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MachineJaipur 12/30/19 12:33:15 AM #1:	See Pic for cuddle reference Absolutely, no two men should be that physically close to each other Yes, that's weird and should be discouraged Mostly weird, but only if it's done too often Kind of weird, but only if they're grown adults Not at all unless they're both shirtless or something then maybe No, this is perfectly acceptable Other See Pic for cuddle reference - Results (29 votes) Absolutely, no two men should be that physically close to each other 17.24% (5 votes) 5 Yes, that's weird and should be discouraged 6.9% (2 votes) 2 Mostly weird, but only if it's done too often 3.45% (1 vote) 1 Kind of weird, but only if they're grown adults 24.14% (7 votes) 7 Not at all unless they're both shirtless or something then maybe 10.34% (3 votes) 3 No, this is perfectly acceptable 34.48% (10 votes) 10 Other 3.45% (1 vote) 1 https://i.redd.it/pzrx97ghyk741.jpg Some people need some legitimate help it seems. <cite>MachineJaipur posted [p:932224065] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote> See Pic for cuddle reference Absolutely, no two men should be that physically close to each other Yes, that's weird and should be discouraged Mostly weird, but only if it's done too often Kind of weird, but only if they're grown adults Not at all unless they're both shirtless or something then maybe No, this is perfectly acceptable Other Vote View Results See Pic for cuddle reference - Results (29 votes) Absolutely, no two men should be that physically close to each other 17.24% (5 votes) 5 Yes, that's weird and should be discouraged 6.9% (2 votes) 2 Mostly weird, but only if it's done too often 3.45% (1 vote) 1 Kind of weird, but only if they're grown adults 24.14% (7 votes) 7 Not at all unless they're both shirtless or something then maybe 10.34% (3 votes) 3 No, this is perfectly acceptable 34.48% (10 votes) 10 Other 3.45% (1 vote) 1 Show Voting Form https://i.redd.it/pzrx97ghyk741.jpg Some people need some legitimate help it seems. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 12/30/19 12:34:11 AM #2:	Only if the son is young Edit, I mean thats the only acceptable time --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:932224093] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Only if the son is young Edit, I mean thats the only acceptable time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachineJaipur 12/30/19 12:34:37 AM #3:	JTilly posted... Only if the son is young Its only weird if the son is young? Tf? <cite>MachineJaipur posted [p:932224108] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>JTilly posted... </cite> <quote>Only if the son is young</quote>Its only weird if the son is young? Tf? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz 12/30/19 12:37:50 AM #4:	Its actually awesome a father and son have that relationship. --- https://imgur.com/O3syCWD https://imgur.com/k3YiBdG <cite>KILBOTz posted [p:932224201] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Its actually awesome a father and son have that relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 12/30/19 12:39:51 AM #5:	Came in here thinking it was going to be a nearly grown ass boy and his father, on which case yeah that'd be concerning regardless of sex. But a little kid like that? Nothing wrong with that. Kids need affection, and that isn't a mother only thing. Edit: Oh lol, didn't read look at it properly. I personally am not that cuddly with with either of my parents, there shouldn't be shame if it's platonic. Fuck the "Men can't be affectionate" mentality. Let me say it again FUCK THE "MEN CAN'T BE AFFECTIONATE" MENTALITY! --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ 12-18-19: Donald Trump has been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:932224264] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Came in here thinking it was going to be a nearly grown ass boy and his father, on which case yeah that'd be concerning regardless of sex. But a little kid like that? Nothing wrong with that. Kids need affection, and that isn't a mother only thing. Edit: Oh lol, didn't read look at it properly. I personally am not that cuddly with with either of my parents, there shouldn't be shame if it's platonic. Fuck the "Men can't be affectionate" mentality. Let me say it again FUCK THE "MEN CAN'T BE AFFECTIONATE" MENTALITY! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 12/30/19 12:40:37 AM #6:	I don't cuddle with my father but I have cuddled with dudes. One time a guy was cockblocking me and pulled the "Well you can cuddle with me" card. A minute later: "I think your head is on my dick." "I'm comfortable." --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://imgur.com/6ezFwG1 <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:932224290] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>I don't cuddle with my father but I have cuddled with dudes. One time a guy was cockblocking me and pulled the "Well you can cuddle with me" card. A minute later: "I think your head is on my dick." "I'm comfortable." