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FreezerDoor 02/19/18 2:17:41 PM #1:	She asked to borrow $50 Thursday and said she would pay me back Friday. I gave it to her. On Friday she said she would run an errand then see me. She ended up not coming. She did the same thing Saturday. Sunday came around and she wanted $20. I said sure with the intention of confronting her about the $50. When she came over I said all I had was $10. She cried and said how could I do that to her. I told her you still haven't paid me back the $50. Why should I give you more. Was I right in what I did? I also ended my friendship with her. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896378521] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>She asked to borrow $50 Thursday and said she would pay me back Friday. I gave it to her. On Friday she said she would run an errand then see me. She ended up not coming. She did the same thing Saturday. Sunday came around and she wanted $20. I said sure with the intention of confronting her about the $50. When she came over I said all I had was $10. She cried and said how could I do that to her. I told her you still haven't paid me back the $50. Why should I give you more. Was I right in what I did? I also ended my friendship with her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gunpo 02/19/18 2:18:58 PM #2:	She's prolly doing drugs --- Steam/PSN:AloofHermit http://error1355.com/ce/Gunpo.html <cite>Gunpo posted [p:896378582] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>She's prolly doing drugs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CableZL 02/19/18 2:19:28 PM #3:	Yeah. It's a hard decision sometimes, but essentially financing her bad money habits is a bad idea. Probably should have been more straight forward about it from the beginning, though. --- http://i.imgur.com/ByKGlJb.gif http://i.imgur.com/nZdaA8D.gif http://i.imgur.com/VBLBILg.jpg <cite>CableZL posted [p:896378609] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Yeah. It's a hard decision sometimes, but essentially financing her bad money habits is a bad idea. Probably should have been more straight forward about it from the beginning, though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlisLandale 02/19/18 2:19:49 PM #4:	No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. But since you ended the friendship anyways it doesn't matter. --- Story Lovers Welcome! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1443-writers-cafe http://i.imgtc.com/YQId2Bz.png <cite>AlisLandale posted [p:896378628] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. But since you ended the friendship anyways it doesn't matter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chrono625 02/19/18 2:20:50 PM #5:	AlisLandale posted... No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. Fuck outta here. --- http://i.imgur.com/Rqk1DYV.gif - Super Bowl XXI/XXV/XLII/XLVI Champions - NY Giants Eli Manning SB tracker: 2/2 Superbowls 2/2 SBMVP's <cite>chrono625 posted [p:896378686] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it.</quote> Fuck outta here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 2:21:24 PM #6:	AlisLandale posted... No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896378722] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it.</quote> She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlisLandale 02/19/18 2:22:52 PM #7:	FreezerDoor posted... AlisLandale posted... No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy. And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. --- Story Lovers Welcome! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1443-writers-cafe http://i.imgtc.com/YQId2Bz.png <cite>AlisLandale posted [p:896378802] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it.</quote> She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy.</quote> And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 2:24:10 PM #8:	Gunpo posted... She's prolly doing drugs She isn't doing drugs. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896378859] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gunpo posted...</cite> <quote>She's prolly doing drugs</quote> She isn't doing drugs.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_MorningStar 02/19/18 2:24:14 PM #9:	You didn't see her all weekend and she still asked you for money? Nah son --- http://i.imgur.com/UM1VO2V.jpg http://i.imgur.com/fd6WS3f.jpg <cite>_MorningStar posted [p:896378864] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>You didn't see her all weekend and she still asked you for money? Nah son</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 02/19/18 2:25:55 PM #10:	fair. next. --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:896378959] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>fair. next.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FFVII_REMAKE 02/19/18 2:34:01 PM #11:	I don't understand the obsession with women and money. They work but still want money from men. <cite>FFVII_REMAKE posted [p:896379381] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand the obsession with women and money. They work but still want money from men.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LArcEnCieIX 02/19/18 2:35:08 PM #12:	AlisLandale posted... FreezerDoor posted... AlisLandale posted... No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy. And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. lmao FOH --- "I like casey heyward a lot. Would loveyou to getyou him ina like theyou third orand somesuch" - ILoveTheBengalz >D The Arc in the Sky <cite>LArcEnCieIX posted [p:896379439] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it.