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pikachupwnage
11/26/21 10:11:35 AM
#52:


RedLuigi posted...


Sorta this tbh, just kind of all falls on her even worse now

Shouldve just left it with a calm explanation to assure her that its an enjoyable part of seeing her (lol) and you just felt compelled to have some time alone to really talk to each other before you left home

Did fucking no one read that the daughter is moving out tomorrow?

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JimmyFraska
11/26/21 10:15:00 AM
#53:


Wasn't your place to step in.
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DevilZhouYu
11/26/21 10:16:32 AM
#54:


pikachupwnage posted...
Did fucking no one read that the daughter is moving out tomorrow?
Reading is hard.

Also, apparently no one else read that even the psycho mom's own parents want nothing to do with her BECAUSE of said shitty attitude and personality.

If even your own parents want fuck all to do with you, then no doubt this goes far, FAR further than just this incident.
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spikethedevil
11/26/21 12:30:18 PM
#55:


RedLuigi posted...


Sorta this tbh, just kind of all falls on her even worse now

Shouldve just left it with a calm explanation to assure her that its an enjoyable part of seeing her (lol) and you just felt compelled to have some time alone to really talk to each other before you left home

Read the OP FFS @RedLuigi


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RedLuigi
11/26/21 1:04:17 PM
#56:


spikethedevil posted...
Read the OP FFS @RedLuigi

He really left shit like that knowing he couldve literally added a few more words and just leave the space chill? Theyre just words, he didnt have to believe in them and he wasnt paying to use them either

Costs him exactly 0$ and you know what? Instead of killing two birds with one stone now you exasperated a problem for this girl for what might be years instead of them being yeah - I guess you got a point, thanks for leveling with me

It aint no guarantee but thats better than whatever this I just met you twice and presented myself as an arrogant asshole on Thanksgiving of all holidays lol


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Lorenzo_2003
11/26/21 1:08:25 PM
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clyde_frog posted...
I told her that she shouldnt be calling both her daughters sluts. She then went off on me saying that I have no right to tell her how to parent. I told her she was embarrassing herself and how she should be ashamed. My gfs older sister was present in the room as this was happening and she agreed and backed me up.

You did this in her home? And youre just a boyfriend?

Where was her husband and why didnt he throw your ass out of the house?

So many questions.

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dioxxys
11/26/21 1:08:40 PM
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Good job TC

Fuck anyone who says you should have done any different.

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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 1:14:36 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
You did this in her home? And youre just a boyfriend?

Where was her husband and why didnt he throw your ass out of the house?

So many questions.
I dont get how anyone can read the moms text rant in post #15 and think that this is a rational human being who has any justification for acting the way she does.

Based on how psycho the mom seems, I would not be surprised at all if the husband is terrified of her and just lets her get away with everything. He probably has taken his fair share of shit from her for however long theyve been together and stays out of the way whenever possible.

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Bass_X0
11/26/21 1:16:09 PM
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RedLuigi
11/26/21 1:17:51 PM
#62:


CE_gonna_CE posted...
I dont get how anyone can read the moms text rant in post #15 and think that this is a rational human being who has any justification for acting the way she does.

Is TC any better? No. His rationalizations for what he did are just as insane as that ladys >_>

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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 1:18:37 PM
#63:


RedLuigi posted...
Is TC any better? No. His rationalizations for what he did are just as insane as that ladys >_>
Uh, no, because

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

This exactly


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LordOfTheCats
11/26/21 1:22:50 PM
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JFC, what the hell is wrong with some of the users here?
Good job on standing up for your gf TC, you did the right thing.
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RedLuigi
11/26/21 1:28:34 PM
#65:


CE_gonna_CE posted...
Uh, no, because

This exactly

Theres a right way to fix problems for the better and theres a wrong way to fix problems for the better - this man just wedged the family dynamic more and youre telling me that doesnt count as abuse? Forget the family, the guy just made shit for his gf worse lol

Im curious as to how much abuse yall actually hold yourselves accountable to in life cause while the sentiment is nice, it certainly seems like yall are real complacent in letting abuse hang around >_>

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Lorenzo_2003
11/26/21 1:31:42 PM
#66:


CE_gonna_CE posted...
I dont get how anyone can read the moms text rant in post #15 and think that this is a rational human being who has any justification for acting the way she does.

Dont assume that I think highly of the mothers actions. But thats missing the point either way. This is her house and it was a verbal family issue for them to resolve. TC is not family. Hes just some boyfriend like every other boyfriend around the world, trying to get in the daughter pants. He hasnt paid his dues yet, so he has zero leeway. If youre going to show up at someones home and talk shit like he did, you better be prepared to get thrown out figuratively and possibly literally. I dont even have any guy friends who wouldnt have done that to TC the moment he opened his mouth, and I dont know any women who wouldnt expect their spouse to step up and do that.


