Current Events > Imagine being a virgin/incel in 2018.

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Yellow posted...

When people use the word incel it makes me want to leave this planet.

ftfy
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

incels =/= virgin

Don't put them in the same group.

One group is an awful circle jerk of hate.

The other group is just unlucky.

Virgins turn into incels. It's the natural circle of life

No it's not.

Virgins who turn into incels and identify as such simply prove that it was their own fault they were failures and single. Virgins who can't get sex but don't identify as incels are very different people.
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so if you're not interested or motivated to be dateable, you're an incel? is that what I'm hearing?
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Well I have an excuse, I'm asexual.
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catboy0_0 posted...

so if you're not interested or motivated to be dateable, you're an incel? is that what I'm hearing?

Nope, you are only an incel if you identify as one, it takes a special type of personality (IE: awful) to take up that mantle.
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ohhh okay. I was starting to get ANGRY. You wouldn't LIKE me when I'm ANGRY
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Sounds like incel talk to me

don't push me there
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Can't push someone to somewhere they're at

woah...
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Don't have to imagine it. ;)
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AlephZero posted...

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

This is exactly what I posted about.

I'm average, or below average, with five children, two failed marriages and one successful one, body count of 78 over 25 years. You are wrong.
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DarthGravid posted...

AlephZero posted...

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

This is exactly what I posted about.

I'm average, or below average, with five children, two failed marriages and one successful one, body count of 78 over 25 years. You are wrong.

I just want to curl up and die.
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DarthGravid posted...

The problem with incels is entitlement. They believe that they should not have to change themselves, and that women should be throwing themselves at their feet, just as they do for "chads".

These are incorrect. Yes, there are 1% of men that women throw themselves at, but it's not all women, in fact, the majority of women are disgusted by these men. If only "Chads" have sex, then how do most of us have sex, or how were we even born?

The reverse of this is the concept of "Stacys". Do only "Stacys" have sex? Obviously not. Most men would have sex with a "9-10" without a second thought. Why is it different for women?

Incels want it handed to them, and do not want to play by the "rules". Yes, there are rules, and yes, they make it more difficult for some, but with a little work anyone can succeed.

TLDR: Some women will have sex with "Chads", some exclusively so, but a few cases do not support the incel doctrine. Quit crying and fix yourself.

This post is so stupid. Incels hit the gym, get haircuts, take cold showers but it doesnt matter. If youre ugly, youre ugly and you are considerered asexual to women.

KogaSteelfang posted...

I just want to curl up and die.

I just screamed as hard as I could into my pillow.
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Eh

I'm fat as fuck and lack personality and have standards way higher than they should be so I'm a turbovirgin

I know it's my fault and don't blame women at least
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AngelicTouch99 posted...

DarthGravid posted...

The problem with incels is entitlement. They believe that they should not have to change themselves, and that women should be throwing themselves at their feet, just as they do for "chads".

These are incorrect. Yes, there are 1% of men that women throw themselves at, but it's not all women, in fact, the majority of women are disgusted by these men. If only "Chads" have sex, then how do most of us have sex, or how were we even born?

The reverse of this is the concept of "Stacys". Do only "Stacys" have sex? Obviously not. Most men would have sex with a "9-10" without a second thought. Why is it different for women?

Incels want it handed to them, and do not want to play by the "rules". Yes, there are rules, and yes, they make it more difficult for some, but with a little work anyone can succeed.

TLDR: Some women will have sex with "Chads", some exclusively so, but a few cases do not support the incel doctrine. Quit crying and fix yourself.

This post is so stupid. Incels hit the gym, get haircuts, take cold showers but it doesnt matter. If youre ugly, youre ugly and you are considerered asexual to women.

Sounds like something an incel would say....

Even ugly people can get women. Ugly people might not be able to get 10/10 women very easily, but to say that being ugly alone stops you from getting women is EXACTLY why incels are pathetic "victims."
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DarthAragorn posted...

