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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 3:01:10 PM
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I wanted to marry her, now nothing matters.
What do I do now?
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andel
12/12/18 3:02:23 PM
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sucks man and will hurt for a while but the best thing you can do is try to just keep moving. i know that is generic advice but it is really the best thing. just keep trying to live your life and eventually the hurt will subside
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t_paynes_ghost
12/12/18 3:03:18 PM
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Did this literally just happen? Go outside and just run, doesn't matter where, just start running.

In general just keep active, try new hobbies, find new loves to replace what is lost.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 3:03:58 PM
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It really hurts, my chest hurts. I adored her so much.
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Cleo_II
12/12/18 3:04:19 PM
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Sorry dude. Weve all been there. It will get better, just give it time.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 3:04:47 PM
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t_paynes_ghost posted...
Did this literally just happen? Go outside and just run, doesn't matter where, just start running.

In general just keep active, try new hobbies, find new loves to replace what is lost.

Two days ago. I dreams are gone now. Crying
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andel
12/12/18 3:05:16 PM
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t_paynes_ghost posted...
Did this literally just happen? Go outside and just run, doesn't matter where, just start running.

In general just keep active, try new hobbies, find new loves to replace what is lost.


exercise is also definitely good advice as it keep you active and keeps your mind temporarily engaged with other things. in my experience the pain of a breakup made me have no interest in other women for a while but if you can find one you are interested in that would help too
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Pow Pow Punishment
12/12/18 3:05:20 PM
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The two things that have helped me the most: running with good music, and hanging out with friends.

Also, listen more to angry music like metal and industrial, not sad sappy music.
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eggcorn
12/12/18 3:06:09 PM
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Pow Pow Punishment posted...
Also, listen more to angry music like metal and industrial, not sad sappy music.

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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 3:06:15 PM
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I can't listen to music anymore, it was our thing. Its ruined now.
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t_paynes_ghost
12/12/18 3:06:16 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...
Did this literally just happen? Go outside and just run, doesn't matter where, just start running.

In general just keep active, try new hobbies, find new loves to replace what is lost.

Two days ago. I dreams are gone now. Crying


Don't stop crying until you can't cry no more. It's okay to take some time to just feel shitty and let the bad emotions out.
Eventually though you should start doing some active hobbies to keep your mind and body busy, and release those endorphins that will make you biologically feel better.
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vocedelmorte
12/12/18 3:08:16 PM
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I know how you feel. Happened to me once, its the worst and will change you
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Pepys Monster
12/12/18 3:08:23 PM
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Have sex with another girl.
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Forlorn_Ass
12/12/18 3:19:15 PM
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Hit the gym, get on dating apps, exercise.

It'll hurt for a while but time will make it better.
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Pow Pow Punishment
12/12/18 3:23:35 PM
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I can't speak for you or everyone else but letting yourself cry and feel pathetic just makes things worse. Better to feel anger (within reason, of course) and do the things I mentioned. You'll still feel sad but you'll also have some extra motivation within yourself which will help take the edge off.
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Kombucha
12/12/18 3:44:10 PM
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Listen to Andrew W.K.'s You're Not Alone. It's an incredibly positive album if not a bit intentionally cheesy, might help cheer you up some.
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vocedelmorte
12/12/18 3:49:30 PM
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I feel like it depends on how much that person really was important to you and i see that some guys itt didn't even went through real heartbreak.
All you can do is cry for first days tbh, only after a while you will start feeling angry instead or been able to do something to distract yourself. Its really a big deal if it was a person you planned to marry (like it is for TC)
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 3:55:35 PM
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The anger is coming in. Yes it's real, real love, I didn't quit she did. I was willing to do anything for us. Now I don't see my future at all.
I wanna thank you all for your kind comments. I don't feel so alone.
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teepan95
12/12/18 3:59:54 PM
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I'm so sorry TC

My inbox is open if you need to talk
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ThyCorndog
12/12/18 4:03:38 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
I wanted to marry her, now nothing matters.
What do I do now?

this happened to me 3 months ago. I'm still not over it. there's nothing you can do but wait it out best you can. I'm starting to feel better but I still think about her all the time. there's no easy way out. talk to people that you trust and that will listen, and do stuff you want to do that don't relate to her. I hear you on the music. I cant listen to anything right now cause we liked the same music. I can't go back to eating at places I liked going to with her or even make anything we ever made together. in my case she wasnt a gamer and we didnt watch the same shows, so those things combined with hanging out with my friends and working out have been how I've distracted myself
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EliteLevel
12/12/18 4:05:31 PM
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Find another pale skinned cis-girl with beautiful feet who is at Age of Consent.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 4:08:02 PM
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ThyCorndog posted...
bulletproofvita posted...
I wanted to marry her, now nothing matters.
What do I do now?

this happened to me 3 months ago. I'm still not over it. there's nothing you can do but wait it out best you can. I'm starting to feel better but I still think about her all the time. there's no easy way out. talk to people that you trust and that will listen, and do stuff you want to do that don't relate to her. I hear you on the music. I cant listen to anything right now cause we liked the same music. I can't go back to eating at places I liked going to with her or even make anything we ever made together. in my case she wasnt a gamer and we didnt watch the same shows, so those things combined with hanging out with my friends and working out have been how I've distracted myself

You get me. It's so hard to function now. I had massive dreams and hopes, living a happy life togther forever. I'm a bit if a romantic like that. Now I feel the darkness creeping in.
Yes video games was the only think she didn't like so I'm gojngto try that.
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ThyCorndog
12/12/18 4:09:38 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
ThyCorndog posted...
bulletproofvita posted...
I wanted to marry her, now nothing matters.
What do I do now?