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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 1:37:28 PM
#67:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Dont assume that I think highly of the mothers actions. But thats missing the point either way. This is her house and it was a verbal family issue for them to resolve. TC is not family. Hes just some boyfriend like every other boyfriend around the world, trying to get in the daughter pants. He hasnt paid his dues yet, so he has zero leeway. If youre going to show up at someones home and talk shit like he did, you better be prepared to get thrown out figuratively and possibly literally. I dont even have any guy friends who wouldnt have done that to TC the moment he opened his mouth, and I dont know any women who wouldnt expect their spouse to step up and do that.
Ok though how is explaining that all they were doing was talking in the car and asking dont call your daughter a slut talking shit, exactly? Going back to Cronos post, my house my rules should never be justification for verbal and mental abuse. And has been mentioned many times so far, all these folks are grown adults. Its one thing to be a 16 year old dude trying to get in your GFs pants, but (at least how it has been presented in the topic so far) this is a case of a grown adult asking an older grown adult not to be verbally abusive to their daughter. I dont think anyone has to pay their dues to have the right to do that.

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Tappor
11/26/21 1:39:23 PM
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it's mind boggling how many people just didn't read the op and came in to shitpost instead

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b_nolan
11/26/21 1:43:10 PM
#69:


Crazy to see so many hand wave abuse because "my house my rules"

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Biofighter55
11/26/21 1:44:27 PM
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Did no one read the part where the gf was gonna cut ties with her mom after she moves out for her job? Or the fact that the mothers own parents dont want her around because of the person she is?

he didnt drive a wedge between them, her mother did it all in her own.

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cuttin_in_farm
11/26/21 2:03:03 PM
#71:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Dont assume that I think highly of the mothers actions. But thats missing the point either way. This is her house and it was a verbal family issue for them to resolve. TC is not family. Hes just some boyfriend like every other boyfriend around the world, trying to get in the daughter pants. He hasnt paid his dues yet, so he has zero leeway. If youre going to show up at someones home and talk shit like he did, you better be prepared to get thrown out figuratively and possibly literally. I dont even have any guy friends who wouldnt have done that to TC the moment he opened his mouth, and I dont know any women who wouldnt expect their spouse to step up and do that.


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Reading the replies, youd think TC flew off the handle and called the mom a bitch and shit.

Reading the op, he just stood up for his gf?


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Error1355
11/26/21 2:26:05 PM
#73:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
This is her house and it was a verbal family issue for them to resolve.
And it's being resolved by her daughter leaving her mom's house and hopefully life. Zero reason to defend the mother's actions here.

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Ruvan22
11/26/21 3:31:57 PM
#74:


RedLuigi posted...
Theres a right way to fix problems for the better and theres a wrong way to fix problems for the better - this man just wedged the family dynamic more and youre telling me that doesnt count as abuse? Forget the family, the guy just made shit for his gf worse lol

Im curious as to how much abuse yall actually hold yourselves accountable to in life cause while the sentiment is nice, it certainly seems like yall are real complacent in letting abuse hang around >_>

So to be clear, you feel he was A) Verbally abusive to her, B) to the same level mom has been to daughter, and C) inflicted as much abuse in that one interaction as mom has in her years of saying daughter slept with mom's boyfriends?
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Ryven
11/26/21 3:35:47 PM
#75:


pikachupwnage posted...
Fuck off.

Firstly the daughter is literally moving today.

Secondly No one has the right to be such a miserable asshole to family(or anyone who didn't really having it coming)

Thirdly fuck off


Adding to this, imagine trying to justify somebody's behaviour by saying her house her rules.

Fourthy, fuck off.

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TotallyNotAGirl
11/26/21 3:41:12 PM
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Conflict posted...

lmao as long as you're packing some kind of heat, I don't care what video games you play.


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LincolnDuncan
11/26/21 3:43:51 PM
#78:


Two questions:

Why specify she's Asian?

Why haven't you given this young woman a stable home, and married her?

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
11/26/21 3:45:47 PM
#79:


You did the right thing topic creator, her mother is a fucking miserable shrew who deserves zero respect for her actions. Being a man includes sticking up for your partner even if it is against their parent or parents when they are treated wrong.

Keep being there for her and ignore all the weak idiots saying you should respect her bitch of a mother.

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RedLuigi
11/26/21 3:50:17 PM
#80:


RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
You did the right thing topic creator, her mother is a fucking miserable shrew who deserves zero respect for her actions. Being a man includes sticking up for your partner even if it is against their parent or parents when they are treated wrong.

Keep being there for her and ignore all the weak idiots saying you should respect her bitch of a mother.

