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Harpie 12/27/18 3:40:41 AM #1:	I work at a grocery store. There is this customer that comes in every few days and when he sees me, he makes a beeline to me and tries to talk to me. At first, I thought it was cute. Then it just got really weird. He makes comments about how how pretty I am, I have nice eyes and yada yada WOE IS ME IM GETTING COMPLIMENTS BOO FUCKING HOO No. Thats not the weird part. The weird and really fucking creepy part is lately hes been saying things like I wanna stare into your eyes as I caress your body What time are you off work? Let me pick you up I need you Keep in mind that I am a cashier where it is my job to be generally friendly. Also, I consider myself to be nice. Too nice. Where I will let people do whatever they want because I hate the idea of me doing something to make them upset. Lately Ive made a point to shut down when he sees me. I stop talking, I avoid eye contact and I dont smile. This guy makes me extremely uncomfortable and I just kinda wished hed go away if I ignored him. NOPE. Today, I walked out of work. And guess who I saw right outside? THIS FUCKING GUY IN HIS CAR him: hey do you wanna hop in and go somewhere? me: uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh no um I have to go bye literally runs around the corner and jumps a (albiet very short) fence to avoid him following me home well folks, it doesnt end there he has found one of my social media accounts commented beautiful under each post and followed me therefore i deleted every one of them and then proceded to block him I wish I was making this shit up but when i saw his face pop up in my notifications i got very spooked magoots So now im gonna tell my work about it. But I honestly dont know what they could even do that would make me feel better thats it, just wanted to throw a wall of text at ce because i got spooked by this dude TLDR Customer actively seeks me out at work, is creepy, says creepy things and then does creepy/slightly illegal(?) things --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764334] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>I work at a grocery store. There is this customer that comes in every few days and when he sees me, he makes a beeline to me and tries to talk to me. At first, I thought it was cute. Then it just got really weird. He makes comments about how how pretty I am, I have nice eyes and yada yada WOE IS ME IM GETTING COMPLIMENTS BOO FUCKING HOO No. Thats not the weird part. The weird and really fucking creepy part is lately hes been saying things like I wanna stare into your eyes as I caress your body What time are you off work? Let me pick you up I need you Keep in mind that I am a cashier where it is my job to be generally friendly. Also, I consider myself to be nice. Too nice. Where I will let people do whatever they want because I hate the idea of me doing something to make them upset. Lately Ive made a point to shut down when he sees me. I stop talking, I avoid eye contact and I dont smile. This guy makes me extremely uncomfortable and I just kinda wished hed go away if I ignored him. NOPE. Today, I walked out of work. And guess who I saw right outside? THIS FUCKING GUY IN HIS CAR him: hey do you wanna hop in and go somewhere? me: uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh no um I have to go bye literally runs around the corner and jumps a (albiet very short) fence to avoid him following me home well folks, it doesnt end there he has found one of my social media accounts commented beautiful under each post and followed me therefore i deleted every one of them and then proceded to block him I wish I was making this shit up but when i saw his face pop up in my notifications i got very spooked magoots So now im gonna tell my work about it. But I honestly dont know what they could even do that would make me feel better thats it, just wanted to throw a wall of text at ce because i got spooked by this dude <cite>TLDR</cite> Customer actively seeks me out at work, is creepy, says creepy things and then does creepy/slightly illegal(?) things</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Acceptance 12/27/18 3:42:05 AM #2:	Im so sorry to hear this :( --- Do you accept the charges? <cite>Acceptance posted [p:914764355] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Im so sorry to hear this :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chicken 12/27/18 3:44:46 AM #3:	Go up to his window and fart. --- https://youtu.be/jGbI0P4hh3o <cite>Chicken posted [p:914764400] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Go up to his window and fart.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dib153 12/27/18 3:44:56 AM #4:	Spooked Magoots --- "Dib is my new hero. Epic insult man, epic to the max" ~ Drakona <cite>dib153 posted [p:914764404] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Spooked Magoots</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 12/27/18 3:45:39 AM #5:	that sucks but sounds like you handled it well. but in the future don't be so nice to susceptible guys. There's really no benefit in giving them the benefit of the doubt lol --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:914764418] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>that sucks but sounds like you handled it well. but in the future don't be so nice to susceptible guys. There's really no benefit in giving them the benefit of the doubt lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 3:46:26 AM #6:	Acceptance posted... Im so sorry to hear this :( Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764432] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote>Im so sorry to hear this :(</quote> Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/27/18 3:47:05 AM #7:	Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:914764447] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeuralLaxative 12/27/18 3:48:01 AM #8:	Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science --- https://imgur.com/rPJnWhf <cite>NeuralLaxative posted [p:914764462] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 12/27/18 3:48:22 AM #9:	Harpie posted... But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:914764471] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote>But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Acceptance 12/27/18 3:48:45 AM #10:	Harpie posted... Acceptance posted... Im so sorry to hear this :( Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior. --- Do you accept the charges? <cite>Acceptance posted [p:914764475] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote>Im so sorry to hear this :(</quote> Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 3:49:46 AM #11:	Chicken posted... Go up to his window and fart. What if he yeets me through his window though and kidnaps me and then i get raped amd killed ._. dib153 posted... Spooked Magoots very rikasa posted... that sucks but sounds like you handled it well. but in the future don't be so nice to susceptible guys. There's really no benefit in giving them the benefit of the doubt lol This is definitely my problem. I 100% enable them by laughing off their creep comments and not completely shutting down their advances Uggggggghhhhh I hate everything about this situation and that it even exists --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764498] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Chicken posted...</cite> <quote>Go up to his window and fart.</quote> What if he yeets me through his window though and kidnaps me and then i get raped amd killed ._. <cite>dib153 posted...</cite> <quote>Spooked Magoots</quote> very <cite>rikasa posted...</cite> <quote>that sucks but sounds like you handled it well. but in the future don't be so nice to susceptible guys. There's really no benefit in giving them the benefit of the doubt lol</quote> This is definitely my problem. I 100% enable them by laughing off their creep comments and not completely shutting down their advances Uggggggghhhhh I hate everything about this situation and that it even exists</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NinjaX2099 12/27/18 3:50:12 AM #12:	Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance. --- and I had to offer her a stick of gum She was as thick as they come, and taught a strict curriculum <cite>NinjaX2099 posted [p:914764505] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 12/27/18 3:50:19 AM #13:	Shit, I think a lot of women that work in customer service have to deal with things like this on a regular basis. That one regular customer. This is one area where I definitely feel bad for women since, as a guy, I cannot fully understand or appreciate how terrifying it must be. Him trying to talk to you a lot at work is one thing, but tracking down your social media and making a point to comment on everything is especially fucked. Waiting for you in the parking lot was already crossing the line. You need to shut it down fast, preferably when you are at work and there are other people around. Do whatever you think needs to be done. Simply tell him you're not interested and already have a boyfriend if you want to take the gentle approach. Or tell him straight up that what he's doing isn't okay and is making you extremely uncomfortable and that he needs to stop. Again, with the latter approach I don't know what the response will be because it might be inflammatory for the wrong individual. But it's what really needs to be said, because this isn't how you win a girl over. Not by a long shot. It might be better to have a male friend/coworker/boss talk to him. Tell as many people as you can about what's happening and if possible have him banned from entering the store. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:914764508] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Shit, I think a lot of women that work in customer service have to deal with things like this on a regular basis. That one regular customer. This is one area where I definitely feel bad for women since, as a guy, I cannot fully understand or appreciate how terrifying it must be. Him trying to talk to you a lot at work is one thing, but tracking down your social media and making a point to comment on everything is especially fucked. Waiting for you in the parking lot was already crossing the line. You need to shut it down fast, preferably when you are at work and there are other people around. Do whatever you think needs to be done. Simply tell him you're not interested and already have a boyfriend if you want to take the gentle approach. Or tell him straight up that what he's doing isn't okay and is making you extremely uncomfortable and that he needs to stop. Again, with the latter approach I don't know what the response will be because it might be inflammatory for the wrong individual. But it's what really needs to be said, because this isn't how you win a girl over. Not by a long shot. It might be better to have a male friend/coworker/boss talk to him. Tell as many people as you can about what's happening and if possible have him banned from entering the store.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 12/27/18 3:51:20 AM #14:	Maybe you can just start talking about Chad and how much you like sucking a big fat dick but only if the guy is over 6'3 another of my favorites is to just throw out a comment like, "Yeah, but his dick was very small. Barely 6 inches." --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:914764528] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Maybe you can just start talking about Chad and how much you like sucking a big fat dick but only if the guy is over 6'3 another of my favorites is to just throw out a comment like, "Yeah, but his dick was very small. Barely 6 inches."