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Vol2tex 07/06/18 10:31:02 AM #1:	This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though. --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904589238] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 07/06/18 10:34:34 AM #2:	sure, couple times at bars a woman has groped my dick and vanished i didnt appreciate it considering i was out with my wife but it's not a frequent enough experience that i feel it would ruin a night, mostly not worth the energy to act against. if someone did it and hung around i would prob yell at them --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:904589384] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>sure, couple times at bars a woman has groped my dick and vanished i didnt appreciate it considering i was out with my wife but it's not a frequent enough experience that i feel it would ruin a night, mostly not worth the energy to act against. if someone did it and hung around i would prob yell at them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vol2tex 07/06/18 10:55:37 AM #3:	Darkman124 posted... sure, couple times at bars a woman has groped my dick and vanished i didnt appreciate it considering i was out with my wife but it's not a frequent enough experience that i feel it would ruin a night, mostly not worth the energy to act against. if someone did it and hung around i would prob yell at them Wow...those girls are extreme --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904590396] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote>sure, couple times at bars a woman has groped my dick and vanished i didnt appreciate it considering i was out with my wife but it's not a frequent enough experience that i feel it would ruin a night, mostly not worth the energy to act against. if someone did it and hung around i would prob yell at them</quote> Wow...those girls are extreme</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Barenziah Boy Toy 07/06/18 10:59:01 AM #4:	Vol2tex posted... This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though. So tell her to stop. If you don't tell her, or give any visual or body language cues that you don't want to be touched like that, then it's not harassment. --- You don't need a treaty to have free trade. M Rothbard {Self-Hating Token Asian of the Ivory Tower's Zionist Elite} <cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted [p:904590566] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Vol2tex posted...</cite> <quote>This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though.</quote> So tell her to stop. If you don't tell her, or give any visual or body language cues that you don't want to be touched like that, then it's not harassment.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 07/06/18 10:59:51 AM #5:	I've had occasions where women groped me. Like straight up grabbed my dick. But like Darkman said, it's not a frequent enough experience to really put any energy into or for me to really be worried about on a day in day out basis. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:904590605] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>I've had occasions where women groped me. Like straight up grabbed my dick. But like Darkman said, it's not a frequent enough experience to really put any energy into or for me to really be worried about on a day in day out basis.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SavenForever 07/06/18 11:06:50 AM #6:	There was only one time as a minor at a carnie job that I worked at where I was technically sexually harassed. Some drunk slut with a couple of her kids came up to our area and tried a duck pond game where you pick up a duck to see if you win. Instead of using it with her hands like sober people would, she ducked her head in the water and pulled the duck out with her teeth. She then came to a game I was working at where you throw balls at some objects. The first thing she said to me was "I need some balls to squeeze!" I didn't realize it after she left that I was technically sexually harassed, but it didn't bother me and we all had a laugh about it. --- https://imgur.com/aFt7pKH <cite>SavenForever posted [p:904590922] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>There was only one time as a minor at a carnie job that I worked at where I was technically sexually harassed. Some drunk slut with a couple of her kids came up to our area and tried a duck pond game where you pick up a duck to see if you win. Instead of using it with her hands like sober people would, she ducked her head in the water and pulled the duck out with her teeth. She then came to a game I was working at where you throw balls at some objects. The first thing she said to me was "I need some balls to squeeze!" I didn't realize it after she left that I was technically sexually harassed, but it didn't bother me and we all had a laugh about it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vol2tex 07/06/18 11:07:29 AM #7:	Barenziah Boy Toy posted... Vol2tex posted... This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though. So tell her to stop. If you don't tell her, or give any visual or body language cues that you don't want to be touched like that, then it's not harassment. Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment. --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904590949] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vol2tex posted...</cite> <quote>This one model for example would touch me in ways that are technically sexual harassment, like randomly rubbing my leg, walking over and kissing me. I think she's still relatively new in America, so maybe she doesn't understand that it's inappropriate, or maybe it's her affectionate personality. I don't think she has any nefarious intent though.</quote> So tell her to stop. If you don't tell her, or give any visual or body language cues that you don't want to be touched like that, then it's not harassment.