Youre crazy son, rather than try to reconcile the family you settle for the easiest path to whatever

If being a man is still a thing, its definitely not bitching at someones mom lol


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Axiom
11/26/21 3:53:51 PM
#81:


I can see why a lot of you are single when you're too afraid to stick up for your partner
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RedLuigi
11/26/21 4:05:17 PM
#84:


shockthemonkey posted...
How are all of your posts in this topic so fucking stupid and detached from reality

Reality is the trail of social trash you leave behind and youre really acting like it costs you money to legit use words lol


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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 4:08:22 PM
#86:


RedLuigi posted...
Reality is the trail of social trash you leave behind and youre really acting like it costs you money to legit use words lol
Someone shake this thing up and pop another quarter in it or something. I think its broken.

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daynlokki
11/26/21 4:09:14 PM
#87:


clyde_frog posted...
Funny how my gf and her 26 year old sister were thankful for what I did, but I have a bunch of white knights coming to defend the mother. Classic CE.
Its her house. You expecting CE to side with the 23 year old living at home not wanting to follow the rules of the house?
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cuttin_in_farm
11/26/21 4:10:14 PM
#88:


RedLuigi posted...
Reality is the trail of social trash you leave behind and youre really acting like it costs you money to legit use words lol

I think hes saying reality is just trivial social interactions and that it costs him nothing to say things so hes saying whatever

So hes going anime.

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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 4:10:56 PM
#89:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
I think hes saying reality is just trivial social interactions and that it costs him nothing to say things so hes saying whatever

So hes going anime.
Never go full anime

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apocalyptic_4
11/26/21 4:28:49 PM
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Half this board has never had a girlfriend let alone has experienced confrontation I wouldn't take responses here to seriously you did right TC gotta stand up for your girl even if it's from their parents.

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smoke_break
11/26/21 4:40:55 PM
#91:


KaZooo posted...
Good intentions but actually some people are right in saying not to do that. Stepping into family affairs at this stage can make this way more dysfunctional even if your gf is still with you. Should have focused more on your girlfriend and the plans for her move.
I agree with this. I'd support her from the sidelines and try to get them to work something out, but I'm not directly confronting the mother. It's not my place to do so.

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Ruvan22
11/26/21 5:30:57 PM
#92:


daynlokki posted...
Its her house. You expecting CE to side with the 23 year old living at home not wanting to follow the rules of the house?

You consider verbal and emotional abuse acceptable "rules of the house"?
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Lorenzo_2003
11/26/21 6:03:22 PM
#93:


Ruvan22 posted...
You consider verbal and emotional abuse acceptable "rules of the house"?

Everyone has their own standard for what is and isnt acceptable, especially in their own home. This is why we can debate that here on the net for 500 posts, but we are not going to go to someone elses home and confront them about it. Clearly the girlfriend finally reached her limit and is moving out, so good for here. Did she, a twenty-something adult, need TC to escalate the situation by wedging himself in the middle of this family drama, like some self appointed white knight? Is he paying the mortgage or is an authorized representative of the government sent to check that nobodys being locked in the basement?

The answers are no, btw.

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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 6:42:50 PM
#95:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Everyone has their own standard for what is and isnt acceptable, especially in their own home. This is why we can debate that here on the net for 500 posts, but we are not going to go to someone elses home and confront them about it. Clearly the girlfriend finally reached her limit and is moving out, so good for here. Did she, a twenty-something adult, need TC to escalate the situation by wedging himself in the middle of this family drama, like some self appointed white knight? Is he paying the mortgage or is an authorized representative of the government sent to check that nobodys being locked in the basement?

The answers are no, btw.
Apparently, calling your grown daughter a slut upon no provocation, as well as accusing her of stealing boyfriends, is acceptable.

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Lorenzo_2003
11/26/21 6:45:57 PM
#96:


shockthemonkey posted...
Man I fucking hate being friends with people who are too god damn scared to break some bullshit etiquette. Grow a fucking pair.

If I was friends with some dude who decided Thanksgiving was the right time to talk shit to my mom, regardless of the context, Id throw his ass out on the street. Pretty sure you need a pair to do that.

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Omnislasher
11/26/21 6:46:30 PM
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next, fair
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Umbreon
11/26/21 6:50:05 PM
#99:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
If I was friends with some dude who decided Thanksgiving was the right time to talk shit to my mom, regardless of the context, Id throw his ass out on the street. Pretty sure you need a pair to do that.


"Hey, you shouldn't call your daughter a slut."

HOW DARE YOU TALK TO MY MOTHER THAT WAY!

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CE_gonna_CE
11/26/21 6:51:39 PM
#100:


Umbreon posted...
"Hey, you shouldn't call your daughter a slut."

HOW DARE YOU TALK TO MY MOTHER THAT WAY!
Oh, but hey, lets not also forget that TC told the mom she was being embarrassing. HOW DARE HE TALK SO MUCH SHIT

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daynlokki
11/26/21 8:05:17 PM
#101:


Ruvan22 posted...
You consider verbal and emotional abuse acceptable "rules of the house"?
Find me one home that doesnt have one form of verbal or emotional abuse in it. Let alone one with a strict Asian mom. Be happy she let her OUT of the house with a man before she was married.
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