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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:31:54 PM
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nt
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
12/18/18 1:32:44 PM
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Because virgins choose to be virgins.
Sluts don't choose to be sluts.

Is it that hard?
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monkmith
12/18/18 1:33:09 PM
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because men make fun of each other all the time and no one cares.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:34:10 PM
#5:


WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...
Because virgins choose to be virgins.
Sluts don't choose to be sluts.

Is it that hard?

uh but that doesnt make sense

you choose to have sex, but youre born a virgin
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KILBOTz
12/18/18 1:35:39 PM
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most male virgins either put in no effort or have unrealistic expectations. And make virgins are the only ones that really get shamed.
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:36:12 PM
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Neither of them are acceptable but incels engage heavily in the latter
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Kombucha
12/18/18 1:36:51 PM
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This topic is definitely something I would expect to see on CE.
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Kombucha
12/18/18 1:36:59 PM
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I think this might be the most CE topic ever.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:37:15 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Virgin shaming is generally just mocking for social ineptitude. Slut shaming is generally used as an attempt to control what women do with their bodies.

Im not supporting either, its just strange how often this topic pops up without any awareness of the differences between the two beyond shaming how much sex you have.

youre pretty clearly supporting virgin shaming because you use the word just to diminish it
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:37:25 PM
#11:


WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...
Because virgins choose to be virgins.
Sluts don't choose to be sluts.

Is it that hard?


This is also false btw

You don't choose whether or not another person is willing to fuck you
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
12/18/18 1:38:21 PM
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...
Because virgins choose to be virgins.
Sluts don't choose to be sluts.

Is it that hard?


I was only joking
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:38:52 PM
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Meh

Poe's law
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ArchiePeck
12/18/18 1:40:11 PM
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It's quite ironic that it tends to be the bitter virgins that are the ones doing the slut shaming.

Pro tip - you are not entitled to sex.
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 1:41:11 PM
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Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:41:24 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
Virgin shaming is generally just mocking for social ineptitude. Slut shaming is generally used as an attempt to control what women do with their bodies.

Im not supporting either, its just strange how often this topic pops up without any awareness of the differences between the two beyond shaming how much sex you have.

youre pretty clearly supporting virgin shaming because you use the word just to diminish it

Youre pretty clearly shitposting

Im sorry for pointing out your lie. Dont call me the shitposter when you cant even be honest. When you say just, you are objectively diminishing.
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Pogo_Marimo
12/18/18 1:41:58 PM
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It isn't?
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:42:29 PM
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Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.

cool story

maybe you should consider that some people behave differently then your personal circle of friends
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Mareen
12/18/18 1:43:31 PM
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Neither is really acceptable.
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Musourenka
12/18/18 1:44:06 PM
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Neither should be acceptable.
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 1:44:16 PM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.

cool story

maybe you should consider that some people behave differently then your personal circle of friends


These people weren't friends. I only knew like two of them. The rest were strangers.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:45:24 PM
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ArchiePeck posted...
It's quite ironic that it tends to be the bitter virgins that are the ones doing the slut shaming.

Pro tip - you are not entitled to sex.

this is such a weird post

it starts off well with a pretty solid and general premise

then you go straight to directly assuming I think Im entitled to sex
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Blue_Inigo
12/18/18 1:45:47 PM
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:45:47 PM
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Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.


Lol this is a dumb post

I was a victim of some pretty consistent virgin shaming at my first real job four years ago. Obv it was partially my fault for answering a nosy question, but it's definitely not contained to the internet like you think it is
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:45:54 PM
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Musourenka posted...
Neither should be acceptable.

agreed
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:47:18 PM
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Lunar_Savage posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.

cool story

maybe you should consider that some people behave differently then your personal circle of friends


These people weren't friends. I only knew like two of them. The rest were strangers.

my point still stands though

just because youve never been made fun of for being a virgin doesnt mean it never happens irl
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Dyinglegacy
12/18/18 1:47:49 PM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
Virgin shaming is generally just mocking for social ineptitude. Slut shaming is generally used as an attempt to control what women do with their bodies.

