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pojr
08/11/19 6:47:38 PM
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a coworker in mine met a girl off tinder. not the most attractive woman honestly, but the he kept talking to her. he set the expectation right away that he only wants something physical, not a relationship, and she was fine

things started out fine, they banged a couple times and all was well, but she was growing feelings for my friend. so she started trying to swaying him towards a relationship (of course to no avail). it got to the point where she would text him constantly and he wouldn't reply. and she was honestly a mess. would cry a lot and was super obsessed with him. I know because she had my number and would blow up my phone about him. she kept asking questions about him and trying to gain info about him.

was he in the wrong? he set the expectation right from the start that he does not want a relationship with her.
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LordFarquad1312
08/11/19 6:49:11 PM
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Your friend did nothing wrong
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DrizztLink
08/11/19 6:51:18 PM
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The only thing your friend did wrong was tap-dancing in a minefield hoping the mines understood he was just practicing.

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MabusIncarnate
08/11/19 6:51:48 PM
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LordFarquad1312 posted...
Your friend did nothing wrong
This. And she sounds a bit nuts and clingy.

Not everyone wants to find a long term partner.

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TheVipaGTS
08/11/19 6:52:03 PM
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MabusIncarnate
08/11/19 6:52:24 PM
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Unsugarized_Foo
08/11/19 6:53:55 PM
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pojr
08/11/19 6:54:15 PM
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I forgot to mention that, even after he know she was interested in him romantically, he would still bang her
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MabusIncarnate
08/11/19 6:54:48 PM
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pojr posted...
I forgot to mention that, even after he know she was interested in him romantically, he would still bang her
Way to block your own summons bro

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LightningAce11
08/11/19 6:54:57 PM
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MabusIncarnate
08/11/19 6:55:14 PM
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pojr
08/11/19 6:56:13 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
pojr posted...
I forgot to mention that, even after he know she was interested in him romantically, he would still bang her
Way to block your own summons bro

dont hire that girl bro
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KillerKhan420
08/11/19 6:56:24 PM
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Welcome to the dumb idea of FWB. Someone always develops feelings obviously, and even if it's known on both sides it's a FWB type thing, someone fucks around on the other and that's how it hurts someone
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assassingriskel
08/11/19 6:56:34 PM
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pojr posted...
I forgot to mention that, even after he know she was interested in him romantically, he would still bang her
If he clearly told her from the beginning he didnt want a relationship which it seems he did that's still all on her. He did not deceive her she chose to still sleep with him her fault not his

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Infinite 2003
08/11/19 6:57:31 PM
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TheVipaGTS
08/11/19 7:06:27 PM
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synth_real
08/11/19 8:39:46 PM
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0AbsoluteZero0
08/11/19 8:48:00 PM
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pauIie
08/11/19 8:58:12 PM
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dave_is_slick
08/11/19 9:01:59 PM
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assassingriskel posted...
If he clearly told her from the beginning he didnt want a relationship which it seems he did that's still all on her. He did not deceive her she chose to still sleep with him her fault not his
Nah, now that TC revealed that the dude knew she had feelings, he's actually leading her on by continuing to fuck. He went from innocent to guilty with that revelation.

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tremain07
08/11/19 9:10:10 PM
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dave_is_slick posted...
he's actually leading her on by continuing to f***.

How? He made his intentions clear from the start that she was just a hole for him and she okay'd that just because she caught the feels after a couple of mattress romps isn't his fault
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dave_is_slick
08/11/19 9:13:47 PM
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tremain07 posted...
How? He made his intentions clear from the start that she was just a hole for him and she okay'd that just because she caught the feels after a couple of mattress romps isn't his fault
Now instead of both parties feeling the same, one side has changed their mind. Unlike most times this happens, she let him know, so now he can't pretend he doesn't know. Any interactions after this are just leading her on. He's not innocent. You can't hide behind what someone initially said if the other party made it clear that feelings are different.

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assassingriskel
08/11/19 9:32:07 PM
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tremain07 posted...
How? He made his intentions clear from the start that she was just a hole for him and she okay'd that just because she caught the feels after a couple of mattress romps isn't his fault
This plus your acting like the women is not a adult that can make rational decisions she is choosing to continue to let him have sex with her despite knowing he does not feel the same way see how your faulty logic can be applied both ways dave

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dave_is_slick
08/11/19 9:33:30 PM
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assassingriskel posted...
This plus your acting like the women is not a adult that can make rational decisions she is choosing to continue to let him have sex with her despite knowing he does not feel the same way see how your faulty logic can be applied both ways dave
Just like she's continuing, he too is also continuting to fuck someone he knows has feelings for him. That is the definition of leading someone on.

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assassingriskel
08/11/19 9:35:59 PM
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dave_is_slick posted...
Just like she's continuing, he too is also continuting to fuck someone he knows has feelings for him. That is the definition of leading someone on.
So in your world telling her he just wants sex and continuing to just want sex is leading on? LOL makes 0 sense

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dave_is_slick
08/11/19 9:41:44 PM
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assassingriskel posted...
So in your world telling her he just wants sex and continuing to just want sex is leading on? LOL makes 0 sense
So we're going to ignore that he knows how she feels now? Because you seem to be unable to reconcile that part. I guess if you want to live in ignorance.

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Sunburst
08/11/19 9:45:19 PM
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He's only in the wrong if he doesn't end things.
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yunalenne10
08/11/19 9:47:22 PM
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Sunburst posted...
He's only in the wrong if he doesn't end things.


Agreed. He needs to step in at this point.
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dave_is_slick
08/11/19 9:48:26 PM
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Sunburst posted...
He's only in the wrong if he doesn't end things.
Finally, someone with sense.

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