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I4NRulez 07/08/21 7:23:39 PM #1:	Long story short she's been in pain and went to the gyno the other week and they found a huge cyst. She had a bunch of tests done and she needs to have surgery. They are saying that it's more than likely she'll never be able to have kids. We haven't been dating for too long and so it's not like we're deeply committed but I was excited about our future. I'm not sure how to process this news and I'm really just trying to be there for her. Any advice? We've been dating for less than a year if that counts --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:955885628] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Long story short she's been in pain and went to the gyno the other week and they found a huge cyst. She had a bunch of tests done and she needs to have surgery. They are saying that it's more than likely she'll never be able to have kids. We haven't been dating for too long and so it's not like we're deeply committed but I was excited about our future. I'm not sure how to process this news and I'm really just trying to be there for her. Any advice? We've been dating for less than a year if that counts </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lonestar2000 07/08/21 7:25:08 PM #2:	I don't see the problem, kids suck. --- Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335 #ImpeachToadDickTrump <cite>Lonestar2000 posted [p:955885670] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>I don't see the problem, kids suck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BobanMarjanovic 07/08/21 7:25:23 PM #3:	Nice --- I killed those guys because they were awful, everybody is awful these days. <cite>BobanMarjanovic posted [p:955885679] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Nice </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ratchetrockon 07/08/21 7:25:42 PM #4:	Can always adopt --- i9 9900k \| RTX 2080ti FE \|Aorus Master Z390 \| 2 TB 850 EVO + 1tb 970 EVO\| DDR4 32 gig 3200 RAM \| EVGA T2 1000W https://valid.x86.fr/w0rvt0 <cite>Ratchetrockon posted [p:955885689] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Can always adopt </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CableZL 07/08/21 7:26:11 PM #6:	You can adopt --- https://i.imgtc.com/d9Fc4Qq.gif https://i.imgtc.com/BKHTxYq.gif https://i.imgtc.com/vYYIuDx.jpg <cite>CableZL posted [p:955885702] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>You can adopt </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CE_gonna_CE 07/08/21 7:26:17 PM #7:	Sorry to hear, thats hard news. Sounds like youre doing the right thing and helping support her though it all. I know there are other options out there: adoption, surrogate, etc, all with varying levels of expense and pros/cons, but all stuff to consider down the road if you like her and are sticking with her long term. --- https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1531-food-delivery-services-general <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:955885708] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear, thats hard news. Sounds like youre doing the right thing and helping support her though it all. I know there are other options out there: adoption, surrogate, etc, all with varying levels of expense and pros/cons, but all stuff to consider down the road if you like her and are sticking with her long term. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 07/08/21 7:26:17 PM #8:	Did you want kids? Because thats a big factor in how to move forward. --- Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon <cite>rexcrk posted [p:955885709] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Did you want kids? Because thats a big factor in how to move forward. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Big_Nabendu 07/08/21 7:26:18 PM #9:	Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass --- The embrace of the Dark is gentle. Let it absorb your sorrows, forever. \[T]/ Owner of the 500 board and Leader of sunbro board GT Nabendu <cite>Big_Nabendu posted [p:955885711] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/08/21 7:27:05 PM #10:	Have they ruled out assisted reproduction? I have PCOS and couldnt conceive on my own. Took a few IVF transfers to have my daughter. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:955885747] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Have they ruled out assisted reproduction? I have PCOS and couldnt conceive on my own. Took a few IVF transfers to have my daughter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoctorPiranha3 07/08/21 7:27:31 PM #12:	Lonestar2000 posted... I don't see the problem, kids suck. BobanMarjanovic posted... Nice <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:955885756] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Lonestar2000 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't see the problem, kids suck.