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Full Throttle
02/06/18 11:13:45 PM
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Do you think this is cruel child abuse?


Christin Johnson, an Ohio Mother shared heartbreaking photos of her daughter, 13 y/o Kelsey, after her father PUNISHED her because she got BLONDE HIGHLIGHTS in her hair for her birthday..so he made her CHOP IT ALL OFF!!

She wrote "This is what my daughter looked like Sunday when i took her home and the other 2 pics is what happened today before she was brought to me...All over me having highlights put in her hair for her birthday!!"

2 additional photos posted by her showed her daughter with long hair and then with the boyish haircut as she buried her face in her hand with tears..

Her father, Schaffen Frederick and evil stepmother, Sarah Murray ordered Kelsey to get a haircut as punishment according to Police Chief Colby Carroll

The police got involved as well as Wood County Children's services are now investigating this as possible child abuse

Her father and mother are volunteer FIREFIGHTERS who are now on leave pending investigations.

The post has now gone viral as people were shocked over the allegations as Colby Caroll said he's never seen a case anything like this

Facebook users have left compassionate comments wishing her well and telling her hair is beautiful regardless of her cut

Christin in the meantime took her daughter to a WIG SHOP to pick out a hair she wanted to use in the meantime as she picked out a dark brown hairstyle with a smile on her face

She wrot "I'd like to thank the ladies at Lady Jane's on Glendale in Toledo for making my baby feel more like herself"

Her father and stepmother were apparently outraged over her getting highlights stating she looked like a TRAMP and didn't approve of her "rebellious" style...

Do you think this is child abuse? let's see what people think

Kelsey - Before Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243F00000578-5358247-image-m-16_1517935159517.jpg

Kelsey - Boy Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243600000578-5358247-image-m-17_1517935379810.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE242E00000578-5358247-image-m-18_1517935401954.jpg

Kelsey - New Wig

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE241400000578-5358247-image-a-9_1517934787592.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE242A00000578-5358247-image-m-14_1517934937310.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE241F00000578-5358247-image-a-15_1517934948408.jpg

The evil father and stepmother -

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/07/01/48F28F9800000578-5358247-image-m-56_1517968150419.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/07/01/48F28FB200000578-5358247-Schaffen_and_Sarah_who_are_both_volunteer_firefighters_have_been-m-60_1517968450275.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/07/01/48F28FA000000578-5358247-The_police_department_and_children_s_services_are_now_reportedly-m-58_1517968376236.jpg
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southcoast09
02/06/18 11:14:58 PM
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Not okay. She is in the right to publicly ruin her dads image for ruining hers.
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ChainedRedone
02/06/18 11:15:07 PM
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This 13 y/o Ohio Girl was Punished with a BOY HAIRCUT by her DAD!! Look at It!!


Don't tell me what to do.
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boxington
02/06/18 11:16:25 PM
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her wig looks terrible, lol

and what's with these parents punishing their kids by fucking with their hair?
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Vyrulisse
02/06/18 11:17:33 PM
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lmao she looks better with the boy hair than that awful wig.
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02/06/18 11:19:11 PM
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masticatingman
02/06/18 11:20:28 PM
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Not sure about cruel but itll take a long time for that hair to grow out again.
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Lordgold666
02/06/18 11:20:38 PM
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Shes gonna smash every prepubescent boy she can now lol

Go dad
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Zeeak4444
02/06/18 11:27:09 PM
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Imho this should be justified reasoning for cutting mandatory visit rights.

No more weekends with dad unless she chooses to go visit him.

I stopped seeing my dad at 9.
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MorbidFaithless
02/06/18 11:29:42 PM
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Who is the hairdresser who would do this? I wouldn't cut someone's hair against their wishes...
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Trayvon
02/06/18 11:29:59 PM
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Full Throttle posted...
Kelsey - Before Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243F00000578-5358247-image-m-16_1517935159517.jpg


that's a 13 year old?

wtf are they putting in the water these days
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JustMonika
02/06/18 11:30:39 PM
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Full Throttle posted...
PUNISHED her because she got BLONDE HIGHLIGHTS in her hair

The horror!
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MelzezDoor
02/06/18 11:30:50 PM
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Oh no that poor woman now she'll never get attention
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voldothegr8
02/06/18 11:32:42 PM
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I would never punish my daughter in such a way but not sure if it's abuse either. Pretty stupid on dads part though, things like this are how daddy issues begin. If he thought she was rebellious before...
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Medussa
02/06/18 11:34:15 PM
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absolutely abuse, and only not battery if he didn't do it himself.

I fucking hate humanity.
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02/06/18 11:36:05 PM
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Zeeak4444
02/06/18 11:37:18 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
I would never punish my daughter in such a way but not sure if it's abuse either. Pretty stupid on dads part though, things like this are how daddy issues begin. If he thought she was rebellious before...


I'd aregue its emotional abuse (and guarantee verbal was involved).

He directly attacked her self image and we could sit here and talk about the potential ramifications for days. I'm sure that (hopefully) won't happen, but that still begs the question what reason do we have to uphold the fathers right to forced custody if hes been shown to negligently inflict emotional distress?
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southcoast09
02/06/18 11:38:44 PM
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There are character building punishments and there are punishments that genuinely plant the seeds of hatred. I would never forgive somebody for intentionally messing with my hair.
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TheoryzC
02/06/18 11:39:01 PM
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02/06/18 11:43:38 PM
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02/06/18 11:44:16 PM
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Touya999
02/06/18 11:53:48 PM
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ChainedRedone posted...
This 13 y/o Ohio Girl was Punished with a BOY HAIRCUT by her DAD!! Look at It!!


Don't tell me what to do.