</quote> She ignored my texts and calls about the $50. If I hadn't agreed to the $20 she probably would have kept avoiding me or claiming she was busy.</quote> And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness.</quote> lmao FOH</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rabbi_baby 02/19/18 2:36:13 PM #13:	Is she hot? Have her give you a handie or something. --- i7 5820k (H100i v2) / Asus x99-a / 32gb DDR4 QC / EVGA 1070ti / 840 Pro 512gb + 1tb WD Black / 2x Dell S2716DG (1440p/144hz) <cite>rabbi_baby posted [p:896379509] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Is she hot? Have her give you a handie or something.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeanAuryn 02/19/18 2:38:07 PM #14:	You should have got the money back before ending the friendship. Anyway, pics of her feet please. --- I love beautiful White, Asian, Arab, and Hispanic women. <cite>DeanAuryn posted [p:896379627] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>You should have got the money back before ending the friendship. Anyway, pics of her feet please.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 02/19/18 2:41:18 PM #15:	Online friend sent me this in 2016. Fuck. I am in the hole $75 . I talked to [her brother] but he can't loan me any more money. Is it possible I can borrow from you? We can email back an official agreement as to how and when I will retutn it plus what I owe already. I don't know who to talk to. My mom has no money. Only as much as you're comfortable with. I feel bad asking, I just don't know what to do. Of course I did. And hundreds of dollars before that. Still haven't seen a penny returned... --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:896379779] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Online friend sent me this in 2016. <quote>Fuck. I am in the hole $75 . I talked to [her brother] but he can't loan me any more money. Is it possible I can borrow from you? We can email back an official agreement as to how and when I will retutn it plus what I owe already. I don't know who to talk to. My mom has no money. Only as much as you're comfortable with. I feel bad asking, I just don't know what to do.</quote> Of course I did. And hundreds of dollars before that. Still haven't seen a penny returned...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CableZL 02/19/18 2:42:46 PM #16:	She probably started all this by asking for $3.50 --- http://i.imgur.com/ByKGlJb.gif http://i.imgur.com/nZdaA8D.gif http://i.imgur.com/VBLBILg.jpg <cite>CableZL posted [p:896379846] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>She probably started all this by asking for $3.50</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 2:44:21 PM #17:	DeanAuryn posted... You should have got the money back before ending the friendship. Anyway, pics of her feet please. I knew I wasn't getting the money back. So it was time to cut my loss. At least it was only $50. It could have been worse. I rarely lend money because I feel people won't pay you back and my thoughts on it were proven right. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896379918] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>You should have got the money back before ending the friendship. Anyway, pics of her feet please.</quote> I knew I wasn't getting the money back. So it was time to cut my loss. At least it was only $50. It could have been worse. I rarely lend money because I feel people won't pay you back and my thoughts on it were proven right.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 02/19/18 2:45:26 PM #18:	AlisLandale posted... And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:896379992] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote> And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. </quote> nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 02/19/18 2:46:08 PM #19:	That's not borrowing, you would be giving her that money. --- Shenmue II = best game of all time Shenmue = 2nd best game of all time <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:896380023] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>That's not borrowing, you would be giving her that money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Banjo2553 02/19/18 2:46:39 PM #20:	I know you wanted to get that $50 back, but you should've told her upfront that you didn't have $20 on you. Edit: That's what I would've done anyway. I would've also stipulated that I'd need that loan paid back before I lent anymore money. --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA <cite>Banjo2553 posted [p:896380052] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>I know you wanted to get that $50 back, but you should've told her upfront that you didn't have $20 on you. Edit: That's what I would've done anyway. I would've also stipulated that I'd need that loan paid back before I lent anymore money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Letron_James 02/19/18 2:47:08 PM #21:	Gotta give her dat D first tc --- Ask me if I would eat da booty. <cite>Letron_James posted [p:896380075] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Gotta give her dat D first tc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/19/18 2:47:17 PM #22:	You should have never given her money --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:896380085] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>You should have never given her money</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz 02/19/18 2:48:16 PM #23:	air the dirty laundry on social media. she is a user, in the very least it will help others not getting screwed over by her. --- http://i.imgur.com/O3syCWD.gif http://i.imgur.com/k3YiBdG.gif <cite>KILBOTz posted [p:896380142] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>air the dirty laundry on social media. she is a user, in the very least it will help others not getting screwed over by her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 02/19/18 2:49:04 PM #24:	Yeah shes probably sucked dick as a means of paying money off before so you shouldnt feel too bad. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:896380189] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Yeah shes probably sucked dick as a means of paying money off before so you shouldnt feel too bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 02/19/18 2:59:54 PM #25:	I also ended my friendship with her. How did she take it? --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:896380874] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><quote> I also ended my friendship with her.</quote> How did she take it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sami1000 02/19/18 3:08:45 PM #26:	Borrowing money is and has been the usual test of friendship or just to see if you can trust someone or not. I would had ended up friendship with her as well. If she had only explained her situation it wouldn't had probably come to that. Avoiding you for two days, and then asking more money? Yeah fuck her. --- Can't think any good sig <cite>Sami1000 posted [p:896381367] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Borrowing money is and has been the usual test of friendship or just to see if you can trust someone or not. I would had ended up friendship with her as well. If she had only explained her situation it wouldn't had probably come to that. Avoiding you for two days, and then asking more money? Yeah fuck her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 02/19/18 3:10:21 PM #27:	Sami1000 posted... Borrowing money is and has been the usual test of friendship or just to see if you can trust someone or not. I would had ended up friendship with her as well. If she had only explained her situation it wouldn't had probably come to that. Avoiding you for two days, and then asking more money? Yeah fuck her. if they don't pay, no help for them sorry it's how it works. --- every SNAP recipient is a Mercedes driving, Rolex wearing, diamond ring wearing, son of a gun - halomonkey1_3_5 <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:896381447] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sami1000 posted...</cite> <quote>Borrowing money is and has been the usual test of friendship or just to see if you can trust someone or not. I would had ended up friendship with her as well. If she had only explained her situation it wouldn't had probably come to that. Avoiding you for two days, and then asking more money? Yeah fuck her.</quote> if they don't pay, no help for them sorry it's how it works.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 3:11:05 PM #28:	Darkman124 posted... AlisLandale posted... And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back. Bass_X0 posted... I also ended my friendship with her. How did she take it? Not well. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896381491] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote> And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. </quote> nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses</quote> Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back. <cite>Bass_X0 posted...</cite> <quote><quote> I also ended my friendship with her.</quote> How did she take it?</quote> Not well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet_10-325 02/19/18 3:11:31 PM #29:	Don't ever "loan" money out unless you're fine with never getting it back. If you do, think of it as a gift. If you don't want to do that then either don't loan money or prepare for dissapointment --- Formerly known as The_Great_Geno Conservatism is a plague on society. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted [p:896381523] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Don't ever "loan" money out unless you're fine with never getting it back. If you do, think of it as a gift. If you don't want to do that then either don't loan money or prepare for dissapointment</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 02/19/18 3:11:32 PM #30:	FreezerDoor posted... Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back. the way i summed it up does not reflect well on you --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:896381525] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote> Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back.