Poll of the Day > I went up and talked to a girl at the bar tonight.

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Muscles
01/20/22 2:22:00 AM
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I went to hang with my friend and watch her do karaoke and there was this other girl there doing karaoke too, who was pretty good. I went up and complimented her singing and we started talking about music (she sang a song I actually liked).

Unlike pretty much every girl I ever talked to, she didn't seem to be in a hurry to leave and actually smiled the whole time. When her friends came to grab her to leave she said she'd be there again next Wednesday.

I think this might be the first time I had a positive first impression on a girl, even my girl buddies were a bit cold at first.

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Metalsonic66
01/20/22 2:23:49 AM
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She wants the D

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Muscles
01/20/22 2:42:11 AM
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Metalsonic66 posted...
She wants the D
Idk about that but it was a confidence booster to just have a nice, stress free conversation with a girl.

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trodi_911
01/20/22 3:28:53 AM
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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 4:09:09 AM
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Muscles I truly hope you success in finding a good boobed woman that appreciates your attempt to try good goodness. But also you should chill I think lol.

I told a beautiful woman earlier about a fat raccoon I saw. Not because she was a beautiful woman but because her dog looked like a total goober that would try to fight a big fat urban raccoon saundering benevolently towards the steakhouse dumpster. That's how you talk to girls

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Revelation34
01/20/22 4:53:33 AM
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BouncyBouncy posted...
But also you should chill I think lol.


This is like one of his most normal posts in relation to talking to females.

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DocDelicious
01/20/22 5:04:41 AM
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Muscles posted...
she said she'd be there again next Wednesday.

This was an open invitation for you to go see her again. However, this was not an invitation for you to approach her. If you go next Wednesday you're there for yourself and you let her approach you first.

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Muscles
01/20/22 5:15:32 AM
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BouncyBouncy posted...
Muscles I truly hope you success in finding a good boobed woman that appreciates your attempt to try good goodness. But also you should chill I think lol.

I told a beautiful woman earlier about a fat raccoon I saw. Not because she was a beautiful woman but because her dog looked like a total goober that would try to fight a big fat urban raccoon saundering benevolently towards the steakhouse dumpster. That's how you talk to girls
I talked to a girl about music, she wasn't even that beautiful, like, sure she was cute but if I just cared about looks there was at least 10 other girls there that were hotter, they were also annoying drunk girls.

Revelation34 posted...
This is like one of his most normal posts in relation to talking to females.
Thank you, I have put in a lot of effort into being a more socially competent person, I'm not all the way there yet but I'm making some progress

DocDelicious posted...
This was an open invitation for you to go see her again. However, this was not an invitation for you to approach her. If you go next Wednesday you're there for yourself and you let her approach you first.
One of my best friends goes to that bar every week for karaoke too, I generally go once every few weeks to hang out with her and listen to her do karaoke.

My plan was to show up, hang out with my friend and her fiance (and potentially other friends that some times show up) for a bit then see what happens

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SilentSeph
01/20/22 8:28:04 AM
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Metalsonic66 posted...
She wants the D major


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Muscles
01/20/22 12:59:43 PM
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Bump

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ArvTheGreat
01/20/22 1:01:03 PM
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Get it muscles you make Arv proud

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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 1:02:04 PM
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All I'm saying is that if you're looking for friends then look for friends. If you're looking for sex then make that clear in a confident but respectful manner, and avoid the pitfalls of confusing the two approaches that a lot of insecure people fall into

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wwinterj25
01/20/22 1:25:45 PM
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Nice man. It's always good to feel acknowledged by attractive people.

BouncyBouncy posted...
All I'm saying is that if you're looking for friends then look for friends. If you're looking for sex then make that clear in a confident but respectful manner, and avoid the pitfalls of confusing the two approaches that a lot of insecure people fall into

What if you're looking for both or whatever may come from a simple conversation? I very rarely talk to people in bars or clubs but when I do I'm not just looking for sex nor am I looking for a friend. I'm just wanting to get to know someone and see where it goes if anywhere. At the very least we both have a good conversation.

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Metalsonic66
01/20/22 3:50:28 PM
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SilentSeph posted...
She wants the Dm b7


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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 4:32:07 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Nice man. It's always good to feel acknowledged by attractive people.

