Current Events > Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date?

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Esrac 12/28/19 3:56:11 PM #102:	EffectAndCause posted... Uh, yes, absolutely, because its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys in a dating scenario, which this is. Being fair, selfishly wanting to hang on to a romantic partner isn't the only reason. There is also some reason to hesitate because they're afraid of being mocked or ridiculed or even physically accosted. <cite>Esrac posted [p:932164117] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>Uh, yes, absolutely, because its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys in a dating scenario, which this is.</quote> Being fair, selfishly wanting to hang on to a romantic partner isn't the only reason. There is also some reason to hesitate because they're afraid of being mocked or ridiculed or even physically accosted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 12/28/19 3:57:07 PM #103:	EffectAndCause posted... its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys in a dating scenario, which this is. CE people will just tell you all straight cis dudes are bigots --- - Sent from my DynaTAC 8000X <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:932164145] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys in a dating scenario, which this is.</quote>CE people will just tell you all straight cis dudes are bigots </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 3:57:39 PM #104:	EffectAndCause posted... Uh, yes, absolutely, because its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys. Trans people don't just exist as obstacles that need to be avoided in the dating world. Is everyone you know an open book to everyone they meet? Have you considered that some people need to warm to someone before confiding into them? Trans people that go looking for some strange may be that forward, but overall trans people are just people. What if they have social anxiety or their transition has been an intense struggle? Everyone is a "selfish asshole" by your logic. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164167] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>Uh, yes, absolutely, because its widely known to be a dealbreaker for many guys.</quote>Trans people don't just exist as obstacles that need to be avoided in the dating world. Is everyone you know an open book to everyone they meet? Have you considered that some people need to warm to someone before confiding into them? Trans people that go looking for some strange may be that forward, but overall trans people are just people. What if they have social anxiety or their transition has been an intense struggle? Everyone is a "selfish asshole" by your logic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 12/28/19 3:57:59 PM #105:	They won't, but you're already aware of that. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ 12-18-19: Donald Trump has been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:932164178] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>They won't, but you're already aware of that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 3:58:45 PM #106:	Esrac posted... Being fair, selfishly wanting to hang on to a romantic partner isn't the only reason. There is also some reason to hesitate because they're afraid of being mocked or ridiculed or even physically accosted. ...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932164206] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote> Being fair, selfishly wanting to hang on to a romantic partner isn't the only reason. There is also some reason to hesitate because they're afraid of being mocked or ridiculed or even physically accosted. </quote> ...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 12/28/19 3:59:37 PM #107:	Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion --- https://i.imgtc.ws/x2KBsjI.png tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:932164246] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 12/28/19 4:00:59 PM #108:	EffectAndCause posted... ...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place. Sure, but they're not mind readers. Being cautious doesnt mean they should just never try to date. <cite>Esrac posted [p:932164294] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place.</quote> Sure, but they're not mind readers. Being cautious doesnt mean they should just never try to date. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:01:18 PM #109:	EffectAndCause posted... ...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place. Couldn't we say the same thing about people worried about accidentally flirting with trans people? Or is that different because small minorities need to spill their guts because they upset the majority? --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164306] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>...if theyre afraid of the guy theyre going on the date with doing any of this, they probably shouldnt be going on that date in the first place.</quote>Couldn't we say the same thing about people worried about accidentally flirting with trans people? Or is that different because small minorities need to spill their guts because they upset the majority? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:01:41 PM #110:	hockeybub89 posted... Trans people don't just exist as obstacles that need to be avoided in the dating world. Is everyone you know an open book to everyone they meet? Have you considered that some people need to warm to someone before confiding into them? Trans people that go looking for some strange may be that forward, but overall trans people are just people. What if they have social anxiety or their transition has been an intense struggle? Everyone is a "selfish asshole" by your logic. Many men are not interested in dating trans women, its a widely known dealbreaker that should be disclosed before the date. Also known are the very dangerous consequences of NOT telling the wrong guy until afterward. So to respect the guys right to choose if he wants to date a trans girl AND for personal safety, telling him before the date is the only answer. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932164318] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote> Trans people don't just exist as obstacles that need to be avoided in the dating world. Is everyone you know an open book to everyone they meet? Have you considered that some people need to warm to someone before confiding into them? Trans people that go looking for some strange may be that forward, but overall trans people are just people. What if they have social anxiety or their transition has been an intense struggle? Everyone is a "selfish asshole" by your logic. </quote> Many men are not interested in dating trans women, its a widely known dealbreaker that should be disclosed before the date. Also known are the very dangerous consequences of NOT telling the wrong guy until afterward. So to respect the guys right to choose if he wants to date a trans girl AND for personal safety, telling him before the date is the only answer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 12/28/19 4:01:49 PM #111:	gunplagirl posted... Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion go on --- - Sent from my DynaTAC 8000X <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:932164325] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion</quote>go on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:02:07 PM #112:	gunplagirl posted... Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion 404 point not found --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932164334] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion</quote> 404 point not found </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:03:19 PM #113:	gunplagirl posted... Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932164376] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted...</cite> <quote>Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion </quote> My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:04:07 PM #114:	EffectAndCause posted... Many men are not interested in dating trans women, its a widely known dealbreaker that should be disclosed before the date. Also known are the very dangerous consequences of NOT telling the wrong guy until afterward. So to respect the guys right to choose if he wants to date a trans girl AND for personal safety, telling him before the date is the only answer. So trans people aren't allowed privacy or diversity of personality because they need to be afraid that most people want nothing to do with them? Do your own homework. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164407] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>Many men are not interested in dating trans women, its a widely known dealbreaker that should be disclosed before the date. Also known are the very dangerous consequences of NOT telling the wrong guy until afterward. So to respect the guys right to choose if he wants to date a trans girl AND for personal safety, telling him before the date is the only answer.</quote>So trans people aren't allowed privacy or diversity of personality because they need to be afraid that most people want nothing to do with them? Do your own homework. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RickyTheBAWSE 12/28/19 4:05:06 PM #115:	more statements with no intelligent elaboration... please don't adopt the same mannerisms of those you hate... that's a form of self hate. --- Never let those intent on misunderstanding you be the narrator to YOUR story! Context? Context!? CONTEXT!!! <cite>RickyTheBAWSE posted [p:932164436] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>more statements with no intelligent elaboration... please don't adopt the same mannerisms of those you hate... that's a form of self hate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Conception616 12/28/19 4:06:11 PM #116:	EffectAndCause posted... My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back. Is she cute? Ive got some banging trans friends, including at least one still in the industry. --- Ain't no mystery god, peace to the true and living. I Self Lord And Master. <cite>Conception616 posted [p:932164472] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote> My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back.</quote> Is she cute? Ive got some banging trans friends, including at least one still in the industry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:06:23 PM #117:	hockeybub89 posted... So trans people aren't allowed privacy or diversity of personality because they need to be afraid that most people want nothing to do with them? Do your own homework. In any other situation, yes, they absolutely have the right to privacy. In the dating world, which directly involves sex, genitalia and physical attractions, no, they dont have that right and are being selfish if they deceive the guy. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932164482] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote> So trans people aren't allowed privacy or diversity of personality because they need to be afraid that most people want nothing to do with them? Do your own homework. </quote> In any other situation, yes, they absolutely have the right to privacy. In the dating world, which directly involves sex, genitalia and physical attractions, no, they dont have that right and are being selfish if they deceive the guy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:07:08 PM #118:	gunplagirl posted... Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion 107 posts for you to show up is slacking tbqh --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932164514] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted...</cite> <quote>Awful lot of cis people in this topic giving their opinion </quote> 107 posts for you to show up is slacking tbqh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:07:36 PM #119:	Conception616 posted... Is she cute? Ive got some banging trans friends, including at least one still in the industry. If we were both single id bang her. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932164526] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Conception616 posted...</cite> <quote> Is she cute? Ive got some banging trans friends, including at least one still in the industry.