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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:04:41 AM #1: |
2-in-1!
Rules: double posting is fine. Alts or other nefarious methods would be strongly discouraged. I know that one thing that sometimes comes up in these is is this guy ok? I am OK. But I did post a topic around the time of one of these talking about divorce and whatnot. So yeah, you get a bit of blogpost with this VERY SPECIAL 220 giveaway. I talked with my wife this week. I actually had a long drivel ready to post yesterday, but figured Id Cliff Notes it today. She is, at this point anyway, done with the marriage. But we have a kid, which complicates it. I apparently bring a negative energy to the home, and she feels better when Im not at the house. She said a lot of things which, at face value, mightve seemed quite hurtful, but there was some truth to a good portion of it, and none of it was entirely unexpected. Not sure where it goes from here exactly, but Ill likely be consulting with an attorney next month after spring break and some work trips. Not that I plan on acting fast, or even at all, on anything, but just want to be armed and ready with all the information I can get. I would ultimately prefer to stay together in our household as roommates. Im in no rush to get out, and it really will be best for the kid. Shes open to that, but also, I apparently bring a negative energy to the home, and she feels much less anxious and stressed when Im not around. Also, she threw out a hall pass. Said verbatim, I dont care if you date other women or whatever, just dont bring them to the home or get them pregnant. Which was an odd thing to say since my wife knows I had a vasectomy. But shes odd about a lot of things, what can I say. Im not looking to actively engage that pass now at all, but it would be nice to be with someone that shows even a shred of care and affection toward me. As she hasnt for months now. So yeah, thats enough of that for now. Now win some money! Past winners: $10: Noname13 $20: Shadowblade $30: OriginalPlain2 $40: Outer_space $50: Dark_Koopatrol $60: Noname13 $70: AuthenticZac $80: WilliamPorygon $90: ItsNotA2Mer $100: AuthenticZac, gifted to STPers $110: GregsMedley, gifted to STPers $120: ablegator, gifted to post 121 $130: Killmonger $140: Sogeking100 $150: Mearcstapa $160: Wishbone $170: tommyrocket $180: Turducken $190: Guide Edited to add rules. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:05:48 AM #3: |
coyot posted...
wtf? 8DYouve gotta get one of these eventually, man --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Baron_Ox 03/24/24 12:07:51 AM #4: |
I don't really participate in stuff like this, but I just wanted to post how I'm sorry about the domestic stuff.
hopefully you two find an arrangement that works for everyone involved. --- "I could never encapsulate all my cosmicality on my own." - mr. MFN eXquire. http://imgur.com/rvwNj.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bass 03/24/24 12:11:15 AM #6: |
Yeah, sorry about the trouble you two are having. Thank you for doing these giveaways, though.
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:11:30 AM #7: |
Baron_Ox posted...
I don't really participate in stuff like this, but I just wanted to post how I'm sorry about the domestic stuff.Thanks. We will. coyot posted... Its strange when people are mad, there is a form of humor that still leaks. I feel at the peak of your relationship there were many good moments, and thats why it is so personal after the end.Spot on, very much so. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Naysaspace 03/24/24 12:14:27 AM #10: |
the signs were there!
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hereforemnant 03/24/24 12:15:41 AM #12: |
It sounds weak in my opinion to just say there's "a negative energy" to a partner you've had a kid with while being unable to say what it is. That type of unhelpful communication is why lots of couples can't navigate their marriages after years. Maybe you can't say more because you apparently know what she's talking about, but outside looking in that sounds dishonest, like she has a personal hangup & it's easier to redirect it to you if you'll be the one to bear the responsibility ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:21:51 AM #14: |
coyot posted...
If neither person likes each other whats the point of nostalgia? That leads to resentment. Some relationships need continuity, and others a reset.Yup, reset is definitely needed. Resentment does play a major part in this. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Umbreon 03/24/24 12:22:51 AM #15: |
Oh dear. I'm sorry about what you're going through.
