Current Events > I haven't texted this girl back. She's threatening to call the police

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If you dont text me back, Ill call the police on you.

Huh? She keeps asking me personal details about my life then going around and telling people what Ive told her. Im not down for that. Of course Im not going to respond right away if ever anymore. Im just chilling for the night and playing video games. This makes no sense. Ive never met anyone who would threaten to call the police over not being responded to.

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Tell her you've already called them.
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pls respond
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Call the police on her.

This happened

Block her ass

How do you even know her?

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How old are you guys? Lol

This is crazy. She would be stupid to call.


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Hit it and quit it.
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If the police do show up, I say show them the texts. What does she possibly have on you?
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Shes throwing up a ton of red flags there

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ToPoPO posted...

This happened

Not even joking. I made another topic about her last week or so. Shes crazy.

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-Unowninator- posted...

If the police do show up, I say show them the texts. What does she possibly have on you?

Ever heard of the me too movement? How about believe women? She can literally ruin his life with a rape accusation.

The_Scarecrow posted...

ToPoPO posted...

This happened

Not even joking. I made another topic about her last week or so. Shes crazy.

Get a restraining order.

She must be a 9 or 10 out of 10 to be putting up with this kind of shit.
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Dont stick your dick in crazy
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DDirtyDastard posted...

Ever heard of the me too movement? How about believe women? She can literally ruin his life with a rape accusation.

Yes because this is such a rampant problem and nobody looks at evidence

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Do not respond to her. Call the police and tell them someone is threatening to SWAT you (I get the sense this is what she means by calling the police on you). Be prepared to cooperate with them. This is likely to suck, but it's also likely to go way better than actually getting SWATted.
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kinetika_ posted...

She must be a 9 or 10 out of 10 to be putting up with this kind of shit.

So the short version of the story is that she has a boyfriend but is constantly worried that hes cheating on her. She told me that she wants me several times but Ive remained uninterested. She also claims her last bf raped her but she pretended to consent. Dont ask me what that even means please. Her family has a history of mental illness and she suffers from massive anxiety problems. She was also going to pretend to be in nursing school if she didnt get accepted.


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Post pics. She has to be hot for you to be putting up with this and worthy enough to make a topic on a video game message board over.

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The_Scarecrow posted...

kinetika_ posted...

She must be a 9 or 10 out of 10 to be putting up with this kind of shit.

So the short version of the story is that she has a boyfriend but is constantly worried that hes cheating on her. She told me that she wants me several times but Ive remained uninterested. She also claims her last bf raped her but she pretended to consent. Dont ask me what that even means please. Her family has a history of mental illness and she suffers from massive anxiety problems. She was also going to pretend to be in nursing school if she didnt get accepted.

Yeah definitely block her.
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dj1200 posted...

Post pics. She has to be hot for you to be putting up with this and worthy enough to make a topic on a video game message board over.

Her instagram is private but Im sure she has a Facebook

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"Do it."
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Strider102 posted...

The_Scarecrow posted...

kinetika_ posted...

She must be a 9 or 10 out of 10 to be putting up with this kind of shit.

So the short version of the story is that she has a boyfriend but is constantly worried that hes cheating on her. She told me that she wants me several times but Ive remained uninterested. She also claims her last bf raped her but she pretended to consent. Dont ask me what that even means please. Her family has a history of mental illness and she suffers from massive anxiety problems. She was also going to pretend to be in nursing school if she didnt get accepted.

Yeah definitely block her.

Yeah she sounds like a stupid moron
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The_Scarecrow posted...

ToPoPO posted...

This happened

Not even joking. I made another topic about her last week or so. Shes crazy.

Pics of text and of her

Make absolutely sure you save all the messages she's sending you in case you end up needing them to prove to the police that she was threatening you over frivolous shit
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Still curious if she's hot or not since you avoided to acknowledge it. And did you go in talking to her knowing all this prior and thought you could fix her? Because no one can fix a person, they can only do it for themselves.
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https://imgur.com/a/n6u2i5J

really bad quality but thats all she has

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text her a clown emoji
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She seems the type to be crazy just by looking at her

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Is this the same girl you've been having troubles with for a while now?
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Kitt posted...

Is this the same girl you've been having troubles with for a while now?

Shes a different girl from the the other two I mentioned earlier this year but I met her the same way. Through my previous tutoring job

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The_Scarecrow posted...

https://imgur.com/a/n6u2i5J

really bad quality but thats all she has

Doesn't even seem that hot to put up with that drama anyway


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You need to take the phone to the police. I'm serious. Guys blow this stuff off and it comes back to bite them in the ass.
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You're about to get swatted I'd call the cops on her first.

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The_Scarecrow posted...

kinetika_ posted...

She must be a 9 or 10 out of 10 to be putting up with this kind of shit.