What if you're looking for both or whatever may come from a simple conversation? I very rarely talk to people in bars or clubs but when I do I'm not just looking for sex nor am I looking for a friend. I'm just wanting to get to know someone and see where it goes if anywhere. At the very least we both have a good conversation.

thats fine

we all have our truth to speak and our ways to speak it

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Muscles
01/20/22 7:58:07 PM
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BouncyBouncy posted...
All I'm saying is that if you're looking for friends then look for friends. If you're looking for sex then make that clear in a confident but respectful manner, and avoid the pitfalls of confusing the two approaches that a lot of insecure people fall into
I'm not really looking for anything rn, just open to talking to new people and see where it leads

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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 9:31:55 PM
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Muscles posted...
I'm not really looking for anything rn, just open to talking to new people and see where it leads

well Im still telling the universe to send large boobed goth women your way

you cant stop me from doing that

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Muscles
01/20/22 9:39:30 PM
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BouncyBouncy posted...
well Im still telling the universe to send large boobed goth women your way

you cant stop me from doing that
Thanks for that, they don't need to be large though, that's actually a turnoff for me, give me average sized boobies every day

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SilentSeph
01/20/22 9:44:07 PM
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Metalsonic66 posted...
She wants the Tenacious D


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BEERandWEED
01/20/22 9:45:03 PM
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You will not know there is chemistry unless you start to build a relationship.

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Metalsonic66
01/20/22 9:47:53 PM
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SunWuKung420
01/20/22 9:56:19 PM
#22:


I treated my wife, the mother of my son, like a friend for a month when we met.

Basically, engaging simply for sex is basic as fuck.

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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 10:00:09 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
I treated my wife, the mother of my son, like a friend for a month when we met.

Basically, engaging simply for sex is basic as fuck.

sounds like youve got yourself a good partner

not everyone has that same experience unfortunately

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Revelation34
01/20/22 11:10:46 PM
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BouncyBouncy posted...
All I'm saying is that if you're looking for friends then look for friends. If you're looking for sex then make that clear in a confident but respectful manner, and avoid the pitfalls of confusing the two approaches that a lot of insecure people fall into


What if the person doesn't want sex but are so awkward it makes it look like they want it?

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BouncyBouncy
01/20/22 11:24:58 PM
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Revelation34 posted...
What if the person doesn't want sex but are so awkward it makes it look like they want it?

then they should probably try to stay alive I dont know what kind of answer youre looking for

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Revelation34
01/21/22 4:37:35 AM
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BouncyBouncy posted...


then they should probably try to stay alive I dont know what kind of answer youre looking for


People would kill over that?

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BUMPED2002
01/21/22 9:29:47 AM
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Cool! I hope it worked out for you!

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Muscles
01/27/22 1:20:51 AM
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Went back tonight, had a few good conversation with her again. Got her Instagram for real this time and she agreed to a date. This has made me think I can get girls to like me, I just never met one that can (or maybe I did but ruined it by being an insecure fuck)

Also has fun hanging with friends, so it's been a great night overall.

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Revelation34
01/27/22 12:21:03 PM
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When's the date?

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Muscles
01/27/22 12:39:35 PM
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Probably next week, it's tentative right now because I work 6 days a week so we have to find a time, but she seemed pretty enthusiastic about it instead of being flakey and giving a vague nothing answer like every other girl I've ever asked out

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Muscles
01/28/22 10:43:59 PM
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Well I guess that immediate yes didn't mean anything, I have been trying to get a day set and she was busy every day so eventually I asked what day was good for her and she said she's too busy rn

Like, why even say yes then?

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wwinterj25
01/29/22 11:27:46 AM
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Sounds like she's brushing you off man. She could always find time if she wanted or at the very least let you know when she's free. It's not difficult if someone really is interested.

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Muscles
01/29/22 11:51:12 AM
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I know that, it just sucks because unlike 99% of girls I tried to talk to she seemed to genuinely enjoy our conversations

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FrndNhbrHdCEman
01/30/22 5:45:11 AM
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Muscles posted...
I know that, it just sucks because unlike 99% of girls I tried to talk to she seemed to genuinely enjoy our conversations
Stop trying to have sex with women fam. If you arent having success then why burn the bridges if you can be friends? Stop taking 2 steps back and take one step forward.

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Muscles
01/30/22 6:22:06 AM
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Who said I would burn that bridge? She's a cool person and we vibed well so if she's too busy for anything that's cool, still disappointing though.

Also I was trying to get a date, not get laid. Believe it or not but I can like women for reasons beyond looks.

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SunWuKung420
01/30/22 8:26:45 AM
#36:


Just move on.

The next time you see her at karaoke, just say "Hey." and keep walking. Don't stop to talk.

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The_Viscount
01/30/22 3:30:56 PM
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Muscles posted...
Well I guess that immediate yes didn't mean anything, I have been trying to get a day set and she was busy every day so eventually I asked what day was good for her and she said she's too busy rn

Like, why even say yes then?

I mean, it's *possible* she could also be busy. It doesn't have to just mean she's flaky, although a lot of people are flaky.

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Muscles
01/30/22 4:22:36 PM
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I'm thinking that's what it was because we hit it off so well but if you know you are too busy to go on a date and will have to cancel why say yes?

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The_Viscount
01/30/22 4:56:31 PM
#39:


I mean, peoples' weeks can change and things don't have to be right away. Seems a little soon to panic. The next time you see her at karaoke you can figure out whether she's giving you the runaround because she's nervous, got cold feet, or just changed her mind.

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