Current Events > So I dated my co worker of four years..

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Iwin2013
01/17/21 5:23:04 PM
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Up until the forth year; Things were great. Sex was great(Hit it nine times. A personal record.) Anyways, forth year, she kinda changed. Anything romantic that I did, she crushed or ruined in some way. We ended up talking and she was living a second life. I mean, I did not noticed this, as anytime she mentioned someone else was that he cheated. Now I'm "single", but I kinda still love her... But the hurt is too much; I guess I should've seen alot of this coming. Inb4thistotallyhappened Inb4rushingtoCEstatement
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shironinja
01/17/21 5:23:49 PM
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Attachment is the root of all suffering.

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Socrawheeze
01/17/21 5:24:41 PM
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How long has it been?
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AdrianBeterson
01/17/21 5:26:55 PM
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Sorry to hear this. I just went through something similar with a coworker just last week. I think the lesson learned is relationships with coworkers almost never work out, and they usually end badly.

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Ivynn
01/17/21 5:28:25 PM
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That's why they say not to shit where you eat. Sorry that happened to you.

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Kobe Bryant
01/17/21 5:28:45 PM
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How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao

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Joker98
01/17/21 5:29:17 PM
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I hesitated to date a girl I worked with last year. I didn't like her enough to see myself with her forever, so I thought a breakup would be inevitable. Fast forward to now, It's COVID and we don't work together anymore anyway and I probably could've dated her with no real issues (I'm probably not going back to the same job after COVID).

Lots of probably's and I don't actually regret my decision to not date her, but ya know how it is

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Joker98
01/17/21 5:30:15 PM
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Kobe Bryant posted...
How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao
I was wondering that too. In my 4+ year relationship, we had sex hundreds of times

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jon1012
01/17/21 5:30:57 PM
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Wait...

In 1,460 days you only hit that 9 times?

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smoke_break
01/17/21 5:31:38 PM
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Kobe Bryant posted...
How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao
Not trying to poke fun at TC but that was my first thought too, like whoa.

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g0ldie
01/17/21 5:32:34 PM
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I'm assuming that the TC meant they smashed 9 times in a day, but I could be wrong.

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AmericaTheBrave
01/17/21 5:33:15 PM
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Yeah, I'm gonna need an explanation of why he only hit that 9 times in 4 years.

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Socrawheeze
01/17/21 5:34:31 PM
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How many times they fucked isn't the point of the thread though. She was living a double life so she probably wasn't too into tc and only used him in desperate situations. He might have been smitten or it was his first real relationship form his perspective, so he either didn't know or didn't care that that was very rare
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AdrianBeterson
01/17/21 5:35:01 PM
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Socrawheeze posted...
How many times they fucked isn't the point of the thread though. She was living a double life so she probably wasn't too into tc and only used him in desperate situations. He might have been smitten or it was his first real relationship form his perspective, so he either didn't know or didn't care that that was very rare
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Master Kazuya
01/17/21 5:35:16 PM
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g0ldie posted...
I'm assuming that the TC meant they smashed 9 times in a day, but I could be wrong.

This is the only way it makes sense

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No_U_L7
01/17/21 5:35:34 PM
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Socrawheeze posted...
How many times they fucked isn't the point of the thread though. She was living a double life so she probably wasn't too into tc and only used him in desperate situations. He might have been smitten or it was his first real relationship form his perspective, so he either didn't know or didn't care that that was very rare


Yeah sounds like they weren't really dating lol
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Iwin2013
01/17/21 5:35:50 PM
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Kobe Bryant posted...
How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao

Joker98 posted...
I was wondering that too. In my 4+ year relationship, we had sex hundreds of times

jon1012 posted...
Wait...

In 1,460 days you only hit that 9 times?

When you both live with families, it's hard to get enough alone time. I spend half my time caring for my disabled mother and brother, and she lives at home with her mother and two brothers. So we'd have to get a room half the time, and spend a weekend or two. And it's even harder to convince someone even though, you pay most of the bills that it's not your mother's house; She just lives with you cause of her medical issues.
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Choco
01/17/21 5:37:09 PM
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why does this read like a bad copypasta

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Iwin2013
01/17/21 5:37:28 PM
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g0ldie posted...
I'm assuming that the TC meant they smashed 9 times in a day, but I could be wrong.

I could be wrong on the count too. Sometimes I'd wake up and we'd already be in bed, naked.
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SrRd_RacinG
01/17/21 5:37:47 PM
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shironinja posted...
Attachment is the root of all suffering.
My Buddha brother.

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Master Kazuya
01/17/21 5:46:21 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
When you both live with families, it's hard to get enough alone time. I spend half my time caring for my disabled mother and brother, and she lives at home with her mother and two brothers. So we'd have to get a room half the time, and spend a weekend or two. And it's even harder to convince someone even though, you pay most of the bills that it's not your mother's house; She just lives with you cause of her medical issues.