</quote> Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rimmer_Dall 07/06/18 11:08:13 AM #8:	I've had my ass grabbed and slapped. Felt fucking uncomfortable. --- "The cheese it yours turtles." ~ William Shakespeare <cite>Rimmer_Dall posted [p:904590988] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>I've had my ass grabbed and slapped. Felt fucking uncomfortable.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 07/06/18 11:08:37 AM #9:	Rimmer_Dall posted... I've had my ass grabbed and slapped. Felt fucking uncomfortable. well, what were you wearing when it happened? --- https://imgur.com/F2h5rw2 <cite>Abyssea posted [p:904591006] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Rimmer_Dall posted...</cite> <quote>I've had my ass grabbed and slapped. Felt fucking uncomfortable.</quote> well, what were you wearing when it happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Barenziah Boy Toy 07/06/18 11:54:02 AM #12:	Vol2tex posted... Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment. Yeah, so it comes down to credibility at that point. If you're a nobody, it's important that you go to HR and report that shit. --- You don't need a treaty to have free trade. M Rothbard {Self-Hating Token Asian of the Ivory Tower's Zionist Elite} <cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted [p:904593270] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Vol2tex posted...</cite> <quote>Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment.</quote> Yeah, so it comes down to credibility at that point. If you're a nobody, it's important that you go to HR and report that shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 07/06/18 12:03:54 PM #13:	What would ya'll do if a homeless person sexually herassed you as you walked by them? Like, they grabbed your junk. You couldn't really broadcast it on social media. I mean, I guess you could but what would come of it lol? They're homeless, so what exactly are they gonna lose. Typcially, it seems people report these types of things for two reasons: Vindicate themselves, and/or cause the harasser to lose something. However, in the case of a homeless person...? I don't see much coming of it. --- Voted worst user on CE 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, and 2017 Current e-argument streak: 0 wins. 15062 losses. <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:904593731] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>What would ya'll do if a homeless person sexually herassed you as you walked by them? Like, they grabbed your junk. You couldn't really broadcast it on social media. I mean, I guess you could but what would come of it lol? They're homeless, so what exactly are they gonna lose. Typcially, it seems people report these types of things for two reasons: Vindicate themselves, and/or cause the harasser to lose something. However, in the case of a homeless person...? I don't see much coming of it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 07/06/18 12:05:02 PM #14:	Yes someone simulated raping me in high school --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:904593783] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zodd3224 07/06/18 12:07:14 PM #15:	A woman took advantage of me when I was too drunk to stop her. I said no but she did it anyways. --- https://imgur.com/qAas5O2 <cite>Zodd3224 posted [p:904593886] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>A woman took advantage of me when I was too drunk to stop her. I said no but she did it anyways.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 07/06/18 12:07:25 PM #16:	if a homeless person touched me--sexually or otherwise--i would honestly probably assume i was being mugged and immediately respond with physical force going back to the frequency thing, homeless people enter my personal space to ask for money frequently, which makes me uncomfortable (i say no and move on, not 'sorry') but if one touched me i would definitely move past a step. in a sexual way? bigger step, probably lizard brain level reaction. i never use social media to complain about being harassed. if a response is warranted in the moment i respond in the moment. it's not like i would expect sympathy on social media. --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:904593896] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>if a homeless person touched me--sexually or otherwise--i would honestly probably assume i was being mugged and immediately respond with physical force going back to the frequency thing, homeless people enter my personal space to ask for money frequently, which makes me uncomfortable (i say no and move on, not 'sorry') but if one touched me i would definitely move past a step. in a sexual way? bigger step, probably lizard brain level reaction. i never use social media to complain about being harassed. if a response is warranted in the moment i respond in the moment. it's not like i would expect sympathy on social media.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joestarrr 07/06/18 12:08:09 PM #17:	Yep. --- you can't spell american dream without eric andre <cite>joestarrr posted [p:904593935] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yep.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vol2tex 07/06/18 12:10:15 PM #18:	Barenziah Boy Toy posted... Vol2tex posted... Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment. Yeah, so it comes down to credibility at that point. If you're a nobody, it's important that you go to HR and report that shit. I mean more in private interactions. Here's an example: https://hyperallergic.com/418222/chuck-close-accused-sexual-misconduct/ Artist Julia Fox said she met Close at a fundraising event in 2013, where he offered to photograph her in his studio. During the session, the artist allegedly asked her to undress, and although she felt uncomfortable doing so, she agreed out of politeness. So she went along with it, but why didn't she speak up at this point? I've worked with models who speak up and say that they don't want to do a particular pose for example. It is good that she finally spoke up once the artist did become sexual though: According to Fox, Close approached her when she was fully nude and told her, Your *** looks delicious. She tried to exit the studio at once, but Close stopped her and tried to pay her $200 before she left, which she refused. She kept the incident to herself until this fall, when she posted an Instagram story describing it to her followers. --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904594043] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vol2tex posted...