Current Events > Attracted to one of my coworkers, ugh

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DeroIin 08/31/19 7:41:21 PM #1:	I know what they say, dont shit where you eat, etc We both started (along with like 20 other people) two weeks ago, she caught my eye instantly the first time she walked in our first day of orientationbut I was sure we wouldnt even talk and that she would want nothing to do with me, even on a casual, friendly level. But damn, fast forward to now and she is outgoing. We talk in the office a bit and crack jokes with each other and have gone to group happy hours each Friday, but I wonder if theres a way to atleast escalate it without fucking myself over. We added each other in IG the other week and she commented on my last post which ik means nothing but damn...if only there was a way. --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926794937] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>I know what they say, dont shit where you eat, etc We both started (along with like 20 other people) two weeks ago, she caught my eye instantly the first time she walked in our first day of orientationbut I was sure we wouldnt even talk and that she would want nothing to do with me, even on a casual, friendly level. But damn, fast forward to now and she is outgoing. We talk in the office a bit and crack jokes with each other and have gone to group happy hours each Friday, but I wonder if theres a way to atleast escalate it without fucking myself over. We added each other in IG the other week and she commented on my last post which ik means nothing but damn...if only there was a way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
stoltenberg11 08/31/19 7:42:38 PM #2:	go for it --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:926794986] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>go for it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MI4 REAL 08/31/19 7:43:40 PM #3:	Just do it? I mean one of you will eventually leave the place and that will become irrelevant, right? It can happen in the reverse, too. Your ex could end up joining the place you currently work, for example. If it goes to the worst, can you evade them at work, or are you stuck? --- "Er...well, y'know. You can't make an omelette without um...destroying a forest.....or something" -Black Mage <cite>MI4 REAL posted [p:926795029] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Just do it? I mean one of you will eventually leave the place and that will become irrelevant, right? It can happen in the reverse, too. Your ex could end up joining the place you currently work, for example. If it goes to the worst, can you evade them at work, or are you stuck?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 08/31/19 7:45:42 PM #4:	Just do it. People who say that are the pussies like me who aren't willing to take chances in life. --- I dream broken dreams I make them come true <cite>NOM posted [p:926795120] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Just do it. People who say that are the pussies like me who aren't willing to take chances in life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 08/31/19 7:53:23 PM #6:	Hook up if you got an opening. But in a work situation I wouldnt put any expectations on it beyond hitting and quitting. --- Raised on VHS, anchored to DVD <cite>masticatingman posted [p:926795450] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Hook up if you got an opening. But in a work situation I wouldnt put any expectations on it beyond hitting and quitting.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJGrimReaper 08/31/19 7:53:54 PM #7:	is the butt fat?? --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. http://error1355.com/ce/SSJGrimReaper.html <cite>SSJGrimReaper posted [p:926795472] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>is the butt fat??</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 08/31/19 8:05:48 PM #8:	i say this as a feminist and someone who's strictly anti-harassment when it comes to the workplace: dating coworkers is not a new thing and its how plenty of people were born who are alive today people spend 8+ hour shifts cooped up in the same environment and their sexual instincts don't magically shut off just because they're clocked in despite social controversy, many men AND women are still open to dating a coworker they find attractive its not a weird thing to do, its actually pretty common im not saying that just because its common, all stories have a happy ending no there's still a lot of workplace dating attempts that end in arguments, accusations, fights and even job loss but there's a lot of cases where it worked out in success and people are literally walkin around today as born proof what i am sayin is you only have one life to live and only so many chances to find romance and write your own love stories as long as you understand and respect the differences between a flirty proposal and vulgar harassment why would you completely block yourself from attempting to find a relationship in an environment you regularly meet someone you're interested in? it would be wrong of me, or anyone for that matter, to tell you don't even try when we're turning to dust right now...might as well make the best of the time you got left, whether thats alone or together with someone care about the comfort of others, but don't forget your own --- Moo. #Listen&Investigate <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:926795940] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>i say this as a feminist and someone who's strictly anti-harassment when it comes to the workplace: dating coworkers is not a new thing and its how plenty of people were born who are alive today people spend 8+ hour shifts cooped up in the same environment and their sexual instincts don't magically shut off just because they're clocked in despite social controversy, many men AND women are still open to dating a coworker they find attractive its not a weird thing to do, its actually pretty common im not saying that just because its common, all stories have a happy ending no there's still a lot of workplace dating attempts that end in arguments, accusations, fights and even job loss but there's a lot of cases where it worked out in success and people are literally walkin around today as born proof what i am sayin is you only have one life to live