Current Events > Guy has troubled, but consensual relationship. Breaks up.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Disgruntled ex writes article calling him abuser. Guy loses job.

What a world we live in.
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sue for slander/libel
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Don't have relationships with women
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Patty_Fleur posted...

Don't have relationships with women

Clearly every celebrity needs contracts and NDAs for all their relationships.
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Thank the #MeToo movement for that.
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Awesome link TC
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Muffinz0rz posted...

sue for slander/libel

He should since she said she has proof.

(really I only want to see the proof)
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Cool story bro
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Muffinz0rz posted...

sue for slander/libel

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chrono625 posted...

Awesome link TC

https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Chris_Hardwick
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Guilty until proven innocent if you're a man going up against a woman. They're treated as children (defenseless, innocent, incapable of being responsible for their own actions or making conscious decisions) within most institutions of our society. Even then, you're guilty forever in the court of public opinion no matter what the eventual outcome is. It's scary how a woman has the power to ruin a man's life with just one snap of her finger.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

Guilty until proven innocent if you're a man going up against a woman. They're treated as children (defenseless, innocent, incapable of being responsible for their own actions or making conscious decisions) within most institutions of our society. Even then, you're guilty forever in the court of public opinion no matter what the eventual outcome is. It's scary how a woman has the power to ruin a man's life with just one snap of her finger.

Well, to be honest, they kind of deserve the benefit of the doubt after how they were mistreated over the centuries. it isn't my problem since I'm gay, but straight men have been mistreating women since the beginning of time.

Just consider this reparations. Knowing that the law won't protect you is a pretty good deterrent for would be abusers I think.
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Abyssea posted...

Ultima Dragon posted...

Guilty until proven innocent if you're a man going up against a woman. They're treated as children (defenseless, innocent, incapable of being responsible for their own actions or making conscious decisions) within most institutions of our society. Even then, you're guilty forever in the court of public opinion no matter what the eventual outcome is. It's scary how a woman has the power to ruin a man's life with just one snap of her finger.

Well, to be honest, they kind of deserve the benefit of the doubt after how they were mistreated over the centuries. it isn't my problem since I'm gay, but straight men have been mistreating women since the beginning of time.

Just consider this reparations. Knowing that the law won't protect you is a pretty good deterrent for would be abusers I think.

This is such a dangerous mentality. You dont believe in equality, you just want a power shift. You are despicable.
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daftpunk_mk5 posted...

chrono625 posted...

Awesome link TC

https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Chris_Hardwick

Admittedly this is the danger of the #MeToo movement. Once less-scrupulous women begin smelling blood in the water misusing it to start a commie hunt seems inevitable.

Guess we'll see but this one does smack of a bitch in sheep's clothing.
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Abyssea posted...

Ultima Dragon posted...

Guilty until proven innocent if you're a man going up against a woman. They're treated as children (defenseless, innocent, incapable of being responsible for their own actions or making conscious decisions) within most institutions of our society. Even then, you're guilty forever in the court of public opinion no matter what the eventual outcome is. It's scary how a woman has the power to ruin a man's life with just one snap of her finger.

Well, to be honest, they kind of deserve the benefit of the doubt after how they were mistreated over the centuries. it isn't my problem since I'm gay, but straight men have been mistreating women since the beginning of time.

Just consider this reparations. Knowing that the law won't protect you is a pretty good deterrent for would be abusers I think.

Not a justification for an innocent man being thrown under the bus. Someone else's wrongdoing shouldn't be treated as your wrongdoing.
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MrPeppers posted...

This is such a dangerous mentality. You dont believe in equality, you just want a power shift. You are despicable.

I just think women should be allowed to reclaim what was taken from them for so long. If men could handle being on the giving end of it, why can't they handle the receiving end too?

Then after the balance has been restored, you guys can move forward as true equals. :o but as I said, I'm gay so it isn't my problem. You guys got yourselves into this mess so you gotta get yourselves out of it.

Maybe you should have treated the wamen right from the start. hmmmmmm?
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Abyssea posted...

MrPeppers posted...

This is such a dangerous mentality. You dont believe in equality, you just want a power shift. You are despicable.

I just think women should be allowed to reclaim what was taken from them for so long. If men could handle being on the giving end of it, why can't they handle the receiving end too?

Then after the balance has been restored, you guys can move forward as true equals. :o but as I said, I'm gay so it isn't my problem. You guys got yourselves into this mess so you gotta get yourselves out of it.

Maybe you should have treated the wamen right from the start. hmmmmmm?

Your sexual preference doesnt change the fact that you are a male and are still susceptible to this problem. Ive never personally mistreated a woman. The majority of men in todays society dont mistreat women. Just so you know, intimate partner violence is a huge problem in the LGTBQ community as well. And you want people to pay for the sins of their fathers, all the while thinking this has no lasting effects for you. Laughable.
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MrPeppers posted...

