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JebronLames
06/01/18 3:33:49 AM
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Obv this topic is directed at the single guys on here, but do you ever see a really hot chick and figure there's no way that's gonna happen...... - Results (12 votes)
yes i do this sometimes
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no i really don't do this
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.....or maybe not just see but you do interact with her a bit but figure she could never be interested in you anyway and just not pursue it?
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DocileOrangeCup
06/01/18 3:39:54 AM
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The23rdMagus
06/01/18 3:40:26 AM
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I historically have not had a clue what my league is. Either I'm not interested or they're out of my league, and each time I'm surprised when out-of-my-league is interested in me.
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Panthera
06/01/18 3:47:02 AM
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No. Well, not normally, every now and then I'm in general self-loathing mode and think anyone and everyone would be insane for wanting anything to do with me, but usually I don't think about "leagues" in that sense. Not to say that I'm the ultimate ladies man or anything, I just know that if I fuck up it wasn't because I never had a chance, it was because I didn't do a good enough job with that particular chance (or we just weren't compatible)
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PerseusRad
06/01/18 3:47:17 AM
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In a sense near everyone is out of my league. Ive got a somewhat bad personality, and my looks dont help at all. So while I dont really think of things in terms of leagues, its not looking good.
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JebronLames
06/01/18 3:51:15 AM
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but have you seen that movie with alice eve, of the same name though?
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JebronLames
06/01/18 8:05:41 AM
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bumpers
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DarthGravid
06/01/18 9:22:29 AM
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I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.
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Sativa_Rose
06/01/18 9:23:34 AM
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No, but I can tell pretty quickly whether or not someone is in a suitable social class for me. Class in America is a perspective or mentality more than something that reflects your actual material well-being.
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Romulox28
06/01/18 9:24:41 AM
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no, im an alpha chad
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Shuto-uke
06/01/18 9:28:48 AM
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DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends
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JebronLames
06/01/18 9:32:48 AM
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Shuto-uke posted...
DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends

really you've seen this a lot? i mean her and her friends laughing?
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DarthGravid
06/01/18 9:40:06 AM
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JebronLames posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends

really you've seen this a lot? i mean her and her friends laughing?


And this is why I said "Whatever, moving on." I have been laughed at, made fun of, all of it. So what. Even if it only works 5% of the time, it still works. You are only guaranteed to fail if you don't try.
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Shuto-uke
06/01/18 9:42:10 AM
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JebronLames posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends

really you've seen this a lot? i mean her and her friends laughing?


yup. It's with extreme examples, think of a "I love you beth cooper" scenario but in real life.

The girl doesn't go "aaawwww thanks but I am taken :) ". She usually goes like "No. Thanks. O_o" ... and then once the guy walks away a few steps her friends and her are like "LMAO!! HAHAHAHA"
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Shuto-uke
06/01/18 10:16:17 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
JebronLames posted...
but have you seen that movie with alice eve, of the same name though?


I like that movie a lot, it's really cute.


She's really cute too
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Kineth
06/01/18 10:20:05 AM
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It's not often that I think a woman is out of my league as opposed to thinking that they're not gonna be interested in me. But yes, it does happen sometimes.
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DracoSpire
06/01/18 10:42:49 AM
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No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity. Obviously, you should still take care of how you look, but the whole concept of "leagues" is just dumb.
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Kineth
06/01/18 10:47:39 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity. Obviously, you should still take care of how you look, but the whole concept of "leagues" is just dumb.


I agree with this.
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Shuto-uke
06/01/18 10:49:55 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity.


Come on.

Girl A: Looks exactly like Diane Krueger at 25, is 25, has 5 million dollars in the bank, rescues puppies, dresses in Channel.

Guy B: weights 240 lbs at 5'6 height, earns minimum salary, has pimples, dresses with old frumpy clothes.

They can't be in the same league, come on.
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Kineth
06/01/18 10:51:24 AM
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Guy B doesn't take care of himself so the idea that there are leagues for him doesn't matter. He's not in dating shape.
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DracoSpire
06/01/18 10:52:01 AM
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Shuto-uke posted...
JebronLames posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends

really you've seen this a lot? i mean her and her friends laughing?


yup. It's with extreme examples, think of a "I love you beth cooper" scenario but in real life.

The girl doesn't go "aaawwww thanks but I am taken :) ". She usually goes like "No. Thanks. O_o" ... and then once the guy walks away a few steps her friends and her are like "LMAO!! HAHAHAHA"

Maybe that's because hitting on someone while they're surrounded by their posse is a bad idea because it just puts pressure on the person being asked out, which makes them far more likely to outright reject them.
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EvalAngell
06/01/18 10:52:15 AM
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there are leagues. that's why good looking people tend to end up with each other. You rarely if ever see a hot chick with an old/fat/bald guy unless he has money and power. However there are also ways to reach and get a girl that's out of your league if you lack money and status.
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JebronLames
06/01/18 10:53:16 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
JebronLames posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DarthGravid posted...
I'm not great looking, but I've never let that stop me. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Whatever, moving on. Confidence goes a long way.