and only so many chances to find romance and write your own love stories as long as you understand and respect the differences between a flirty proposal and vulgar harassment why would you completely block yourself from attempting to find a relationship in an environment you regularly meet someone you're interested in? it would be wrong of me, or anyone for that matter, to tell you don't even try when we're turning to dust right now...might as well make the best of the time you got left, whether thats alone or together with someone care about the comfort of others, but don't forget your own</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 08/31/19 8:08:31 PM #9:	i've had several hot coworkers over the years i'm trying not to be harsh but just keep your distance and make peace with the fact that it's in your best interest even if the ass is fat --- https://imgur.com/A0TAfek <cite>TheMikh posted [p:926796049] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>i've had several hot coworkers over the years i'm trying not to be harsh but just keep your distance and make peace with the fact that it's in your best interest even if the ass is fat</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 08/31/19 8:09:23 PM #10:	Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926796084] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 08/31/19 8:09:42 PM #11:	DeroIin posted... Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps oh god just don't --- https://imgur.com/A0TAfek <cite>TheMikh posted [p:926796096] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps</quote> oh god just don't</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 08/31/19 8:09:44 PM #12:	Forgettable posted... Do you even know if she's single? She is, see my above post --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926796099] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Forgettable posted...</cite> <quote>Do you even know if she's single?</quote> She is, see my above post</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
stoltenberg11 08/31/19 8:12:25 PM #13:	stoltenberg11 posted... go for it --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:926796211] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>stoltenberg11 posted...</cite> <quote>go for it</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solo_Wing 08/31/19 8:12:49 PM #14:	Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ. --- Yo buddy... Still alive? <cite>Solo_Wing posted [p:926796230] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 08/31/19 8:14:07 PM #15:	Just do it, man. Who gives a shit? Best case scenario you guys date have a good time and fuck like wabbits without any issues. Worst case she rejects you and you can handle that one of two ways: 1. Be civil, don't ask her out anymore and you'll most likely be fine. 2. Get all pissed off, say some dumb shit and lose your job. Big. Fucking. Deal. Plenty of jobs out there. --- I dream broken dreams I make them come true <cite>NOM posted [p:926796283] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Just do it, man. Who gives a shit? Best case scenario you guys date have a good time and fuck like wabbits without any issues. Worst case she rejects you and you can handle that one of two ways: 1. Be civil, don't ask her out anymore and you'll most likely be fine. 2. Get all pissed off, say some dumb shit and lose your job. Big. Fucking. Deal. Plenty of jobs out there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 08/31/19 8:14:22 PM #16:	Workplace romance can be manageable, but most people are terrible at it. And it puts your job at risk. If you like to gamble, who am I to tell you no? You might be gifted enough to pull it off. Just keep in mind a gamble is indeed what it is, particularly with political phenomena like #MeToo looming in the background. A lot of times it won't even escalate to that point. You might get together and then breakup, simply making workplace interactions too awkward. And then boom, one of you quits just to stop seeing the other at work. Pursue what you want, but tread carefully. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://i.imgtc.com/k1IlqEz.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/p1ooHhw.png <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:926796295] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Workplace romance can be manageable, but most people are terrible at it. And it puts your job at risk. If you like to gamble, who am I to tell you no? You might be gifted enough to pull it off. Just keep in mind a gamble is indeed what it is, particularly with political phenomena like #MeToo looming in the background. A lot of times it won't even escalate to that point. You might get together and then breakup, simply making workplace interactions too awkward. And then boom, one of you quits just to stop seeing the other at work. Pursue what you want, but tread carefully.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 08/31/19 8:15:17 PM #17:	Solo_Wing posted... Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ. Weve only been there for two weeks, nothing solid yet with anyone really, let alone her. And I was definitely not going to shoot my shot anytime soon, just waiting it out to see what happens and trying to connect with my other coworkers --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926796327] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Solo_Wing posted...</cite> <quote>Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ.</quote> Weve only been there for two weeks, nothing solid yet with anyone really, let alone her. And I was definitely not going to shoot my shot anytime soon, just waiting it out to see what happens and trying to connect with my other coworkers</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 08/31/19 8:16:21 PM #18:	does this job pay well is it consequential to your career if either, recipe for disaster --- https://imgur.com/A0TAfek <cite>TheMikh posted [p:926796371] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>does this job pay well is it consequential to your career if either, recipe for disaster</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 08/31/19 8:44:09 PM #19:	TheMikh posted... does this job pay well is it consequential to your career if either, recipe for disaster Eh, its good for a first job post college but I got higher aspirations involving more schooling and a doctorate degree. But note taken --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926797425] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>TheMikh posted...