems
04/09/24 6:43:31 PM
#85:


Bully me pls

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:48:58 PM
#86:


CyborgSage00x0 posted...
If I had to guess, it's probably meant to clarify that sex with a blowup doll or whatever doesn't count.

Huh. I didnt even consider that would need to be clarified
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 6:50:16 PM
#87:


STEROLIZER posted...
I totally am. It take an asshole to give blunt advice for sure. I dont tip toe around feelings. Visiting the sex board will clearly show you that.

Its just that their isnt malicious intent. Its just my personality
you didnt give advice tho you were literally like "i bully people that dont push back"

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Umbreon
04/09/24 6:55:46 PM
#88:


STEROLIZER posted...
I barely go on that discord. When I do its just to yell at all those weird Reddit people to stop being so terrible

they keep on trying to adopt me like Im some type of house cat. No matter how many times I tell them that I support all that woke stuff that they hate.

It's like they just ignore it. Theyre so desperate for some form of leadership that they keep on placing on a pedestal because once upon a time I made a subreddit to complain about a moderation that overtime they managed to twist into their own personal hate group.

Point being is that if I bullied you on that discord dont take it personally. I bullied everyone. But, yea bro I have no idea who you are, sorry.


They're the stray cats, and unfortunately you fed them.

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:55:46 PM
#89:


pikakaeru posted...
you didnt give advice tho you were literally like "i bully people that dont push back"

I dont remember. I am sorry.
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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 6:56:13 PM
#90:


Umbreon posted...
They're the stray cats, and unfortunately you fed them.

Good analogy. Now tag in on the post on the sex board, Ive struck out.
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Jiek_Fafn
04/09/24 7:03:06 PM
#91:


STEROLIZER posted...
I dont remember. I am sorry.
This is a situation where you're dealing with a poster that perpetually makes posts playing victim and then routinely gets suspended for drunken racist rants. That's like his whole thing here.

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pikakaeru
04/09/24 7:19:36 PM
#92:


Jiek_Fafn posted...
This is a situation where you're dealing with a poster that perpetually makes posts playing victim and then routinely gets suspended for drunken racist rants. That's like his whole thing here.
you know absolutely nothing about what happened. i was friendly and he picked on me for no reason other than I let him

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 7:24:19 PM
#93:


pikakaeru posted...
you know absolutely nothing about what happened. i was friendly and he picked on me for no reason other than I let him

You have like a time table for that?
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 7:25:01 PM
#94:


STEROLIZER posted...
You have like a time table for that?
maybe a year or two idk i didnt know you were sterolizer until later. i mean you werent exceptionally cruel but im sensitive to people being mean to me especially for no reason

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STEROLIZER
04/09/24 7:26:07 PM
#95:


pikakaeru posted...
maybe a year or two idk i didnt know you were sterolizer until later

two years ago?

Bro.
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pikakaeru
04/09/24 7:27:04 PM
#96:


i have had a tough time with people in general

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pikakaeru
04/09/24 7:28:16 PM
#97:


Jiek_Fafn posted...
This is a situation where you're dealing with a poster that perpetually makes posts playing victim and then routinely gets suspended for drunken racist rants. That's like his whole thing here.
also this isnt true

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bsp77
04/09/24 7:29:15 PM
#98:


pikakaeru posted...
also this isnt true
If your main was who I think it was, then it is true

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pikakaeru
04/09/24 7:29:36 PM
#99:


bsp77 posted...
If your main was who I think it was, then it is true
I have never gone on a racist rant. The alcoholism bit and drunken rant part is true however.

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bsp77
04/09/24 7:31:08 PM
#100:


pikakaeru posted...
I have never gone on a racist rant. The alcoholism bit and drunken rant part is true however.
To be fair, I never saw a racist rant. Only heard secondhand

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