Current Events > Thinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)

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WingsOfGood posted...

Fyi, paying a hooker to please you will not teach you how to please a woman.

Exactly. It will accomplish nothing except to say that you technically have had sex

WingsOfGood posted...

Is this why so many men are terrible at sex? Because they learn how to have sex from hookers?

Fyi, paying a hooker to please you will not teach you how to please a woman.

This is true but you can also have her show you the ropes for female pleasure. Most guys who pay for it and really most guys in general are only on it for the guys pleasure. If you do go this route ask her to teach you.

SauI_Goodman posted...

This is true but you can also have her show you the ropes for female pleasure. Most guys who pay for it and really most guys in general are only on it for the guys pleasure. If you do go this route ask her to teach you.

Are you sure? They should charge you extra for that tbh.

You are paying them to have sex with you, not be your coach or therapist. Your mileage for that will likely vary since that is extra work.

WingsOfGood posted...

Are you sure? They should charge you extra for that tbh.

You are paying them to have sex with you, not be your coach or therapist. Your mileage for that will likely vary since that is extra work.

On the show cathouse the girls mention that guys come to them for advice and lessons all the time.

If losing your virginity is that important to you, then I say go for it.

Just don't expect anything other than your status as a virgin to actually change.

WingsOfGood posted...

Because imagine telling your wife you felt like a loser because you never had sex before so you paid a hooker because you thought once you banged a hooker you would become a chad.

TC mention nothing about feeling like a chad. Dude's just tryna get some experience to prepare him for something serious.

She will cringe so hard no matter who she is.

Oh no. She kringed. Marriage dead. Kids ruined.

Meanwhile, if you tell her she was your first, she will be like "so romantic!"

Kute. Very unrealistic in 2020. Also, you expect him to make this choice for that one komplement? He doesn't sound that insecure.

Do whatever you want. But being a virgin at that age is actually a free sex card if you mention it in the right time.

Dont waste the money unless its at a proper brothel.

WingsOfGood posted...

Because imagine telling your wife you felt like a loser because you never had sex before so you paid a hooker because you thought once you banged a hooker you would become a chad. She will cringe so hard no matter who she is.

Meanwhile, if you tell her she was your first, she will be like "so romantic!"

Or if it was another girl, basically neutral as long as said woman is no longer in your life.

Imagine being in a relationship with someone you can't be completely honest with.

samurai bandit posted...

Do whatever you want. But being a virgin at that age is actually a free sex card if you mention it in the right time.

The kind of people who are still virgins at that age are very unlikely to be in one of those situations. And also very unlikely to be able to handle that situation once it comes up. At least that's true for me.

IfGodCouldDie posted...

Imagine being in a relationship with someone you can't be completely honest with.

You missed the point. It isn't that you cannot be honest with them, but you did a really cringe thing.

If you feel like you're at a point in your life where finding someone is difficult and...you really just want to lose your virginity...then go for it. Go to a decent brothel.

I say go fuck. Yolo!!

TBH having sex with a prostitute sounds just as impossible as having sex in general. I guess it would be technically easier because they would probably not say no. But my anxiety would be just as bad trying to hire a sex worker as trying to hit on a girl.

If youre gonna do it, make sure its not a cheap one. They tend to be druggies and wellthey use needles.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

TBH having sex with a prostitute sounds just as impossible as having sex in general. I guess it would be technically easier because they would probably not say no. But my anxiety would be just as bad trying to hire a sex worker as trying to hit on a girl.

Just about everyone's first time was awful. Pop a pill and pound it out just to say you did it.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

TBH having sex with a prostitute sounds just as impossible as having sex in general. I guess it would be technically easier because they would probably not say no. But my anxiety would be just as bad trying to hire a sex worker as trying to hit on a girl.

Book an appointment online.

The_Korey posted...

Book an appointment online.

That barely helps. I still would have to travel somewhere, and once I get there, leave my car. And then walk inside. And even if I only interacted with the one sex worker I wouldn't be able to talk or move at all if we were in the same room. I would have a frozen panic attack at every step. Even imagining it right now makes me freeze up.

Flockaveli posted...

Just about everyone's first time was awful. Pop a pill and pound it out just to say you did it.

I can't do that.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

I wouldn't be able to talk or move at all if we were in the same room. I would have a frozen panic attack at every step. Even imagining it right now makes me freeze up.