Maybe when you're an adult.

A guy who hits on a girl way out of his league in real life runs the risk of getting laughed at and humiliated by said girl and/or her friends

really you've seen this a lot? i mean her and her friends laughing?


yup. It's with extreme examples, think of a "I love you beth cooper" scenario but in real life.

The girl doesn't go "aaawwww thanks but I am taken :) ". She usually goes like "No. Thanks. O_o" ... and then once the guy walks away a few steps her friends and her are like "LMAO!! HAHAHAHA"

Maybe that's because hitting on someone while they're surrounded by their posse is a bad idea because it just puts pressure on the person being asked out, which makes them far more likely to outright reject them.

yeah good point there draco and i agree with your statement they're just as human as i am
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DracoSpire
06/01/18 10:57:45 AM
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Shuto-uke posted...
DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity.


Come on.

Girl A: Looks exactly like Diane Krueger at 25, is 25, has 5 million dollars in the bank, rescues puppies, dresses in Channel.

Guy B: weights 240 lbs at 5'6 height, earns minimum salary, has pimples, dresses with old frumpy clothes.

They can't be in the same league, come on.

Then he doesn't take care of how he looks. He would be much better off if he hit the gym and a hair salon, threw on some Proactiv, put together a fashionable outfit, had a good personality and confidence, and was a mature and competent adult. At that point, he could ideally throw his worries of "leagues" out the window.
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Shuto-uke
06/01/18 11:03:15 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity.


Come on.

Girl A: Looks exactly like Diane Krueger at 25, is 25, has 5 million dollars in the bank, rescues puppies, dresses in Channel.

Guy B: weights 240 lbs at 5'6 height, earns minimum salary, has pimples, dresses with old frumpy clothes.

They can't be in the same league, come on.

Then he doesn't take care of how he looks. He would be much better off if he hit the gym and a hair salon, threw on some Proactiv, put together a fashionable outfit, had a good personality and confidence, and was a mature and competent adult. At that point, he could ideally throw his worries of "leagues" out the window.


yeah... he worked on himself in order to move on up
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Bestoffuture
06/01/18 11:05:50 AM
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Only if she's extremely extroverted. I know I wouldn't be able to keep up. I like my me time.
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wah_wah_wah
06/01/18 11:06:31 AM
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There are a lot of priorities that form a conventionally attractive woman, that I usually do not have at all. I find that the distance between me and someone who spends so much of their time putting on makeup is probably too much to surpass without trickery.
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wah_wah_wah
06/01/18 11:15:53 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity. Obviously, you should still take care of how you look, but the whole concept of "leagues" is just dumb.

Its OK to recognize you're not at the same level as someone else. The alternative to me sounds more pathetically insecure - although I'd lean towards "delusional" as a more accurate description.
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DracoSpire
06/01/18 11:16:39 AM
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Shuto-uke posted...
DracoSpire posted...
Shuto-uke posted...
DracoSpire posted...
No, because no matter how attractive she is, she's just as human as I am.

There's no such things as "leagues". "Leagues" are nothing but a stupid concept molded by society out of pathetic insecurity.


Come on.

Girl A: Looks exactly like Diane Krueger at 25, is 25, has 5 million dollars in the bank, rescues puppies, dresses in Channel.

Guy B: weights 240 lbs at 5'6 height, earns minimum salary, has pimples, dresses with old frumpy clothes.

They can't be in the same league, come on.

Then he doesn't take care of how he looks. He would be much better off if he hit the gym and a hair salon, threw on some Proactiv, put together a fashionable outfit, had a good personality and confidence, and was a mature and competent adult. At that point, he could ideally throw his worries of "leagues" out the window.


yeah... he worked on himself in order to move on up

Despite this, leagues only exist if you allow them to and believe they exist. In reality, there are only two leagues: the average-to-good looking people swimming through the vast regions of the sea's surface, and the uggos dwelling within the cold, dark abyss below.
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Damn_Underscore
06/01/18 11:17:57 AM
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Leagues are really based on money so who cares
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awesome999
06/01/18 11:18:07 AM
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I've never really thought that but then I can't really initiate so everyone is kinda out of my league
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JebronLames
06/01/18 11:19:58 AM
#33:


Damn_Underscore posted...
Leagues are really based on money so who cares

idk i think money "leagues" may be more real than looks leagues but it ain't like money leagues are impenetrable or anything either.
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DracoSpire
06/01/18 11:20:51 AM
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wah_wah_wah posted...
rubbish

Welcome to my ignore list.
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wah_wah_wah
06/01/18 11:21:57 AM
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DracoSpire posted...
wah_wah_wah posted...
rubbish

Welcome to my ignore list.

lol at least he was able to define his term "pathetically insecure" with his own behavior. I guess I'm just out of his league - his league being little league.
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SavenForever
06/01/18 11:41:07 AM
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All the time.
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