Im not supporting either, its just strange how often this topic pops up without any awareness of the differences between the two beyond shaming how much sex you have.

youre pretty clearly supporting virgin shaming because you use the word just to diminish it

Youre pretty clearly shitposting

Im sorry for pointing out your lie. Dont call me the shitposter when you cant even be honest. When you say just, you are objectively diminishing.


There's that word again
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matty_s
12/18/18 1:49:24 PM
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I dont think either are acceptable
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:49:36 PM
#30:


Dyinglegacy posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
Virgin shaming is generally just mocking for social ineptitude. Slut shaming is generally used as an attempt to control what women do with their bodies.

Im not supporting either, its just strange how often this topic pops up without any awareness of the differences between the two beyond shaming how much sex you have.

youre pretty clearly supporting virgin shaming because you use the word just to diminish it

Youre pretty clearly shitposting

Im sorry for pointing out your lie. Dont call me the shitposter when you cant even be honest. When you say just, you are objectively diminishing.


There's that word again

what do you think the word just means
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:50:52 PM
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I find it interesting how all these shitposters cant just say neither are/should be acceptable and instead deflect to things like but slut shaming is worse

that or you really do think virgin shaming is fine. Why cant you just admit it?
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 1:52:22 PM
#32:


Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.

cool story

maybe you should consider that some people behave differently then your personal circle of friends


These people weren't friends. I only knew like two of them. The rest were strangers.

my point still stands though

just because youve never been made fun of for being a virgin doesnt mean it never happens irl


So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?

The assholes exist, sure...but...you can fight back. Its time like this I get reminded how weak a lot of gamefaqs users really are. Which probably explains why so many hide behind the mods and marking system...
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:53:26 PM
#33:


Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works
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metralo
12/18/18 1:54:12 PM
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because virgins like you act abhorrent towards everyone
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:54:47 PM
#35:


Lunar_Savage posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
Get off the Internet for a while. The last time I witnessed virgin shaming in real life, everyone in the room shut the asshole in question down immediately.

So...yeah, hang out with some real people for a while and maybe your head will screw back on properly.

cool story

maybe you should consider that some people behave differently then your personal circle of friends


These people weren't friends. I only knew like two of them. The rest were strangers.

my point still stands though

just because youve never been made fun of for being a virgin doesnt mean it never happens irl


So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?

The assholes exist, sure...but...you can fight back. Its time like this I get reminded how weak a lot of gamefaqs users really are. Which probably explains why so many hide behind the mods and marking system...

weve got a badass over here
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 1:55:11 PM
#36:


wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 1:55:24 PM
#37:


metralo posted...
because virgins like you act abhorrent towards everyone

I dont though

I have a lot of friends, even a lot of female friends

Just havent fucked yet
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 1:56:14 PM
#38:


Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.


That's cool and all but maybe people don't like getting into fights and legal trouble
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 1:57:38 PM
#39:


wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.


That's cool and all but maybe people don't like getting into fights and legal trouble


Well, if you choose to live in fear, you have to realize you're actively choosing to make your life miserable.
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catboy0_0
12/18/18 1:57:57 PM
#40:


WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...
Because virgins choose to be virgins.
Sluts don't choose to be sluts.

Is it that hard?

lol
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Tupacrulez
12/18/18 1:59:17 PM
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Virgin shaming : "dude, clean yourself up and stop being so creepy, and you'll get laid"

Slut shaming: "She had sex with someone else but not me! REEE! ALL WOMEN ARE BAD REEE I DESERVE SEX REEE I'M SUCH A NICE GUY!"
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catboy0_0
12/18/18 2:00:01 PM
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Tupacrulez posted...
Virgin shaming : "dude, clean yourself up and stop being so creepy, and you'll get laid"

Slut shaming: "She had sex with someone else but not me! REEE! ALL WOMEN ARE BAD REEE I DESERVE SEX REEE I'M SUCH A NICE GUY!"

