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thelovefist
04/02/18 4:18:27 PM
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Dyinglegacy posted...
What if you were immortal, and 1000s of years old, but still looked like a 20 something guy?

I wonder who would be appropriate to date?

Shut the fuck up
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Smashingpmkns
04/02/18 4:18:59 PM
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It's weird. Just because it's legal doesn't make it not weird. Laws don't determine norms.
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Pepys Monster
04/02/18 4:24:00 PM
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I was single, and then I found a girl. So because I was once single, that makes it impossible to ever find someone somehow?
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thelovefist
04/02/18 4:28:57 PM
#54:


Pepys Monster posted...
I was single, and then I found a girl. So because I was once single, that makes it impossible to ever find someone somehow?

Your gimmick is sad
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SlamVook
04/02/18 4:58:28 PM
#55:


I was exactly in this situation just a few days ago! Im 29 and the girl in question became 18 five months ago. We saw each other twice

I never "had" a problem as long as the girl was legal (My last 2 girlfriends were 22 and 21) but i can tell you that 18 is a little TOO YOUNG for a 29 years old.

Technically there was nothing wrong, but a few details just didnt click between each other. Im pretty cool myself and not really a serious person despite being close to be 30, but she was a bit too childish sometimes.

She introduced me to her parents in the SECOND time we saw each other! (Took me to her home with the excuse of picking up something she forgot when we saw each other, we went somewhere else tho)

She was also taking pictures of us and sharing it in her whatsapp status, which honestly kinda scared me away. I just wasnt ready for someone so clingy and rather needy.

Of course, your friend might have better luck with the girl, depending on how she is, but i can tell you the difference will be vastly noticeable.
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Grischnak
04/02/18 5:10:28 PM
#56:


I don't think it's weird for an older man to want to have sex with a 18 year old. I do find it weird if said man actually likes spending non-sex time with said girl. But whatever. Not my problem and I don't really care.
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Thrillwell
04/02/18 5:26:32 PM
#57:


No, there is nothing wrong with Vegy dating all yalls daughters.
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tommybel89
04/02/18 5:47:38 PM
#58:


Old enough, sure. Intelligent enough to talk about anything besides her Snapchats... lol no
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MC_BatCommander
04/02/18 5:49:22 PM
#59:


Pretty weird tbh. I'm 28 and would not want to date someone fresh out of high school. Our priorities and where we are in life are completely different.
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daftpunk_mk5
04/02/18 5:50:18 PM
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It's pretty much hitting the Jack pot
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JustMonika
04/02/18 5:51:35 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it at all.
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electricbugs2
04/02/18 5:54:38 PM
#62:


I dated a 17 year old when I was 23 and people here still lose their marbles over it almost two years later.

I don't have a problem with it, but my Dad was 70 and my mom was 32 when I was born so maybe I'm just used to massive gaps.
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 6:12:23 PM
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Makes me feel strange
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MasterGakke
04/02/18 6:19:15 PM
#65:


electricbugs2 posted...
I dated a 17 year old when I was 23 and people here still lose their marbles over it almost two years later.

I don't have a problem with it, but my Dad was 70 and my mom was 32 when I was born so maybe I'm just used to massive gaps.

The real crime is that you stopped taking arrows for the Flyers. Come back bugs I want to enjoy your suffering!

Age gaps are fun for sex, but get hard in relationships. Or maybe I'm just a curmudgeonly old fuck who doesn't think texting and playing weird Korean MMOs together can replace cuddling.
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JustMonika
04/02/18 6:20:48 PM
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I dunno, my parents were 20 and 34 respectively when they got married and have been together 37 years.
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F1areaGaman
04/02/18 6:24:21 PM
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There are two reasons to date a girl that much younger.

1-- Immaturity

2- Girl is still "fresh" ;)
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 6:25:16 PM
#68:


F1areaGaman posted...
There are two reasons to date a girl that much younger.

1-- Immaturity

2- Girl is still "fresh" ;)

Fresh?
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MasterGakke
04/02/18 6:27:50 PM
#69:


LittleRoyal posted...
F1areaGaman posted...
There are two reasons to date a girl that much younger.

1-- Immaturity

2- Girl is still "fresh" ;)

Fresh?

She's never had a dude eat her pussy before so when you do she makes sounds a xenobiologist would have trouble identifying.
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RoboLaserGandhi
04/02/18 6:29:26 PM
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It's weird as fuck.

Yes they should be judged.
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 6:29:37 PM
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Oh wow eww I doubt youre that talented
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electricbugs2
04/02/18 6:31:17 PM
#72:


MasterGakke posted...
The real crime is that you stopped taking arrows for the Flyers. Come back bugs I want to enjoy your suffering!

