Poll of the Day > Ugh I want to text the girl who ghosted me so bad.

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THEGODDAMNBATMA
03/22/24 3:09:43 AM
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I just want closure!!! I want to know what the fuck happened!!! I want to know if any of it was real!!!
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adjl
03/22/24 9:27:44 AM
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If it was real, she wouldn't have ghosted you.

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reason
03/22/24 9:35:15 AM
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There won't be closure. She won't text back.

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EatMan
03/22/24 9:59:03 AM
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One time I was ghosted and ultimately did get an answer back from a girl where she misunderstood something about me and made a weird assumption. I corrected her assumption and we actually ended up dating for awhile but her initial ghosting was just the beginning of the red flags popping up. People are either mature, sincere and communicative or theyre not. Why would you want to be with someone who's not?

Basically this girl thought I dated her friend and didn't want leftovers nor to run the risk I was angling to get back in her friends life. This she assumed without asking me or her friend but because when she brought up her friend once in conversation I was pretty sure I knew who she was and after looking at a picture expressed that I used to work with her.

Meanwhile I was not even a friend of this other girl and we probably spent a grand total of maybe 8 minutes interacting in a work environment over the course of a year+.

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C0RNISHACID
03/22/24 10:12:00 AM
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adjl posted...
If it was real, she wouldn't have ghosted you.


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EvilResident
03/22/24 10:45:32 AM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
I just want closure!!! I want to know what the fuck happened!!! I want to know if any of it was real!!!
Txt her anyway and see what happens

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User728
03/22/24 11:18:10 AM
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I would text her. Worst case scenario, she doesnt respond to you, in which case youre in no worse a position than you are now.
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Jen0125
03/22/24 11:26:12 AM
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If she ghosted he's probably blocked and she won't see his message anyways
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User728
03/22/24 12:23:52 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
If she ghosted he's probably blocked and she won't see his message anyways
Which may bebut hes still in no worse a position than before. No downside to sending the text.
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Jen0125
03/22/24 1:05:54 PM
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The downside is that someone made it pretty clear by ghosting that they don't want contact with you and you continuing to contact them is weird and gives them affirmation they made the correct decision.
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THEGODDAMNBATMA
03/22/24 1:29:27 PM
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UPDATE: I didn't end up texting her, but she just sent me a friend request on snapchat.
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angeleyes94
03/22/24 1:34:12 PM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
UPDATE: I didn't end up texting her, but she just sent me a friend request on snapchat.


What's her ass like?

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THEGODDAMNBATMA
03/22/24 1:38:08 PM
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angeleyes94 posted...
What's her ass like?
Fat
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angeleyes94
03/22/24 1:40:35 PM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Fat


Noooiccee

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User728
03/22/24 2:29:57 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
The downside is that someone made it pretty clear by ghosting that they don't want contact with you and you continuing to contact them is weird and gives them affirmation they made the correct decision.
Okay, but theyre done with you anyway. Maybe you get the reason from them/the closure youre looking for. Or they dont respond and youre in no worse a position. He wants closure, not to win her back or something.
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User728
03/22/24 2:30:31 PM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
UPDATE: I didn't end up texting her, but she just sent me a friend request on snapchat.
Sounds like I was giving solid advice and everyone else was wrong. They were naysayers.
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rexcrk
03/22/24 10:08:57 PM
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I know the topic is made in jest, but this shit has seriously fucked me up in the head, to the point where I think it might actually be trauma to a degree (as dumb as that may sound).

I can totally handle being told hey Im sorry, but this isnt working out or youre not the kind of person I want to be with or even a simple no so much better than being strung along, lied to, ignored, etc.

Dont play with peoples emotions. You might be doing more damage than you realize.


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Alpha_MaIe
03/23/24 1:00:01 PM
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User728 posted...
Sounds like I was giving solid advice and everyone else was wrong. They were naysayers.
Assuming hes actually not lying. I recall him saying he would be gone from here from life being too busy and we all saw how long that lasted.
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wwinterj25
03/25/24 2:23:10 PM
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Alpha_MaIe posted...
Assuming hes actually not lying.

Probably is. I'm past caring so just go along with his topics now.

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