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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:21:39 AM #1: |
I was embarrassed about being a virgin in my 20s so I lied about it. I then made up more lies to cover up the initial lie. Then we had consistent sex about a month.
About 2 weeks ago i told her the truth and she did not react how i thought she would. in fact, she broke up with me. tried to explain why i lied but she didnt care. feels bad man. i get why she broke up with me but it still sucks AMA --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 07/03/18 1:22:37 AM #2: |
You probably would still be with her if you were honest
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:25:12 AM #3: |
Harpie posted...
Do you regret lying? i do regret lying. although i doubt we would have gotten together if i told her the truth --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SmidgeIsntBack 07/03/18 1:26:42 AM #4: |
What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie.
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Mr_Rian 07/03/18 1:26:48 AM #5: |
Eternalistic posted...
i do regret lying. although i doubt we would have gotten together if i told her the truth If she was in her 20s as well, then you're right. She wouldn't have hooked up with you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Slip-N-Slide 07/03/18 1:29:32 AM #6: |
SmidgeIsntBack posted...
What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. This. Also how did it even come up? Did she ask you? If so why would she ask someone in their 20's if she didn't expect it already? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ultima Dragon 07/03/18 1:29:46 AM #7: |
Let sleeping dogs lie man. It would be better to be the worst possible lay in the world than to be a virgin.
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thronedfire2 07/03/18 1:31:38 AM #8: |
well at least now you don't have to lie to your next gf
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:31:42 AM #9: |
SmidgeIsntBack posted...
What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. Yea, I pretended to be someone that I wasn't. I made up a past relationship just so she'd think I had experience. it was rather manipulative of me. --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WafflehouseJK 07/03/18 1:33:34 AM #11: |
byron posted...
You should have not fucking lied in the first place --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SmidgeIsntBack 07/03/18 1:34:05 AM #12: |
Eternalistic posted...
SmidgeIsntBack posted...What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. That'll do it. --- Audio Theater: For discussion of podcasts, radio, audiobooks, and the like https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1364- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Slip-N-Slide 07/03/18 1:34:08 AM #13: |
Eternalistic posted...
SmidgeIsntBack posted...What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. So you unprovoked just pretended go be another person for no reason to try to fuck this chick? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:35:24 AM #14: |
Slip-N-Slide posted...
SmidgeIsntBack posted...What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. she was incredibly interested in my "number of partners". This was in the talking stage so I made it up so she'd like me. Ultima Dragon posted... Let sleeping dogs lie man. It would be better to be the worst possible lay in the world than to be a virgin. ironically she thought i was pretty good. thronedfire2 posted... well at least now you don't have to lie to your next gf haha theres the brightside --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SmidgeIsntBack 07/03/18 1:37:12 AM #16: |
Hopefully you learn from this and accept that it was for the best that she dumped you. Lying is a slippery slope that hurts you too, and you would have likely kept lying about other things if she forgave you because you'd know you could get away with it.
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:37:32 AM #17: |
Slip-N-Slide posted...
Eternalistic posted...SmidgeIsntBack posted...What were the other lies to cover it up? Those might have done it more than the initial lie. if i just wanted to fuck her i would have done that and not bother with a relationship byron posted... You should have came clean after the first sex. yea probably --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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iHuman 07/03/18 1:38:15 AM #18: |
Why come clean? Was she complaining? If she didn't notice this shouldn't have been eating you up inside.
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WafflehouseJK 07/03/18 1:39:19 AM #19: |
byron posted...
WafflehouseJK posted...byron posted...You should have not fucking lied in the first place Fair enough. --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:41:25 AM #20: |
SmidgeIsntBack posted...
Hopefully you learn from this and accept that it was for the best that she dumped you. Lying is a slippery slope that hurts you too, and you would have likely kept lying about other things if she forgave you because you'd know you could get away with it. yea i see that now. its just a shitty feeling knowing i betrayed her and she'll likely never believe a single thing i say ever again. iHuman posted... Why come clean? Was she complaining? If she didn't notice this shouldn't have been eating you up inside. random jolt of morality made me not want to lie to her anymore. i must really like her --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Axiom 07/03/18 1:41:55 AM #21: |
So this is less I lied about being a virgin and more "I made up a life story con artist style"
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NES4EVER 07/03/18 1:42:38 AM #22: |
Doesn't matter
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 1:46:07 AM #23: |
Axiom posted...
So this is less I lied about being a virgin and more "I made up a life story con artist style" i mean, yea. it sounds pretty bad now that you say it. --- ::: | |_ | || |\ | || |.. ::: ::: |_ |_ | |. \ | \| || |_ ::: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Manocheese 07/03/18 1:46:33 AM #24: |
Fake it 'til you make it. Now that you've made it, you don't need to lie to the next girl.
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joe40001 07/03/18 1:46:55 AM #25: |
Mr_Rian posted...
Eternalistic posted...i do regret lying. although i doubt we would have gotten together if i told her the truth Wait why? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SpinKirby 07/03/18 1:47:09 AM #26: |
Eternalistic posted...