Age gaps are fun for sex, but get hard in relationships. Or maybe I'm just a curmudgeonly old fuck who doesn't think texting and playing weird Korean MMOs together can replace cuddling.

You'll see me in the offs(If we even make it >_>). I'll be honest I've been a "fan" the past two years because Hakstol is a horrible coach and the team is almost always boring and unwatchable. I'd take your old boy Disco Dan over Hak at this point.

And in my case, said ex was a senior who was already working in her chosen career path, so she was easier to talk to then the "ZOMG SNAPCHAT FILTERZ" crowd.
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Unsugarized_Foo
04/02/18 6:32:28 PM
#73:


29/2+7 = 21.5

a bit weird
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MasterGakke
04/02/18 6:38:17 PM
#74:


LittleRoyal posted...
Oh wow eww I doubt youre that talented

Take your time rubbing her and teasing her so she doesn't feel rushed to enjoy it. Then breathe through your nose and move your tongue around her clit while you're sucking on it. Easy peasy. It becomes second nature when you're really thick and are turned off by girls in pain.
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Solid Snake07
04/02/18 6:47:37 PM
#75:


18 to 29 is a huge maturity gap. Or it should be at least

I don't think there's anything morally wrong with it. But I'm 29 and I wouldn't date an 18 year old unless she was a very unusual 18 year old
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CircleOfManias
04/02/18 6:56:04 PM
#77:


Silver Bearings posted...
35/24 here. Love it.


While both are an 11-year gap, they're very different 11-year gaps.
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 7:02:42 PM
#78:


MasterGakke posted...
LittleRoyal posted...
Oh wow eww I doubt youre that talented

. It becomes second nature when you're really thick and are turned off by girls in pain.

I dont understand what this means idk top half seems fine idk in nit about to talk about sex and stuff on CE this is far from a safe place for a 21 y/o college girl
But teasing shouldnt even be focused down there at first ^^ otherwise its rushed and off putting even if Im just doing stuff myself and know what Im doing its not like Im gonna start there.
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Lil_Bit83
04/02/18 7:21:57 PM
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Not weird. As long as both adults are consenting it's fine.
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Balnazarr
04/02/18 7:24:13 PM
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Don't. They change so fast at that age. I dated a 18 year old when I was 26. It failed miserably and we both got hurt. She wasn't the same person she was when we started dating after a year. She wanted to explore her options and focus on School.
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 7:26:39 PM
#81:


Balnazarr posted...
Don't. They change so fast at that age. I dated a 18 year old when I was 26. It failed miserably and we both got hurt. She wasn't the same person she was when we started dating after a year. She wanted to explore her options and focus on School.

I feel like I havent grown up in 3 years since I was 18 in basically the same and I wish I could grow up and find independence and be less shy and embarrassed and have a functional relationship without fearing sex and stuff but nope Im still the same as Ive always been

And at first they said its probably because of the delayed puberty but by now it should all be normal and its not so whatever
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Joelypoely
04/02/18 7:30:01 PM
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Kind of weird. Although I've seen a 29/19 relationship once and they pulled it off well.
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Soviet_Poland
04/02/18 7:42:22 PM
#83:


Ultima Dragon posted...
I don't get why a 29 year old would want to date an 18 year old. She can be "mature for her age" or whatever, but she hasn't really lived or experienced much in comparison. Literally fresh out of high school. How immature/sheltered is the guy that he could actually be a potential match for her?

I can see wanting to nail a hot piece of ass, but the idea of being around the typical 18 year old for any length of time when you're nearly 30 is weird. They're pretty much all completely insufferable.


This. They're obviously children even if they're an adult by definition.

As we get older, that same age gap is fine, but that's because the sea of adult experiences is so vast, having any amount of that experience makes you relatable. But like someone else in the thread said, when he was 18, the girl was 7. If he doesn't get frustrated at the rites of passages that girl will be going through, the values she'll have at that age, etc, he's been emotionally and intellectually stunted for a decade. Huuuuuuge red flag.
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ColdOne666
04/02/18 8:01:23 PM
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Better a hot 18 year old then some 30 year old landwhale.
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MrToothHasYou
04/02/18 8:02:08 PM
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Its fuckin weird as shit and I would be extremely suspect around that dude from now on
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Pepys Monster
04/02/18 8:05:02 PM
#86:


MasterGakke posted...
She's never had a dude eat her p**** before

Imagine believing this.
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CanuckCowboy
04/02/18 8:10:57 PM
#87:


Pepys Monster posted...
MasterGakke posted...
She's never had a dude eat her p**** before

Imagine believing this.


Pepys has become more reasonable about women than a large portion of CE.

