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An "exhibitionist" who would often "expose his penis as a party trick" was murdered by his friend who thought he was being "sexually propositioned", a court heard.

Paul Lundy, 48, who "believed he was God's gift to ladies" would regularly show his penis in front of other people because he was "proud of its size."

But a court heard how Nathan Calder, 28, took exception to his "extroverted" behaviour and stabbed him to death at his home on May 22 this year. Calder denied murder and claimed he acted in self-defence because the victim had "sexually propositioned and manhandled him".

However, friends and family told jurors how Mr Lundy was not gay or bisexual and was "just a bit too affectionate when he had a drink."

They also revealed how he was "a bit of a ladies' man" who "wouldn't leave his privates alone" and only wanted to "make people laugh".

Calder went on trial accused of murder and was found unanimously guilty by a jury at Worcester Crown Court on Wednesday. He was sentenced to life imprisonment, to serve a minimum of 17 years at the same court on Thursday.

Sentencing, Judge Robert Juckes QC said: "The sentence I pass onto you cannot repair the damage that you have done. The loss of a father and friend and relative is irreplaceable. I don't hesitate to find that My Lundy did some of those acts that you suggested. This could have been dealt with by moving out of his way. There should have been no difficulty with it. You were perhaps disgusted by what he was doing and you became angry and you picked up the knife and you acted in anger which formed the intention to kill."

Jurors were told how Calder left his friend with horrific injuries after stabbing him three times with a kitchen knife at his home in Kidderminster, Worcs.

Mr Lundy's housemate came home and discovered him on the floor in a pool of blood in the lounge with severe facial injuries at around 10.30pm on May 23.

Calder and Mr Lundy had spent the evening drinking together and had known each other for roughly two years and were "good friends" .

But Calder was said to have flown into a rage after Mr Lundy asked if he would perform a sex act on him. He said: "By his own admission this went beyond what a sober person would do.

"Whatever he might have said or done or whatever was the cause of the outbreak of violence, the intensity of the violence Mr Calder used in response to an unarmed man was grossly disproportionate and unreasonable."

Mr Lundy's friend Ronald Saunders said Mr Lundy had once "undressed completely" in front him prompting him to leave because it made him "feel uncomfortable".

Giving evidence, he described Mr Lundy as as an "extrovert" and an "exhibitionist" and added: "He was constantly cuddling up too much and it did make you feel uncomfortable.

"It wasn't sexual. He was just too affectionate when he had a drink."

Mr Lundy's son Lewis Hughes told police in a statement shortly after his father's death: "I have never seen anything to say that my dad was gay or bisexual. He was proud of the size of his penis. It was his party trick."

A eulogy featured on the order of service for Mr Lundy's funeral, shown in court, said the victim "liked to think he was God's gift and a bit of a ladies' man who wouldn't leave his privates alone".

The court also heard that Edith Lundy, the victim's sister, previously told police: "It was a family joke. He was known for touching his privates and messing with himself.

"The habit started as a young lad and he just never grew out of it. It was all in jest. He just wanted to make people laugh."

Mr Hankin told the court Calder has had a total of 24 convictions from 33 separate offences dating back to when he was a youth. The court heard Calder had once "sexually assaulted" a child under the age of 13 and abused an older man when "carrying a claw hammer."

Mr Hankin also highlighted previous offences of battery, possession of a knife, affray, criminal damage and theft.

He told the court: "The defendant has a propensity to unlawful violence. History deprives the defendant mitigation."

Following the hearing, Mr Lundy's family said in a statement: "We are as a family absolutely devastated by the loss of Paul and it has been difficult to sit through the court case listening to the details of his death and seeing his final movements.

"We miss him every single day and our lives will never be the same again. Our family will never be the same again. Paul was the life and soul of any family event and his presence is missed. We would never want anyone to lose a loved one in this way or go through what we have over these past six months.

"We would like to thank West Mercia Police and the prosecution counsel for all of their hard work on getting justice for Paul, and their support during the most difficult time in our lives."

Detective Chief Inspector Carl Moore, of West Mercia Police, said: "Nathan Calder committed this horrific attack on Paul Lundy, in his own home, leaving him there to be discovered the following evening by his friend and housemate. Whilst no length of sentence can ever ease the pain felt by Paul's loss, I hope that today's verdict and sentence will provide a small sense of closure for his family."