</quote> the way i summed it up does not reflect well on you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 02/19/18 3:13:09 PM #31:	Should have broken a pinky finger --- ultimate milf hunter https://i.imgur.com/lCEdce6.gifv https://i.imgur.com/2N1Ezia.gifv https://i.imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ.jpg https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:896381608] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Should have broken a pinky finger</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CM_Ponch 02/19/18 3:13:14 PM #32:	You did the right thing TC --- SW-8316-3213-4720 <cite>CM_Ponch posted [p:896381614] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>You did the right thing TC</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sami1000 02/19/18 3:13:45 PM #33:	Genocet_10-325 posted... Don't ever "loan" money out unless you're fine with never getting it back. If you do, think of it as a gift. If you don't want to do that then either don't loan money or prepare for dissapointment You shouldn't gift money by being ok that they won't pay you back. --- Can't think any good sig <cite>Sami1000 posted [p:896381651] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Genocet_10-325 posted...</cite> <quote>Don't ever "loan" money out unless you're fine with never getting it back. If you do, think of it as a gift. If you don't want to do that then either don't loan money or prepare for dissapointment</quote> You shouldn't gift money by being ok that they won't pay you back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet_10-325 02/19/18 3:13:47 PM #34:	Also did she say why she needed the money? --- Formerly known as The_Great_Geno Conservatism is a plague on society. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted [p:896381654] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Also did she say why she needed the money?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 02/19/18 3:14:21 PM #35:	EnragedSlith posted... Should have broken a pinky finger i wish i didn't lend that 10$ to a friend. not getting that back :(. all i can do is pester when they get money. --- every SNAP recipient is a Mercedes driving, Rolex wearing, diamond ring wearing, son of a gun - halomonkey1_3_5 <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:896381685] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>Should have broken a pinky finger</quote> i wish i didn't lend that 10$ to a friend. not getting that back :(. all i can do is pester when they get money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 02/19/18 3:19:27 PM #36:	Although I probably would have just not responded to her at all after she initially stopped responding to you, I have no problem with what TC did honestly. --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:896381946] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Although I probably would have just not responded to her at all after she initially stopped responding to you, I have no problem with what TC did honestly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
synth_real 02/19/18 3:35:08 PM #37:	I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse? --- "I'm the straightest guy on this board. I'm so straight that I watch gay porn." - Smarkil <cite>synth_real posted [p:896382745] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 4:00:42 PM #38:	synth_real posted... I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse? She said she forgot. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896384161] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>synth_real posted...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse?</quote> She said she forgot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rabbi_baby 02/19/18 4:02:12 PM #39:	You should have given her a dicking she WOULDN'T forget. --- i7 5820k (H100i v2) / Asus x99-a / 32gb DDR4 QC / EVGA 1070ti / 840 Pro 512gb + 1tb WD Black / 2x Dell S2716DG (1440p/144hz) <cite>rabbi_baby posted [p:896384240] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>You should have given her a dicking she WOULDN'T forget.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 02/19/18 4:52:13 PM #40:	FreezerDoor posted... synth_real posted... I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse? She said she forgot. That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that. --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:896387062] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>synth_real posted...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse?</quote> She said she forgot.</quote> That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X 02/19/18 4:54:07 PM #41:	Should've ask her to let you hit since she wasnt paying back. --- PSN xJokerLastLaughx Currently playing, AC Origins Dragonball FighterZ Dragonball Xenoverse 2 NFS payback The last of us Remastered. <cite>Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X posted [p:896387165] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Should've ask her to let you hit since she wasnt paying back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkprince45 02/19/18 4:54:09 PM #42:	AlisLandale posted... No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. But since you ended the friendship anyways it doesn't matter. This is the worst post I ever read --- Cubs, Rockies, Grizzlies, Patriots. <cite>darkprince45 posted [p:896387168] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote>No. By initially saying "yes", and by pulling the rug our from under her, you acted manipulatively and dishonestly. If you were concerned about the 50 dollars, you should have been straight about it. But since you ended the friendship anyways it doesn't matter. </quote> This is the worst post I ever read</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