</quote> BobanMarjanovic posted... </cite> <quote>Nice</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MixedRaceBaby 07/08/21 7:27:40 PM #13:	Jesus fuck at the insensitive assholes posting in this post Fuck off with your no kids shit, TC is clearly torn about this What's next? " I have cancer" "Lucky! I want to die! Life sucks!" Fuck --- For the mixed race babies! <cite>MixedRaceBaby posted [p:955885760] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Jesus fuck at the insensitive assholes posting in this post Fuck off with your no kids shit, TC is clearly torn about this What's next? " I have cancer" "Lucky! I want to die! Life sucks!" Fuck </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RemixRBG 07/08/21 7:27:44 PM #14:	Do you love her and want a future with her? You could adopt a child. Or even look into multiple wives --- https://youtu.be/DvtxaYIjLqg - The Real Thugs and Criminals <cite>RemixRBG posted [p:955885764] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Do you love her and want a future with her? You could adopt a child. Or even look into multiple wives </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThePrinceFish 07/08/21 7:28:31 PM #15:	Very tragic. People joking about how good it is to be found to be infertile are disgusting. --- Then shall the righteous shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Who hath ears to hear, let him hear. <cite>ThePrinceFish posted [p:955885791] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Very tragic. People joking about how good it is to be found to be infertile are disgusting. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unite 07/08/21 7:29:13 PM #16:	A blessing the perfect wife. Its sounds like you really wanted kids with her. You guys should look into adopting a kid. <cite>Unite posted [p:955885817] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>A blessing the perfect wife. Its sounds like you really wanted kids with her. You guys should look into adopting a kid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 07/08/21 7:29:35 PM #17:	Could always look into surrogation. Or beyond that, adoption as well. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:955885828] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Could always look into surrogation. Or beyond that, adoption as well. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
monkmith 07/08/21 7:30:24 PM #18:	Ratchetrockon posted... Can always adopt i want to say this, but holy hell is the adoption process broken as fuck in this country. it can take literally years. --- Taarsidath-an halsaam. Quando il gioco e finito, il re e il pedone vanno nella stessa scatola <cite>monkmith posted [p:955885852] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Ratchetrockon posted... </cite> <quote>Can always adopt</quote>i want to say this, but holy hell is the adoption process broken as fuck in this country. it can take literally years. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ratchetrockon 07/08/21 7:30:54 PM #19:	.. is it possible to have another woman give birth to your kids but with both of ur genes? Im honestly not sure and it might be really costly. --- i9 9900k \| RTX 2080ti FE \|Aorus Master Z390 \| 2 TB 850 EVO + 1tb 970 EVO\| DDR4 32 gig 3200 RAM \| EVGA T2 1000W https://valid.x86.fr/w0rvt0 <cite>Ratchetrockon posted [p:955885865] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>.. is it possible to have another woman give birth to your kids but with both of ur genes? Im honestly not sure and it might be really costly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 07/08/21 7:31:11 PM #20:	Adopt me --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:955885870] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Adopt me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
googs19 07/08/21 7:31:19 PM #21:	Hopefully she is up for adoption (assuming she wants kids) and doesn't end up like my wife's aunt, a bitter old woman who gets drunk at every family get-together and complains that she was never able to have kids. <cite>googs19 posted [p:955885874] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Hopefully she is up for adoption (assuming she wants kids) and doesn't end up like my wife's aunt, a bitter old woman who gets drunk at every family get-together and complains that she was never able to have kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Middle hope 07/08/21 7:31:50 PM #22:	MixedRaceBaby posted... Jesus fuck at the insensitive assholes posting in this post Fuck off with your no kids shit, TC is clearly torn about this What's next? " I have cancer" "Lucky! I want to die! Life sucks!" Fuck Well Lonestar2000 is always super anti kids for some strange reason --- https://imgur.com/iQep35u https://imgur.com/PmX8smn https://imgur.com/mwTy0iF https://imgur.com/FCER80e <cite>Middle hope posted [p:955885888] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>MixedRaceBaby posted... </cite> <quote>Jesus fuck at the insensitive assholes posting in this post Fuck off with your no kids shit, TC is clearly torn about this What's next? " I have cancer" "Lucky! I want to die! Life sucks!" Fuck</quote>Well Lonestar2000 is always super anti kids for some strange reason </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 07/08/21 7:32:05 PM #23:	ThePrinceFish posted... Very tragic. People joking about how good it is to be found to be infertile are disgusting. Your disgusting for suggesting it's a huge tragedy to be infertile. It's really not a big deal TC! Also it's just a cist. She can probably still have kids the doctors are just being "worst-casers." --- Marvel presents Marvel Marvel's The Marvels <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:955885894] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>ThePrinceFish posted... </cite> <quote>Very tragic. People joking about how good it is to be found to be infertile are disgusting.