Current Events > Women in their 30's still look good

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I mean people can look good for more than three decades, of course. But it's like why do y'all exclusively want these fuckin fresh faced teens and shit, or want your women to look like teenagers? Why is it that some people see a woman, hear that they're 32 or whatever, and go "gross, she's old"? Women in their 20's are hot, but ladies continue to be hot for years afterwards as well - some of y'all seem to be sleeping on that fact.

I think this mindset is reductive for everyone involved. You've got women who feel insecure over being single in their thirties and above, because this belief has been mainstream enough to touch a lot of people's lives, and you've got guys who are stuck in this stupid fucking "purity" loop who are willingly limiting their dating pool to a small group of women who will only get further out of their league as time goes on. You're increasing your chances of being alone, and you're snubbing perfectly attractive women because any woman slightly north of 30 is somehow old enough to be off-putting to you. That's weak.

Like are you going to be that childish forever, lusting after high schoolers and college freshmans as you continue to age into your thirties? Are you going to play into these sitcom and anime tropes, where older guys are lecherous scumbags who are always on the lookout for young pussy and any woman over 30 is past her prime and not even worth talking to? Because that's a sad life.

If you're still young, then date around your age range, sure. If you're like 25 and you want to date a girl who's around 20, whatever. Have your preferences and stuff. But don't play into this idea that 30+ year old women are all old, over-the-hill and unloveable/unfuckable. You're only hurting your own dating prospects by being so close-minded and punching above your weight. I feel like the dating game would be a lot healthier if more people could appreciate women and their attractiveness throughout their lives, instead of chasing skirts and acting like a stuck up little prick if a potential romantic partner is halfway through her twenties.
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PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

TL;DR: ladies continue to be attractive throughout their thirties and beyond, though there's definitely a tipping point much like there is for blokes. People seem to be sleeping on this fact, and I feel like the dating game would be a lot healthier for everyone if people were willing to date slightly older women rather than a large number of guys sticking to this "ideal" age of 18-21.

WhinyZach posted...

PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

this.

you coulda just said "topic title"

I have a lot to say
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most people irl will date women in their own age range
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MrMallard posted...

PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

TL;DR: ladies continue to be attractive throughout their thirties and beyond, though there's definitely a tipping point much like there is for blokes. People seem to be sleeping on this fact, and I feel like the dating game would be a lot healthier for everyone if people were willing to date slightly older women rather than a large number of guys sticking to this "ideal" age of 18-21.

Women peak way early. There are barely any women outside supermodels and actresses in the real world that are still primetime babes after 25.
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My wife is 32 and I'm 35. She peaked early. Sure shes still pretty but she ain't hot.

Men get better with age. I'm a fucking mega stallion that looks like a young Tom Sellick but better
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TL:DR

Depends on how much partying they did. Just look at Lindsey Lohan.
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PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

this but I also agree with the title

andel posted...

most people irl will date women in their own age range

Fair point. I just feel like some guys don't see value in older women unless they're trying to look younger for that target audience. You see it being pandered to in games with women who are north of 40 but who look 18, and you see this sort of attitude in countries like Japan where women older than 25 are referred to as "Christmas cakes" because no-one wants them by the 26th. But people would stick to around their age range I guess, plenty of folks are single in their 30's.

PhazonReborn posted...

Women peak way early. There are barely any women outside supermodels and actresses in the real world that are still primetime babes after 25.

I can see where you're coming from, but I don't entirely agree. At this point, model-level attractiveness is all the same to me - you show me a stunner, and I'll forget her in five minutes. There are so many of the same sort of conventionally attractive people everywhere that it's hard for me to find anything to be attracted to. No hate if someone looks like a model, it is an attractive look, but with the way that models are crammed down our throats in advertising and on TV I just don't really care. I'm also never going to be in their league, so what's the point?

I think women come into their own somewhere between 22 and their thirties. Not much to base this on, I just feel like that's a good period of time for someone's looks to really settle in and become familiar and nice, and the life experiences throughout one's twenties would make for a more interesting and entertaining 30 year old.

I don't care about "primetime babes". Continue to fawn over models if that's your thing, but I find more to be attracted to with a woman who's had some time to live her life and shape her personality based on that, rather than someone who's fresh out of university and is just getting started in the world. That's just me though.

WhinyZach posted...

you're in that age group arent you?

I'm 23, so yes.

You're coming off as a pseudo intellect with hardly any life experience

Guilty as charged, not gonna lie - I'm just coming at this from my own personal angle on the matter

and you're probably inebriated.

Incorrect, but I am planning to have a few later on.

Plenty of girls in their 30's are dating, you'll know once you're like north of 25.

Fair enough. I value input from people who know what's actually going on like this, so thank you for responding to my topic.
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Reis posted...

PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

this but I also agree with the title

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There's something sexy about a youthful-looking woman in her 30's looking cute and sexy as ever. They make me feel young again.
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Webmaster4531 posted...

TL:DR

Depends on how much partying they did. Just look at Lindsey Lohan.

Yeah, this is a fair point as well. I posted a TL;DR on the fourth post if that's more your speed.

Reis posted...

PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

this but I also agree with the title

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Volkswagen_Bros posted...

There's something sexy about a youthful-looking woman in her 30's looking cute and sexy as ever. They make me feel young again.

