Current Events > Miscarriage wasn't enough... she might have cancer.

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AdrianBeterson
02/05/21 6:06:50 PM
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sorry to hear this. Just FYI: its called a molar pregnancy, and it has like a .1% chance of developing into choriocarcinoma, a very rare form of ovarian cancer. The probability of that is slim to none, and the blood work your doctor is suggesting is purely routine for the condition. She will be okay and healthy to have another pregnancy in the future

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Ruvan22
02/05/21 6:21:57 PM
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I'm really sorry... wish there was more I could say
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lww99
02/05/21 6:30:42 PM
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ill have to ask her if her dr mentioned it. It does sound accurate

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SonicZack
02/05/21 6:55:46 PM
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My wife has gone through 4 miscarriages in the 5 years we have been trying. I am sorry for your loss.

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LeadPipeCinche
02/05/21 7:38:11 PM
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SonicZack posted...
My wife has gone through 4 miscarriages in the 5 years we have been trying. I am sorry for your loss.


Holy shit i thought I was the only to go through that many. I had it happen with 3 different girlfriends & then once more with my wife between our sons.
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Tonyjaa
02/05/21 7:46:03 PM
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I don't post here much but happened to see this topic. Prayers TC. I hope you and your wife get through this
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winged_weltall
02/05/21 7:46:07 PM
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Dude really sorry for you TC. Wishing you and your SO all the best for getting through this difficult time.
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MrToothHasYou
02/05/21 7:55:00 PM
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My sister also lost a set of twins two years ago, and this year they tried again and I got to hold my new nephew in my arms for the first time in December. I hope that everything works out for you two, but know youre never alone in your grief.

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ApexEditor
02/05/21 7:58:11 PM
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2 sperms forming a child without any chromosome from the egg? How does that even work?
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kirbyakaZ
02/05/21 8:03:07 PM
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Wow I didn't even know that was a thing, that's horrible.

But like many others have said, this isn't your fault or her fault. This is a freak thing that happened and you should focus on yourselves and trying all you can to support each other. Maybe get into couples therapy now to work though it together.

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FortuneCookie
02/05/21 8:03:43 PM
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Sorry, man. I hope things go well for her. :(
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ThanksUglyGod
02/05/21 8:14:38 PM
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I'm so sorry, TC. I'm pulling for you and your fiancee.
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sktgamer_13dude
02/05/21 9:02:51 PM
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Damn TC. Sorry to hear, hope everything is just precautionary and that everything will work out in the end for you two.
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AdrianBeterson
02/05/21 9:10:31 PM
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ApexEditor posted...
2 sperms forming a child without any chromosome from the egg? How does that even work?
It doesn't form a child. It's an empty egg fertilized by 2 sperm cells, but your body thinks there's a child, so it starts going through the whole pregnancy physiology which allows the egg to grow despite there not being anything in it. It's actually not that uncommon.

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supercurrymax
02/05/21 9:17:37 PM
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Is there a name for this

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Johnny_Nutcase
02/05/21 9:17:37 PM
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Holy shit that's insane man. Sorry to hear that. I'm not gonna lie, I would be blaming myself if that happened too, and it's probably natural to think that way, but ultimately it's just nobodies fault.

Hope everything works out.

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AdrianBeterson
02/05/21 9:18:13 PM
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supercurrymax posted...
Is there a name for this
molar pregnancy

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lww99
02/05/21 9:51:18 PM
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ROBANN_88
02/06/21 6:40:06 AM
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AdrianBeterson posted...
It's an empty egg fertilized by 2 sperm cells
There can be empty eggs?
What does that even mean?

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AdrianBeterson
02/06/21 6:52:15 AM
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ROBANN_88 posted...
There can be empty eggs?
What does that even mean?
Error in meiosis (the thing your learned in high school biology) that creates an egg with no chromosomes in it, thus no way to create a human from it.

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apolloooo
02/06/21 7:00:23 AM
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lww99 posted...
It is and it isnt idk.

like obviously I didnt want this to happen. But the bottom line is I did do this to her.
No you didn't man. It's not anyone's fault. Nobody could've known this whatever you do don't blame yourself. Be strong for both of you.

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DocileOrangeCup
02/06/21 7:30:51 AM
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fuckin hell im so sorry, that's really fucked up. I'm glad the chances are low but I'm really sorry you've had such a bad year.

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lww99
02/06/21 2:21:56 PM
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Thanks for the well wishes everyone. Much appreciated.

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CM_Ponch
02/07/21 7:54:56 PM
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Hoping for the best.

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Machete
02/07/21 7:58:54 PM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
Wow I didn't even know such a thing was possible, that's so shitty. Hoping for the best dude.

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WrestlinFan
02/07/21 7:59:14 PM
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Im so sorry TC. Youre in my thoughts.

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lww99
02/07/21 8:13:21 PM
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SubtletyRefuge posted...
Just saw this. I'm sorry to hear that TC. Hopefully she doesn't have cancer and you can try again.

even if she doesnt have cancer, its hard to want to try again.

just seems so risky now. Like a normal miscarriage is hard enough. Even more so when your first pregnancy is actually a bomb of precancerous cells.

it feels like such a huge risk now.

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Ruvan22
02/07/21 8:45:02 PM
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lww99 posted...
even if she doesnt have cancer, its hard to want to try again.

just seems so risky now. Like a normal miscarriage is hard enough. Even more so when your first pregnancy is actually a bomb of precancerous cells.

it feels like such a huge risk now.
I can see that...it's fine to hold off for now..you aren't making any permanent decisions. Sharing the silence between yourselves is not just good but important.
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