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpaghettiCookie 12/27/18 3:51:46 AM #15:	Block him from social media (you did) Tell your work for sure try to get them to recognize who this guy is Idk your living situation but avoid being alone with that guy. --- I'm very excited to be part of a community! Feel free to ask me anything you need! <cite>SpaghettiCookie posted [p:914764535] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Block him from social media (you did) Tell your work for sure try to get them to recognize who this guy is Idk your living situation but avoid being alone with that guy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 3:54:14 AM #16:	MabusIncarnate posted... Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life Im good The 3 guys that are doing this (including the one in the OP), are obviously very socially awkward which really doesnt help NeuralLaxative posted... Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science I know. I need to grow the balls to tell them straight. Can I borrow yours? rikasa posted... NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise I know its there but thats a part of me I dont want to let out lol Acceptance posted... Harpie posted... Acceptance posted... Im so sorry to hear this :( Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior. Youre right >.> Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764572] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life</quote> Im good The 3 guys that are doing this (including the one in the OP), are obviously very socially awkward which really doesnt help <cite>NeuralLaxative posted...</cite> <quote>Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science</quote> I know. I need to grow the balls to tell them straight. Can I borrow yours? <cite>rikasa posted...</cite> <quote>NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise</quote> I know its there but thats a part of me I dont want to let out lol <cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote>Im so sorry to hear this :(</quote> Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior.</quote> Youre right >.> Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Touch 12/27/18 3:58:10 AM #17:	"Fuck off" --- https://imgtc.com/i/bC2YZz9.jpg <cite>Touch posted [p:914764628] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>"Fuck off"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 12/27/18 3:58:10 AM #18:	NinjaX2099 posted... Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance. Blunt and to the point, it's the only way. Yeah I'm using spooked magoots from now on --- Signatures are overrated. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:914764629] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>NinjaX2099 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance.</quote> Blunt and to the point, it's the only way. Yeah I'm using spooked magoots from now on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Acceptance 12/27/18 4:01:46 AM #19:	Harpie posted... MabusIncarnate posted... Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life Im good The 3 guys that are doing this (including the one in the OP), are obviously very socially awkward which really doesnt help NeuralLaxative posted... Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science I know. I need to grow the balls to tell them straight. Can I borrow yours? rikasa posted... NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise I know its there but thats a part of me I dont want to let out lol Acceptance posted... Harpie posted... Acceptance posted... Im so sorry to hear this :( Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior. Youre right >.> Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone Just say you have a boyfriend. Maybe that will stop the crazy o_o --- Do you accept the charges? <cite>Acceptance posted [p:914764686] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like just the kind of guy you could use in your life</quote> Im good The 3 guys that are doing this (including the one in the OP), are obviously very socially awkward which really doesnt help <cite>NeuralLaxative posted...</cite> <quote>Tell him youre not interested and to please leave you alone, and if he doesnt tell your boss and if they dont intervene call the cops. Not rocket science</quote> I know. I need to grow the balls to tell them straight. Can I borrow yours? <cite>rikasa posted...</cite> <quote>NO. seriously. you have to find the fun in shitting on them and their entitlement. it's there I promise</quote> I know its there but thats a part of me I dont want to let out lol <cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote>Im so sorry to hear this :(</quote> Tbh I think its kind of my own fault? I lead on these kind of guys by not shutting them down cold and hard early on and then it gets to this point. There are two other guys like him, currently, that are creepy and say creepy things to me while I am at work. These three fucking guys give me so much anxiety. Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> No. Its your job to be nice. Hes not taking the hint and instead of taking rejection like a normal person, doubling down on his crazy behavior.</quote> Youre right >.> Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone</quote> Just say you have a boyfriend. Maybe that will stop the crazy o_o</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 4:06:26 AM #20:	NinjaX2099 posted... Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance. This is the overwhelming sentiment from you guys, so youre probably right. I still have a werid fear that he might retaliate or yada yada but I just need to do it. Ultima Dragon posted... Shit, I think a lot of women that work in customer service have to deal with things like this on a regular basis. That one regular customer. This is one area where I definitely feel bad for women since, as a guy, I cannot fully understand or appreciate how terrifying it must be. Him trying to talk to you a lot at work is one thing, but tracking down your social media and making a point to comment on everything is especially fucked. Waiting for you in the parking lot was already crossing the line. You need to shut it down fast, preferably when you are at work and there are other people around. Do whatever you think needs to be done. Simply tell him you're not interested and already have a boyfriend if you want to take the gentle approach. Or tell him straight up that what he's doing isn't okay and is making you extremely uncomfortable and that he needs to stop. Again, with the latter approach I don't know what the response will be because it might be inflammatory for the wrong individual. But it's what really needs to be said, because this isn't how you win a girl over. Not by a long shot. It might be better to have a male friend/coworker/boss talk to him. Tell as many people as you can about what's happening and if possible have him banned from entering the store. This was really comforting and reassuring, so thank you for that <333 Youre right. When I go to work tomorrow Ill alert my managers and some coworkers, and when I see him I will be honest with him and tell him that what hes doing is not okay hduehd jskaisbdbxjakcbxb rikasa posted... Maybe you can just start talking about Chad and how much you like sucking a big fat dick but only if the guy is over 6'3 another of my favorites is to just throw out a comment like, "Yeah, but his dick was very small. Barely 6 inches." lmaooooo I strive to have these kind of balls to say that to someone one day SpaghettiCookie posted... Block him from social media (you did) Tell your work for sure try to get them to recognize who this guy is Idk your living situation but avoid being alone with that guy. My roommate has a three legged pug so i think were safe from invaders --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764768] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>NinjaX2099 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance.</quote> This is the overwhelming sentiment from you guys, so youre probably right. I still have a werid fear that he might retaliate or yada yada but I just need to do it. <cite>Ultima Dragon posted...</cite> <quote>Shit, I think a lot of women that work in customer service have to deal with things like this on a regular basis. That one regular customer. This is one area where I definitely feel bad for women since, as a guy, I cannot fully understand or appreciate how terrifying it must be. Him trying to talk to you a lot at work is one thing, but tracking down your social media and making a point to comment on everything is especially fucked. Waiting for you in the parking lot was already crossing the line. You need to shut it down fast, preferably when you are at work and there are other people around. Do whatever you think needs to be done. Simply tell him you're not interested and already have a boyfriend if you want to take the gentle approach. Or tell him straight up that what he's doing isn't okay and is making you extremely uncomfortable and that he needs to stop. Again, with the latter approach I don't know what the response will be because it might be inflammatory for the wrong individual. But it's what really needs to be said, because this isn't how you win a girl over. Not by a long shot. It might be better to have a male friend/coworker/boss talk to him. Tell as many people as you can about what's happening and if possible have him banned from entering the store.</quote> This was really comforting and reassuring, so thank you for that <333 Youre right. When I go to work tomorrow Ill alert my managers and some coworkers, and when I see him I will be honest with him and tell him that what hes doing is not okay hduehd jskaisbdbxjakcbxb <cite>rikasa posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe you can just start talking about Chad and how much you like sucking a big fat dick but only if the guy is over 6'3 another of my favorites is to just throw out a comment like, "Yeah, but his dick was very small. Barely 6 inches."</quote> lmaooooo I strive to have these kind of balls to say that to someone one day <cite>SpaghettiCookie posted...</cite> <quote>Block him from social media (you did) Tell your work for sure try to get them to recognize who this guy is Idk your living situation but avoid being alone with that guy.</quote> My roommate has a three legged pug so i think were safe from invaders</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 4:10:28 AM #21:	Touch posted... Harpie posted... Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone "Fuck off" Simple and straight to the point. I love it. Maybe if Im feeling extra spicey I could tell him to Go fuck off --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764824] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Touch posted...</cite><quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite><quote>Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone</quote> "Fuck off"</quote> Simple and straight to the point. I love it. Maybe if Im feeling extra spicey I could tell him to Go fuck off</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 12/27/18 4:12:24 AM #22:	bulletproofvita posted... NinjaX2099 posted... Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance. Blunt and to the point, it's the only way. Yeah I'm using spooked magoots from now on Oh you better. Ill be watching to make sure youre using your new vocabulary around here Acceptance posted... Just say you have a boyfriend. Maybe that will stop the crazy o_o Would saying Im a raging lesbian also do the job? --- Never Gonna Give You Up Never Gonna Let You Down <cite>Harpie posted [p:914764856] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>bulletproofvita posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NinjaX2099 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont be coy at this point completely shut them down. Anything beside a hard no will leave them with the notion that there is still a chance.