</cite> <quote>does this job pay well is it consequential to your career if either, recipe for disaster</quote> Eh, its good for a first job post college but I got higher aspirations involving more schooling and a doctorate degree. But note taken</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaltyWet 08/31/19 8:58:40 PM #20:	What is her physical description? --- SaltyWet <cite>SaltyWet posted [p:926797970] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>What is her physical description?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 08/31/19 9:01:29 PM #21:	Could be worse At least you don't only work with animals... --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:926798081] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Could be worse At least you don't only work with animals...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJGrimReaper 08/31/19 9:03:00 PM #22:	TC refused to answer if the ass was fat so that means it's a ironing board ass --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. http://error1355.com/ce/SSJGrimReaper.html <cite>SSJGrimReaper posted [p:926798138] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>TC refused to answer if the ass was fat so that means it's a ironing board ass</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 08/31/19 9:15:13 PM #23:	DeroIin posted... I know what they say, dont s* where you eat, etc People who say this are cowards and/or are too immature to confront the possibility of a break up. Have a conversation about how y'all act around each other if there is indeed a break up and everything should be fine. --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:926798548] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>I know what they say, dont s* where you eat, etc </quote> People who say this are cowards and/or are too immature to confront the possibility of a break up. Have a conversation about how y'all act around each other if there is indeed a break up and everything should be fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MasterGakke 08/31/19 9:17:19 PM #24:	Basically, if your job is something you can't lose in the next couple of years, don't do it. Like, you'll die in the streets reeking of piss can't lose, not just you don't want to leave. In every other circumstance, go for it. For fuck's sake don't be creepy about it, though. --- All generalizations are false, including this one. <cite>MasterGakke posted [p:926798623] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Basically, if your job is something you can't lose in the next couple of years, don't do it. Like, you'll die in the streets reeking of piss can't lose, not just you don't want to leave. In every other circumstance, go for it. For fuck's sake don't be creepy about it, though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 08/31/19 9:22:12 PM #25:	I'm attracted to numerous coworkers too, I remain professional and move on. Now if I wasn't married there are definitely a few I would peruse. --- Oda break tracker 2019- 5 (4) \| THE Ohio State: 0-0 \| Oakland Raiders: 0-0 Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:926798833] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>I'm attracted to numerous coworkers too, I remain professional and move on. Now if I wasn't married there are definitely a few I would peruse.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 08/31/19 9:26:40 PM #26:	Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:926799001] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AurochSpirit 08/31/19 9:32:27 PM #27:	Just go for it. Where I work pretty much everyone has got together with a coworker. Its at the point now where its strange to have not done it. <cite>AurochSpirit posted [p:926799204] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Just go for it. Where I work pretty much everyone has got together with a coworker. Its at the point now where its strange to have not done it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 08/31/19 10:37:21 PM #28:	SSJGrimReaper posted... TC refused to answer if the ass was fat so that means it's a ironing board ass It is flat but she fine --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926801291] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>SSJGrimReaper posted...</cite> <quote>TC refused to answer if the ass was fat so that means it's a ironing board ass</quote> It is flat but she fine</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alimajor 08/31/19 10:43:45 PM #29:	Dont do it. If/when you decide to end things with her it wont be pretty for you fam <cite>alimajor posted [p:926801506] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Dont do it. If/when you decide to end things with her it wont be pretty for you fam </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SexPantherPanda 08/31/19 10:44:05 PM #30:	not good <cite>SexPantherPanda posted [p:926801518] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>not good</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fuzzylittlbunny 08/31/19 10:47:42 PM #31:	I have a buttload of hot coworkers but they're all taken :< --- ( ^_^)/\(^_^ ) Maya high five! <cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted [p:926801654] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>I have a buttload of hot coworkers but they're all taken :<</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 09/01/19 1:21:54 AM #32:	Solid Snake07 posted... Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926806645] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on</quote> Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 09/01/19 1:24:37 AM #33:	SaltyWet posted... What is her physical description? About 53, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes. She isnt sexy in the usual sense(curvy) but she is hot af. Like a top tier sorority girl type without the curves --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926806742] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>SaltyWet posted...</cite> <quote>What is her physical description?