Do you think maybe the frequency of sex could've been a negative sign of the relationship? Whether that's the cause of her being shitty and cheating, or a symptom of her being shitty. Anyway, I feel like having sex an average of twice a year with someone who's your new GF is the same frequency of what people would consider a dead bedroom after several years of marriage. It's possible that maybe the urge didn't come up but you know your body better than I do. Sounds like you enjoyed it. Just seems like a bad sign overall (unless both people really don't feel like banging ever).

Also if you really wanna fuck, you'll find a way. In the car, somewhere public, quickies when everyone's asleep, not giving a fuck and knowing you pay the bills so you're allowed to enjoy yourself in your own house, etc.

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voldothegr8
01/17/21 5:48:06 PM
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lmao this has to be a pasta
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Joker98
01/17/21 5:48:09 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Do you think maybe the frequency of sex could've been a negative sign of the relationship? Whether that's the cause of her being shitty and cheating, or a symptom of her being shitty. Anyway, I feel like having sex an average of twice a year with someone who's your new GF is the same frequency of what people would consider a dead bedroom after several years of marriage. It's possible that maybe the urge didn't come up but you know your body better than I do. Sounds like you enjoyed it. Just seems like a bad sign overall (unless both people really don't feel like banging ever).

Also if you really wanna fuck, you'll find a way. In the car, somewhere public, quickies when everyone's asleep, not giving a fuck and knowing you pay the bills so you're allowed to enjoy yourself in your own house, etc.
I agree with all of this. When there's a will, there's a way. It sounds like either one or both of you didn't want to have sex that much (which is fine)

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Smackems
01/17/21 5:48:49 PM
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9 times in 4 years

Yeah this didn't happen

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Naysaspace
01/17/21 5:49:28 PM
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Choco posted...
why does this read like a bad copypasta
Cuz it is

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Tyranthraxus
01/17/21 5:53:16 PM
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There's like 80 year old couples that have sex more than 9 times a month let alone four years.

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Iwin2013
01/17/21 5:55:22 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Do you think maybe the frequency of sex could've been a negative sign of the relationship? Whether that's the cause of her being shitty and cheating, or a symptom of her being shitty. Anyway, I feel like having sex an average of twice a year with someone who's your new GF is the same frequency of what people would consider a dead bedroom after several years of marriage. It's possible that maybe the urge didn't come up but you know your body better than I do. Sounds like you enjoyed it. Just seems like a bad sign overall (unless both people really don't feel like banging ever).

Also if you really wanna fuck, you'll find a way. In the car, somewhere public, quickies when everyone's asleep, not giving a fuck and knowing you pay the bills so you're allowed to enjoy yourself in your own house, etc.

Agreed. Idk, she was my first real relationship. So I didn't know what to expect.
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Master Kazuya
01/17/21 6:01:17 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Agreed. Idk, she was my first real relationship. So I didn't know what to expect.

I see. I'm sorry for you man, that's a shitty way for things to end but hopefully you learn things you needed to learn in order to be wiser in the future

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No_U_L7
01/17/21 6:02:40 PM
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Sounds like it was a casual occsssional thing for her but tc assumed it was a relationship lol
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eggcorn
01/17/21 6:06:01 PM
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nine times in four years damn
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DDirtyDastard
01/17/21 6:08:28 PM
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Kobe Bryant posted...
How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao
This. I thought I read it wrong at first. I'm flabbergasted.
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RetsuZaiZen
01/17/21 6:09:01 PM
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Kobe Bryant posted...
How do you only hit that 9 times in four years lmao


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DarkProto05
01/17/21 6:09:39 PM
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Lmao at hitting on 9 times in four years.

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Kobe Bryant
01/18/21 2:31:00 PM
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Bump

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Lordgold666
01/18/21 4:22:22 PM
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Dont shit where you eat

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Darmik
01/18/21 4:36:35 PM
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Yeah I was in a long distance relationship and even then I managed more than 9 times in one year.

I originally thought I misread that she was your co-worker of 4 years and then you got into a relationship but man that's barely any. Did you not have that honeymoon period where you banged like rabbits even?

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Iwin2013
01/18/21 6:34:47 PM
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Darmik posted...
Yeah I was in a long distance relationship and even then I managed more than 9 times in one year.

I originally thought I misread that she was your co-worker of 4 years and then you got into a relationship but man that's barely any. Did you not have that honeymoon period where you banged like rabbits even?

It could've been more than 9, I goofed on the number. But anyways, I done goofed.
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Chicken
01/18/21 6:37:28 PM
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If it was only 9 times in 4 years you werent even her side dude. She went to you if her main and side guys were too busy.

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Iwin2013
01/18/21 6:38:29 PM
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Chicken posted...
If it was only 9 times in 4 years you werent even her side dude. She went to you if her main and side guys were too busy.

Didn't have side guys. She was a homebody.
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