this happened to me 3 months ago. I'm still not over it. there's nothing you can do but wait it out best you can. I'm starting to feel better but I still think about her all the time. there's no easy way out. talk to people that you trust and that will listen, and do stuff you want to do that don't relate to her. I hear you on the music. I cant listen to anything right now cause we liked the same music. I can't go back to eating at places I liked going to with her or even make anything we ever made together. in my case she wasnt a gamer and we didnt watch the same shows, so those things combined with hanging out with my friends and working out have been how I've distracted myself

You get me. It's so hard to function now. I had massive dreams and hopes, living a happy life togther forever. I'm a bit if a romantic like that. Now I feel the darkness creeping in.
Yes video games was the only think she didn't like so I'm gojngto try that.

yep. I literally just went through it. feels like yesterday. can't do shit that I associate with her in the slightest. I was ready to spend my life with her and she made me feel a way no one else ever did before. there's nothing you can do with the emptiness except try and pass time until your mind adjusts to her not being there anymore
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prince_leo
12/12/18 4:10:02 PM
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my best friend went through this over the summer
my wife and I just let him move in with us and get sorted. we went on a cruise, made a bunch of friends hitting up bars every weekend, got into a rock climbing gym (he also joined an MMA gym), etc. he also fucked a girl from his old job that always flirted with him when he was in a relationship
he's now doing better. moved to a new city after hating his old one, in a relationship with a new girl who he's not rushing into things with, and in general is doing more than what he had been doing for years

the night he called me to tell me he was single he had already loaded his gun and thought about killing himself. I got him to go to therapy and while he stopped going recently, he said the months he did go have helped
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 4:12:29 PM
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prince_leo posted...
my best friend went through this over the summer
my wife and I just let him move in with us and get sorted. we went on a cruise, made a bunch of friends hitting up bars every weekend, got into a rock climbing gym (he also joined an MMA gym), etc. he also fucked a girl from his old job that always flirted with him when he was in a relationship
he's now doing better. moved to a new city after hating his old one, in a relationship with a new girl who he's not rushing into things with, and in general is doing more than what he had been doing for years

the night he called me to tell me he was single he had already loaded his gun and thought about killing himself. I got him to go to therapy and while he stopped going recently, he said the months he did go have helped

Therapy yeah people are telling me this too. Thing is all you've just said there I don't want, I want her. No one else will ever be enough.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 4:14:35 PM
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ThyCorndog posted...
bulletproofvita posted...
ThyCorndog posted...
bulletproofvita posted...
I wanted to marry her, now nothing matters.
What do I do now?

this happened to me 3 months ago. I'm still not over it. there's nothing you can do but wait it out best you can. I'm starting to feel better but I still think about her all the time. there's no easy way out. talk to people that you trust and that will listen, and do stuff you want to do that don't relate to her. I hear you on the music. I cant listen to anything right now cause we liked the same music. I can't go back to eating at places I liked going to with her or even make anything we ever made together. in my case she wasnt a gamer and we didnt watch the same shows, so those things combined with hanging out with my friends and working out have been how I've distracted myself

You get me. It's so hard to function now. I had massive dreams and hopes, living a happy life togther forever. I'm a bit if a romantic like that. Now I feel the darkness creeping in.
Yes video games was the only think she didn't like so I'm gojngto try that.

yep. I literally just went through it. feels like yesterday. can't do shit that I associate with her in the slightest. I was ready to spend my life with her and she made me feel a way no one else ever did before. there's nothing you can do with the emptiness except try and pass time until your mind adjusts to her not being there anymore

Seems very similar. Thanks for the kind words and sharing I think it helps. Yesterday I just got blind drunk paralytic drunk so I didn't have to feel anymore. It was a short fix.
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prince_leo
12/12/18 4:15:11 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
Therapy yeah people are telling me this too. Thing is all you've just said there I don't want, I want her. No one else will ever be enough.

he said the same thing. for a month after they broke up he wanted her to text him so bad and say she fucked up and wanted him back
he finally realized how he was going to be ok without her. he focused on all the toxic shit she did that he ignored while they were together, the things he wanted to do that she didn't
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Pepys Monster
12/12/18 4:15:23 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
Therapy yeah people are telling me this too. Thing is all you've just said there I don't want, I want her. No one else will ever be enough.

I remember being stuck in that mindset. But you'll find someone great, and she will be enough.
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smoliske
12/12/18 4:16:46 PM
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hard to be sympathetic when you made fun of my relationship on multiple occasions, it is probably reflective of the type of person you are in real life too
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP
12/12/18 4:18:58 PM
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get tinder, put your penis inside a different girls vagina as soon as possible.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 4:19:04 PM
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smoliske posted...
hard to be sympathetic when you made fun of my relationship on multiple occasions, it is probably reflective of the type of person you are in real life too

Have I, I'm sorry
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 4:19:27 PM
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Pepys Monster
12/12/18 4:43:13 PM
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...
get tinder, put your penis inside a different girls vagina as soon as possible.

This, except don't use Tinder. Go out.
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 5:25:26 PM
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Just sitting naked on the bedroom floor. I can't shower
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Pepys Monster
12/12/18 5:26:23 PM
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bulletproofvita posted...
Just sitting naked on the bedroom floor. I can't shower

Have some caffeine, grab some clothes you like, and shower. You'll feel better.
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SK8T3R215
12/12/18 5:26:28 PM
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Congrats on being single life is much easier now but more lonely at times
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bulletproofvita
12/12/18 5:28:14 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
bulletproofvita posted...
Just sitting naked on the bedroom floor. I can't shower

Have some caffeine, grab some clothes you like, and shower. You'll feel better.

I'll try
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catboy0_0
12/12/18 5:41:31 PM
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is this a joke topic? if not I'm sorry. I always liked you though so there's that
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