Current Events > Anyone else willing to do anything to have a girlfriend or wife?

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To have a woman who loves me and wants to sleep with me is something that others don't appreciate it

Learn to appreciate yourself first.

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No, I got out of a 15 month relationship in October last year. I'm enjoying being single.

I want to get laid sometimes, but that's all right now.

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Ving_Rhames posted...

Learn to appreciate yourself first.

Damn, guess I'm doomed forever

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Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!
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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

Pretty much how this goes.

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As someone who was like this - that attitude tends to lead to heartbreak at best, and being used at worst.

Find other stuff to keep you occupied in the meantime. That's not to say don't pursue (not to a creepy extent tho, this is very important) opportunities that come up, but don't let your life revolve around it. Something will come along sooner or later.

I know that sounds cliche as fuck but it's literally what happened for me.

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I already have one though.
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Not really. I'd probably do for an exclusive fwb tho.

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Chill the fuck out, my dude. There's more to life than having a girlfriend.

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jeffhardyb0yz posted...

This post made me fucking LOL

SO TRUE

same lol

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oh and to answer the thread, yeah kinda. i dont know why. i thinks it just bullshit disney stuff that brainwashes me into thinking i need a relationshio

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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

Its funny cause if they were doing that women would follow. And i understand because going to the gym and working out sucks.

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you mean be a kind and respectful partner to her? sure i am...

EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

https://youtu.be/UdbHiDnbhb0

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Yes.

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Dont be desperate my dude

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Noumas posted...

To have a woman who loves me and wants to sleep with me is something that others don't appreciate it

How old are you?

I'm 36 and I don't really want a girlfriend right now.

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I'm 27 and already met her. This was after several other learning experiences with other women and lots of self-building, though.

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ImAMarvel posted...

EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

There are many men out there who do none of those things and manage to get laid.

Maybe if they did those things they'd get laid even more.

And besides, some people don't have to study to make good grades. Just because those people exist doesn't mean you're entitled to good grades without studying yourself.
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Not really.

I'm at the "no options" step, and moving forward means getting "some options"... which just means then I have to spend time finding a person under a whole different set of conditions.

Also psych drugs kill my sex drive anyway.

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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

But don't I need a bride first?

No. Women aren't difficult. It's finding one you want to be with that's hard.

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I already have a girlfriend, and it's going great right now.
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nope

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My maid told me to not get any funny ideas. And also that I'm too weak and worthless for a relationship anyway. Then she picked me up and carried me to my bed because I gave up halfway up the staircase.

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vigorm0rtis posted...

No. Women aren't difficult. It's finding one you want to be with that's hard.

How do you know who is the one?

women can smell desperation...
and they dont like how it smells.

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Noumas posted...

How do you know who is the one?

The one :3. Not how it works. That belief can be harmless, but other times it makes you make poor choices. There is no perfect woman for you. There's women who will sync up better than others. Just like there are friends that sync up better than others. The difference is that you usually and respectfully just pick one of the former at a time.

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DravenRainrix posted...

women can smell desperation...
and they dont like how it smells.

Its like when you want grab and hold onto something so hard you end up popping it, even though you just really wanted it

Lost_All_Senses posted...

The one :3. Not how it works. That belief can be harmless, but other times it makes you make poor choices. There is no perfect woman for you. There's women who will sync up better than others. Just like there are friends that sync up better than others. The difference is that you usually and respectfully just pick one of the former at a time.

But when will you know? How do you know if it's love yet?

How does it feel when the girl next to you says she loves you?

Seems so unfair when there's love everywhere but there's none for me

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To be real my priorities are more important than a relationship and the compromises that come with it for now. If I find someone I jive with well that has the same priorities (unlikely) then I'll roll with it.

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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

"Professor, I'd do anything for an A." *shows cleavage*

"Anything?"

"Anything." *spreads legs*

"Would you study?"
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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

So I do this, I am a forever alone virgin, and I wouldn't do anything to have a girlfriend that loves me. I want to find the right person. I would do anything for an extremely smart, beautiful, and young woman, though. I think pretty much any man would.

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St0rmFury posted...

"Professor, I'd do anything for an A." *shows cleavage*

"Anything?"

"Anything." *spreads legs*

"Would you study?"

Don't ruin the perfect porn set up like that!

And no, I'm happier single than when I've been in a relationship.

Noumas posted...

How do you know who is the one?

There is no "one." Just one that fits into your life.

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Noumas posted...

To have a woman who loves me and wants to sleep with me is something that others don't appreciate it

btw many armchair psychologists would say that the only reason you feel this way is because you give off a depseration vibe and women hate desperation/needy men

women get to be needy and desperate all they want bc, like, it was you who asked lol

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EffectAndCause posted...

Ill do anything!
Go to the gym every day, dress better and groom yourself.
No not that!

Gym necessary if you aint fat? Cause most women swear to me they aren't attracted to muscular dudes. Most usually when its brought up half naked muscle dudes is the male equivalent of skimpy dressed girls in video games.

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mooreandrew58 posted...

Gym necessary if you aint fat? Cause most women swear to me they aren't attracted to muscular dudes. Most usually when its brought up half naked muscle dudes is the male equivalent of skimpy dressed girls in video games.

Honestly the vibe I get is just don't be a fucking fat lard-ass. A lot of women will like muscles as an added bonus, sure, but I've had a little beer gut for most of my adult life and had zero problems dating. I'd never call being muscular a "requirement." I never once got myself into a "muscular" or even "toned" physical state. But I also didn't let myself get morbidly disgustingly fat to the point where my rolls require cleaning of the underside.

tldr: muscles help but aren't required. don't be fat

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PatrickMahomes posted...

Honestly the vibe I get is just don't be a fucking fat lard-ass. A lot of women will like muscles as an added bonus, sure, but I've had a little beer gut for most of my adult life and had zero problems dating. I'd never call being muscular a "requirement." I never once got myself into a "muscular" or even "toned" physical state. But I also didn't let myself get morbidly disgustingly fat to the point where my rolls require cleaning of the underside.

tldr: muscles help but aren't required. don't be fat

I dont know muscles even help. As said ive had many women say they didnt like muscles. Sometimes ive felt it was just being said to deflect that argument I mentioned earlier but when I pay attention to what celebs are popular with the ladies maybe they are telling the truth.

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mooreandrew58 posted...

I dont know muscles even help. As said ive had many women say they didnt like muscles. Sometimes ive felt it was just being said to deflect that argument I mentioned earlier but when I pay attention to what celebs are popular with the ladies maybe they are telling the truth.

It depends on the level of "muscular" we're talking about. In my experience, women like a little muscle, that's for sure. But I think when women say "I don't like muscles" they're talking about the ripped bodybuilders who spend six hours at the gym a day.

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PatrickMahomes posted...

It depends on the level of "muscular" we're talking about. In my experience, women like a little muscle, that's for sure. But I think when women say "I don't like muscles" they're talking about the ripped bodybuilders who spend six hours at the gym a day.

That might be about right as ther only "muscular" I remember women going super crazy for was werewolf dude from twillight. But they went just as crazy from sparkly boy as well. So boils down to down be fat I guess.

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In Europe women definitely like the thin lean men, they do not go for strong fat body type at all. They just like super skinny tall guys