Eh

I'm fat as fuck and lack personality and have standards way higher than they should be so I'm a turbovirgin

I know it's my fault and don't blame women at least

they'll find a way to make you suffer. trust me. they won't let you keep that attitude.
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Dustin1280 posted...

AngelicTouch99 posted...

DarthGravid posted...

The problem with incels is entitlement. They believe that they should not have to change themselves, and that women should be throwing themselves at their feet, just as they do for "chads".

These are incorrect. Yes, there are 1% of men that women throw themselves at, but it's not all women, in fact, the majority of women are disgusted by these men. If only "Chads" have sex, then how do most of us have sex, or how were we even born?

The reverse of this is the concept of "Stacys". Do only "Stacys" have sex? Obviously not. Most men would have sex with a "9-10" without a second thought. Why is it different for women?

Incels want it handed to them, and do not want to play by the "rules". Yes, there are rules, and yes, they make it more difficult for some, but with a little work anyone can succeed.

TLDR: Some women will have sex with "Chads", some exclusively so, but a few cases do not support the incel doctrine. Quit crying and fix yourself.

This post is so stupid. Incels hit the gym, get haircuts, take cold showers but it doesnt matter. If youre ugly, youre ugly and you are considerered asexual to women.

Sounds like something an incel would say....

Even ugly people can get women. Ugly people might not be able to get 10/10 women very easily, but to say that being ugly alone stops you from getting women is EXACTLY why incels are pathetic "victims."

https://m.imgur.com/a/LaKy4W9

Also, i dont get why everyone who is a realist is an incel lol. I have lived with my gf for 4 years at this point and got a pretty good amount of ass when i was single. Just because i understand how things work doesnt mean i cant get my dick wet lol

AngelicTouch99 posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

AngelicTouch99 posted...

DarthGravid posted...

The problem with incels is entitlement. They believe that they should not have to change themselves, and that women should be throwing themselves at their feet, just as they do for "chads".

These are incorrect. Yes, there are 1% of men that women throw themselves at, but it's not all women, in fact, the majority of women are disgusted by these men. If only "Chads" have sex, then how do most of us have sex, or how were we even born?

The reverse of this is the concept of "Stacys". Do only "Stacys" have sex? Obviously not. Most men would have sex with a "9-10" without a second thought. Why is it different for women?

Incels want it handed to them, and do not want to play by the "rules". Yes, there are rules, and yes, they make it more difficult for some, but with a little work anyone can succeed.

TLDR: Some women will have sex with "Chads", some exclusively so, but a few cases do not support the incel doctrine. Quit crying and fix yourself.

This post is so stupid. Incels hit the gym, get haircuts, take cold showers but it doesnt matter. If youre ugly, youre ugly and you are considerered asexual to women.

Sounds like something an incel would say....

Even ugly people can get women. Ugly people might not be able to get 10/10 women very easily, but to say that being ugly alone stops you from getting women is EXACTLY why incels are pathetic "victims."

https://m.imgur.com/a/LaKy4W9

Also, i dont get why everyone who is a realist is an incel lol. I have lived with my gf for 4 years at this point and got a pretty good amount of ass when i was single. Just because i understand how things work doesnt mean i cant get my dick wet lol

You clearly don't understand how things work, because if you did you wouldn't say something so stupid.

And frankly if you are linking to trash like that and hold the idea that ugly men can't get women, then I don't believe for a second you have been with your g/f for 4 years much less even have one.

Here is a realist opinion for you:
Being ugly makes it much harder to get women, especially if you have very high standards yourself, it does NOT however make it impossible. Likewise money, power/influence, and looks ALL help when trying to meet women, but even if you have NONE of those things it's not a hopeless case.
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Sex is for chumps
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A virgin that's simply a relatively stable dude is one thing. Some people just don't care, as well. And if they don't, who cares about that, too? It's pretty irrelevant if someone is a virgin or not in the scheme of things.