LOL
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 2:00:56 PM
#43:


its interesting that slut shaming by virgins is considered far worse than slut shaming by guys that have lots of sex
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MrMallard
12/18/18 2:01:11 PM
#44:


It's mostly societal bullshit, where we conflate sex with maturity and see people who have had sex as being "adults". We place too much worth on the concept of virginity, causing perfectly well adjusted and successful people to be ridiculed if they haven't done it by the time they finish high school. It really is stupid that we put so much stock in what is essentially a non-tangible societal concept of purity, and deem when it's right or wrong to be rid of this virtue, y'know - but that's the sort of world that we live in.

Though I'm personally okay with a second form of virgin shaming, wherein a virgin chucks a shit over other people having sex and decides to be a snide little dipshit about it. No-one cares if you think every sexually active woman in your life is a dirty slut, stop being such a bitter shithead and learn to live with your unpleasant, shitty self. Improve your personality in a way that will make people hate you less.
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 2:01:59 PM
#45:


Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.


That's cool and all but maybe people don't like getting into fights and legal trouble


Well, if you choose to live in fear, you have to realize you're actively choosing to make your life miserable.


There's four potential outcomes, some of which may not contradict with each other

You win, people leave you alone

You win, people still fuck with you (yes, this does happen)

You lose and get your ass whooped (obviously going to happen if you're outnumbered)

You get in trouble, whether it be with the facility or the police

Saying people who don't go with the most reckless option are "choosing to make their lives miserable" is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard
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catboy0_0
12/18/18 2:02:42 PM
#46:


Ryuko_Chan posted...
its interesting that slut shaming by virgins is considered far worse than slut shaming by guys that have lots of sex

it's because the winners write the rules
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wronganswerfool
12/18/18 2:04:35 PM
#47:


Tupacrulez posted...
Virgin shaming : "dude, clean yourself up and stop being so creepy, and you'll get laid"


Not even remotely accurate. It boils down to insulting people because they didn't fuck as early as other people, or they're not prioritizing it as heavily. That's two extremely stupid posts I've seen you submit in a five minute span
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Ryuko_Chan
12/18/18 2:04:42 PM
#48:


wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.


That's cool and all but maybe people don't like getting into fights and legal trouble


Well, if you choose to live in fear, you have to realize you're actively choosing to make your life miserable.


There's four potential outcomes, some of which may not contradict with each other

You win, people leave you alone

You win, people still fuck with you (yes, this does happen)

You lose and get your ass whooped (obviously going to happen if you're outnumbered)

You get in trouble, whether it be with the facility or the police

Saying people who don't go with the most reckless option are "choosing to make their lives miserable" is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard

hes just a keyboard warrior literally bragging about fist fights in high school
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Veggeta X
12/18/18 2:04:45 PM
#49:


shockthemonkey posted...
Slut shaming is generally used as an attempt to control what women do with their bodies.

LMAOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Lunar_Savage
12/18/18 2:08:19 PM
#50:


wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
wronganswerfool posted...
Lunar_Savage posted...
So, I'm still going to ask why not just defend yourself and kick some ass? Or if you prefer to be peaceful, remove yourself from the group?


It's like you know absolutely nothing about how bullying works


Actually been in fist fights over the shit. I didn't put up with it in high school and I still don't.


That's cool and all but maybe people don't like getting into fights and legal trouble


Well, if you choose to live in fear, you have to realize you're actively choosing to make your life miserable.


There's four potential outcomes, some of which may not contradict with each other

You win, people leave you alone

You win, people still fuck with you (yes, this does happen)

You lose and get your ass whooped (obviously going to happen if you're outnumbered)

You get in trouble, whether it be with the facility or the police

Saying people who don't go with the most reckless option are "choosing to make their lives miserable" is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard


If people are still fucking with you after winning, you didn't go crazy enough. You gotta shit on their face and break an arm or two.

But on a serious note, I understand what you're saying. It's not always the smartest option. I agree with you. But, you sound like someone saying you have no real recourse to bullying when that simply isn't true.
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