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Sphyx
02/07/18 1:23:03 AM
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Yeah, that's it. Mess with the people who will one day be the only thing between you and the life support switch.
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E32005
02/07/18 1:25:27 AM
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Full Throttle posted...
Her father and stepmother were apparently outraged over her getting highlights stating she looked like a TRAMP and didn't approve of her "rebellious" style...

what kinda psycho religious nuts think highlights are trampish and rebellious?

go back to the fuck dark ages with that bullshit.
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iClockwork
02/07/18 1:33:07 AM
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Trayvon posted...
Full Throttle posted...
Kelsey - Before Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243F00000578-5358247-image-m-16_1517935159517.jpg


that's a 13 year old?

wtf are they putting in the water these days

I swore she was at least 16 in that picture wtf...
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mrduckbear
02/07/18 7:31:46 PM
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the majority agrees, it's abuse
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glitteringfairy
02/07/18 7:34:29 PM
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mrduckbear posted...
the majority agrees, it's abuse

Excellent. Now make a poll asking if she's really 13. Because she's not 13
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TheGrindery
02/07/18 7:37:23 PM
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Not a terrible punishment but definitely for a terrible reason.
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CoolBeansAvi
02/07/18 7:39:16 PM
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If she didn't have daddy issues before, she definitely does now
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E32005
02/07/18 7:39:48 PM
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ugh. this topic still pisses me off.

shitty parents
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TheGrindery
02/07/18 7:40:40 PM
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CoolBeansAvi posted...
If she didn't have daddy issues before, she definitely does now

It seems he doesn't caaaaaare!
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bevan306
02/07/18 7:43:55 PM
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TheGrindery
02/07/18 7:45:06 PM
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Maybe it's the only punishment that bothers her.
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StormSignal
02/07/18 7:47:35 PM
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this is so weird and fucked up
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Xxlv20xX
02/07/18 7:53:00 PM
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On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.
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Zeeak4444
02/07/18 7:55:45 PM
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Xxlv20xX posted...
On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.


Abused people can often see abuse as something normal. They also often pass it on because of its normalcy in their life.
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Manocheese
02/07/18 8:00:34 PM
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Trayvon posted...
Full Throttle posted...
Kelsey - Before Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243F00000578-5358247-image-m-16_1517935159517.jpg


that's a 13 year old?

wtf are they putting in the water these days

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KingCrabCake
02/07/18 8:01:54 PM
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Manocheese posted...
Trayvon posted...
Full Throttle posted...
Kelsey - Before Haircut

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE243F00000578-5358247-image-m-16_1517935159517.jpg


that's a 13 year old?

wtf are they putting in the water these days


She looks 13 its just her hair is that of a 19yr old
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TheGrindery
02/07/18 8:02:45 PM
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Zeeak4444 posted...
Xxlv20xX posted...
On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.


Abused people can often see abuse as something normal. They also often pass it on because of its normalcy in their life.

Yeah let's take her away from everyone she knows and put her in the system because she was made to get a haircut she doesn't like.
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Shotgunnova
02/07/18 8:04:11 PM
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Is that guy really the best critic of style? He looks like a second-rate Dave Attell impersonator.
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Crazyman93
02/07/18 8:05:13 PM
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kuwab0 posted...
Full Throttle posted...

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2018/02/06/16/48EE241400000578-5358247-image-a-9_1517934787592.jpg

Does she look like a Real Doll to anyone else in this photo

Now I'm seeing it!
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Xxlv20xX
02/07/18 8:06:41 PM
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Zeeak4444 posted...
Xxlv20xX posted...
On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.


Abused people can often see abuse as something normal. They also often pass it on because of its normalcy in their life.


Parents regulating what there kids look like is hardly abnormal.
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Zeeak4444
02/07/18 8:10:07 PM
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@TheGrindery posted...
Zeeak4444 posted...
Xxlv20xX posted...
On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.


Abused people can often see abuse as something normal. They also often pass it on because of its normalcy in their life.

Yeah let's take her away from everyone she knows and put her in the system because she was made to get a haircut she doesn't like.


Lol, or you could keep full custody with the mom like it already is and abolish the fathers rights to MANDATORY visit rights. But sure, say some other stupid shit.

Xxlv20xX posted...
Zeeak4444 posted...
Xxlv20xX posted...
On one hand the dad is certainly a prick and it's borderline abuse. On the other hand when I was younger my dad forced me to have short hair (I'm a dude but wanted longer hair that I have now) and it certainly didn't feel like abuse. Also, I think getting a wig is excessive and screams of a lack of perspective.

Just get another short haired style, which is certainly possible and wait for it to grow back out.


Abused people can often see abuse as something normal. They also often pass it on because of its normalcy in their life.


Parents regulating what there kids look like is hardly abnormal.


I didn't mean it like that, I wasn't trying to mock or attack you or anything I came from an abusive household myself.

I was just trying to comment on the "didn't seem like abuse to me" comment. I didn't make that very clear so I apologize but abuse differs for everyone in how they're affected but for instance I was physically and mentally abused and I thought that was normal until I was in my mid teens or so.
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Esrac
02/07/18 8:11:44 PM
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Not abuse. Kind of a weird punishment for such a non-issue.
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stoltenberg11
02/07/18 8:17:31 PM
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It could be a good punishment for a better reason, but the reason for it here is really dumb and makes it emotional abuse imo
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Garioshi
02/07/18 8:19:18 PM
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you should never force anything on anyone if they don't consent to it
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TheGrindery
02/07/18 8:25:41 PM
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Garioshi posted...
you should never force anything on anyone if they don't consent to it

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VTBM
02/07/18 8:30:55 PM
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Esrac posted...
Not abuse. Kind of a weird punishment for such a non-issue.


Also she could totally rock that "boy" hair style if she wanted.
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