</quote> Your disgusting for suggesting it's a huge tragedy to be infertile. It's really not a big deal TC! Also it's just a cist. She can probably still have kids the doctors are just being "worst-casers." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 07/08/21 7:32:57 PM #25:	Ratchetrockon posted... Can always adopt CableZL posted... You can adopt We honestly havent even discussed kids at all up until this point and now the option is just off the table. I mean we could adopt but idk if our relationship is even there. Cleo_II posted... Have they ruled out assisted reproduction? I have PCOS and couldnt conceive on my own. Took a few IVF transfers to have my daughter. They thought it was PCOS at first but apparently the cyst is so large they are removing an ovary and they are saying its "highly unlikely" that she could have kids. She said it sounded like a nice way of saying "dont even think about it" RemixRBG posted... Do you love her and want a future with her? You could adopt a child. Or even look into multiple wives Multiple Wives is definitely out the question lol but idk she's a great person but i feel like we still havent learned everything about each other yet. Big_Nabendu posted... Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass I'm going to ignore the rest of the insensitive posts but shes not a damaged person and im not placing value on her ability to have kids or not. She's still an amazing person. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:955885917] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Ratchetrockon posted... </cite> <quote>Can always adopt</quote> CableZL posted... </cite> <quote>You can adopt</quote> We honestly havent even discussed kids at all up until this point and now the option is just off the table. I mean we could adopt but idk if our relationship is even there. Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Have they ruled out assisted reproduction? I have PCOS and couldnt conceive on my own. Took a few IVF transfers to have my daughter.</quote> They thought it was PCOS at first but apparently the cyst is so large they are removing an ovary and they are saying its "highly unlikely" that she could have kids. She said it sounded like a nice way of saying "dont even think about it" RemixRBG posted... </cite> <quote>Do you love her and want a future with her? You could adopt a child. Or even look into multiple wives</quote> Multiple Wives is definitely out the question lol but idk she's a great person but i feel like we still havent learned everything about each other yet. Big_Nabendu posted... </cite> <quote>Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass</quote> I'm going to ignore the rest of the insensitive posts but shes not a damaged person and im not placing value on her ability to have kids or not. She's still an amazing person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/08/21 7:33:00 PM #26:	I don't think many people here are mature enough to really relate to something like this unfortunately. It sucks and honestly I don't really have an answer for you. But I suppose remember that if you're struggling to process the news imagine how she feels. Potentially this is devastating news for her. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:955885920] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>I don't think many people here are mature enough to really relate to something like this unfortunately. It sucks and honestly I don't really have an answer for you. But I suppose remember that if you're struggling to process the news imagine how she feels. Potentially this is devastating news for her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 07/08/21 7:33:47 PM #27:	My ex fiance also had cervical cysts. There was a point were I felt like I wanted children but the relationship didn't work out due to my own folly. She also had a thyroid condition which affected her sex drive, which caused problems in the relationship. The important thing is that you are there for each other emotionally. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM 1970-2020 (G.O.A.T.) <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:955885947] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>My ex fiance also had cervical cysts. There was a point were I felt like I wanted children but the relationship didn't work out due to my own folly. She also had a thyroid condition which affected her sex drive, which caused problems in the relationship. The important thing is that you are there for each other emotionally. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nukazie 07/08/21 7:33:59 PM #28:	Irony posted... Adopt me --- Life is just a journey from the maternity ward to the crematorium. <cite>Nukazie posted [p:955885955] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Irony posted... </cite> <quote>Adopt me</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
