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SrRd_RacinG
01/28/22 3:38:46 PM
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BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder

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Accolon
01/28/22 3:41:06 PM
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A Big Phat Dumper?

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NoxObscuras
01/28/22 3:47:01 PM
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No, never. Although I did have a long distance relationship with a woman that has bipolar disorder. That was... A lot to deal with.

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The Eko
01/28/22 4:41:15 PM
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I sure did. Really tried making it work, even lived together for a bit.

Best piece of advice: Run

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yemmy
01/28/22 4:42:56 PM
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Yes I did and she basically tried to ruin my life

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Unspecified_NPC
01/28/22 4:43:06 PM
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I suspect she had it undiagnosed, certainly has all the hallmarks.

The worst part is when it's over, them continually picking you up again and then ditching you.

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Unsugarized_Foo
01/28/22 4:45:02 PM
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Yeah, did counseling and everything. Counselor told me on the side that as far as BPD goes, it's not bad

Never a dull moment but they're human like us all.

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Flockaveli
01/28/22 4:48:08 PM
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The worst. On and off for 8 years. Found out she cheated and me and it was over for good.

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SrRd_RacinG
01/28/22 5:28:50 PM
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The Eko posted...
I sure did. Really tried making it work, even lived together for a bit.

Best piece of advice: Run


Did she randomly stop conversing with you via text or IRL?

Did she teeter between loving you and hating you?

@The_Eko

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Autocraticus
01/28/22 5:43:23 PM
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It was awful. I've dated women with bipolar before and BPD made that ex look fine.
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DCinGA
01/28/22 5:56:07 PM
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It's a challenge for sure.

I Hate You Don't Leave Me is a book written about it. Kinda sums up a BPD mindset
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Feline_Heart
01/28/22 5:59:38 PM
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The show Crazy Ex-Girlfriend did a good job of showing how someone with BPD thinks

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Kiyune
01/28/22 6:02:07 PM
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Feline_Heart posted...
The show Crazy Ex-Girlfriend did a good job of showing how someone with BPD thinks
The name of that show is a red flag, calling people with mental illness "crazy" is demeaning and wrong

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pfh1001
01/28/22 6:08:53 PM
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Thankfully no.
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PMarth2002
01/28/22 6:13:54 PM
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Never dated one, but my sister had BPD. She OD'd inhaling air duster a couple of years ago.

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DrizztLink
01/28/22 6:17:05 PM
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Unsugarized_Foo posted...
Counselor told me on the side that as far as BPD goes, it's not bad
That's a pretty major ethical violation.

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Feline_Heart
01/28/22 7:15:33 PM
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Kiyune posted...
The name of that show is a red flag, calling people with mental illness "crazy" is demeaning and wrong
She didnt realize that she had a mental illness at the beginning of the show

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The Eko
01/29/22 8:22:46 AM
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SrRd_RacinG posted...
Did she randomly stop conversing with you via text or IRL?

Did she teeter between loving you and hating you?

@The_Eko
Yes and yes. She had all the classic symptoms: emotional instability, insecurity, impulsivity. She went to the hospital several times for half-assed "suicide attempts" that were really just cries for attention. She tried burning her arm with a lit cigarette, tried jumping out of a moving car going 70 mph, she would try to down a whole bottle of Tylenol, I literally had to pull pills out of her mouth. Sex was great tho, she let me do whatever I wanted, but it wasn't worth the tradeoff of the mental terrorism.

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