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ssj3vegeta_
12/04/21 11:24:31 AM
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g0ldie
12/04/21 11:28:18 AM
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in the olden times, the wedding party would carry the bride and groom to bed, and stand around as they fucked for the first time (wink)

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Ratchetrockon
12/04/21 11:29:55 AM
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I guess it look cute to the parents

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Aressar
12/04/21 11:30:29 AM
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There was a time and culture where it was customary for people to witness the king consummate his marriage.

But yeah, it's weird. Not surprising though, as many people who get married do it for the sake of tradition, so naturally that has to include all the stereotypical little things, like the garter. Even if they don't understand why they're even doing it.

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_BlueMonk
12/04/21 11:30:45 AM
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yeah i dunno whats up with people. my wife and i agreed already at our wedding we ain't doing that dumbass shit.

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NeoShadowhen
12/04/21 11:57:05 AM
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My wife and I totally did it. But shoving your head up under the skirt is weird.

We also took it a step further and did the extended tradition of having the guy who catches the garter belt put it on the girl who catches the bouquet. According to tradition, the higher up they put it, the happier the marriage will be. I was hoping for an interesting pairing, but it turned out to be an established couple.
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spikethedevil
12/04/21 12:02:08 PM
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This is a tradition? O_o

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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 12:03:16 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
This is a tradition? O_o
Yeah. Every wedding I've been to has included it.

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spikethedevil
12/04/21 12:04:11 PM
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Is it a US thing? As every wedding Ive been two hasnt had it.

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GBH713
12/04/21 12:12:15 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
Is it a US thing? As every wedding Ive been two hasnt had it.

I think it might be. Never seen it in the UK.

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cuttin_in_farm
12/04/21 12:13:02 PM
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I dont even know what is happening.

I assume this is a white wedding thing?

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AlCalavicci
12/04/21 12:15:18 PM
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What is the bride saying? It's like she got super embarrassed all of a sudden

For those that don't know, this is the wedding garter/garter toss tradition. The husband reaches in and takes off the garter from her thigh, and then sometimes throws it to the other bachelors at the wedding, kinda like the bride throws the bouquet to the single ladies

We chose not to do it at our wedding

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g0ldie
12/04/21 12:16:06 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
I dont even know what is happening.

I assume this is a white wedding thing?
basically, everyone gathers around as the bride sits and the groom goes underneath her gown to reach for a garter that's high up her thigh and pull it off.

then he throws it to a crowd of unmarried men, the same way the bride throws the wedding bouquet to a crowd of unmarried women.


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cuttin_in_farm
12/04/21 12:17:31 PM
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AlCalavicci posted...
For those that don't know, this is the wedding garter/garter toss tradition. The husband reaches in and takes off the garter from her thigh, and then sometimes throws it to the other bachelors at the wedding, kinda like the bride throws the bouquet to the single ladies

g0ldie posted...
basically, everyone gathers around as the bride sits and the groom goes underneath her gown to reach for a garter that's high up her thigh and pull it off.

then he throws it to a crowd of unmarried men, the same way the bride throws the wedding bouquet to a crowd of unmarried women.


That seems dumb lol. But thanks for explaining. Never heard nor seen this before.

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Damn_Underscore
12/04/21 12:20:34 PM
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which CEman is that

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Relient_K
12/04/21 12:20:54 PM
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We did not do this at my wedding.

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spikethedevil
12/04/21 12:22:01 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
That seems dumb lol. But thanks for explaining. Never heard nor seen this before.

Where are you from? Im from the UK and have never seen it.

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Lil_Bit83
12/04/21 1:01:51 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
Is it a US thing? As every wedding Ive been two hasnt had it.
I'm in the US, this is the first I've seen and heard of it.

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Lil_Bit83
12/04/21 1:02:32 PM
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AlCalavicci posted...
What is the bride saying? It's like she got super embarrassed all of a sudden

For those that don't know, this is the wedding garter/garter toss tradition. The husband reaches in and takes off the garter from her thigh, and then sometimes throws it to the other bachelors at the wedding, kinda like the bride throws the bouquet to the single ladies

We chose not to do it at our wedding
Oh it's that. I thought it was something else. I don't recall any of that happening at the weddings I've attended. Just the bouquet toss.

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lolife67
12/04/21 1:07:44 PM
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It's not a big deal, unless the father is super prudish. They aren't actually doing a sexual act and they're married. Married people have sex, that's not a surprise to anyone at the wedding.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/04/21 1:11:39 PM
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This is just stupid and sounds stupid.

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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 1:12:04 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
This is just stupid and sounds stupid.
What exactly is stupid about it?

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Returning_CEmen
12/04/21 1:13:38 PM
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I always thought this was weird too

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/04/21 1:27:41 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
What exactly is stupid about it?
Most men would avoid that thing like the plague, unlike women who want marriage in the west men in the west do themselves a favor by NOT getting married.