What you need is therapy.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

That barely helps. I still would have to travel somewhere, and once I get there, leave my car. And then walk inside. And even if I only interacted with the one sex worker I wouldn't be able to talk or move at all if we were in the same room. I would have a frozen panic attack at every step. Even imagining it right now makes me freeze up.

Well good thing this topic isn't about you losing your virginity.

Tldr this whole topic, did you do it yet?

I mean seems cheaper to just find a girl on tinder get drinks then bone.

also, I don't know how much experience you'll get from it. Sex isn't hard (lol). You could bang 100 hookers and still be incompatible with someone.

Another thing, if i was a girl i'd much rather a guy tell me he's a virgin than I had sex with a bunch of cheap hookers.

Sex isn't as big a deal as y'all make it out to be

I4NRulez posted...

You could bang 100 hookers and still be incompatible with someone.

Thing is, the dudes who tell other dudes to do this are likely terrible at sex and have not much experience. But they think "I am not virgin" so .... yeah....

I meanI dont want to sound lame but your first time should be special and I dont think a hooker is gonna really be a great memory lol

But if youre desperate just to know what its like go for it but be safe. Plus at least with a hooker there are no strings attached lol you dont have to hangout with her and s***, its a straightforward hit and quit it lol

CinderLock posted...

Well good thing this topic isn't about you losing your virginity.

No it started about someone else trying to. So I thought I would just talk about what my thoughts on the subject were. I don't understand why you felt a need to go out of your way to attack me about it.

I should follow this topic since I'm a 25 year old virgin myself hehehe

Tbh racing to get sex is just overrated imo and personally not a big deal to me. Idk why society makes it a massive deal nowadays.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

No it started about someone else trying to. So I thought I would just talk about what my thoughts on the subject were. I don't understand why you felt a need to go out of your way to attack me about it.

Didn't attack you just wondering why you tried to make it about yourself which explains a lot actually.

RAAAWWWRRR posted...

Idk why society makes it a massive deal nowadays.

Insecure men

I4NRulez posted...

I mean seems cheaper to just find a girl on tinder get drinks then bone.

also, I don't know how much experience you'll get from it. Sex isn't hard (lol). You could bang 100 hookers and still be incompatible with someone.

Another thing, if i was a girl i'd much rather a guy tell me he's a virgin than I had sex with a bunch of cheap hookers.

If someone can get laid on tinder they wouldn't be a virgin in the first place.

CinderLock posted...

Didn't attack you just wondering why you tried to make it about yourself which explains a lot actually.

What does it explain? All I did was say seeing a sex worker would be difficult personally and then give a response to people who replied to me... I actually don't understand.

MrNintendo1213 posted...

If someone can get laid on tinder they wouldn't be a virgin in the first place.

He said he was dealing with depression and anxiety and which from experience can hinder your sex drive.

Sounded like to me he just didnt want or try to not that he couldnt.

incel is a state of mind. Just do it, get it over with and move on and work on yourself.

Whose alt?

Is this the same person who was considering taking up smoking cigarettes as stress relief? Because this topic has the exact same vibe as that one.

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What? Of course it does

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Hey virgins, not getting laid?!?! Have you tried just getting laid instead?! Checkmate athiests.

go to Reno

MrNintendo1213 posted...

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Hey virgins, not getting laid?!?! Have you tried just getting laid instead?! Checkmate athiests.

its literally that simple tho. Women arent some mystical creature that can only be summoned with some ancient ritual.

I feel like...women are so, so much less complicated than the average "kissless virgin" thinks they are.

I relate to parts of this topic

Tenlaar posted...

You think women are less likely to be creeped out and repulsed by I was a virgin but then I banged some cheap hookers?

A cheap hooker

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I4NRulez posted...

its literally that simple tho. Women arent some mystical creature that can only be summoned with some ancient ritual.

So that's exactly what is being said. Things that are easy for one person can be difficult for others. Someone expressing trouble with it obviously knows it is technically possible.

It is like telling someone with a phobia to just get over it. You aren't being even slightly helpful or saying anything everyone doesn't know.

Depressed people? Just be happier! Social anxiety? Just talk to people! Trouble with dyslexia? Just read!

Just telling someone who has trouble doing something they should just do it is entirely condescending. You are literally just re stating the problem they already know they have.