D: A wedding ceremony should be about what the woman wants?

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UnfairRepresent 08/06/21 9:27:59 AM #1:	Should it? Yes No Should it? - Results (36 votes) Yes 22.22% (8 votes) 8 No 77.78% (28 votes) 28 Seems to be the stereotype But what does CE think? --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:956829125] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote> Should it? Yes No Vote View Results Should it? - Results (36 votes) Yes 22.22% (8 votes) 8 No 77.78% (28 votes) 28 Show Voting Form Seems to be the stereotype But what does CE think? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 08/06/21 9:31:58 AM #2:	honestly I don't give a shit; all I care about is the reception that said, marriage should absolutely be about two individuals vowing to become a single unit for life in front of friends and family. If there's no discussion and agreement and just one half of the couple running everything against the wishes of the other half of the couple, they should 100% not get married. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:956829210] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>honestly I don't give a shit; all I care about is the reception that said, marriage should absolutely be about two individuals vowing to become a single unit for life in front of friends and family. If there's no discussion and agreement and just one half of the couple running everything against the wishes of the other half of the couple, they should 100% not get married.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 08/06/21 9:36:39 AM #3:	Women are the only reason these big ceremonies exist. If it were up to men we'd all go to the local justice of the peace to get married. BOOM in and out. --- Oda break tracker 2021- 5 (4) \| THE Ohio State: 7-1 \| Las Vegas Raiders: 8-8 <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:956829318] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Women are the only reason these big ceremonies exist. If it were up to men we'd all go to the local justice of the peace to get married. BOOM in and out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 08/06/21 9:38:56 AM #4:	voldothegr8 posted... Women are the only reason these big ceremonies exist. If it were up to men we'd all go to the local justice of the peace to get married. BOOM in and out. More or less. Men might care to have a reception with family and what not, but these big lavish ceremonies? Yeah thats mostly women --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:956829373] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>voldothegr8 posted... </cite> <quote>Women are the only reason these big ceremonies exist. If it were up to men we'd all go to the local justice of the peace to get married. BOOM in and out.</quote>More or less. Men might care to have a reception with family and what not, but these big lavish ceremonies? Yeah thats mostly women </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
welcome2DAslam 08/06/21 9:41:03 AM #5:	Probably considering my idea of what it should look like to me doesn't look as cool as any of that <cite>welcome2DAslam posted [p:956829420] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Probably considering my idea of what it should look like to me doesn't look as cool as any of that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryven 08/06/21 9:53:51 AM #6:	Happy wife, happy life. But yeah women are for the wedding, men are for the party after. --- 'We're not gonna make it, are we? People i mean.' 'It's in your nature to destroy yourselves.' <cite>Ryven posted [p:956829709] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Happy wife, happy life. But yeah women are for the wedding, men are for the party after. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 08/06/21 10:07:50 AM #7:	Depends. Some women actually aren't into this as the stereotype demands. <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:956829987] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Depends. Some women actually aren't into this as the stereotype demands. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gheb 08/06/21 10:08:42 AM #8:	It should be a compromise between the wants of both individuals... It's just that the average guy doesn't really have a lot of prominent wants in a wedding. So it is mostly a focus on what the woman wants. That said if a guy wants something in his wedding he should by all means speak up. The idea that only women can/should care about a wedding is antiquated and sexist. --- S** I have to stop doing that," Gheb said, as he lay back down and died again.* - Forgotten Love The Chiefs won the Super Bowl! <cite>Gheb posted [p:956830003] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>It should be a compromise between the wants of both individuals... It's just that the average guy doesn't really have a lot of prominent wants in a wedding. So it is mostly a focus on what the woman wants. That said if a guy wants something in his wedding he should by all means speak up. The idea that only women can/should care about a wedding is antiquated and sexist. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 08/06/21 10:10:52 AM #9:	Ryven posted... Happy wife, happy life Ah yes that slave mentality, wonder if that continues to hold true when a wife divorce screws the man, takes most of his things, and he is living out of his car. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:956830051] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Ryven posted... </cite> <quote>Happy wife, happy life</quote>Ah yes that slave mentality, wonder if that continues to hold true when a wife divorce screws the man, takes most of his things, and he is living out of his car. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gheb 08/06/21 10:17:28 AM #10:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... Ah yes that slave mentality, wonder if that continues to hold true when a wife divorce screws the man, takes most of his things, and he is living out of his car. There is nothing wrong with happy wife/happy life as a philosophy. It just has to be matched by her having a happy husband/happy life philosophy. Relationships are all about give and take, compromise, putting their needs before your own and in turn them doing the same for you. If the relationship ever goes all-take/no-give from one of the parties, it breaks down. For many men, the wedding is a perfect example of a giving movement. It is something that the man often has few strong preferences about while the woman might have plenty. If that's the case, why wouldn't you let her substantially have the wedding she wants (while staying within your agreed upon budget of course)? So by all means "happy wife" the hell out of it. --- S** I have to stop doing that," Gheb said, as he lay back down and died again.