So the short version of the story is that she has a boyfriend but is constantly worried that hes cheating on her. She told me that she wants me several times but Ive remained uninterested. She also claims her last bf raped her but she pretended to consent. Dont ask me what that even means please. Her family has a history of mental illness and she suffers from massive anxiety problems. She was also going to pretend to be in nursing school if she didnt get accepted.

Geez. I mean, it sounds like she's been through a rough time and all, but that doesn't excuse what she's doing to you. I reiterate my advice to call the police and tell them that someone is threatening to SWAT you: having that record in their system really does make a difference if they get a SWAT call later.

If I had to hazard a guess on that "raped but pretended to consent" incident, I'd venture that perhaps she's trying to talk about a boyfriend who kept pressuring her despite repeated refusals until she finally told him what he wanted to hear so he would go away. That is indeed rape -coercing consent like that isn't valid- but if that's what happened then she really needs to start phrasing it better, because her current wording just confuses people.
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Is it too late to text "call the police for what?" and see if she slips up?
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The_Scarecrow posted...

https://imgur.com/a/n6u2i5J

really bad quality but thats all she has

She looks like a kid

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DarthDemented posted...

She looks like a kid

Some people just look younger. I still get carded at 28

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Why do you keep getting involved with these crazy bitches that try to ruin your life?
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TheoryzC posted...

Why do you keep getting involved with these crazy bitches that try to ruin your life?

They want that BBC

DDirtyDastard posted...

-Unowninator- posted...

If the police do show up, I say show them the texts. What does she possibly have on you?

Ever heard of the me too movement? How about believe women? She can literally ruin his life with a rape accusation.

But women have it so difficult m i rite
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https://imgur.com/a/iHSw5Te

And there it is. I can either say good night, not respond again because this kind of shit happens more often than it should, or I can spend the rest of the night and week comforting her like all of October.

TheoryzC posted...

Why do you keep getting involved with these crazy bitches that try to ruin your life?

Im not sure. Girls tell me Im easy to talk to because I seem really chill as if nothing bothers me and Im approachable compared to a lot of other guys they meet. Personally, I think Im ugly and weird but they dont think so.

EvenSpoonier posted...

Geez. I mean, it sounds like she's been through a rough time and all, but that doesn't excuse what she's doing to you. I reiterate my advice to call the police and tell them that someone is threatening to SWAT you: having that record in their system really does make a difference if they get a SWAT call later.

If I had to hazard a guess on that "raped but pretended to consent" incident, I'd venture that perhaps she's trying to talk about a boyfriend who kept pressuring her despite repeated refusals until she finally told him what he wanted to hear so he would go away. That is indeed rape -coercing consent like that isn't valid- but if that's what happened then she really needs to start phrasing it better, because her current wording just confuses people.

According to her, her ex boyfriend initiated sex one night when they were together but she wasnt down for it. Instead of telling him no or something, she pretended to be into it. After it was over and he fell asleep, she cried and has been traumatized ever since.

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She sounds crazy, and I normally am very skeptical. Definitely save your convos with her.
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https://imgur.com/a/iHSw5Te

She looks like a waste of time and conversation.
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DarthDemented posted...

She looks like a kid

She's 24. Older than me by a few years.

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Yeah, just bring that to the cops and explain that you aren't sure what she'll do but you think she might try and get something charges against you. They'll probably write you off, but at least if you get the ball rolling with documentation it could save your ass down the line. Cut her off, not worth it.
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Yeah, everyone. I'm going to take care of this during the week. I definitely do not want to deal with this. I wish the best for her but I don't want to worry about the police or an ambulance or whomever knocking on my door just because I don't respond to a text within a few hours. Regardless of whether or not she fears something may have happened to me, that's ridiculous.

I'd rather not imagine what she'll do if I somehow piss her off and she wants to get back at me. I'd be more willing to work with her if she sought therapy, took medications, had coping mechanics, or did something to deal with her various issues but she doesn't want to do any of that. It's almost as if she enjoys wallowing in misery and she wants to drag others down with her.

I've comforted her way too often than I would like to admit and I helped her pass intro to chem and organic chemistry. I've done more than enough at this point for her. She's too much to handle. Recently, she seemed interested in getting an apartment with me? I think I'm good on this chapter. I don't need to see what happens next.


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Im not sure. Girls tell me Im easy to talk to because I seem really chill as if nothing bothers me and Im approachable compared to a lot of other guys they meet. Personally, I think Im ugly and weird but they dont think so.

I'm not trying to say this to dunk on you or anything. Speaking purely internet person-to-internet person:

But it sounds like you're a pushover and you attract these kind of girls because they know they can have their way with you.
When I was in school, there was an entire subset of girls who went for insecure, nerdy guys because they knew they could have power over them without much of any pushback.

I'm getting very similar vibes here, especially since this is a more than once occurrence for you.
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