Incels though, are joke people. "People." Who cares.
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same thi g
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@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem
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Yaoyorozu posted...

@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem

I'm a born again virgin
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Leanaunfurled posted...

Yaoyorozu posted...

@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem

I'm a born again virgin

I guess I'm going to the CE meetup now
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Yaoyorozu posted...

@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem

but I'm admittedly not an incel... damn! foiled again!
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Yaoyorozu posted...

@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem

I'm actually an incel virgin. I liked to seem cool.

Hmu

AngelicTouch99 posted...

DarthGravid posted...

The problem with incels is entitlement. They believe that they should not have to change themselves, and that women should be throwing themselves at their feet, just as they do for "chads".

These are incorrect. Yes, there are 1% of men that women throw themselves at, but it's not all women, in fact, the majority of women are disgusted by these men. If only "Chads" have sex, then how do most of us have sex, or how were we even born?

The reverse of this is the concept of "Stacys". Do only "Stacys" have sex? Obviously not. Most men would have sex with a "9-10" without a second thought. Why is it different for women?

Incels want it handed to them, and do not want to play by the "rules". Yes, there are rules, and yes, they make it more difficult for some, but with a little work anyone can succeed.

TLDR: Some women will have sex with "Chads", some exclusively so, but a few cases do not support the incel doctrine. Quit crying and fix yourself.

This post is so stupid. Incels hit the gym, get haircuts, take cold showers but it doesnt matter. If youre ugly, youre ugly and you are considerered asexual to women.

No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

Yaoyorozu posted...

@ all incels: hml, i'll help you out with your virgin problem

I'm actually an incel virgin. I liked to seem cool.

Hmu

Everyone ignore this alpha, he's married to a womyn
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straights
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DarthGravid posted...

No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality.

I have no personality. I seem to have been born this way.
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I'm waiting until I'm at the age of consent, but at that point, I'll be 2 months out from moving out for college, so it's gonna be rough.
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oooooooo
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RedWhiteBlue posted...

DarthGravid posted...

No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality.

There are people that don't know how to flirt (because no one gave them the light of day)
Don't know how to socialize (the clueless type, not the rude type)
Don't find common ground with the sex of their choice (common issue for everyone. Good example is dedicated gamer dude)
Live in a place with few singles, or low population area (most people can't just up and move out of the blue)
Don't want to do activities they don't enjoy (specific hobby meetings, drinking, etc)
Don't want astronomically slim opportunities (chance of meeting introverted women at a bar who don't drink vs extroverted woman at a bar who drink is basically 1:50 or higher)

Basically shit happens. That's life. Just because there are billions of people doesn't mean you will meet them all, or that it's impossible to be the odd person out. Hell, with billions of people you're more likely to hear of the odd person out through the internet. To put the blame on the person as opposed to bad luck, or as if the person themselves is a problem, and not just coincidentally incompatible with others, shows what kind of person you (in general) really are.

Your post was mostly decent until the bolded part, then it went to crap. Shit happens life can be a dick, it can definitely be bad luck. But if one identifies with other "incels" and believes they are simply "incompatible with others" due to no fault of their own, they are their own problem.

Also for the record, their is no guarantee you will be able to find someone that enjoys all the same hobbies as you (that is a particularly high standard), it's nice if it happens but you shouldn't assume that's the norm.
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I'm absolutely the problem. Being the worthless piece of shit that I am means I have no chance. In all my life no ones cared, my parents hated me, my brother hated me, my classmates hated me, everyone refused to be my friend, haven't been able to even get a single date with anyone because they all think I'm a joke.

What's the common theme between all of those? It's me. It's impossible for everyone to feel the same way so consistently unless it's just me.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I'm absolutely the problem. Being the worthless piece of shit that I am means I have no chance. In all my life no ones cared, my parents hated me, my brother hated me, my classmates hated me, everyone refused to be my friend, haven't been able to even get a single date with anyone because they all think I'm a joke.