1NfamousACE_2 07/08/21 7:37:54 PM #29:	If you're dead set on eventually having kids, its best to leave as soon as possible. --- Brady will never receive a HOF vote. He has been blackballed for cheating. - DeadCellReborn <cite>1NfamousACE_2 posted [p:955886067] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>If you're dead set on eventually having kids, its best to leave as soon as possible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BakonBitz 07/08/21 7:42:59 PM #31:	Big_Nabendu posted... Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass You sound very young with that last comment. Am I to guess 14? --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA <cite>BakonBitz posted [p:955886239] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Big_Nabendu posted... </cite> <quote>Do u want kids? U can adopt. Or try with her. There are ways. You want a kid guaranteed? Dump her damaged ass</quote>You sound very young with that last comment. Am I to guess 14? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/08/21 7:43:25 PM #32:	Im sorry TC. That sort of news is so rough to hear. But if she still has a functional ovary it should still be possible just more difficult. My mom had 1 ovary after losing one to an ectopic pregnancy and was still able to have 3 kids after, without any medical intervention. There are still other methods like IVF and IUI. A friend of mine has diminishing eggs already at 30 and got pregnant with IUI. Maybe it might be beneficial for her to see a fertility specialist to understand her options and odds? <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:955886255] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Im sorry TC. That sort of news is so rough to hear. But if she still has a functional ovary it should still be possible just more difficult. My mom had 1 ovary after losing one to an ectopic pregnancy and was still able to have 3 kids after, without any medical intervention. There are still other methods like IVF and IUI. A friend of mine has diminishing eggs already at 30 and got pregnant with IUI. Maybe it might be beneficial for her to see a fertility specialist to understand her options and odds? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/08/21 7:44:58 PM #34:	Cleo_II posted... Im sorry TC. That sort of news is so rough to hear. But if she still has a functional ovary it should still be possible just more difficult. My mom had 1 ovary after losing one to an ectopic pregnancy and was still able to have 3 kids after, without any medical intervention. There are still other methods like IVF and IUI. A friend of mine has diminishing eggs already at 30 and got pregnant with IUI. Maybe it might be beneficial for her to see a fertility specialist to understand her options and odds? From what i understand so far is that number one priority is to take out the huge cyst thats there. Other most likely scenario is that they will take out the ovary its in and they will try to save the other. Worst case scenario is that its cancerous and they take it all out. Uterus and all --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:955886301] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Im sorry TC. That sort of news is so rough to hear. But if she still has a functional ovary it should still be possible just more difficult. My mom had 1 ovary after losing one to an ectopic pregnancy and was still able to have 3 kids after, without any medical intervention. There are still other methods like IVF and IUI. A friend of mine has diminishing eggs already at 30 and got pregnant with IUI. Maybe it might be beneficial for her to see a fertility specialist to understand her options and odds?</quote> From what i understand so far is that number one priority is to take out the huge cyst thats there. Other most likely scenario is that they will take out the ovary its in and they will try to save the other. Worst case scenario is that its cancerous and they take it all out. Uterus and all </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 07/08/21 7:48:01 PM #35:	Big_Nabendu posted... Dump her damaged ass This is extremely disgusting, and reduces the woman only to her ability to have kids. --- I often wonder if we are growing as a people... or in fact, regressing. <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:955886389] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Big_Nabendu posted... </cite> <quote>Dump her damaged ass</quote>This is extremely disgusting, and reduces the woman only to her ability to have kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 07/08/21 7:54:18 PM #36:	As a totally infertile woman, let me tell you... The difference in how a cis woman is treated when this stuff happens versus how I'm treated is disgusting. My advice is to just be there for her and figure out if you're mature enough to keep going with her. Unless you were actively trying for kids it isn't like it was on the table right now, so you would still have had time regardless to figure out your direction with her. At the very least, if you do end up finding it too much for you to handle? Don't put any blame on her. Put it all on yourself for insecurities. Otherwise? It'll destroy her. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:955886585] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>As a totally infertile woman, let me tell you... The difference in how a cis woman is treated when this stuff happens versus how I'm treated is disgusting. My advice is to just be there for her and figure out if you're mature enough to keep going with her. Unless you were actively trying for kids it isn't like it was on the table right now, so you would still have had time regardless to figure out your direction with her. At the very least, if you do end up finding it too much for you to handle? Don't put any blame on her. Put it all on yourself for insecurities. Otherwise? It'll destroy her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/08/21 7:54:44 PM #37:	I4NRulez posted... From what i understand so far is that number one priority is to take out the huge cyst thats there. Other most likely scenario is that they will take out the ovary its in and they will try to save the other. Worst case scenario is that its cancerous and they take it all out. Uterus and all Well Im hoping for the best for her. I had a 2.5 cm cyst removed that was non cancerous. Hopefully they can remove hers safely. Cysts are more common than we realize. I have a friend whose cyst ruptured and she ended up in the ER. Shes the one I mentioned is currently pregnant. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:955886600] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>I4NRulez posted... </cite> <quote>From what i understand so far is that number one priority is to take out the huge cyst thats there. Other most likely scenario is that they will take out the ovary its in and they will try to save the other. Worst case scenario is that its cancerous and they take it all out. Uterus and all</quote>Well Im hoping for the best for her. I had a 2.5 cm cyst removed that was non cancerous. Hopefully they can remove hers safely. Cysts are more common than we realize. I have a friend whose cyst ruptured and she ended up in the ER. Shes the one I mentioned is currently pregnant. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/08/21 7:57:08 PM #40:	gunplagirl posted... At the very least, if you do end up finding it too much for you to handle? Don't put any blame on her. Put it all on yourself for insecurities. Otherwise? It'll destroy her. wtf is this even? How would i be insecure if i want to have biological kids. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:955886674] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>At the very least, if you do end up finding it too much for you to handle? Don't put any blame on her. Put it all on yourself for insecurities. Otherwise? It'll destroy her.</quote> wtf is this even? How would i be insecure if i want to have biological kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_SilverX 07/08/21 7:57:16 PM #41:	best news. condoms can be burned now. --- Resident Evil: Resistance is best Resident Evil. don't compare games to feces -- if you've an opinion worth mentioning, do so civilly <cite>Dark_SilverX posted [p:955886678] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>best news. condoms can be burned now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 07/08/21 8:00:58 PM #42:	<a onclick="return show_quoted_message(400, 79555143, 955885670, '9130c05e');" href="/boards/400-current-events/79555143/955885670">Lonestar2000 posted... </a> I don't see the problem, kids suck. <a onclick="return show_quoted_message(400, 79555143, 955885679, '9130c05e');" href="/boards/400-current-events/79555143/955885679">BobanMarjanovic posted... </a> Nice You know. Because your desired life is fit for everyone else. God forbid you fucking empathize or at least realize that TC wanted kids, or at least the option if he decided that down the road. I don't even want kids myself but my God posts like this are absolutely asinine and callous and show how well-adjusted some of you are. --- she/her -- My Server, Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/emd My PMD Rescue Server: https://discord.gg/E57gMQq <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:955886783] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote><a onclick="return show_quoted_message(400, 79555143, 955885670, '9130c05e');" href="/boards/400-current-events/79555143/955885670">Lonestar2000 posted... </a></cite> <quote>I don't see the problem, kids suck.</quote> <a onclick="return show_quoted_message(400, 79555143, 955885679, '9130c05e');" href="/boards/400-current-events/79555143/955885679">BobanMarjanovic posted... </a></cite> <quote>Nice</quote> You know. Because your desired life is fit for everyone else. God forbid you fucking empathize or at least realize that TC wanted kids, or at least the option if he decided that down the road. I don't even want kids myself but my God posts like this are absolutely asinine and callous and show how well-adjusted some of you are. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 07/08/21 8:10:10 PM #43:	Conflict posted... Err... I'm going to need you to elaborate on that Being referred to as "not a woman" for starters, and there's plenty worse I hear with regularity that I'd get modded for reposting. I4NRulez posted... wtf is this even? How would i be insecure if i want to have biological kids. As opposed to mechanical kids? Anyways, what I'm saying is that you would need to "it's me, all me" for her. Is it so hard to intentionally play the bad guy? --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:955887039] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Conflict posted... </cite> <quote>Err... I'm going to need you to elaborate on that</quote>Being referred to as "not a woman" for starters, and there's plenty worse I hear with regularity that I'd get modded for reposting. I4NRulez posted... </cite> <quote>wtf is this even? How would i be insecure if i want to have biological kids.