Current Events > I just kissed a girl on a first date for the first time last night :3

(+) Yeah! (+)

Usually it takes me a bit to get the courage. But damn...after getting dinner and talking with this girl for like 3 hours, it was SUPER obvious that there was a clear connection between us.

Kissing her at the end of the night just felt right. I walked her to her car and hugged her. After she kept looking at me and I was like OH SHIT JUST KISS HER so I did.

It was kind of fantastic. Honestly usually it takes me way too many dates to finally kiss a girl. But with how comfortable I felt around this girl instantly, I wasnt even a bit afraid to kiss her.

Getting butterflies hardcore just thinking about it.
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wow thats great! congratulations!!!!
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Wow hopefully you are able to visit a MGTOW community before she takes you for everything you're worth! /s

Congrats TC :D
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Kombucha posted...

Wow hopefully you are able to visit a MGTOW community before she takes you for everything you're worth! /s

Congrats TC :D

Luckily Im not worth much hahaha!!!
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Bumppppp
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This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"
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Good on ya man, keep it up.
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Nice man. Thats a good feel right there
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C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"
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Wait until you fuck a girl on the first date for the first time.
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SauI_Goodman posted...

Wait until you fuck a girl on the first date for the first time.

Oh yeah thats amazing, especially when her dating profile says "i dont fuck on the first date"
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Just hope its consentual....
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Lairen posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Just hope its consentual....

If she doesnt want to kiss you she will turn her head away.
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

Lairen posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Just hope its consentual....

If she doesnt want to kiss you she will turn her head away.

If she doesnt want sex shell just...
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Lairen posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

Lairen posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Just hope its consentual....

If she doesnt want to kiss you she will turn her head away.

If she doesnt want sex she just...

Then she says no? Whats your point here

All im saying is asking permission to kiss is unsexy and weird
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Well I guess I'm a weird girl cuz I'd think that was really cute.
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

Ive met multiple girls (including one Im dating now) who said theyd find that cute and endearing. Depends on the girl, tbh
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SauI_Goodman posted...

Wait until you fuck a girl on the first date for the first time.

Lol yeahhhh I have...but it was more of a lets meet up and fuck compared to a 1st date. Was no intention of ever seeing each other again after.

Stakes are way higher with a girl youre actually interested in haha
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JustMyOpinion posted...

Is she crazy like your ex?

My last ex wasnt crazy? 2 ex gfs ago definitely was tho.

Although this new girl apparently is heavily into BDSM, according to her OKC profile Hahahaha. Was pretty strange meeting up with a girl knowing she loves anal and getting tied up beforehand LOL
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Siiiiigh now Im freaking out because she hasnt texted me since noon yesterday.

I always assume the worst and I hate it. Oh, shes not interested anymore or crap like that.

Tell me to chill and just be patient, CE.
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I lost my virginity before I kissed anyone, in a strange turn of fate
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Akagami_Shanks posted...

I lost my virginity before I kissed anyone, in a strange turn of fate

Thats very strange. Story time?
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why not date a boy instead tc, r u saying that u won't even reconsider.
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Chill the fuck out. It's obvious that she's getting blasted by Chad dick
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

C_Pain posted...

This is cute. With my current gf, I was too chicken to do the 'moment feels right kiss' so I just asked as I was at her door leaving, "Can I kiss you?"

Thats literally the worst fucking thing you can do on a date.

"Theres nothing less sexy than a man asking if he can kiss you"

At most if youre absolutely unsure I really want to kiss you right now. But yeah never ever ask
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MFBKBass5 posted...

Akagami_Shanks posted...

I lost my virginity before I kissed anyone, in a strange turn of fate

Thats very strange. Story time?

met this girl on Kik, i thought she was the girl in the pic she had up but it turns out it was her roommate, we got to know each other somewhat, i flirted with her out of nowhere, she didn't like it at first but later that week she asked me to send nudes and a vid of me flicking my tongue, and then she asked if i would pick her up from her house. i went down on her(my first time) and she asked if i had any condoms(I didn't) so we just raw dogged it. I kissed her on the ride back though. Wasn't even a "moment feels right" kind of thing I just said "gimme a kiss" and we ended up kissing several times. If she didn't have to be back(her mom kept calling) we probably would have made out
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Akagami_Shanks posted...

MFBKBass5 posted...

Akagami_Shanks posted...

I lost my virginity before I kissed anyone, in a strange turn of fate

Thats very strange. Story time?

met this girl on Kik, i thought she was the girl in the pic she had up but it turns out it was her roommate, we got to know each other somewhat, i flirted with her out of nowhere, she didn't like it at first but later that week she asked me to send nudes and a vid of me flicking my tongue, and then she asked if i would pick her up from her house. i went down on her(my first time) and she asked if i had any condoms(I didn't) so we just raw dogged it. I kissed her on the ride back though. Wasn't even a "moment feels right" kind of thing I just said "gimme a kiss" and we ended up kissing several times. If she didn't have to be back(her mom kept calling) we probably would have made out

Haha Jesus...how many years ago was this? Should know better to see multiple pics before meeting a girl from the internet!
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D'awww
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well i've been with her for a year now so shut the fuck up
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C_Pain posted...

well i've been with her for a year now so shut the fuck up

Uhhhh what?
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MFBKBass5 posted...