Your sexual preference doesnt hang the fact that you are a male and are still susceptible to this problem. Ive never personally mistreated a woman. The majority of men in todays society dont mistreat women. Just so you know, intimate partner violence is a huge problem in the LGTBQ community as well. And you want people to pay for the sins of their fathers, all the while thinking this has no lasting effects for you. Laughable.

Who is going to pay for the sins of their fathers if not them? Someone has to cash that check. You can't expect wamen to just forgive and forget generations of abuse. Straight men need to do something to make things right or your relations are just going to continue to worsen.

If you can't make amends wamen are just going to keep using the avenues available to them to get revenge. Hence more and more innocent men getting screwed over like the person the TC is talking about.

But like I said, not my problem.
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Abyssea posted...

MrPeppers posted...

Your sexual preference doesnt hang the fact that you are a male and are still susceptible to this problem. Ive never personally mistreated a woman. The majority of men in todays society dont mistreat women. Just so you know, intimate partner violence is a huge problem in the LGTBQ community as well. And you want people to pay for the sins of their fathers, all the while thinking this has no lasting effects for you. Laughable.

Who is going to pay for the sins of their fathers if not them? Someone has to cash that check. You can't expect wamen to just forgive and forget generations of abuse. Straight men need to do something to make things right or your relations are just going to continue to worsen.

If you can't make amends wamen are just going to keep using the avenues available to them to get revenge. Hence more and more innocent men getting screwed over like the person the TC is talking about.

But like I said, not my problem.

If a person is civilized today to treat women as human equals, then that's the only debt that is owed to women.

And it wasnt just cis white males who were demeaning women either. Fuck, even today we have many instances where women are treated as 2nd class citizens in areas that are either Arabic or african.
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16-BITTER posted...

Abyssea posted...

Then after the balance has been restored, you guys can move forward as true equals. :o but as I said, I'm gay so it isn't my problem.

"Even innocent straight guys deserve this because your ancestors mistreated women."

"This isn't my problem because none of my ancestors were straight."

That isn't what I meant! Just, as a gay man, I have been excluded from the bubble that is male and female relations. I'm not carrying on that legacy. Hence why you guys need to figure that shit out. If you want advice I can offer it but that is the most I can do for you.
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@Abyssea

So fuck all the innocent men who women throw false charges on because the man broke up with her, the woman felt "slighted" on the job and decides to make up some bullshit about a coworker or boss, or the woman felt "harassed" just cause a man literally just greeted them with a "hello" ?

Also fuck reparations and all it stands for, the people being railroaded, and falsely accused should not have to suffer because of what idiots of the past did, if you want to go with that stupid mentality then after women "reclaim what was taken from them" men should have the "right" to treat them as they used to AKA property, taking away their rights, and kicking women out of the workforce and back into the home.

What you propose would only lead to a never ending cycle of men and women fucking each other over cause men are not liking this #MeToo movement due to innocent men also being fucked are going to lash back out at women or just stop hiring women for jobs so that no woman can throw false accusation on them.

PS you being gay will not stop some women from throwing charges at you, don't think cause your not a straight man your unaffected.
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Chris Hardwick is not the hill to die on.

You are not the ones who need to defend him. That is himself, the evidence, and his counsel.

You are not friends or family with Chris Hardwick, thus you have no personal reason to believe or support him. Even if you view his work, you are only shown his life through that lens, which is not who he really is, which is the same for all of us.

If you support him because of him being a "representative" of your gender, know that whatever befalls him, positive or negative, will have no affect on you or your prospects.

You, the distinguished CE rabble, will very likely not face this situation you have crafted, where you could have a very public career ruined by the false accusation of a former lover. You will not face this for multiple reasons.

Finally, regularly believing the accused out of hand in opposition to the accuser for no good reason is why more people don't come forward.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

@Abyssea

So fuck all the innocent men who women throw false charges on because the man broke up with her, the woman felt "slighted" on the job and decides to make up some bullshit about a coworker or boss, or the woman felt "harassed" just cause a man literally just greeted them with a "hello" ?

Also fuck reparations and all it stands for, the people being railroaded, and falsely accused should not have to suffer because of what idiots of the past did, if you want to go with that stupid mentality then after women "reclaim what was taken from them" men should have the "right" to treat them as they used to AKA property, taking away their rights, and kicking women out of the workforce and back into the home.

What you propose would only lead to a never ending cycle of men and women fucking each other over cause men are not liking this #MeToo movement due to innocent men also being fucked are going to lash back out at women or just stop hiring women for jobs so that no woman can throw false accusation on them.

PS you being gay will not stop some women from throwing charges at you, don't think cause your not a straight man your unaffected.

