Current Events > All I have is a house. How far does that go for me in the dating world?

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4 bed rooms, 2.5 baths, big backyard, no mortgage.

Let's "pretend" that outside of that, I don't have much going for me in any facet of life. Actually, let's just say that as far as material possessions and aesthetic value go, I am below average, at best, in every other aspect of conventional attractiveness. I do have some intangibles that I've been complimented on but that usually only happens amid a flurry of insults about everything else wrong with me, so I don't lean too hard on them.

Anyway, where does this get me? And if it gets me anywhere, how do I actually implement it during courtship? I might be socially stupid but I don't think it would be wise to be like, "I might be defective in every other way but I do have a house you can live in if you play your cards right."

Or would it?

Thoughts? Advice?

Also, I'm 33 fwiw.

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Some people are in relationships just to have a place to stay. You'd be alright.

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First focus on making, keeping, and strengthening your friendships and other social connections, imo.
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You'd be at risk of potential dates who would use you for your house. Are you okay with that?

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Its like a resume, if you put that on your resume then or and in what situation could it conceivably help you? Just depends on what you apply for and how relevant you wanna make that seem

No car?

Find a cute homeless girl.