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I got friendzoned. I think. whatdo ;_;

Oh, it's right here.

assuming you wanted bad advice
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Men of CE! This girl is still opening to meeting up with me to go on dateish like activities.. like going to the museum, watching a movie, going to a restaurant, walking along a river and chatting up.

WHATDO

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME. AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH

>__>

TurtleInFreedom posted...

WHATDO

Not a movie. Movies are generally pretty bad early date ideas.

~2 hours sitting in the dark not talking.

Unless it's a Netflix and chill sort of situation.
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Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining
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Mad Stalker is the board, no idea if people still post there
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MedeaLysistrata posted...

Mad Stalker is the board, no idea if people still post there

There's also just the Advice board.
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awesome999 posted...

Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining

I did, she said she'd just like me as a friend because she 'values our friendship too much' and 'doesn't want to lose me'.

;-;

She still wants to do all those aforementioned things even if she 'rejected' me.

Value as a friend is the biggest crock of shit ever
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TurtleInFreedom posted...

awesome999 posted...

Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining

I did, she said she'd just like me as a friend because she 'values our friendship too much' and 'doesn't want to lose me'.

;-;

She still wants to do all those aforementioned things even if she 'rejected' me.

She just wants to keep you around for attention, she doesn't even view you as a "man". Her response is too generic, she doesn't value you as a friend either.

Don't be an orbiter, move on, It's over before it even began.
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PrettyBoyMarth posted...

TurtleInFreedom posted...

awesome999 posted...

Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining

I did, she said she'd just like me as a friend because she 'values our friendship too much' and 'doesn't want to lose me'.

;-;

She still wants to do all those aforementioned things even if she 'rejected' me.

She just wants to keep you around for attention, she doesn't even view you as a "man". Her response is too generic, she doesn't value you as a friend either.

Don't be an orbiter, move on, It's over before it even began.

Listen to this man
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PrettyBoyMarth posted...

TurtleInFreedom posted...

awesome999 posted...

Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining

I did, she said she'd just like me as a friend because she 'values our friendship too much' and 'doesn't want to lose me'.

;-;

She still wants to do all those aforementioned things even if she 'rejected' me.

She just wants to keep you around for attention, she doesn't even view you as a "man". Her response is too generic, she doesn't value you as a friend either.

Don't be an orbiter, move on, It's over before it even began.

That's an interesting way take it on. She's generally been too busy this semester to really see me. She had to take a few semesters off so her work load is immense this semester.. for additional information though she doesn't have that much friends. I'd say I'm the only guy friend whom she could talk to on a deeper level, more than anyone else save some friends from church, maybe. We've known each other for a year and we've been on plenty of 'date' things. I just don't know if it's a timing problem or that she doesn't and can't see me as an object of affection. Your words do hit me a little though, but I don't think it's necessarily the case. Thanks for the tough words though.

Regardless of her actual motives, its just not in the cards.

You dont have to shun her out of your life but the less time you spend with her right now the easier time youll have getting over her I think.
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Depending on your age if she has no desire to hook up/date then just say thanks but no thanks and cut her out. As you get older at a certain point it becomes a massive waste of your time spending time with the opposite sex if nothing more then friendship is on the table. All it will lead to is you thinking maybe something will happen today when it never will while you could be out looking for others instead.

Note that this doesn't apply to girls you have been friends with since childhood or known for years, but anyone new you meet.
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Do you think she gives the "busy" excuse to guys she finds sexually attractive?
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PrettyBoyMarth posted...

Do you think she gives the "busy" excuse to guys she finds sexually attractive?

I wouldn't say she's a 'sexual' type. She's pretty modest. She doesn't really have any guy friends at all, nor does she hang out with any other guys except me.

Oh just as context this isn't America. It's in an Asian country. She and I both speak English fluently however.

If she's not into you, just distance yourself until you get over it. Maybe you guys become strangers, maybe you can learn to be okay with just being friends, but you have to let it go, for your own health.

@Marth, this isn't braincels.
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TurtleInFreedom posted...

PrettyBoyMarth posted...

TurtleInFreedom posted...

awesome999 posted...

Be a man and say you want her as a gf

If she says no, there's still about 3.5 billion women remaining

I did, she said she'd just like me as a friend because she 'values our friendship too much' and 'doesn't want to lose me'.

;-;

She still wants to do all those aforementioned things even if she 'rejected' me.

She just wants to keep you around for attention, she doesn't even view you as a "man". Her response is too generic, she doesn't value you as a friend either.

Don't be an orbiter, move on, It's over before it even began.

That's an interesting way take it on. She's generally been too busy this semester to really see me. She had to take a few semesters off so her work load is immense this semester.. for additional information though she doesn't have that much friends. I'd say I'm the only guy friend whom she could talk to on a deeper level, more than anyone else save some friends from church, maybe. We've known each other for a year and we've been on plenty of 'date' things. I just don't know if it's a timing problem or that she doesn't and can't see me as an object of affection. Your words do hit me a little though, but I don't think it's necessarily the case. Thanks for the tough words though.

PrettyBoyMarth posted...

She just wants to keep you around for attention, she doesn't even view you as a "man". Her response is too generic, she doesn't value you as a friend either.

Don't be an orbiter, move on, It's over before it even began

Still this

Quit hurting yourself. It's obvious that you have unrequited love-y feelings and that shit is painful. Move on
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Mad stalker
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