Full Article: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-exposed-large-penis-21095443
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That story was a fucking journey.....
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Well I mean don't brag

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my theory is the victim was just fucking with the killer. and the killer was overly homophobic and paranoid. probably killed him over nothing that he blew up to be huge in his mind

What a fucking weirdo, I'm honestly surprised he lasted 48 years.

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BarneyBosco posted...

What a fucking weirdo, I'm honestly surprised he lasted 48 years.

guy was murdered dude
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It's very sad that he lost his life, but when asked about you your family's first response should not be a comment about your genitalia.
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bigtiggie23 posted...

It's very sad that he lost his life, but when asked about you your family's first response should not be a comment about your genitalia.

I doubt it was in most circumstances. But the dude was killed over drunkenly bragging about it, not like they can just avoid the topic.

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bigtiggie23 posted...

It's very sad that he lost his life, but when asked about you your family's first response should not be a comment about your genitalia.

This is an unfair post.

That wouldn't have been their response if not for the fact he was murdered over it.

If you were murdered over the Teletubbies your families first response will be a comment about Teletubbies.
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Wasn't there a president who brought up his big penis every chance he got? That's kinda sad when you think about it, their only sense of self worth is their big genitals like that one porn star whose claim to fame is her ridiculously huge boobs.

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BarneyBosco posted...

What a fucking weirdo, I'm honestly surprised he lasted 48 years.

UnfairRepresent posted...

guy was murdered dude

I get that people don't want to speak ill of the dead. But if someone was weird while living, does his death make his past weirdness fake news?
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tremain07 posted...

Wasn't there a president who brought up his big penis every chance he got? That's kinda sad when you think about it, their only sense of self worth is their big genitals like that one porn star whose claim to fame is her ridiculously huge boobs.

Lyndon Johnson?

Laserion posted...

I get that people don't want to speak ill of the dead. But if someone was weird while living, does his death make his past weirdness fake news?

It's just uncouth to run into a topic about a dude that was murdered and insult the victim whether you believe the insults were true or not.

If this was a rape victim the result would be account suspension.

Show a little respect.
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tremain07 posted...

Wasn't there a president who brought up his big penis every chance he got?

Yeah, that was LBJ.

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Laserion posted...

I get that people don't want to speak ill of the dead. But if someone was weird while living, does his death make his past weirdness fake news?

eVeRy LiFe Is PrEcIoUs

Laserion posted...

I get that people don't want to speak ill of the dead. But if someone was weird while living, does his death make his past weirdness fake news?

He was weird, but it doesn't change the fact that the reaction to him was disproportionate. When your first reaction is to insult the victim, it comes off as believing the victim deserved it or at least you understand why the killer killed them. Which is a big yikes.

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Dude was a creep, but that doesn't mean he should be killed. The murder deserves all the time he gets in jail.

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so was the guy grabbing all over the other guy and exposing himself?

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UnfairRepresent posted...

This is an unfair post.

That wouldn't have been their response if not for the fact he was murdered over it.

If you were murdered over the Teletubbies your families first response will be a comment about Teletubbies.

Not really the same thing. Of course he didn't deserve to die, but you don't think it's the least bit weird that his son and sister have firsthand knowledge of what he did with his penis? If he was still alive you would be condemning him for sharing that stuff with his immediate family.
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I wonder how big it was.

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bigtiggie23 posted...

Not really the same thing. Of course he didn't deserve to die, but you don't think it's the least bit weird that his son and sister have firsthand knowledge of what he did with his penis? If he was still alive you would be condemning him for sharing that stuff with his immediate family.

Beause it's what he was killed for.

If he wasn't murdered over it they never would have said it.

What part of that aren't you getting?
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UnfairRepresent posted...

If he wasn't murdered over it they never would have said it.

I don't think this is true. Based on the article it sounds like whipping his dick out all the time is what most people knew him for. Even his son talks about it as though it is entirely normal behavior. It was talked about in his eulogy ffs

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eston posted...

I don't think this is true. Based on the article it sounds like whipping his dick out all the time is what most people knew him for. Even his son talks about it as though it is entirely normal behavior. It was talked about in his eulogy ffs

Tbf I grew up in the same county and it is fairly normal behaviour in pubs there.

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eston posted...

I don't think this is true. Based on the article it sounds like whipping his dick out all the time is what most people knew him for. Even his son talks about it as though it is entirely normal behavior. It was talked about in his eulogy ffs

It was talked about because this is why he was murdered

Why are you ignoring this?
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