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archizzy 03/24/24 12:25:46 AM #16: |
I really hope things work out for you the best they can and ultimately you are content and happy and are able to co-parent your child together amicably.
Hope things turn around for you and you end up with someone who offers what you are looking for. Sorry to hear it man. --- PSN ID: sled_dogs76 60" Pioneer Kuro Elite PRO151FD, Yamaha RX-V3900 A/V Receiver, Oppo DV983-H player. Coming soon: 2 Seaton Submersives from Mark Seaton ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Frostmourne 03/24/24 12:28:25 AM #18: |
Hella yeah.
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CSCA33 03/24/24 12:29:11 AM #19: |
Sorry to hear that.
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DemonBuffet 03/24/24 12:32:09 AM #21: |
Bruh Im really sorry youre going through that.
And I feel you to some degree. Im sticking around with mine for the sake of our kids, but were two conflicting personalities. I feel like shes a negative vibe. But ultimately, my kids will never lack a father whether my marriage sticks or fails. And Im sure you feel the same way. Stay strong for the children no matter what happens fam! --- Posted from my iPhone 3gs. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:33:52 AM #22: |
DemonBuffet posted...
Bruh Im really sorry youre going through that.Will do! Thats the goal for sure --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:38:17 AM #25: |
coyot posted...
Mods are asleep If only --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dat_Cracka_Jax 03/24/24 12:39:48 AM #26: |
CE_gonna_CE posted...
would ultimately prefer to stay together in our household as roommates. Im in no rush to get out, and it really will be best for the kid.I wouldn't be so sure about that. How old is the kid? --- http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/8131/flame201010170949481638.jpg http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/5517/cateyes.gif Rams: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Umbreon 03/24/24 12:40:01 AM #27: |
I wasn't expecting #24
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:41:59 AM #30: |
Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
I wouldn't be so sure about that. How old is the kid?6 --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mr_Karate_II 03/24/24 12:43:00 AM #32: |
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Mr_Karate_II 03/24/24 12:43:26 AM #34: |
Sorry about the domestic troubles OP.
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Darkninja42 03/24/24 12:43:59 AM #35: |
Yarp
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Mr_Karate_II 03/24/24 12:44:40 AM #37: |
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Mr_Karate, youre next up.I hope so, could really use the money. It's been so damn long since I've won anything from topics like these. Last time I won was right around Christmas 4 to 5 years ago. --- Michigan Wolverines 30 to Ohio state 24: 11/25/23 Michigan Wolverines Football:15-0 ,Rose Bowl Champions&National Champions ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dat_Cracka_Jax 03/24/24 12:45:24 AM #38: |
CE_gonna_CE posted...
6It's just that kids can pick up on how things are between your wife and you and staying together for his sake if the relationship isn't healthy might not be good for him --- http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/8131/flame201010170949481638.jpg http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/5517/cateyes.gif Rams: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CSCA33 03/24/24 12:45:40 AM #39: |
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FinalBraveNUT 03/24/24 12:45:55 AM #41: |
One day.
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Dat_Cracka_Jax 03/24/24 12:46:04 AM #42: |
Alright, on to trying to win this moolah
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Dat_Cracka_Jax 03/24/24 12:47:18 AM #43: |
Is CE asleep?
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CE_gonna_CE 03/24/24 12:47:47 AM #45: |
Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
It's just that kids can pick up on how things are between your wife and you and staying together for his sake if the relationship isn't healthy might not be good for himIts a day-by-day thing. Were not actively fighting or causing any stress to him now. So right now, hes good. If there are bigger fights or yelling, thatd affect him. If the cons overtake the pros, then of course the situation can be reevaluated and adjusted in the future. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ooger 03/24/24 12:48:52 AM #47: |
naw
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Dat_Cracka_Jax 03/24/24 12:49:09 AM #48: |
Bump
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Mr_Karate_II 03/24/24 12:49:26 AM #50: |
I'm gonna win this time
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