* - Forgotten Love The Chiefs won the Super Bowl! <cite>Gheb posted [p:956830191] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>Ah yes that slave mentality, wonder if that continues to hold true when a wife divorce screws the man, takes most of his things, and he is living out of his car.</quote>There is nothing wrong with happy wife/happy life as a philosophy. It just has to be matched by her having a happy husband/happy life philosophy. Relationships are all about give and take, compromise, putting their needs before your own and in turn them doing the same for you. If the relationship ever goes all-take/no-give from one of the parties, it breaks down. For many men, the wedding is a perfect example of a giving movement. It is something that the man often has few strong preferences about while the woman might have plenty. If that's the case, why wouldn't you let her substantially have the wedding she wants (while staying within your agreed upon budget of course)? So by all means "happy wife" the hell out of it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 08/06/21 10:19:38 AM #11:	Gheb posted... If that's the case, why wouldn't you let her substantially have the wedding she wants Cause then we can't have all the groomsmen wearing armor and swords as the pastor knights me and everyone in the audience says all hail the king Or a pokemon themed wedding <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:956830249] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Gheb posted... </cite> <quote>If that's the case, why wouldn't you let her substantially have the wedding she wants</quote> Cause then we can't have all the groomsmen wearing armor and swords as the pastor knights me and everyone in the audience says all hail the king Or a pokemon themed wedding </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gheb 08/06/21 10:23:49 AM #12:	WingsOfGood posted... Cause then we can't have all the groomsmen wearing armor and swords as the pastor knights me and everyone in the audience says all hail the king Or a pokemon themed wedding Don't get me wrong, if a man's dream was for a Pokemon-themed wedding and it is truly important to him, then he needs to say something. I hope it's a conversation he has had with her before, and I'm sure there will absolutely be compromises, but he shouldn't have to set aside his wedding dreams just because of a societal norm. --- S** I have to stop doing that," Gheb said, as he lay back down and died again.* - Forgotten Love The Chiefs won the Super Bowl! <cite>Gheb posted [p:956830351] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>WingsOfGood posted... </cite> <quote>Cause then we can't have all the groomsmen wearing armor and swords as the pastor knights me and everyone in the audience says all hail the king Or a pokemon themed wedding</quote>Don't get me wrong, if a man's dream was for a Pokemon-themed wedding and it is truly important to him, then he needs to say something. I hope it's a conversation he has had with her before, and I'm sure there will absolutely be compromises, but he shouldn't have to set aside his wedding dreams just because of a societal norm. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 08/06/21 11:21:39 AM #13:	Gheb posted... Don't get me wrong, if a man's dream was for a Pokemon-themed wedding and it is truly important to him, then he needs to say something. I hope it's a conversation he has had with her before, and I'm sure there will absolutely be compromises, but he shouldn't have to set aside his wedding dreams just because of a societal norm. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKDDZHCaopI <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:956831911] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Gheb posted... </cite> <quote>Don't get me wrong, if a man's dream was for a Pokemon-themed wedding and it is truly important to him, then he needs to say something. I hope it's a conversation he has had with her before, and I'm sure there will absolutely be compromises, but he shouldn't have to set aside his wedding dreams just because of a societal norm.</quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKDDZHCaopI </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
specialkid8 08/06/21 11:24:26 AM #14:	70/30 --- https://imgur.com/AUXKMK4 <cite>specialkid8 posted [p:956832017] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>70/30 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Compsognathus 08/06/21 12:06:24 PM #15:	WingsOfGood posted... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKDDZHCaopI I made it 20 seconds before I couldn't take anymore. But good for them for having a wedding they wanted. --- Gheb is my other account <cite>Compsognathus posted [p:956833252] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>WingsOfGood posted... </cite> <quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKDDZHCaopI</quote>I made it 20 seconds before I couldn't take anymore. But good for them for having a wedding they wanted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 08/06/21 12:14:55 PM #16:	Of course not. My husband had a say in every decision. Sure he didnt want a big wedding at all but he wanted me to be happy. But we picked out everything together except for decor and stuff where he just didnt care. His family loved our wedding so much, they still talk about it to this day and my husband is really happy we went through with it and made it memorable for them. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:956833480] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Of course not. My husband had a say in every decision. Sure he didnt want a big wedding at all but he wanted me to be happy. But we picked out everything together except for decor and stuff where he just didnt care. His family loved our wedding so much, they still talk about it to this day and my husband is really happy we went through with it and made it memorable for them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 08/06/21 12:23:21 PM #17:	Cleo_II posted... Sure he didnt want a big wedding at all but he wanted me to be happy. So in other words the ceremony was about what you wanted? --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:956833724] in C/D: A wed... [t:79601156]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Sure he didnt want a big wedding at all but he wanted me to be happy.</quote>So in other words the ceremony was about what you wanted? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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