Get it together CE.
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN
04/02/18 8:12:58 PM
#88:


It's weird as fuck. You definitely shouldn't want to befriend the guy but be professional and don't mention it. Not your circus, not your monkies.
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TheCurseX2
04/02/18 8:15:45 PM
#89:


Weird as fuck and creepy.
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thelovefist
04/02/18 8:34:00 PM
#90:


MasterGakke posted...
LittleRoyal posted...
Oh wow eww I doubt youre that talented

Take your time rubbing her and teasing her so she doesn't feel rushed to enjoy it. Then breathe through your nose and move your tongue around her clit while you're sucking on it. Easy peasy. It becomes second nature when you're really thick and are turned off by girls in pain.

Look at this virgin
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LittleRoyal
04/02/18 8:36:08 PM
#91:


Pepys Monster posted...
MasterGakke posted...
She's never had a dude eat her p**** before

Imagine believing this.

I mean Im 21 and I never have buttttt whatever

Im not easy thats all. I have pretty high standards and when someone meets them I raise the standards! Simple as that!
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Cheater87
04/02/18 8:41:19 PM
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Dyinglegacy
04/02/18 8:51:44 PM
#93:


thelovefist posted...
Dyinglegacy posted...
What if you were immortal, and 1000s of years old, but still looked like a 20 something guy?

I wonder who would be appropriate to date?

Shut the fuck up


The fuck? I was half joking. Fuck off.
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Tmaster148
04/02/18 8:55:32 PM
#94:


Dyinglegacy posted...
What if you were immortal, and 1000s of years old, but still looked like a 20 something guy?

I wonder who would be appropriate to date?


Isn't that like the plot of twilight?

Also reminds me of this robot chicken sketch.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rg-Yrtqwkv4" data-time="

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Knowledge_King
04/02/18 9:04:05 PM
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Not really. Both are adults so...
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Broken_Zeus
04/02/18 10:16:24 PM
#96:


It's on the weird side, but not terribly weird if they met as co-workers.

Giant_Aspirin posted...
i think it would be weird mostly because a 29 year-old and an 18 year-old should be at very different places in their lives in terms of lifestyle.


Clearly not if they're both working at the same dead-end job. And there are a lot of older guys stuck working shit jobs for some reason or another.

robellr13 posted...
Anybody can get a 18 year old when youre 30 years old. They are easily impressed. This isnt an accomplishment


It's a lot harder at 30 than it is at 20 or 25.
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Grischnak
04/03/18 12:03:36 AM
#97:


Broken_Zeus posted...
It's on the weird side, but not terribly weird if they met as co-workers.

Giant_Aspirin posted...
i think it would be weird mostly because a 29 year-old and an 18 year-old should be at very different places in their lives in terms of lifestyle.


Clearly not if they're both working at the same dead-end job. And there are a lot of older guys stuck working shit jobs for some reason or another.

robellr13 posted...
Anybody can get a 18 year old when youre 30 years old. They are easily impressed. This isnt an accomplishment


It's a lot harder at 30 than it is at 20 or 25.


This is true. While some young women are into older guys, a lot find older guys unattaractive. Like, for example, the other day one of my 20 year old female coworkers was complaining about a coworker in his late 30/early 40s(I dunno his actual age) being flirty with her. Her exact words were like "That's gross. He's like 40.". Still, that's more an example of "you can't get *any* 18 year old" then "you can't get *a* 18 year old". It's harder but not impossible. Though at some point it becomes more about being able to find a girl with a silver fox fetish then creating a relationship via more normal circumstances.

Personally, I only really think it is actually weird if the older person knew the younger person when the younger person was a kid or something. Actually had something like that happen to me once. My sister in laws youngest sister had a very obvious crush on me since she was like 11(I think I was like 22 then). I never thought much of it but when I saw her for the first time in years when she was 18 she was really going after me and I was just like "...Not happening". It was just too weird to me.
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Trumpo
04/03/18 12:16:28 AM
#98:


electricbugs2 posted...
I dated a 17 year old when I was 23 and people here still lose their marbles over it almost two years later.

I don't have a problem with it, but my Dad was 70 and my mom was 32 when I was born so maybe I'm just used to massive gaps.

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electricbugs2
04/03/18 12:18:53 AM
#99:


Trumpo posted...
Oh yeah slamming pops!

Literally.
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Broken_Zeus
04/03/18 12:37:53 AM
#100:


Grischnak posted...
Personally, I only really think it is actually weird if the older person knew the younger person when the younger person was a kid or something. Actually had something like that happen to me once. My sister in laws youngest sister had a very obvious crush on me since she was like 11(I think I was like 22 then). I never thought much of it but when I saw her for the first time in years when she was 18 she was really going after me and I was just like "...Not happening". It was just too weird to me.


Assuming I had only known them casually when they were far younger, I can't imagine having a hard time with them as an adult.
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