</cite> <quote>Not according to some of the stories you hear about. Some people go along with things then years later say that it was harassment.</quote> Yeah, so it comes down to credibility at that point. If you're a nobody, it's important that you go to HR and report that shit.</quote> I mean more in private interactions. Here's an example: https://hyperallergic.com/418222/chuck-close-accused-sexual-misconduct/ Artist Julia Fox said she met Close at a fundraising event in 2013, where he offered to photograph her in his studio. During the session, the artist allegedly asked her to undress, and although she felt uncomfortable doing so, she agreed out of politeness. So she went along with it, but why didn't she speak up at this point? I've worked with models who speak up and say that they don't want to do a particular pose for example. It is good that she finally spoke up once the artist did become sexual though: According to Fox, Close approached her when she was fully nude and told her, Your *** looks delicious. She tried to exit the studio at once, but Close stopped her and tried to pay her $200 before she left, which she refused. She kept the incident to herself until this fall, when she posted an Instagram story describing it to her followers. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Barenziah Boy Toy 07/06/18 12:15:08 PM #19:	Vol2tex posted... So she went along with it, but why didn't she speak up at this point? I've worked with models who speak up and say that they don't want to do a particular pose for example. It is good that she finally spoke up once the artist did become sexual though: Because Close was in a position of power. That's the second factor that a lot of ppl don't take into account. Bosses/Supervisors/ famous/powerful people need to watch their behavior a lot more than ppl on equal footing. That is why companies often BAN romantic or sexual relationships between supervisors and subordinates. ALSO, read the article. They accused Close of SEXUAL MISCONDUCT, nothing more. --- You don't need a treaty to have free trade. M Rothbard {Self-Hating Token Asian of the Ivory Tower's Zionist Elite} <cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted [p:904594320] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>Vol2tex posted...</cite> <quote>So she went along with it, but why didn't she speak up at this point? I've worked with models who speak up and say that they don't want to do a particular pose for example. It is good that she finally spoke up once the artist did become sexual though:</quote> Because Close was in a position of power. That's the second factor that a lot of ppl don't take into account. Bosses/Supervisors/ famous/powerful people need to watch their behavior a lot more than ppl on equal footing. That is why companies often BAN romantic or sexual relationships between supervisors and subordinates. ALSO, read the article. They accused Close of SEXUAL MISCONDUCT, nothing more.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt_no_1_loves 07/06/18 12:20:32 PM #20:	Yeah, I've been inappropriately touched or otherwise harassed by a few women throughout my life. The funny thing is that they were mostly people I would gladly have done all sorts of things with, just not in the circumstances where they were getting handsy/flashy. So, it was harassment in the moments it occurred, but not the sorts of things I felt a need to report or anything like that later. Respect people's personal space, body, and right to decide when and where they want to let you get physical, if they do at all. It's just reasonable courtesy! --- sig poll: buzz cola or duff beer 1 - 1 thus far (after like 2 years) <cite>alt_no_1_loves posted [p:904594630] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I've been inappropriately touched or otherwise harassed by a few women throughout my life. The funny thing is that they were mostly people I would gladly have done all sorts of things with, just not in the circumstances where they were getting handsy/flashy. So, it was harassment in the moments it occurred, but not the sorts of things I felt a need to report or anything like that later. Respect people's personal space, body, and right to decide when and where they want to let you get physical, if they do at all. It's just reasonable courtesy!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bloodychess 07/06/18 12:25:08 PM #21:	Yes, by other men of all people --- To err is human To arr is pirate <cite>Bloodychess posted [p:904594861] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yes, by other men of all people </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pow Pow Punishment 07/06/18 12:32:50 PM #22:	Had my ass smacked as a teenager at a bowling alley by a female friend, and more recently my former manager at work would hit on me and slap my ass sometimes. None were unwanted, though. If I had told the manager off she would have listened (she was my friend and actually got me the job). --- Currently playing: Knights of the Old Republic (Android) Training log: http://Machinhate.blogspot.com <cite>Pow Pow Punishment posted [p:904595257] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Had my ass smacked as a teenager at a bowling alley by a female friend, and more recently my former manager at work would hit on me and slap my ass sometimes. None were unwanted, though. If I had told the manager off she would have listened (she was my friend and actually got me the job).