This is pretty awesome as well, of course.
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18 is the perfect age. Anything older is considered rotten.
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wannabepranksta posted...

18 is the perfect age. Anything older is considered rotten.

18 is still a kid, and so are you.
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MrMallard posted...

Volkswagen_Bros posted...

There's something sexy about a youthful-looking woman in her 30's looking cute and sexy as ever. They make me feel young again.

This is pretty awesome as well, of course.

It's magnificent. For example, when I see a cute chick and think "They're def. in their 20's, younger than me for sure" and find out they're actually older, it's a magical feeling, especially when you're at a point where you feel everyone else is much younger than you.
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30s are women's prime years
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I agree, Im in my thirties so my standards have gone down but I prefer to date girls in their thirties, 27 the youngest.
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Milf life 4 lyf
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Zodd3224 posted...

30s are women's prime years

My man

Bringing this back for the night(?) crowd?

It's nearly 6 pm over here so time is fucky, lol
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Depending if they took care of themselves a woman's best years are her 30's. Also her sex drive is at its highest. It's amazing to me how you can observe a group of friends and find out that they're the same age and yet one looks so much better than the other. Fascinating stuff.
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MrMallard posted...

I mean people can look good after more than three decades, of course. But it's like why do y'all exclusively want these fuckin fresh faced teens and shit, or want your women to look like teenagers? Why is it that some people see a woman, hear that they're 32 or whatever, and go "gross, she's old"? Women in their 20's are hot, but ladies continue to be hot for years afterwards as well - some of y'all seem to be sleeping on that fact.

I think this mindset is reductive for everyone involved. You've got women who feel insecure over being single in their thirties and above, because this belief has been mainstream enough to touch a lot of people's lives, and you've got guys who are stuck in this stupid fucking "purity" loop who are willingly limiting their dating pool to a small group of women who will only get further out of their league as time goes on. You're increasing your chances of being alone, and you're snubbing perfectly attractive women because any woman slightly north of 30 is somehow old enough to be off-putting to you. That's weak.

Like are you going to be that childish forever, lusting after high schoolers and college freshmans as you continue to age into your thirties? Are you going to play into these sitcom and anime tropes, where older guys are lecherous scumbags who are always on the lookout for young pussy and any woman over 30 is past her prime and not even worth talking to? Because that's a sad life.

If you're still young, then date around your age range, sure. If you're like 25 and you want to date a girl who's around 20, whatever. Have your preferences and stuff. But don't play into this idea that 30+ year old women are all old, over-the-hill and unloveable/unfuckable. You're only hurting your own dating prospects by being so close-minded and punching above your weight. I feel like the dating game would be a lot healthier if more people could appreciate women and their attractiveness throughout their lives, instead of chasing skirts and acting like a stuck up little prick if a potential romantic partner is halfway through her twenties.

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wannabepranksta posted...

18 is the perfect age. Anything older is considered rotten.

18 year olds are annoying as fuck. I'll take a 35 year old with her shit together before I get with some chick that just graduated high school. We can't even get a drink together.
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WhinyZach posted...

PhazonReborn posted...

Literally not reading that

this.

you coulda just said "topic title"

that.

Because I already agree and I'm sure many others do, too.

Real talk though, guys. There's no real cutoff for everyone, when they stop looking hot. But 30 is definitely the age when you can start telling if women (and men too!) take care of themselves or not.

Chicks who partied too much look like when you crumple up a piece of paper and then uncrumple it.

Meanwhile, the chicks who eat well enough, are active, didn't have kids early, etc... they can pass for like 23 years old well into their 30s.
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The key to a woman's looks, as they get older, so for them to dress their age.
Nothing makes an older woman look bad, is when she tries to dress like someone 20 years younger than she is. I see that all the time.

I've seen woman in their 40's and even a few in their 50's that look great. One because they took care of themselves, and almost as important is how they carry themselves, and a lot of that is in the way they dress. ((Also stop with the platinum blonde after a certain age.))
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Where the **** are da pics?
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this topic has its best posts ahead of it
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I find women in their late 20s early thirties hotter now. Every age bracket you go up, people look more and more like kids. Im working at college health center now and everyone looks like tweens to me
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Men are wine, women are time bombs.
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My sister just turned 30 and doesn't look a day over 21. She doesn't even wear makeup but still looks better than most 25 year olds totally caked in it.

It's amazing what leading a clean lifestyle can do to maintain one's youthful appearance. I'm convinced most women artificially age themselves by boozing, doing drugs and putting harsh chemicals on their faces every day.
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TheCurseX2 posted...

Men are wine, women are time bombs.

More like women are milk, lol.

I would talk or spend time with an older lady any day of the week (they have experience and are genuinely interesting to talk to), but to say that they look better than a twenty-something is straight up delusional. Unless you enjoy stretch marks, wrinkles, fat, and overall loss of luster and vibrance.

Granted I have met some older hotties (even a couple in their early 50's if you can believe it) but it takes clean living and hard work to look good into your 30's and beyond and most chicks couldn't care less honestly. Their lifestyles all catch up with them.
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am i the only who has fetish for milf?
I dont know, young girls are just not that interesting to me ( i mean, of course i like hot girls, but just not really a fetish)

I'll bring this back one more time.
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A man who wants a family will prefer a woman in her 20's instead of her 30's because there are less chances of fertility problems and birth defects. A lot of women refuse to have kids after 40 for this very reason.
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