synth_real 02/19/18 6:49:02 PM #43:	Twin3Turbo posted... FreezerDoor posted... synth_real posted... I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse? She said she forgot. That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that. I've known a couple of girls like that, they bat their eyelashes at you when they want something, and then when they get it they vanish until they want something again. Shame it happened to you, but at least you learned the first time --- "I'm the straightest guy on this board. I'm so straight that I watch gay porn." - Smarkil <cite>synth_real posted [p:896393329] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>synth_real posted...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse?</quote> She said she forgot.</quote> That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that.</quote> I've known a couple of girls like that, they bat their eyelashes at you when they want something, and then when they get it they vanish until they want something again. Shame it happened to you, but at least you learned the first time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LockeMonster 02/19/18 6:58:33 PM #44:	Lol at people calling you manipulative. Fuck her dude. You did the right thing. --- "Scranton is great, but New York is like Scranton on acid. No, on speed. Nah. On steroids." FC: 3282-3258-0224 <cite>LockeMonster posted [p:896393874] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Lol at people calling you manipulative. Fuck her dude. You did the right thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 02/19/18 7:08:29 PM #45:	synth_real posted... Twin3Turbo posted... FreezerDoor posted... synth_real posted... I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse? She said she forgot. That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that. I've known a couple of girls like that, they bat their eyelashes at you when they want something, and then when they get it they vanish until they want something again. Shame it happened to you, but at least you learned the first time Its only ever really happened with family. These days though I dont lend people money and Ive never needed anyone to lend me money my entire adult life. --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:896394414] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>synth_real posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>synth_real posted...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy who smoked crack that would borrow money off me on a regular basis (like $10 on a Wednesday to buy a pack of smokes,) and he always paid me back when he got paid on Fridays. What's her excuse?</quote> She said she forgot.</quote> That's the worst to me. I feel like if I owed someone money, it would be constantly on my mind and I would be trying everything I could to get it back to them ASAP. Sounds like once she got what she wanted, she was no longer concerned about paying you back. Probably owes a ton of people a ton of money. I know plenty of people like that.</quote> I've known a couple of girls like that, they bat their eyelashes at you when they want something, and then when they get it they vanish until they want something again. Shame it happened to you, but at least you learned the first time</quote> Its only ever really happened with family. These days though I dont lend people money and Ive never needed anyone to lend me money my entire adult life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
genesis42 02/19/18 7:08:39 PM #46:	LockeMonster posted... Lol at people calling you manipulative. F* her dude. You did the right thing. --- GT: SevenDeadlySins ll PSN: Seven-DeadIySins http://i.imgur.com/E5N4O81.gif https://i.imgur.com/oipP5TH.gifv <cite>genesis42 posted [p:896394423] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>LockeMonster posted...</cite> <quote>Lol at people calling you manipulative. F* her dude. You did the right thing.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lil_Bit83 02/19/18 7:10:00 PM #47:	Nah. Sounds fair to me. --- I'm a chick <cite>Lil_Bit83 posted [p:896394500] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote>Nah. Sounds fair to me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cartwheel_Kick 02/19/18 7:43:31 PM #48:	CM_Ponch posted... You did the right thing TC --- dude, you NEVER tell people about the girl you're banging. that's the fastest way to unbang her. -Steve Nick <cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted [p:896396354] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>CM_Ponch posted...</cite> <quote>You did the right thing TC</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
crennigo 02/19/18 7:48:20 PM #49:	FreezerDoor posted... Gunpo posted... She's prolly doing drugs She isn't doing drugs. She is doing your brother then. <cite>crennigo posted [p:896396633] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Gunpo posted...</cite> <quote>She's prolly doing drugs</quote> She isn't doing drugs.</quote> She is doing your brother then.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 02/19/18 8:04:42 PM #50:	FreezerDoor posted... also ended my friendship with her. Problem solved. And you're well within your rights. If only every problem could be resolved like that. --- "I got a rollatruc, look." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:896397551] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>FreezerDoor posted...</cite> <quote>also ended my friendship with her.</quote> Problem solved. And you're well within your rights. If only every problem could be resolved like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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