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iPhone_7 07/06/18 1:07:10 PM #23:	Two separate incidents, both female who were complete strangers. Ass slap and ass cheek grab. First time also included an inappropriate sexual comment. Told my friends about that first incident, turned into a laughing matter. --- Sig User Logic https://imgur.com/lA5fm7w <cite>iPhone_7 posted [p:904597049] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Two separate incidents, both female who were complete strangers. Ass slap and ass cheek grab. First time also included an inappropriate sexual comment. Told my friends about that first incident, turned into a laughing matter.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vol2tex 07/06/18 2:11:54 PM #24:	iPhone_7 posted... Two separate incidents, both female who were complete strangers. Ass slap and ass cheek grab. First time also included an inappropriate sexual comment. Told my friends about that first incident, turned into a laughing matter. Oh wow --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904600545] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>iPhone_7 posted...</cite> <quote>Two separate incidents, both female who were complete strangers. Ass slap and ass cheek grab. First time also included an inappropriate sexual comment. Told my friends about that first incident, turned into a laughing matter.</quote> Oh wow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ProtoManSPx 07/06/18 2:15:46 PM #25:	@hockeybub89 posted... Yes someone simulated raping me in high school What happened? <cite>ProtoManSPx posted [p:904600729] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>@hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> What happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Omnislasher 07/06/18 2:16:21 PM #26:	who hasn't <cite>Omnislasher posted [p:904600758] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>who hasn't</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Foppe 07/06/18 2:16:57 PM #27:	Yes. --- GameFAQs isn't going to be merged in with GameSpot or any other site. We're not going to strip out the soul of the site. -CJayC <cite>Foppe posted [p:904600788] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ehhwhatever 07/06/18 2:28:15 PM #28:	yea it was kinda joking but it got close to harassment. I don't mind attention if I feel there is no harm involved. --- nobody walks in L.A." <cite>ehhwhatever posted [p:904601386] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>yea it was kinda joking but it got close to harassment. I don't mind attention if I feel there is no harm involved.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
meestermj 07/06/18 2:30:20 PM #29:	I was molested and never told anyone or made anything of it. --- Psn: beastlytoast Left-handed fire-slapsies leave me feeling confused about life. - Merydia <cite>meestermj posted [p:904601511] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>I was molested and never told anyone or made anything of it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 07/06/18 2:40:23 PM #30:	In HS a guy always grabbed my butt when I was going up the stairs. He was cute so I didn't really mind it. <.< --- https://imgur.com/F2h5rw2 <cite>Abyssea posted [p:904602071] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>In HS a guy always grabbed my butt when I was going up the stairs. He was cute so I didn't really mind it. <.<</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 07/06/18 2:43:57 PM #31:	Had my ass grabbed at clubs by guys and girls before. Technically harassment but I definitely dont care. As far as anything more serious, no, but I'm also a pretty built out guy and have been for essentially all of my adult life so once I made it out of the juvenile period unscathed nothing has really been that threatening tbh. I would basically need to be held at gunpoint to be realistically a possible victim to harassment. --- I am basically am I. Well, basically. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:904602279] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Had my ass grabbed at clubs by guys and girls before. Technically harassment but I definitely dont care. As far as anything more serious, no, but I'm also a pretty built out guy and have been for essentially all of my adult life so once I made it out of the juvenile period unscathed nothing has really been that threatening tbh. I would basically need to be held at gunpoint to be realistically a possible victim to harassment.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 07/06/18 4:26:43 PM #32:	ProtoManSPx posted... @hockeybub89 posted... Yes someone simulated raping me in high school What happened? I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:904607990] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>@hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> What happened?</quote> I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ProtoManSPx 07/06/18 4:33:07 PM #33:	hockeybub89 posted... ProtoManSPx posted... hockeybub89 posted... Yes someone simulated raping me in high school What happened? I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed. That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you. <cite>ProtoManSPx posted [p:904608301] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> What happened?</quote> I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed.</quote> That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iron-Tarkus 07/06/18 4:33:55 PM #34:	The worst I had was I was visiting a friend in California and we were on a train. For context I live out in the woods in Alaska so there were more people in that section of the train then I see in a month, and everyone is crammed together. Extremely uncomfortable for me. We get to our stop and I borderline forced myself through the crowd to get to the door because I needed out. And while I was doing that someone got real grabby with my ass, didnt say or do anything about it because I was too focused on getting the fuck off that train. Just something extra to sour my experience with that. --- So I stabbed him and took his humanity https://imgur.com/46SfWQ5 <cite>Iron-Tarkus posted [p:904608332] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>The worst I had was I was visiting a friend in California and we