</quote> If we were both single id bang her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SONIC_305 12/28/19 4:09:15 PM #120:	https://youtu.be/zq4HWl2NL_s --- PSN: KlonoaxGuntz BBCF Mains: Ragna, Makoto, Izayoi and Es Games Playing: DBFZ, BBCF, & Monster Hunter World <cite>SONIC_305 posted [p:932164585] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/zq4HWl2NL_s </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:09:30 PM #121:	EffectAndCause posted... In any other situation, yes, they absolutely have the right to privacy. In the dating world, which directly involves sex, genitalia and physical attractions, no, they dont have that right and are being selfish if they deceive the guy. Ah so only certain trans people are allowed to seek human companionship. And everyone that doesn't unveil all potential dealbreakers to all potential companions at first blush is a deceitful asshole. All because asking your own questions is too much of a bother. You say you're arguing for courtesy when all you're doing is changing who is allowed to be "selfish". --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164594] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>In any other situation, yes, they absolutely have the right to privacy. In the dating world, which directly involves sex, genitalia and physical attractions, no, they dont have that right and are being selfish if they deceive the guy.</quote>Ah so only certain trans people are allowed to seek human companionship. And everyone that doesn't unveil all potential dealbreakers to all potential companions at first blush is a deceitful asshole. All because asking your own questions is too much of a bother. You say you're arguing for courtesy when all you're doing is changing who is allowed to be "selfish". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:10:13 PM #122:	hockeybub89 posted... Ah so only certain trans people are allowed to seek human companionship. And everyone that doesn't unveil all potential dealbreakers to all potential companions at first blush is a deceitful asshole. All because asking your own questions is too much of a bother. Ball dont lie bruh --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932164620] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted... </cite> <quote>Ah so only certain trans people are allowed to seek human companionship. And everyone that doesn't unveil all potential dealbreakers to all potential companions at first blush is a deceitful asshole. All because asking your own questions is too much of a bother.</quote> Ball dont lie bruh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jborgan 12/28/19 4:12:16 PM #123:	Unfortunately it can be a lose/lose situation for trans people. Some guys get violent even before anything's happened. And then some people still try to blame it on the trans person. --- http://www.last.fm/user/jborgan <cite>jborgan posted [p:932164691] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Unfortunately it can be a lose/lose situation for trans people. Some guys get violent even before anything's happened. And then some people still try to blame it on the trans person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:13:30 PM #124:	jborgan posted... Unfortunately it can be a lose/lose situation for trans people. Some guys get violent even before anything's happened. And then some people still try to blame it on the trans person. Plus the truth turns off like most of their candidates so that's a bummer --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932164724] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>jborgan posted... </cite> <quote>Unfortunately it can be a lose/lose situation for trans people. Some guys get violent even before anything's happened. And then some people still try to blame it on the trans person.</quote> Plus the truth turns off like most of their candidates so that's a bummer </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:16:13 PM #125:	The Trent posted... Ball dont lie bruh Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? Human beings have a lot of personal feelings. Lots of people need intimacy before they can gather the courage to bare their soul. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164807] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>Ball dont lie bruh</quote>Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? Human beings have a lot of personal feelings. Lots of people need intimacy before they can gather the courage to bare their soul. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Trent 12/28/19 4:18:21 PM #127:	hockeybub89 posted... Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932164877] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted... </cite> <quote>Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes?</quote> I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:20:12 PM #128:	The Trent posted... I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932164932] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women</quote>And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:21:01 PM #129:	hockeybub89 posted... And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? I knew she didnt have a dick and that was a solid starting point for me to find out the rest --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932164966] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted... </cite> <quote>And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date?</quote> I knew she didnt have a dick and that was a solid starting point for me to find out the rest </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BewmHedshot 12/28/19 4:22:21 PM #130:	The Trent posted... I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women Did you ensure she was cis before you met her? --- Cavaliers: ONCE <cite>BewmHedshot posted [p:932165016] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like women</quote>Did you ensure she was cis before you met her? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 12/28/19 4:22:35 PM #131:	EffectAndCause posted... My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back. "I have a black friend" isn't exactly a good point --- https://i.imgtc.ws/x2KBsjI.png tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:932165025] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>My co-worker who sits right next to me is a trans girl and she adamantly agrees with everything im saying and my reasons. In fact she was the one who brought this up a while back.</quote> "I have a black friend" isn't exactly a good point </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:22:41 PM #132:	BewmHedshot posted... Did you ensure she was cis before you met her? Grabbed her by the pussy my man --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932165031] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BewmHedshot posted... </cite> <quote>Did you ensure she was cis before you met her?