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lolife67
12/04/21 1:28:52 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Most men would avoid that thing like the plague, unlike women who want marriage in the west men in the west do themselves a favor by NOT getting married.

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
This is just stupid and sounds stupid.

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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 1:29:22 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Most men would avoid that thing like the plague, unlike women who want marriage in the west men in the west do themselves a favor by NOT getting married.
...Huh.

Not the take I would expect. Crazy thought, some men actually want to get married to a woman they love someday lol

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420TwiZtiD420
12/04/21 1:29:56 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
Yeah. Every wedding I've been to has included it.
Every wedding I've been to has not featured this. Strange.

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ThyCorndog
12/04/21 1:30:26 PM
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Lil_Bit83 posted...
I'm in the US, this is the first I've seen and heard of it.

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NeoShadowhen
12/04/21 1:30:48 PM
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PrideOfLion posted...
The only weddings I've been too that do this are always the really trashy couple

Do you know a lot of trashy people?
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lolife67
12/04/21 1:31:07 PM
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I'm honestly surprised by the number of you who don't know about this lol

Do you not attend a lot of traditional weddings?
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/04/21 1:31:09 PM
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Enjoy losing all or most of your stuff when a woman divorces you. The divorce rate is still high and 80% of women initiate divorce.

Have fun with that gamble.

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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 1:31:32 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Enjoy losing all or most of your stuff when a woman divorces you. The divorce rate is still high and 80% of women initiate divorce.

Have fun with that gamble
bruh you might want to stop lol

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/04/21 1:32:22 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
bruh you might want to stop lol
Dont have to like facts, I am just the messenger, look it up yourself.

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lolife67
12/04/21 1:32:34 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
@lolife67
@Gobstoppers12

Enjoy losing all or most of your stuff when a woman divorces you. The divorce rate is still high and 80% of women initiate divorce.

Have fun with that gamble.
Why would I worry about that? I actually know how to interact with women and wouldn't cheat on my wife lol
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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 1:33:37 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Dont have to like facts, I am just the messenger, look it up yourself.
I'm just gonna stop responding to this for your sake.

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NeoShadowhen
12/04/21 1:35:18 PM
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420TwiZtiD420 posted...
Every wedding I've been to has not featured this. Strange.

Im getting the impression that it isnt done at all outside the US very much, and even then it is rather regional.
When I got married the removal and tossing of the garter belt was standard, but I had to suggest the additional part of the person catching the garter putting it on the person who caught the bouquet, which nobody from that area had ever heard of. I was from a different part of the country, and that was often what was done.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/04/21 1:48:13 PM
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lolife67 posted...
Why would I worry about that? I actually know how to interact with women and wouldn't cheat on my wife lol
Its not the dude that is the reason for divorce, women statistically cheat more and decide to leave for the other dude. Look up some facts about this and see what I am talking about.

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Gobstoppers12
12/04/21 1:49:13 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Its not the dude that is the reason for divorce, women statistically cheat more and decide to leave for the other dude
Who hurt you, bro?

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LincolnDuncan
12/04/21 1:50:24 PM
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Why does the father's opinion matter at all?

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ApherosyLove
12/04/21 1:54:30 PM
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AlCalavicci posted...
What is the bride saying? It's like she got super embarrassed all of a sudden
Idk!!!

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lolife67
12/04/21 1:55:24 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Its not the dude that is the reason for divorce, women statistically cheat more and decide to leave for the other dude. Look up some facts about this and see what I am talking about.
Lol no. The fact you keep talking about "statistics" means you have no actual real life experience with women and it shows. Just sad
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JimmyFraska
12/04/21 1:57:30 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Most men would avoid that thing like the plague, unlike women who want marriage in the west men in the west do themselves a favor by NOT getting married.
You're only doing yourself a favor if you can only get with bad women
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sabrestorm
12/04/21 2:46:08 PM
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Fathers cant do anything about it when those involved are over 18

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420TwiZtiD420
12/05/21 5:31:45 PM
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NeoShadowhen posted...
Im getting the impression that it isnt done at all outside the US very much, and even then it is rather regional.
When I got married the removal and tossing of the garter belt was standard, but I had to suggest the additional part of the person catching the garter putting it on the person who caught the bouquet, which nobody from that area had ever heard of. I was from a different part of the country, and that was often what was done.
I'm from the US, so, maybe just different ideas of what all needs to happen for whomever to qualify it as a wedding.

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sabrestorm
12/05/21 5:36:46 PM
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Fathers probably arent ok with it but they have no control over it

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ssj3vegeta
12/07/21 6:50:31 PM
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sabrestorm posted...
Fathers probably arent ok with it but they have no control over it

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CE_gonna_CE
12/07/21 6:51:43 PM
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