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Kitt posted...

The fact that you're actually taking what she said to heart indicates to me that you're not actually over it. No offense, but you got to stop feeling sad for yourself (which, I know, is easier said than done), dude. That's off-putting in and of itself, and all it does is feed into this insecurity cycle you got going on where you're accepting insults about yourself from batshit insane people who clearly don't know what the fuck they're talking about.

She's not the one that caused that. That's caused by lifelong emotional and physical abuse, being bullied in school, outcast by everyone, and a total failure at dating. She was just reason number six million to think that way.

And yeah, it hurt at the time. Literally the only person I've ever met off a dating app, and due to a tv show she decided I'm not even a man.

Took her out to a date in the state fair, horrible date. Not because of her but because of how everything went. Crowded, overly expensive.

I planned to make my move on top of the Ferris wheel but a stupid family went into our cart when they were supposed to go in the next one but they dont follow instruction. So we awkwardly sat there with another family.

end of the day she said she doesnt think itll work out.

a hot, petite brunette Latina girl and I blew it by taking her to the worst date location possible lmao. I take her to dinner I probably wouldve just gotten laid that night.

Talked to a girl for a long time. Went on a few dates. Things going well, very flirty conversations.

One day I hop on FB and shes changed her relationship status to being with some other dude.

Ouch.

gna647 posted...

Took her out to a date in the state fair, horrible date. Not because of her but because of how everything went. Crowded, overly expensive.

I planned to make my move on top of the Ferris wheel but a stupid family went into our cart when they were supposed to go in the next one but they dont follow instruction. So we awkwardly sat there with another family.

end of the day she said she doesnt think itll work out.

a hot, petite brunette Latina girl and I blew it by taking her to the worst date location possible lmao. I take her to dinner I probably wouldve just gotten laid that night.

I usually try to be positive, but I highly doubt your last sentence. Someone who is a good date can make the most out of most venues. If you need a ferris wheel to successfully make a move, you might need to rethink how you interact with women.

KogaSteelfang posted...

She's not the one that caused that. That's caused by lifelong emotional and physical abuse, being bullied in school, outcast by everyone, and a total failure at dating. She was just reason number six million to think that way.

Okay, but there comes a point where you have to take the initiative to overcome that baggage and figure out yourself what you need to do to improve/put yourself in a more positive mindset.
Like I said, it's easier said than done, but feeling bad for yourself and accepting negative shit that people say about you certainly isn't helping.

And yeah, it hurt at the time. Literally the only person I've ever met off a dating app, and due to a tv show she decided I'm not even a man.

Yeah, and that one person sounds like she's more fucked in the head than the average CEman. Literally not worth listening to.

When I was in high school, I asked out this girl, who went to a different school. She said she would be down, but the plans would never come to fluition. It was obvious she wasn't interested, but since I was a socially awkward kid, I didn't see the signals. I eventually stumbled upon a facebook status where she was talking massive shit about me to her friends, and her friends were agreeing with her lmao.

I've never actually been rejected on that front. I asked one person out (who said yes). Everyone else I've ever dated has pursued me.

That said, I've rejected plenty of people. I initially rejected a guy who wanted to date me in my freshman year of college, but ended up dating him (and he ended up being an asshole). I rejected the woman who ended up being my soon-to-be-ex-wife for a whole year (during which time she kept pursuing me) and, seemingly the moment I gave her a chance, she became crazy and hurtful. I had another friend who had a crush on me for years and finally told me after she got engaged to someone else (she's nice, but I would have rejected her for other reasons before that). I had a former friend come out of the woodwork in the midst of my divorce to 1) victim blame me and 2) ask me out on a date and he was surprisedpikachu.jpg when I brutally rejected him lol

I don't have the balls to ask anyone out now, nor the interest really.

KogaSteelfang posted...

That was already a rough period in my life. She just made things so much worse. It's like she enjoyed humiliating me or something.

Wow dude, this woman sounds like total scum. Massively overstepping boundaries, zero empathy, sadistic and cruel. Throw her opinions right in the garbage where they belong. And if you meet someone like that in the future, I'd cut them off immediately. Don't keep talking to try to be polite. Don't try to salvage things and create a friendship. Just block and move on.

Hmm... worst rejection was probably when I was a freshman in high school. I had a massive crush on this girl in my class. I spent almost every lunch break chatting and flirting with her. She would laugh at my flirty jokes and always touched my arm while we talked. We also had the same school bus route, and she'd save the seat for me.

So... I really felt like she was into me too. But when I asked her out she thought about it and said no. I cried (not my proudest moment. Never cried for any other rejections though), but she agreed to still be friends. And she ended up becoming one of my best friends, so it wasn't all bad. We fell out of contact like a decade ago though.

5th grade.
Her name was Maria.
Had my friend Carly approach her to see how she felt about me.
This asshole douche named Gage wouldn't let them talk so i (being a dumbest in 5th grade) yelled at him yo "fuck off dude, they're talking"

Maria turns, looks at me and shouts "IT'S YOU!?!?!?"
She then proceeds to run out of the room sobbing.

If you're reading this, fuck you Gage and fuck you Maria.

meestermj posted...

5th grade.
Her name was Maria.
Had my friend Carly approach her to see how she felt about me.
This asshole douche named Gage wouldn't let them talk so i (being a dumbest in 5th grade) yelled at him yo "fuck off dude, they're talking"

Maria turns, looks at me and shouts "IT'S YOU!?!?!?"
She then proceeds to run out of the room sobbing.

If you're reading this, fuck you Gage and fuck you Maria.

lmao

No-Game-FAQS

A girl approached me a couple of times in high school. I thought she liked me. I was going to ask her, then she gaslit me saying I was stalking her.
She spend our entire senior year trying to get me to ask her out again.
I ended up calling her a masochist whore.