</quote> Grabbed her by the pussy my man </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:23:10 PM #133:	hockeybub89 posted... And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? Would you want to date a white supremacist? Shouldn't a white supremacist disclose who they are as soon as possible? --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165044] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote> And you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? </quote> Would you want to date a white supremacist? Shouldn't a white supremacist disclose who they are as soon as possible?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BewmHedshot 12/28/19 4:23:35 PM #134:	Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. --- Cavaliers: ONCE <cite>BewmHedshot posted [p:932165060] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:24:21 PM #135:	BewmHedshot posted... Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. I tell her that every day after our post dinner negging --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932165086] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BewmHedshot posted... </cite> <quote>Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you.</quote> I tell her that every day after our post dinner negging </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:24:24 PM #136:	The Trent posted... I knew she didnt have a dick and that was a solid starting point for me to find out the rest Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932165087] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>I knew she didnt have a dick and that was a solid starting point for me to find out the rest</quote>Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:24:26 PM #137:	BewmHedshot posted... Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. Because he was being serious. --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165090] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BewmHedshot posted...</cite> <quote>Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. </quote> Because he was being serious.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RickyTheBAWSE 12/28/19 4:24:41 PM #138:	BewmHedshot posted... Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. getting a sarcastic response after asking a stupid question is still too generous for you, lol --- Never let those intent on misunderstanding you be the narrator to YOUR story! Context? Context!? CONTEXT!!! <cite>RickyTheBAWSE posted [p:932165100] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BewmHedshot posted...</cite> <quote>Admitting to sexual assault, you're quite a catch, she's lucky to have you. </quote> getting a sarcastic response after asking a stupid question is still too generous for you, lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:25:03 PM #139:	hockeybub89 posted... Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. It's assumed by not mentioning anything. Quick question - have you EVER actually had any social interaction with people? --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165114] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote> Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. </quote> It's assumed by not mentioning anything. Quick question - have you EVER actually had any social interaction with people?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 12/28/19 4:25:03 PM #140:	hockeybub89 posted... Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. I said hey girl what's up lemme see that dick and she was like no dick and I was like cool sup --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:932165117] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted... </cite> <quote>Did she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed.</quote> I said hey girl what's up lemme see that dick and she was like no dick and I was like cool sup </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:26:09 PM #141:	hockeybub89 posted... Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? Human beings have a lot of personal feelings. Lots of people need intimacy before they can gather the courage to bare their soul. None of those other things are related to sex, genitalia or physical attraction. Being trans is. There are plenty of shitty Republican chicks id bang and if they told me afterward that they hate gay people id never talk to them again, but I wouldnt murder them in a panicked outrage like many people would a trans girl afterward. There are a lot of people that ARE totally fine or indifferent with a trans girl being trans, but many still have the mentality of ITS A GUY, THIS MEANS IM GAY NOW! YOU RUINED MY LIFE! murders trans girl Like I said, its about giving the guy a choice and personal safety. Plus, again, if you get the vibe that the guy is someone youre hesitant to tell, thats a huge red flag that you shouldnt even be ON that date. Isnt it way, way better to date someone who knows youre a trans and is totally fine with it? --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932165157] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote> Should all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? Human beings have a lot of personal feelings. Lots of people need intimacy before they can gather the courage to bare their soul. </quote> None of those other things are related to sex, genitalia or physical attraction. Being trans is. There are plenty of shitty Republican chicks id bang and if they told me afterward that they hate gay people id never talk to them again, but I wouldnt murder them in a panicked outrage like many people would a trans girl afterward. There are a lot of people that ARE totally fine or indifferent with a trans girl being trans, but many still have the mentality of ITS A GUY, THIS MEANS IM GAY NOW! YOU RUINED MY LIFE! murders trans girl Like I said, its about giving the guy a choice and personal safety. Plus, again, if you get the vibe that the guy is someone youre hesitant to tell, thats a huge red flag that you shouldnt even be ON that date. Isnt it way, way better to date someone who knows youre a trans and is totally fine with it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 12/28/19 4:27:56 PM #142:	gunplagirl posted... "I have a black friend" isn't exactly a good point Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:932165228] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted...</cite> <quote> "I have a black friend" isn't exactly a good point </quote> Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:31:27 PM #143:	EffectAndCause posted... Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic. youre arguing with gunplagirl --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165347] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote> Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic.</quote> youre arguing with gunplagirl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 12/28/19 4:33:30 PM #144:	EffectAndCause posted... Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newsweek.com/20-percent-america-thinks-interracial-marriage-morally-wrong-poll-finds-845608%3famp=1 18% of black respondents to that poll thought interracial marriage was wrong Thing is, unlike your friend the respondents actually exist. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/x2KBsjI.png tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:932165441] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted... </cite> <quote>Im saying I have a trans friend who shares my opinion to counter your shitty cis people opinions dont matter here! logic.</quote> https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newsweek.com/20-percent-america-thinks-interracial-marriage-morally-wrong-poll-finds-845608%3famp=1 18% of black respondents to that poll thought interracial marriage was wrong Thing is, unlike your friend the respondents actually exist. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:35:38 PM #145:	wtf does any of that have to do with anything --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165532] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>wtf does any of that have to do with anything</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:36:00 PM #146:	also literally googling whatever the fuck you want and not even taking the time to send the proper link --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165546] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>also literally googling whatever the fuck you want and not even taking the time to send the proper link</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:36:44 PM #147:	BillORileyReid posted... Would you want to date a white supremacist? Shouldn't a white supremacist disclose who they are as soon as possible? I feel like that situation is different as white supremacy is a pure choice rather than a legitimate birth condition. White supremacists also don't have a history of being oppressed by law and being disowned by their families and friends. They likely developed those beliefs because of the company they keep. But no matter what, what would be nice is not the same as the reality that not everyone is equally comfortable sharing things to people at the same point in relationships. And if future information ruins a once budding relationship, then oh well. You dated a Nazi. You win some, you lose some. Things happen. Your attempt to emotionally manipulate my stance does not change the fact that humans have many reasons why they might not share things before they feel comfortable. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:932165577] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BillORileyReid posted... </cite> <quote>Would you want to date a white supremacist? Shouldn't a white supremacist disclose who they are as soon as possible?</quote>I feel like that situation is different as white supremacy is a pure choice rather than a legitimate birth condition. White supremacists also don't have a history of being oppressed by law and being disowned by their families and friends. They likely developed those beliefs because of the company they keep. But no matter what, what would be nice is not the same as the reality that not everyone is equally comfortable sharing things to people at the same point in relationships. And if future information ruins a once budding relationship, then oh well. You dated a Nazi. You win some, you lose some. Things happen. Your attempt to emotionally manipulate my stance does not change the fact that humans have many reasons why they might not share things before they feel comfortable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 12/28/19 4:38:02 PM #148:	Let's see, low level account making 3 back to back posts about me, I've been warned for disruptive posting in my own AMA for less than that. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/x2KBsjI.png tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:932165619] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Let's see, low level account making 3 back to back posts about me, I've been warned for disruptive posting in my own AMA for less than that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:38:12 PM #149:	I'm curious how gay relationships happen when they're not supposed to let anyone know they were gay. --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165628] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>I'm curious how gay relationships happen when they're not supposed to let anyone know they were gay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillORileyReid 12/28/19 4:38:25 PM #150:	gunplagirl posted... Let's see, low level account making 3 back to back posts about me, I've been warned for disruptive posting in my own AMA for less than that. post on your main --- This is without a doubt the worst username I've ever made <cite>BillORileyReid posted [p:932165642] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted...</cite> <quote>Let's see, low level account making 3 back to back posts about me, I've been warned for disruptive posting in my own AMA for less than that. </quote> post on your main</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Duncanwii 12/28/19 4:39:11 PM #151:	BillORileyReid posted... youre arguing with gunplagirl Yeah shes kind of terrible. --- Hello, I like video games and comedies. Let's be friends. :) <cite>Duncanwii posted [p:932165668] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>BillORileyReid posted... </cite> <quote>youre arguing with gunplagirl</quote>Yeah shes kind of terrible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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