What's the common theme between all of those? It's me. It's impossible for everyone to feel the same way so consistently unless it's just me.

I think it more has to do with your self esteem issues then anything else. You are a good looking guy who just has terribly low self esteem which is a big turnoff.

I would try to help you with your self esteem issues, but it isn't really my forte and I don't think I would help much.

If it helps at all, you are actually pretty damn good looking based on your prior pictures.
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RedWhiteBlue posted...

DarthGravid posted...

No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality.

There are people that don't know how to flirt (because no one gave them the light of day)
Don't know how to socialize (the clueless type, not the rude type)
Don't find common ground with the sex of their choice (common issue for everyone. Good example is dedicated gamer dude)
Live in a place with few singles, or low population area (most people can't just up and move out of the blue)
Don't want to do activities they don't enjoy (specific hobby meetings, drinking, etc)
Don't want astronomically slim opportunities (chance of meeting introverted women at a bar who don't drink vs extroverted woman at a bar who drink is basically 1:50 or higher)

Basically shit happens. That's life. Just because there are billions of people doesn't mean you will meet them all, or that it's impossible to be the odd person out. Hell, with billions of people you're more likely to hear of the odd person out through the internet. To put the blame on the person as opposed to bad luck, or as if the person themselves is a problem, and not just coincidentally incompatible with others, shows what kind of person you (in general) really are.

You make several good points here. However, all of these things can be learned, with patience and time. Rome wasn't built in a day. I didn't score all of mine in a single day, for every success I have probably 10 to 20 failures. When you fail, you pick up, you move on, you learn from it.

When is the last time you even tried to talk to a girl? That goes for all of you. I assume with all the whining in this topic that it's been a while since any of you had, and that it didn't go well. But instead of trying again, you decided to blame someone else.

Here's a few things that helped me to succeed (remember, I'm a "4-5" at best). Start small, introduce yourself, make a joke, recite a poem, don't go "all in" immediately. Be interesting, be interested in her, but not too much, after all you're "very busy with other things", but you decided to give her a few moments of your time. Everyone likes to talk about their favorite subject, themself. You must avoid this, but if you get her to talk about herself, and you listen well, this goes a long way. Avoid things like Tinder, Tinder is for people who have it easy. Face-to-face, in-person, is the way people have done it for thousands of years. Work on your personal skills, practice in the mirror or with friends.

When you're told no, and it will happen, walk away. There's no need for anger, she just wasn't the right one. If 99.999% of the world is unwilling to give you any attention, that leaves 70,000 people that will hump you rotten. Go find one of them.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I'm absolutely the problem. Being the worthless piece of shit that I am means I have no chance. In all my life no ones cared, my parents hated me, my brother hated me, my classmates hated me, everyone refused to be my friend, haven't been able to even get a single date with anyone because they all think I'm a joke.

What's the common theme between all of those? It's me. It's impossible for everyone to feel the same way so consistently unless it's just me.

Get some professional help. Seriously.

No excuses to not get laid imo

ThatMuttGuy posted...

No excuses to not get laid imo

There are actually plenty of reasons and excuses for such a thing.

It only becomes a problem when you decide that you deserve a women w/o making the necessary changes to play the dating game.
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Dustin1280 posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

No excuses to not get laid imo

There are actually plenty of reasons and excuses for such a thing.

It only becomes a problem when you decide that you deserve a women w/o making the necessary changes to play the dating game.

I don't see a valid excuse itt

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. It only is a problem if you feel bitter because you are one.
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RedWhiteBlue posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

No excuses to not get laid imo

There are actually plenty of reasons and excuses for such a thing.

It only becomes a problem when you decide that you deserve a women w/o making the necessary changes to play the dating game.

I don't see a valid excuse itt

What if you live with your parents, have a job but you have to budget your money into bills / rent / emergencies, your schedule is literally filled up with necessary stuff, etc

Nope

ThatMuttGuy posted...

No excuses to not get laid imo

Being a guy with brain-related disabilities.
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