I then made up more lies to cover up the initial lie. R O O K I E M I S T A K E --- MHW Supplemental Discord: https://discord.gg/ChHjtYQ https://imgur.com/QL6WJAl https://imgur.com/lGlcDyU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WafflehouseJK 07/03/18 2:09:52 AM #27: |
joe40001 posted...
Mr_Rian posted...Eternalistic posted...i do regret lying. although i doubt we would have gotten together if i told her the truth He's talking out of his ass. --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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glitteringfairy 07/03/18 2:13:11 AM #28: |
Should have just kept the lie going
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Teddytalks 07/03/18 2:19:05 AM #29: |
glitteringfairy posted...
Should have just kept the lie going ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Teddytalks 07/03/18 2:19:25 AM #30: |
WafflehouseJK posted...
joe40001 posted...Mr_Rian posted...Eternalistic posted...i do regret lying. although i doubt we would have gotten together if i told her the truth Maybe not. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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im not 13 07/03/18 2:22:56 AM #32: |
Teddytalks posted...
glitteringfairy posted...Should have just kept the lie going --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Teddytalks 07/03/18 2:23:55 AM #33: |
mobilebloechel posted...
Everyone seems to be missing the point that if she actually liked you, she should be happy. You don't build a relationship around lies. She did the right thing. It just the lie was so benign that it wasn't a big deal. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Aloner 07/03/18 2:31:52 AM #34: |
You don't reveal the truth after you've already taken advantage of someone. It's just going to hurt them.
Anyway she shouldn't have asked in the first place. It's like a guy asking a girl how many dudes she's slept with. It's none of their business. --- 1 line break(s), 160 characters allowed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Slip-N-Slide 07/03/18 3:28:20 AM #35: |
mobilebloechel posted...
Everyone seems to be missing the point that if she actually liked you, she should be happy. What kind of backwards ass logic is this? No, the argument is that if she actually liked him it wouldn't have mattered to her if he hadn't, but NOT that it wouldn't matter if he made up a bunch of lies about this non issue first. You don't get to lie to someone at the start of a relationship and them just accept that. If a girl lied to me about some non issue like that at the beginning of a relationship I'd take it as a huge red flag from them as well as not trust them anymore on top of that. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Delta_F14 07/03/18 3:39:24 AM #36: |
Should have just kept lying tbh.
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bulletproofvita 07/03/18 5:08:16 AM #38: |
Delta_F14 posted...
Should have just kept lying tbh. Well this. If the relationship is good just should've said nothing. --- Signatures are overrated. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jazznium_Z 07/03/18 5:10:08 AM #39: |
jokes on you, i'll always be a virgin!
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Ilishe 07/03/18 5:13:02 AM #40: |
Why was this such a big deal lol
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YOUHAVENOHOPE 07/03/18 5:13:30 AM #41: |
Well, TC
I hope that's a lesson learned You have to see it from the girl's perspective here You actually lied to get into her pants How does that sound? How do you think that makes her feel? Even if it's predicated upon something as shallow as virginity You lied That's a bad foundation to any relationship --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eternalistic 07/03/18 8:23:06 AM #42: |
yeah, definitely a lesson learned. and it sucks.
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SaccharineSmile 07/03/18 8:30:03 AM #43: |
you should have kept the lie up even if you wanted to further the relationship all the way up to marriage
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YOUHAVENOHOPE 07/03/18 8:31:54 AM #44: |
Eternalistic posted...
yeah, definitely a lesson learned. and it sucks. It does but you learned, which is good now you're a good person for it just don't make the same mistakes and don't be so down on yourself bro, being a virgin into your 20s really isn't that bad. and now you're not a virgin so you can honestly say that to girls at least (although i would not mention that you lied to get laid) but yes, what you did was bad but the fact that you feel bad about it is a good thing. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cobra1010 07/03/18 8:39:39 AM #45: |
Wait so you had to lie that your not a virgin for her to be happy and have sex with you?
And when she found out you never had sex with another woman before her, she broke up with you? Thats some twisted person there. Just let her go and find a better girlfriend. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Skye Reynolds 07/03/18 8:46:40 AM #46: |
You probably made the right choice. First relationships seldom last and there's at least a 50/50 chance she would've broken up with you for being a virgin.
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Sad_Face 07/03/18 8:49:38 AM #47: |
Manocheese posted...
Fake it 'til you make it. Now that you've made it, you don't need to lie to the next girl. This. On the flipside, you'll be more confident with the next girl having had a relationship. --- imgtc.com/i/4HgTl0ebzq.jpg imgtc.com/i/60CWP2Gtlg.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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YOUHAVENOHOPE 07/03/18 8:51:58 AM #48: |
Cobra1010 posted...
Wait so you had to lie that your not a virgin for her to be happy and have sex with you? you're looking at it wrong he lied to her to have sex with her beyond the whole virginity thing, that's enough for a lot of girls to quit --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AcFan87 07/03/18 8:55:41 AM #49: |
Didn't react how you thought she would? You expected her to be okay with you lying? You planted the seed of doubt in her and sabotaged the relationship.
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SaccharineSmile 07/03/18 8:57:38 AM #50: |
Theres nothing wrong with lying by the way, if it keeps everyone happy, keep lying
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awesome999 07/03/18 8:59:00 AM #51: |
As long as you learned your lesson about not lying, your fine
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