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AmericaTheBrave
06/02/20 2:36:24 PM
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He's unemployed, collects disability, unmarried, lives alone, barely has any friends and yet my parents still talk about him glowingly and whenever we have family gatherings my grandmother still loves telling the same stories of him as a baby.

Meanwhile, I have a steady job, am married, own a house and generally well-off and I still feel like I'm second fiddle to him. I don't get it.

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Mareen
06/02/20 2:37:27 PM
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First born privilege.

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ThePrinceFish
06/02/20 2:37:53 PM
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You probably just have a complex. Your family loving your brother regardless of his faults does not mean they love you less.

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AmericaTheBrave
06/02/20 6:33:14 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
He probably has a better personality

I'm a delight.

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SoundNetwork
06/02/20 6:36:55 PM
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probably doesn't post on CE

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ZeroX91
06/02/20 6:38:03 PM
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Asking this question is why.

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Odoylerules
06/02/20 6:40:38 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
He probably has a better personality

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inTaCtfuL
06/02/20 6:40:42 PM
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The probably pity him more so they give them extra love. They probably think since you're more stable in life that you need less of their love or something

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TheGoldenState
06/02/20 6:43:46 PM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
unmarried, lives alone
are these bad?

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AmericaTheBrave
06/02/20 6:45:59 PM
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TheGoldenState posted...
are these bad?

For someone in their mid-30s? Probably.

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Explain.

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Pogo_Marimo
06/02/20 6:50:13 PM
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You'd be a lot happier if you didn't spend your time comparing yourself to others.

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Weezy_Tha_Don
06/02/20 6:52:36 PM
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lmao yall are killing me. looks like this topic back fired

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Jeff AKA Snoopy
06/02/20 6:52:37 PM
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Maybe you come across like a condescending prick and your family dislikes you for being a condescending prick?

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ZevLoveDOOM
06/02/20 6:53:16 PM
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this kinda reminds me of Better Call Saul for some reason. in particular, the sibling rivalry between Chuck and Jimmy. lol
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Tryhaptaward
06/02/20 6:53:40 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
He probably has a better personality

Also probably not racist
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Gobstoppers12
06/02/20 6:53:56 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
He probably has a better personality


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ZeroX91
06/02/20 7:04:27 PM
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ZevLoveDOOM posted...
this kinda reminds me of Better Call Saul for some reason. in particular, the sibling rivalry between Chuck and Jimmy. lol
Chuck was kinda right though...you know minus Jimmy taking care of his crazy ass when he could have hired a professional.

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Returning_CEmen
06/02/20 7:17:42 PM
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They are all he has. Let them praise him
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Awesome
06/02/20 7:18:55 PM
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Maybe because they feel sorry for him?
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Master_Bass
06/02/20 7:22:55 PM
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He might be the golden child of the family. Just a question, I could very well be off base, but do either of your parents display narcissistic behavior?

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Wii_Shaker
06/02/20 7:25:27 PM
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My younger brother used to be the favorite because was going to school for accounting and always had good grades.

I dropped out of college and picked up an art apprenticeship, much to the dismay of my family.

I eventually became successful and was running my own shop while my brother's grades continued to slip and he borrowed money from every one of my family members, including myself but ultimately never graduating.

It was bizarre to see their attitudes change towards me and watch my brother become the object of their ridicule.

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Mr_Karate_II
06/02/20 7:26:02 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...
You probably just have a complex. Your family loving your brother regardless of his faults does not mean they love you less.


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mustachedmystic
06/02/20 7:37:30 PM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
collects disability

I'm curious, is he actually disabled, or did he convince a psychiatrist he has severe anxiety?

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The Nintendo Master
06/02/20 7:40:56 PM
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Have you considered writing a light novel with topic title as the title of the series?

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Politics
06/02/20 7:43:11 PM
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My younger sister is a college drop out and I am less than two weeks away from finishing my Masters Degree. They used to treat me like this screw off hippy that only cared about getting laid, doing drugs, and going to parties. Now they treat me with a LITTLE more respect but my sister is clearly the fav in the family.

Still kicks ass knowing I proved all of these people wrong though.

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AmericaTheBrave
06/02/20 7:52:25 PM
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Master_Bass posted...
He might be the golden child of the family. Just a question, I could very well be off base, but do either of your parents display narcissistic behavior?

Nah, they're good people.

mustachedmystic posted...
I'm curious, is he actually disabled, or did he convince a psychiatrist he has severe anxiety?

Anxiety and depression. I don't doubt he is tho, he was always quiet and asocial. My parents called me "their first teenager" because I was their first kid to actually be one (went to parties, snuck out late, argued with them). He spent his teenage years home on the computer.

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Dark_SilverX
06/02/20 7:56:34 PM
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You were planned, he was not. ;)

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Questionmarktarius
06/02/20 7:56:54 PM
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something something prodigal son something something.
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TreyFlowers
06/02/20 7:57:21 PM
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inTaCtfuL posted...
The probably pity him more so they give them extra love. They probably think since you're more stable in life that you need less of their love or something

^^^

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monkmith
06/02/20 7:59:39 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parable_of_the_Prodigal_Son

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Austin_Era_II
06/02/20 8:02:10 PM
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He didn't vote for Trump but you did.

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TheGoldenState
06/02/20 8:59:19 PM
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Politics posted...
My younger sister is a college drop out and I am less than two weeks away from finishing my Masters Degree. They used to treat me like this screw off hippy that only cared about getting laid, doing drugs, and going to parties. Now they treat me with a LITTLE more respect but my sister is clearly the fav in the family.

Still kicks ass knowing I proved all of these people wrong though.
where u getting ur masters

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