were on a train. For context I live out in the woods in Alaska so there were more people in that section of the train then I see in a month, and everyone is crammed together. Extremely uncomfortable for me. We get to our stop and I borderline forced myself through the crowd to get to the door because I needed out. And while I was doing that someone got real grabby with my ass, didnt say or do anything about it because I was too focused on getting the fuck off that train. Just something extra to sour my experience with that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 07/06/18 4:43:44 PM #35:	ProtoManSPx posted... hockeybub89 posted... ProtoManSPx posted... hockeybub89 posted... Yes someone simulated raping me in high school What happened? I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed. That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you. Thanks, man. That was almost 15 years ago and I've never talked about it outside of the anonymity of the Internet. It would have been a huge mistake back in that all boys military school against a star football player. Felt too embarrassed to let my parents know. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:904608826] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> What happened?</quote> I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed.</quote> That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you.</quote> Thanks, man. That was almost 15 years ago and I've never talked about it outside of the anonymity of the Internet. It would have been a huge mistake back in that all boys military school against a star football player. Felt too embarrassed to let my parents know.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tamashiini 07/06/18 4:47:53 PM #36:	Often. You just deal with it. There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you. You put up with the harmless stuff and call them out for anything beyond that. There were times where I had to make sure I wasn't in a situation where I was alone with certain people, though, customers or coworkers alike. --- PSN: helicene Careful, Icarus. <cite>tamashiini posted [p:904609036] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Often. You just deal with it. There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you. You put up with the harmless stuff and call them out for anything beyond that. There were times where I had to make sure I wasn't in a situation where I was alone with certain people, though, customers or coworkers alike.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 07/06/18 4:51:50 PM #37:	tamashiini posted... There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you Says a lot about the state of your workplace/profession/society-at-large --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:904609241] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>tamashiini posted...</cite> <quote>There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you</quote> Says a lot about the state of your workplace/profession/society-at-large</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ImTheMacheteGuy 07/06/18 4:58:56 PM #38:	Sure. Plenty of times. It never really bothered me. --- Place-holder sig because new phone and old sigs not saved :/ <cite>ImTheMacheteGuy posted [p:904609573] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Sure. Plenty of times. It never really bothered me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KookyCouture 07/06/18 5:22:56 PM #39:	Yes --- Drink up me hearties, yo ho <cite>KookyCouture posted [p:904610764] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrResetti 07/06/18 5:29:57 PM #40:	It's always women over 40. --- https://imgur.com/GRZEGPm https://imgur.com/OeMgQZT <cite>MrResetti posted [p:904611108] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>It's always women over 40.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 07/06/18 5:31:22 PM #41:	no. I'm not wanted --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:904611192] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>no. I'm not wanted</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ProtoManSPx 07/06/18 7:00:08 PM #42:	hockeybub89 posted... ProtoManSPx posted... hockeybub89 posted... ProtoManSPx posted... hockeybub89 posted... Yes someone simulated raping me in high school What happened? I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed. That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you. Thanks, man. That was almost 15 years ago and I've never talked about it outside of the anonymity of the Internet. It would have been a huge mistake back in that all boys military school against a star football player. Felt too embarrassed to let my parents know. An all boys military school sounds like a nightmare...I'm not sure what I would have done in that situation. Hopefully the good outweighed the bad during your experience there. <cite>ProtoManSPx posted [p:904615962] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ProtoManSPx posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes someone simulated raping me in high school</quote> What happened?</quote> I got jumped in the locker room after football practice by a dude in his underwear and got fought to the ground before he eventually turned me over and humped my ass. He even pulled my shorts down but kept my underwear on. A few kids hung around and laughed during it. Someone will say it was a prank, bro, but I never laughed.</quote> That's pretty damn awful. Sorry that happed to you.</quote> Thanks, man. That was almost 15 years ago and I've never talked about it outside of the anonymity of the Internet. It would have been a huge mistake back in that all boys military school against a star football player. Felt too embarrassed to let my parents know.