</quote> About 53, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes. She isnt sexy in the usual sense(curvy) but she is hot af. Like a top tier sorority girl type without the curves</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 09/01/19 1:37:07 AM #34:	DeroIin posted... Solid Snake07 posted... Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol It really is that simple though. Over complicate it like I did, you lose the opportunity you may have had. --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:926807092] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on</quote> Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol</quote> It really is that simple though. Over complicate it like I did, you lose the opportunity you may have had.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Banjo2553 09/01/19 2:12:02 AM #35:	DeroIin posted... Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps That completely makes it a no-go then. I'd rather not deal with the hassle if I were in that position. --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA <cite>Banjo2553 posted [p:926807956] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Oh and one more detail thats I feel is important. Her ex that she was in a relationship with back at college is also in the same hiring class as us so even if anything happened I would have to keep it under wraps</quote> That completely makes it a no-go then. I'd rather not deal with the hassle if I were in that position.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HairyThotter 09/01/19 2:43:45 AM #36:	Solo_Wing posted... Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ. I don't know... there are definitely ways to say what he wants to say with finesse and not leave things a mess. TC, if you're on a friendly enough level with her, there's absolutely no shame in saying something like "so hey this is a little embarrassing, but I wanted to say I think you're really cool and wanted to ask if you'd go out for drinks with me sometime, just you and me? And if not, hey thats cool, no harm done". It's better than just waiting around in limbo. You're both adults with jobs, just talk to her. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. --- "With cheese in either hand, anything is possible" <cite>HairyThotter posted [p:926808597] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Solo_Wing posted...</cite> <quote>Be a 100% sure you're gonna land the shot if you go for it TC, otherwise it's gonna be awkward. Unless you have a solid friendship, but judging from the back story, you don't. Or if you can deal with rejection like a champ.</quote> I don't know... there are definitely ways to say what he wants to say with finesse and not leave things a mess. TC, if you're on a friendly enough level with her, there's absolutely no shame in saying something like "so hey this is a little embarrassing, but I wanted to say I think you're really cool and wanted to ask if you'd go out for drinks with me sometime, just you and me? And if not, hey thats cool, no harm done". It's better than just waiting around in limbo. You're both adults with jobs, just talk to her. If you don't ask, the answer is always no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
au_gold 09/01/19 3:03:11 AM #37:	Dip your pen in the company ink. --- Let me talk to your mother. Get your mother please. <cite>au_gold posted [p:926808998] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Dip your pen in the company ink.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
--Zero- 09/01/19 4:19:43 AM #38:	Don't do it. Toxic mofos pushing you in this topic pretending to be Bros lol. Unless you don't care about keeping the job long term then go for it. Otherwise wait till she leaves the job if she does or wait a long time to know you're sure this won't blow up in your face. --- SIGNATURE <cite>--Zero- posted [p:926810328] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Don't do it. Toxic mofos pushing you in this topic pretending to be Bros lol. Unless you don't care about keeping the job long term then go for it. Otherwise wait till she leaves the job if she does or wait a long time to know you're sure this won't blow up in your face. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 09/01/19 10:49:28 AM #39:	Lots of good info here itt --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926816398] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Lots of good info here itt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OpenlyGator 09/01/19 1:41:48 PM #40:	DeroIin posted... Solid Snake07 posted... Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol Okay, so you WANT to fail. Got it. I mean if CE is one of your only outlets for advice at this point, uh oh... --- The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png <cite>OpenlyGator posted [p:926821728] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on</quote> Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol</quote> Okay, so you WANT to fail. Got it. I mean if CE is one of your only outlets for advice at this point, uh oh...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 09/02/19 4:40:50 AM #41:	OpenlyGator posted... DeroIin posted... Solid Snake07 posted... Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol Okay, so you WANT to fail. Got it. I mean if CE is one of your only outlets for advice at this point, uh oh... I got friends I tell to --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926851183] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>OpenlyGator posted...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>Ask her out, if she says no respect that and move on</quote> Its not that simple in the workplace. I just started and even I see that. Thats why I cant just ask her out on a whim like I could in college, have to consult CE beforehand lol</quote> Okay, so you WANT to fail. Got it. I mean if CE is one of your only outlets for advice at this point, uh oh...</quote> I got friends I tell to</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 09/03/19 8:56:20 PM #42:	Was so busy and stressed at work I didnt even have time to think about her. Guess thats a good thing lol --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:926930083] in Attracted ... [t:77978039]...</cite> <quote>Was so busy and stressed at work I didnt even have time to think about her. Guess thats a good thing lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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