</quote> Blunt and to the point, it's the only way. Yeah I'm using spooked magoots from now on </quote> Oh you better. Ill be watching to make sure youre using your new vocabulary around here <cite>Acceptance posted...</cite> <quote>Just say you have a boyfriend. Maybe that will stop the crazy o_o</quote> Would saying Im a raging lesbian also do the job?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 12/27/18 4:13:01 AM #23:	It's your right to be exactly who you are, single and straight or whatever, without harassment --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:914764874] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>It's your right to be exactly who you are, single and straight or whatever, without harassment</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Acceptance 12/27/18 4:13:18 AM #24:	No then hell think he can change you probably LOL --- Do you accept the charges? <cite>Acceptance posted [p:914764882] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>No then hell think he can change you probably LOL</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Touch 12/27/18 4:18:26 AM #25:	Harpie posted... Touch posted... Harpie posted... Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone "Fuck off" Simple and straight to the point. I love it. Maybe if Im feeling extra spicey I could tell him to Go fuck off Yeah. Sometimes it's the only thing that works. Say you're not interested, they'll say you should give them a chance. Say you have a boyfriend/girlfriend already, they'll say they can probably treat you better than your boyfriend/girlfriend can. --- https://imgtc.com/i/bC2YZz9.jpg <cite>Touch posted [p:914764979] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Touch posted...</cite><quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite><quote>Whats a nice way to say Leave me alone</quote> "Fuck off"</quote> Simple and straight to the point. I love it. Maybe if Im feeling extra spicey I could tell him to Go fuck off</quote> Yeah. Sometimes it's the only thing that works. Say you're not interested, they'll say you should give them a chance. Say you have a boyfriend/girlfriend already, they'll say they can probably treat you better than your boyfriend/girlfriend can.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 12/27/18 5:02:37 AM #26:	Tell your boss, get him 86d from the store. --- Y helo thar buttsecks <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:914765601] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Tell your boss, get him 86d from the store.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R_Jackal 12/27/18 5:07:46 AM #27:	Talk to your boss n tell the cops in case you need a restraining order if the guy continues to creep. Works for most of em. Also, shut em down definitively. <cite>R_Jackal posted [p:914765694] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Talk to your boss n tell the cops in case you need a restraining order if the guy continues to creep. Works for most of em. Also, shut em down definitively.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dorfl_2 12/27/18 5:34:34 AM #28:	Harpie posted... Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice?? Talk to your manager about how they'd like you to handle the situation and what the sexual harrassment policy for your company is. You're not the first person who has been in this situation and you won't be the last. If necessary they can switch you from a front desk position into the back or have a "talk" with the customers and make them understand their attentions are unwelcome. Try not to walk home alone until this situation is resolved. Have a friend or security guard escort you to your car and don't go home directly until you're sure you're not being followed. --- Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. (Psalm 116:15). <cite>Dorfl_2 posted [p:914766108] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>Harpie posted...</cite> <quote>Do I need to be blunt and tell them to F off? But then is that too harsh for someone who thinks theyre being nice??</quote> Talk to your manager about how they'd like you to handle the situation and what the sexual harrassment policy for your company is. You're not the first person who has been in this situation and you won't be the last. If necessary they can switch you from a front desk position into the back or have a "talk" with the customers and make them understand their attentions are unwelcome. Try not to walk home alone until this situation is resolved. Have a friend or security guard escort you to your car and don't go home directly until you're sure you're not being followed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 12/27/18 5:39:26 AM #29:	rikasa posted... It's your right to be exactly who you are, single and straight or whatever, without harassment weekoldhotdog posted... Tell your boss, get him 86d from the store. --- I use Gameraven and you should too. http://error1355.com/ce/teepan95.html <cite>teepan95 posted [p:914766172] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote><cite>rikasa posted...</cite> <quote>It's your right to be exactly who you are, single and straight or whatever, without harassment</quote> <cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote>Tell your boss, get him 86d from the store.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta_ 12/27/18 6:11:05 AM #30:	Take protection with you like pepper spray, have a friend walk with you, or at least call one when you see him just in case he goes hella crazy and "if i can't have you no one will" mode --- https://imgur.com/P88EYmN https://imgur.com/qxu2L01 https://imgur.com/1kMCL https://imgur.com/mvXIh0Q <cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted [p:914766678] in ce I think... [t:77337393]...</cite> <quote>Take protection with you like pepper spray, have a friend walk with you, or at least call one when you see him just in case he goes hella crazy and "if i can't have you no one will" mode</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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