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachineJaipur 12/30/19 12:40:48 AM #7:	Umbreon posted... Came in here thinking it was going to be a nearly grown ass boy and his father, on which case yeah that'd be concerning regardless of sex. But a little kid like that? Nothing wrong with that. Kids need affection, and that isn't a mother only thing. Well in the first photo he's 18 and still doing it... <cite>MachineJaipur posted [p:932224296] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>Came in here thinking it was going to be a nearly grown ass boy and his father, on which case yeah that'd be concerning regardless of sex. But a little kid like that? Nothing wrong with that. Kids need affection, and that isn't a mother only thing.</quote>Well in the first photo he's 18 and still doing it... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 12/30/19 12:40:56 AM #8:	depends on the culture i suppose. as an american i would find it weird. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:932224298] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>depends on the culture i suppose. as an american i would find it weird. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 12/30/19 12:41:38 AM #9:	If it's not sexual then there's nothing wrong with it. I think some people associate any and all intimacy with sexuality for some reason --- https://imgur.com/6cPXvLN https://imgur.com/hVC4i6j <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:932224318] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>If it's not sexual then there's nothing wrong with it. I think some people associate any and all intimacy with sexuality for some reason </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachineJaipur 12/30/19 12:44:03 AM #10:	ThyCorndog posted... If it's not sexual then there's nothing wrong with it. I think some people associate any and all intimacy with sexuality for some reason Because damn near the only time people show any intimacy is either during sex/foreplay or in events that lead up to sex/foreplay. Its why so many people view nudity as sexual, because the only context they were raised to view it as okay to be naked was during intimacy with their partner. So it isn't surprising that people view an intimate act as purely sexual <cite>MachineJaipur posted [p:932224389] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>ThyCorndog posted... </cite> <quote>If it's not sexual then there's nothing wrong with it. I think some people associate any and all intimacy with sexuality for some reason</quote>Because damn near the only time people show any intimacy is either during sex/foreplay or in events that lead up to sex/foreplay. Its why so many people view nudity as sexual, because the only context they were raised to view it as okay to be naked was during intimacy with their partner. So it isn't surprising that people view an intimate act as purely sexual </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KillerKhan420 12/30/19 12:47:13 AM #12:	My babies are my babies. I've seen them naked too much for my liking but now they are older I will not be denied getting my kissys from them. Both are girls though, I don't know how I'd be with a son. But I struck out at 3 for 3 girls, my other two brothers have the perfect set of 1 girl one boy in that order. --- "I know how the business works because I'm a wrestling fan"-hulkhogan1 <cite>KillerKhan420 posted [p:932224489] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>My babies are my babies. I've seen them naked too much for my liking but now they are older I will not be denied getting my kissys from them. Both are girls though, I don't know how I'd be with a son. But I struck out at 3 for 3 girls, my other two brothers have the perfect set of 1 girl one boy in that order. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 12/30/19 12:47:51 AM #13:	MachineJaipur posted... Because damn near the only time people show any intimacy is either during sex/foreplay or in events that lead up to sex/foreplay. Its why so many people view nudity as sexual, because the only context they were raised to view it as okay to be naked was during intimacy with their partner. So it isn't surprising that people view an intimate act as purely sexual Well yeah it comes down to upbringing, but I think there's levels of it. Like some people think kissing their parents on the cheek is going too far and just give their dads handshakes or something and then you have some cultures where they kiss everybody --- https://imgur.com/6cPXvLN https://imgur.com/hVC4i6j <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:932224508] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>MachineJaipur posted... </cite> <quote>Because damn near the only time people show any intimacy is either during sex/foreplay or in events that lead up to sex/foreplay. Its why so many people view nudity as sexual, because the only context they were raised to view it as okay to be naked was during intimacy with their partner. So it isn't surprising that people view an intimate act as purely sexual</quote>Well yeah it comes down to upbringing, but I think there's levels of it. Like some people think kissing their parents on the cheek is going too far and just give their dads handshakes or something and then you have some cultures where they kiss everybody </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abiz_ 12/30/19 12:48:19 AM #14:	I thought it was weird at first, but looking at that pic. It's not that big of a deal. They are just chilling next to eachother. It would be like whining that a friend or loved one is leaning on your shoulder. <cite>Abiz_ posted [p:932224530] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>I thought it was weird at first, but looking at that pic. It's not that big of a deal. They are just chilling next to eachother. It would be like whining that a friend or loved one is leaning on your shoulder. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 12/30/19 12:49:56 AM #15:	Women show intimacy all the time. Society days men "aren't allowed" to though. It's why women hug each other all the time where as men don't do it anywhere near as often. Even though hugs are totally rad and doesn't have to be sexual at all. Also can we address that last comment. That whole "Female family members slap each other asses, how would that look if the men did it?". Two things. 1. Men on sports teams seem to do this in the locker room in certain(apparently non sexual?) context. Which leads me to... 2. Why the fuck are people slapping each other on the ass in the first place if it isn't sexual? I never got that. At all. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ 12-18-19: Donald Trump has been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:932224585] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Women show intimacy all the time. Society days men "aren't allowed" to though. It's why women hug each other all the time where as men don't do it anywhere near as often. Even though hugs are totally rad and doesn't have to be sexual at all. Also can we address that last comment. That whole "Female family members slap each other asses, how would that look if the men did it?". Two things. 1. Men on sports teams seem to do this in the locker room in certain(apparently non sexual?) context. Which leads me to... 2. Why the fuck are people slapping each other on the ass in the first place if it isn't sexual? I never got that. At all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 12/30/19 12:51:57 AM #16:	As long as they don't spoon --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:932224645] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>As long as they don't spoon </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 12/30/19 12:51:58 AM #17:	Umbreon posted... Women show intimacy all the time. Society days men "aren't allowed" to though. It's why women hug each other all the time where as men don't do it anywhere near as often. Even though hugs are totally rad and doesn't have to be sexual at all. Also can we address that last comment. That whole "Female family members slap each other asses, how would that look if the men did it?". Two things. 1. Men on sports teams seem to do this in the locker room in certain(apparently non sexual?) context. Which leads me to... 2. Why the fuck are people slapping each other on the ass in the first place if it isn't sexual? I never got that. At all. it's okay to slap. what you don't want to do it grab. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:932224646] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>Women show intimacy all the time. Society days men "aren't allowed" to though. It's why women hug each other all the time where as men don't do it anywhere near as often. Even though hugs are totally rad and doesn't have to be sexual at all. Also can we address that last comment. That whole "Female family members slap each other asses, how would that look if the men did it?". Two things. 1. Men on sports teams seem to do this in the locker room in certain(apparently non sexual?) context. Which leads me to... 2. Why the fuck are people slapping each other on the ass in the first place if it isn't sexual? I never got that. At all.</quote>it's okay to slap. what you don't want to do it grab. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 12/30/19 12:55:07 AM #18:	pic is disingenuous implying its only men reinforcing the double standard its criticizing especially when we talkin about a demographic where involved dads are not anywhere near as common as the single moms passing on THEIR values... there are good single moms, but not all single moms are good by default and they can still pass a bunch of their bullshit beliefs too conditioning their kids into habits of "toxic masculinity" ain't no source of misinformation that hits closer to home than IN the home --- Moo. #Listen&Investigate <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:932224735] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>pic is disingenuous implying its only men reinforcing the double standard its criticizing especially when we talkin about a demographic where involved dads are not anywhere near as common as the single moms passing on THEIR values... there are good single moms, but not all single moms are good by default and they can still pass a bunch of their bullshit beliefs too conditioning their kids into habits of "toxic masculinity" ain't no source of misinformation that hits closer to home than IN the home </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/30/19 1:30:32 AM #19:	That's a very vague form of cuddling. I wouldn't even say it applies. But do what you want anyway. Im not gonna push my issues of intimacy on others. I just seen my dad for the first time in like 2-3 years and we live like 2 miles away from each other. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:932225669] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>That's a very vague form of cuddling. I wouldn't even say it applies. But do what you want anyway. Im not gonna push my issues of intimacy on others. I just seen my dad for the first time in like 2-3 years and we live like 2 miles away from each other. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OctilIery 12/30/19 6:40:09 AM #20:	Unusual but neither weird nor wrong. <cite>OctilIery posted [p:932230966] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Unusual but neither weird nor wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 12/30/19 8:14:43 AM #21:	I think its cool but I wouldnt lay on my dad. <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:932232404] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>I think its cool but I wouldnt lay on my dad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JoeDangIt 12/30/19 1:27:26 PM #22:	It's not necessarily wrong but it's undeniably weird. <cite>JoeDangIt posted [p:932241521] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>It's not necessarily wrong but it's undeniably weird. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 12/30/19 1:32:50 PM #23:	i feel like theres a gradual age limit. when they're kids, like, who cares. but as they get older i feel like it should be less and less, probably stopping somewhere around 11 or so? --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:932241729] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>i feel like theres a gradual age limit. when they're kids, like, who cares. but as they get older i feel like it should be less and less, probably stopping somewhere around 11 or so? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yunalenne10 12/30/19 1:35:27 PM #24:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzjFE2CnTBQ --- "The more beautiful and pure a thing is, the more satisfying it is to corrupt it." - Rule 43 <cite>yunalenne10 posted [p:932241838] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzjFE2CnTBQ </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zodd3224 12/30/19 1:41:14 PM #25:	My son is 3 and already doesnt want to cuddle me anymore --- https://imgur.com/qAas5O2 https://youtu.be/GXkszF8Kq0Q <cite>Zodd3224 posted [p:932242093] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>My son is 3 and already doesnt want to cuddle me anymore </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Webmaster4531 12/30/19 1:41:30 PM #26:	Why is there quotes on cuddle? --- Ad Hominem. <cite>Webmaster4531 posted [p:932242107] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Why is there quotes on cuddle? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachineJaipur 12/30/19 1:56:56 PM #27:	Webmaster4531 posted... Why is there quotes on cuddle? Cause in the photo it isn't necessarily a full on cuddle, more resting against his father's chest <cite>MachineJaipur posted [p:932242763] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Webmaster4531 posted... </cite> <quote>Why is there quotes on cuddle?</quote>Cause in the photo it isn't necessarily a full on cuddle, more resting against his father's chest </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 12/30/19 6:23:52 PM #28:	That's totally fine wtf is wrong with people. --- FFXIV: Lucius Hexenseele (Brynhildr) \| RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/Fish/Cook/Fletch/Div/Mining/Smithing/Thieving/Crafting https://letterboxd.com/BMovieBro/ <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:932253550] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>That's totally fine wtf is wrong with people. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sLaCkEr408___RJ 12/30/19 6:31:12 PM #29:	I thought topic meant spooning. Laying next to each other is normal as fuck. No homo, I still do this even with my friends. <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:932253825] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>I thought topic meant spooning. Laying next to each other is normal as fuck. No homo, I still do this even with my friends. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 12/30/19 6:35:39 PM #30:	Must be nice. Having a father in your life. Having a positive and emotionally welcoming male figure in your life. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:932253985] in Is it weir... [t:78292091]...</cite> <quote>Must be nice. Having a father in your life. Having a positive and emotionally welcoming male figure in your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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