I think the idea is that once men have been made to suffer as much as wamen of previous generations were, you'd both be even and can put it behind you. I don't know who is keeping track of it, but it is probably going to get worse before it gets any better.

I don't think they'd have much luck getting any charges to stick to me though. I don't have to worry about "man spreading" because I cross my legs.
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Abyssea posted...

I think the idea is that once men have been made to suffer as much as wamen of previous generations were, you'd both be even and can put it behind you.

Try to actually think about this for a while until you see the problem. If you can't, keep at it until you're smart enough to figure it out.
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Abyssea posted...

Who is going to pay for the sins of their fathers if not them? Someone has to cash that check

Those guys paid for their mistakes by dying and not existing anymore.
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M_Live posted...

What a dumb topic we're posting in

There is nothing dumb about this topic . Hell in the case the OP is speaking about the guy showed text of her begging to get back with him. After she cheated on him.
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Have you guys ever been friends with a couple who had a nasty breakup? You're friends with both of them, and their stories completely contradict each other. Or have you ever been in a bad breakup and had the other person tell lies about you? It's frustrating af.

Basically any time there's a serious relationship breakup, take anything they say with a heap of salt.
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@Abyssea

The whole problem is you actually think "once men have been made to suffer as much as women of previous generations were, you'd both be even and can put it behind you" no man is going to put up with or accept that bullshit unless they are a spineless weakling which most men are not. What will more likely happen is women are no longer hired by most men because they refuse to take a stupid risk with how a woman can fuck up a man's life, business, and only make things worse for the actual hard workers out there.

Women do not make up the majority of the work force and many leave the work world forever once they land a rich guy or get pregnant. The only thing that will happen is more men will mistrust women to the point where marriage is extremely rare, birth rates are worse then they are now and women will be stigmatized from most work places.

In a nutshell women are the ones who will be fucked over even more at the end of the day and no innocent or good man will care after a while due to the false allegations and false charges. Marriage and birth rates are already in trouble so this "women need revenge" shit your pushing is only going to blow up in their faces and end badly for women.
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won't anyone think of the straight white wamens??
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

@Abyssea

The whole problem is you actually think "once men have been made to suffer as much as women of previous generations were, you'd both be even and can put it behind you" no man is going to put up with or accept that bullshit unless they are a spineless weakling which most men are not. What will more likely happen is women are no longer hired by most men because they refuse to take a stupid risk with how a woman can fuck up a man's life, business, and only make things worse for the actual hard workers out there.

Women do not make up the majority of the work force and many leave the work world forever once they land a rich guy or get pregnant. The only thing that will happen is more men will mistrust women to the point where marriage is extremely rare, birth rates are worse then they are now and women will be stigmatized from most work places.

In a nutshell women are the ones who will be fucked over even more at the end of the day and no innocent or good man will care after a while due to the false allegations and false charges. Marriage and birth rates are already in trouble so this "women need revenge" shit your pushing is only going to blow up in their faces and end badly for women.

Like I said, it isn't my problem. You gotta figure it out bro.
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Abyssea posted...

Like I said, it isn't my problem. You gotta figure it out bro.

"take this asinine and pointless suffering from me, soyboy (because I can't make other men take it)"
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Men will figue it out and woman are not going to like the solutions, this is only going to hurt women in the long run, and they will only have themselves to blame.

Good luck not getting "#MeTooed", being gay will not protect you like you think it will.

@Abyssea
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Ya'll riding first class on Abyssea's rise cruise
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rise to fame
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catboy0_0 posted...

Abyssea posted...

Like I said, it isn't my problem. You gotta figure it out bro.

"take this asinine and pointless suffering from me, soyboy (because I can't make other men take it)"

Depends on what I'm trying to get men to take...
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Abyssea posted...

catboy0_0 posted...

Abyssea posted...

Like I said, it isn't my problem. You gotta figure it out bro.

"take this asinine and pointless suffering from me, soyboy (because I can't make other men take it)"

Depends on what I'm trying to get men to take...

... go on
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That sounds like sexual harassment to me or assault.

@Abyssea
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Innocent until proven guilty only applies to the legal system. People can outright decide a person's guilt without due process. It's the reason why we can't all become judges
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legendarylemur posted...

Innocent until proven guilty only applies to the legal system. People can outright decide a person's guilt without due process. It's the reason why we can't all become judges

But lets say he is guilty of everything. Besides like one thing, he is just an asshole BF he is not a rapist or an abuser like people are claiming.
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cjsdowg posted...

legendarylemur posted...

Innocent until proven guilty only applies to the legal system. People can outright decide a person's guilt without due process. It's the reason why we can't all become judges

But lets say he is guilty of everything. Besides like one thing, he is just an asshole BF he is not a rapist or an abuser like people are claiming.

Exactly. Shitty relationship, but it was all consensual. Shit like that happens and it should be private between them and who they choose to involve, not published for the world to know.
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