</quote> An all boys military school sounds like a nightmare...I'm not sure what I would have done in that situation. Hopefully the good outweighed the bad during your experience there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tamashiini 07/06/18 7:09:31 PM #43:	hockeybub89 posted... tamashiini posted... There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you Says a lot about the state of your workplace/profession/society-at-large Kinda, it's pretty standard for most other women I've worked with too - at least here in America, in retail, office work and academia. --- PSN: helicene Careful, Icarus. <cite>tamashiini posted [p:904616407] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>hockeybub89 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>tamashiini posted...</cite> <quote>There isn't enough time in a day to go crying to HR whenever someone's sexually harassing you</quote> Says a lot about the state of your workplace/profession/society-at-large</quote> Kinda, it's pretty standard for most other women I've worked with too - at least here in America, in retail, office work and academia.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vol2tex 07/06/18 10:23:10 PM #44:	It's sad how frequent it is. --- https://imgtc.com/i/7cQjt43.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/YFpt0kk.jpg <cite>Vol2tex posted [p:904625864] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>It's sad how frequent it is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 07/06/18 10:23:54 PM #45:	Lol no one would ever sexually harass me --- I dream broken dreams I make them come true <cite>NOM posted [p:904625912] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Lol no one would ever sexually harass me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlisLandale 07/06/18 10:45:11 PM #46:	I mean technically. There was this one girl at my old job who called me her boyfriend and would randomly poke my nipples and say "surprise!" I joked that life wouldn't go well for me if I tried the same to her. But she insisted it wouldnt be a problem. I never tried my luck. >~> --- Sigs are for losers <cite>AlisLandale posted [p:904626843] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>I mean technically. There was this one girl at my old job who called me her boyfriend and would randomly poke my nipples and say "surprise!" I joked that life wouldn't go well for me if I tried the same to her. But she insisted it wouldnt be a problem. I never tried my luck. >~></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ProtoManSPx 07/06/18 10:46:41 PM #47:	NOM posted... Lol no one would ever sexually harass me You a big strong guy? <cite>ProtoManSPx posted [p:904626916] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote><cite>NOM posted...</cite> <quote>Lol no one would ever sexually harass me</quote> You a big strong guy?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 07/06/18 10:55:22 PM #48:	Yes, by both men and women. My first sexual experience (and loss of my virginity) could be considered a sexual assault, although I don't really feel that way. Edit: - Addendum- I've never reported anyone. I politely decline and try to avoid being alone with that person. The last person to do it was a 16 year old girl, I was 34. She groped me suddenly and quite aggressively in a tool shed, and I bolted. --- Torn between two minds. Is either correct? Perhaps together.....but how? Can it be done? <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:904627304] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yes, by both men and women. My first sexual experience (and loss of my virginity) could be considered a sexual assault, although I don't really feel that way. Edit: - Addendum- I've never reported anyone. I politely decline and try to avoid being alone with that person. The last person to do it was a 16 year old girl, I was 34. She groped me suddenly and quite aggressively in a tool shed, and I bolted.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinksLiege 07/06/18 10:57:34 PM #49:	No, but there was a very real possibility of it happening to me last year thanks to a coworker of mine. --- This is LinksLiege's signature. It is fantastic. <cite>LinksLiege posted [p:904627413] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>No, but there was a very real possibility of it happening to me last year thanks to a coworker of mine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 07/06/18 11:04:10 PM #50:	Yep by both guys and girls everyday (Im not gay too) Doesnt help because I encourage it, I have a huge ego The other day I was trying on jeans at a store and the young guy there was sticking his entire hands around my waist and crotch area to see if the jeans fitted properly --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:904627677] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Yep by both guys and girls everyday (Im not gay too) Doesnt help because I encourage it, I have a huge ego The other day I was trying on jeans at a store and the young guy there was sticking his entire hands around my waist and crotch area to see if the jeans fitted properly</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 07/06/18 11:18:23 PM #51:	Actually a few years back I was in the bathroom at work and the state manager (guy) walks in and begged for a BJ Im not gay so I had no idea where this came from He started groping me and all (was pinned in the corner) I was like yeah no thanks and walked out because in real life Im carefree happy go lucky dude I didnt care that it happened and never told anyone except now on this site Looking back now after all this #metoo shit, yeah its pretty fucked up what happened to me lol oh well --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:904628253] in Have you e... [t:76782447]...</cite> <quote>Actually a few years back I was in the bathroom at work and the state manager (guy) walks in and begged for a BJ Im not gay so I had no idea where this came from He started groping me and all (was pinned in the corner) I was like yeah no thanks and walked out because in real life Im carefree happy go lucky dude I didnt care that it happened and never told anyone except now on this site Looking back now after all this #metoo shit, yeah its pretty fucked up what happened to me lol oh well</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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