</quote>As opposed to mechanical kids? Anyways, what I'm saying is that you would need to "it's me, all me" for her. Is it so hard to intentionally play the bad guy? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorPiranha3 07/08/21 8:12:11 PM #44:	"I want kids! But they have to be MY DNA! Which will get diluted beyond recognition within a couple of generations anways!" The ultimate selfishness. <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:955887098] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>"I want kids! But they have to be MY DNA! Which will get diluted beyond recognition within a couple of generations anways!" The ultimate selfishness. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rain_Dust 07/08/21 8:17:45 PM #46:	Holy shit this board. They can take her eggs and mix your juice and put it in someone else. Its pretty expensive but if you want it you want it. --- We used to have empires ruled by emperors. There used to be kingdoms lead by kings. Now all we got are countries. <cite>Rain_Dust posted [p:955887263] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Holy shit this board. They can take her eggs and mix your juice and put it in someone else. Its pretty expensive but if you want it you want it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RenescoStCewl 07/08/21 8:18:51 PM #48:	monkmith posted... i want to say this, but holy hell is the adoption process broken as fuck in this country. it can take literally years. My wife and I adopted a baby boy 2 months ago. It was almost a 3 year wait. Though foster to adopt kids quicker. My wife was set on getting a newborn. It was totally worth the wait. I love him so much. --- sTrOM ThuRmONd!!! <cite>RenescoStCewl posted [p:955887296] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>monkmith posted... </cite> <quote>i want to say this, but holy hell is the adoption process broken as fuck in this country. it can take literally years.</quote>My wife and I adopted a baby boy 2 months ago. It was almost a 3 year wait. Though foster to adopt kids quicker. My wife was set on getting a newborn. It was totally worth the wait. I love him so much. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 07/08/21 8:19:13 PM #49:	DoctorPiranha3 posted... "I want kids! But they have to be MY DNA! Which will get diluted beyond recognition within a couple of generations anways!" The ultimate selfishness. I'd like my kids to share my features? I wouldn't be against adopting but i won't apologize for wanting my kids to be a combination of the two of us. gunplagirl posted... As opposed to mechanical kids? Anyways, what I'm saying is that you would need to "it's me, all me" for her. Is it so hard to intentionally play the bad guy? Thats stupid. When we talk about it and if it comes to that it would be condescending to say "It's not your inability to have kids that's the reason I'm breaking up with you" when we'd clearly know that's the issue. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:955887310] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>DoctorPiranha3 posted... </cite> <quote>"I want kids! But they have to be MY DNA! Which will get diluted beyond recognition within a couple of generations anways!" The ultimate selfishness.</quote> I'd like my kids to share my features? I wouldn't be against adopting but i won't apologize for wanting my kids to be a combination of the two of us. gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>As opposed to mechanical kids? Anyways, what I'm saying is that you would need to "it's me, all me" for her. Is it so hard to intentionally play the bad guy?</quote> Thats stupid. When we talk about it and if it comes to that it would be condescending to say "It's not your inability to have kids that's the reason I'm breaking up with you" when we'd clearly know that's the issue. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 07/08/21 8:19:16 PM #50:	Conflict posted... That is dehumanizing, yes But it is kinda weird to bring this up in a topic where people are literally calling TC's GF "damaged" Still better than what I've heard, but I guess you have a point that distracting from the insensitive people is gonna mean that many less meltdowns later when at least one gets warned for it. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:955887311] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Conflict posted... </cite> <quote>That is dehumanizing, yes But it is kinda weird to bring this up in a topic where people are literally calling TC's GF "damaged"</quote>Still better than what I've heard, but I guess you have a point that distracting from the insensitive people is gonna mean that many less meltdowns later when at least one gets warned for it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 07/08/21 8:25:22 PM #52:	Same kind of thing happened with an ex. She had a cyst and had her entire left ovarie removed when she was 16. They told her she'd probably never have kids. Fast forward 22 years later and she had 5. --- I don't want this man's life, I just want his sandwiches. <cite>Lukey_Bug posted [p:955887489] in I just fou... [t:79555143]...</cite> <quote>Same kind of thing happened with an ex. She had a cyst and had her entire left ovarie removed when she was 16. They told her she'd probably never have kids. Fast forward 22 years later and she had 5. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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