C_Pain posted...

well i've been with her for a year now so shut the fuck up

Uhhhh what?

He was talking to the others
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Kissing girls and having sex with them is so boring now.
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Turtlebread posted...

Kissing girls and having sex with them is so boring now.

Lol no its always a thrill.
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Yeah after paying for her dinner and drinks I'd imagine she would be a bit of an asshole to not let you have a little kiss.

>All im saying is asking permission to kiss is unsexy and weird
lol white westerner culture

its 2019 theres so much better things to do
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FluttershyPony posted...

Yeah after paying for her dinner and drinks I'd imagine she would be a bit of an asshole to not let you have a little kiss.

>All im saying is asking permission to kiss is unsexy and weird
lol white westerner culture

I paid for our entrees. Then we got coffee and split a dessert that she paid for. It was pretty even.
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Having such a hard time with this one, guys...

Told her upright I was really interested in seeing her again, and shes like yeah! Lets hang out again next week. and seemed super interested on this date. I mean, she kissed me too. Seemed super into it.

But...shes barely been texting me. She did mention shes more into phone calls than texts, so maybe shes just not a big texter?

Just seems hard to keep her interest if she hardly texts me back. Im trying real hard to be patient, but damn. Gotta wait till next week to see her...and hardly talk to her? I feel like Im going to inevitably lose patience and screw this one up.

HALP CE WAT DO?
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MFBKBass5 posted...

Having such a hard time with this one, guys...

Told her upright I was really interested in seeing her again, and shes like yeah! Lets hang out again next week. and seemed super interested on this date. I mean, she kissed me too. Seemed super into it.

But...shes barely been texting me. She did mention shes more into phone calls than texts, so maybe shes just not a big texter?

Just seems hard to keep her interest if she hardly texts me back. Im trying real hard to be patient, but damn. Gotta wait till next week to see her...and hardly talk to her? I feel like Im going to inevitably lose patience and screw this one up.

HALP CE WAT DO?

a boy maybe
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Try phoning her?

Don't blow up her phone with texts tbh
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You guys dogging on asking a girl if they want to kiss, just know that I've pulled that same move before and it's shown some pretty high success rate. It sounds cheesy as fuck I know, but it's up front and chicks seem to think it's cute from my experience.
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teepan95 posted...

Try phoning her?

Don't blow up her phone with texts tbh

Yeah..Im trying not to. Most girls Ive ever dated who are interested at least text back fairly quickly. This girl takes like a day.

Should I just randomly call her? Or text and be like hey Im bored wanna talk?
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WaterLink posted...

You guys dogging on asking a girl if they want to kiss, just know that I've pulled that same move before and it's shown some pretty high success rate. It sounds cheesy as fuck I know, but it's up front and chicks seem to think it's cute from my experience.

Its endearing to a lot of girls. Cute and innocent, basically.

Although does make you look fairly beta. If shes wanting a strong, aggressive guy...asking to kiss will be lame to her.
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MFBKBass5 posted...

WaterLink posted...

You guys dogging on asking a girl if they want to kiss, just know that I've pulled that same move before and it's shown some pretty high success rate. It sounds cheesy as fuck I know, but it's up front and chicks seem to think it's cute from my experience.

Its endearing to a lot of girls. Cute and innocent, basically.

Although does make you look fairly beta. If shes wanting a strong, aggressive guy...asking to kiss will be lame to her.

You can still be aggressive and ask for a kiss. If anything articulating what you want is a very aggressive move, I dont see how that comes off as beta lol
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Welp. She said we should hang out next week, but shes barely been texting me since we hung out, and hasnt responded to my last text.

Im just gonna wait and see if she ever responds. Have a feeling shes just gonna ghost me.

God damn it I hate online dating.
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I lost patience. Saw her on my quick add on s Snapchat so I added her yesterday.

She finally added me back and instantly sent me a video of her talking into the camera saying hi and that she didnt know how to use Snapchat properly.

It was adorable :3 I think she likes meeeeee
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nice. and yeah, it just sounds like she's not a texter. I get that, I'm in a few friend groups group chats and there are times I go days without texting them despite reading all the messages

and man, that's better then my first date kiss with my wife. I dropped her off at her dorm and said goodbye. watched her get out of my car and walk away. decided I needed to kiss her and got out of my car and kinda yelled at her "hey wait up" then she came back, we hugged and then a couple kisses and an impromptu make-out session
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prince_leo posted...

nice. and yeah, it just sounds like she's not a texter. I get that, I'm in a few friend groups group chats and there are times I go days without texting them despite reading all the messages

and man, that's better then my first date kiss with my wife. I dropped her off at her dorm and said goodbye. watched her get out of my car and walk away. decided I needed to kiss her and got out of my car and kinda yelled at her "hey wait up" then she came back, we hugged and then a couple kisses and an impromptu make-out session

Dawwww thats cute! You manned up at the last second haha.
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