Current Events > my ex fiancee just tried to call me 8 times, left voicemail,and sent me an email

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ManSpread
01/23/18 3:43:52 PM
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"I need to talk to you about how sorry I am for everything that happened between us. It's ripping me apart inside. Please just so I can have closure. I want to apologize to you."

how do i respond CE
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Two_Bee
01/23/18 3:44:24 PM
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Send her a pic of ur dick
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MMhawk607
01/23/18 3:48:22 PM
#3:


Dont.
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Cleo_II
01/23/18 3:49:18 PM
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Ignore it
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Turbam
01/23/18 3:49:26 PM
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What happened to make her your ex?
If you don't mind me asking
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SK8T3R215
01/23/18 3:49:28 PM
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"Indian men are the new bulls."
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MC_BatCommander
01/23/18 3:49:41 PM
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MMhawk607 posted...
Dont.

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KILBOTz
01/23/18 3:50:37 PM
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Would her closure help you at all or would it just be her trying to explain why she was shitty without taking accountability for her actions?
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hortanz
01/23/18 3:51:14 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
Ignore it

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Patchwork
01/23/18 3:51:35 PM
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If it's just about her closure, then she can fuck off. If it'll give you closure, call her back.
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Eevee-Trainer
01/23/18 3:51:47 PM
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hortanz posted...
Cleo_II posted...
Ignore it

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Anarchy_Juiblex
01/23/18 3:52:13 PM
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How bitter was the breakup?
Forgiveness = good, as long as you're not stupid and trying to rekindle shit.
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Hexenherz
01/23/18 3:52:29 PM
#14:


Turbam posted...
What happened to make her your ex?
If you don't mind me asking

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Terryville
01/23/18 3:52:58 PM
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Do you care to hear her apology? If not, don't respond or if you must, tell her to leave you alone. If so, as long as you're strong enough to not get sucked back in, what's the harm of hearing her out?
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ManSpread
01/23/18 3:55:04 PM
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@Hexenherz posted...
@Turbam posted...
What happened to make her your ex?
If you don't mind me asking


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
what happened and how long ago?


I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it

KILBOTz posted...
Would her closure help you at all or would it just be her trying to explain why she was shitty without taking accountability for her actions?

probably
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Darklit_Minuet
01/23/18 3:56:21 PM
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"Tits or gtfo"
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SpiralDrift
01/23/18 3:56:32 PM
#18:


Next time answer but have a laugh track ready.
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Hexenherz
01/23/18 3:56:36 PM
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Uh WHAT LOL NO do not engage that is hardcore messed up man.
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Hexenherz
01/23/18 3:57:07 PM
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Friggin' block her dude.
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ManSpread
01/23/18 3:57:59 PM
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Hexenherz posted...
Friggin' block her dude.

i did

she has an app to change her number to circumvent said block
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CableZL
01/23/18 3:58:40 PM
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ManSpread posted...
I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdKI1wj-JpI

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Silver Bearings
01/23/18 3:58:53 PM
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She only wants to make herself feel better, not make you feel any better.
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iron jojo
01/23/18 3:59:02 PM
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Like everyone else said, ignore her.
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SpiralDrift
01/23/18 3:59:18 PM
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Aren't you at least a little curious what she has to say? She's probably spent days writing it.
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Silver Bearings
01/23/18 3:59:29 PM
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ManSpread posted...
Hexenherz posted...
Friggin' block her dude.

i did

she has an app to change her number to circumvent said block

Restraining order.
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MarbyIsBack
01/23/18 4:00:07 PM
#27:


ManSpread posted...
I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it

what in the actual fuck

yeah she can just fuck right off. Sounds to me like something happened with the 59 year old, and now she's trying to rebound back to you. You don't need that shit in your life.
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nevershine
01/23/18 4:00:26 PM
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She obviously wants your manspread
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K181
01/23/18 4:00:58 PM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
MMhawk607 posted...
Dont.

Eevee-Trainer posted...
hortanz posted...
Cleo_II posted...
Ignore it

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Eat More Beef
01/23/18 4:01:19 PM
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Fuck that shit. I've followed your threads. She s nothing but bad news. Don't talk to her, don't answer anything, cut all contact forever.

She doesn't deserve to have her feelings sated.
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eston
01/23/18 4:02:48 PM
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Hexenherz
01/23/18 4:06:00 PM
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Silver Bearings posted...
ManSpread posted...
Hexenherz posted...
Friggin' block her dude.

i did

she has an app to change her number to circumvent said block

Restraining order.


Thousand times this
I've never ever even considered getting a restraining order in my life but I can just see a million ways how this could end poorly for you just based on her behavior up to this point.
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MysteryMan923
01/23/18 4:07:18 PM
#33:


Silver Bearings posted...
She only wants to make herself feel better, not make you feel any better.


Yep. Doesn't even sound like she learned any lesson. Just wants you to absolve her of her sins without her putting forth any effort to make her worthy of absolution.
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teepan95
01/23/18 4:08:32 PM
#34:


Don't do it man
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MrBobGray
01/23/18 4:09:08 PM
#35:


She doesnt deserve closure.
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KogaSteelfang
01/23/18 4:10:48 PM
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I say just ignore it if you can. No need opening doors that might hurt you again.
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theAteam
01/23/18 4:12:46 PM
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How long ago of an ex is this person
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Cleo_II
01/23/18 4:13:21 PM
#38:


Closure is when you break up, period. Anything else is just trying to rekindle something or some type of mental masturbation.
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Lathissamus
01/23/18 4:14:51 PM
#39:


CableZL posted...
ManSpread posted...
I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdKI1wj-JpI


And I thought what I had to go through was bad, that must have felt like a knife in your heart.
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D-Lo_BrownTown
01/23/18 4:24:50 PM
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My cousin went through this shit. She went through a nasty divorce, found out he was dying, decided it was time to "get closure"

Made him feel super shitty for like six months tbqh, then she called him back to get even more closure and he fucking blew up on her and basically just called her out on being a pretty shitty girlfriend and person in general.

Felt better after that, but like...unless you're going toget something out of it just ignore her.
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Turbam
01/23/18 4:25:00 PM
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ManSpread posted...
I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it

Yeah I wouldn't give her the time of day either.
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KILBOTz
01/23/18 4:25:37 PM
#42:


ManSpread posted...


KILBOTz posted...
Would her closure help you at all or would it just be her trying to explain why she was shitty without taking accountability for her actions?

probably


At this point just treat her like you would a homeless person, only instead of trying to get a buck or two she is looking to take your emotional energy.

Just ignore her and her attempts to reach out, she is a non-person. You aren't her priest, you don't owe her absolution.
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Electrokinesis
01/23/18 4:28:37 PM
#43:


Eat More Beef posted...
She doesn't deserve to have her feelings sated.

Absolutely this.
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Bloodychess
01/23/18 4:31:45 PM
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E-mail her back saying thanks for the thoughts, but you aren't interested in restarting anything.
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Solid Snake07
01/23/18 11:45:08 PM
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Just tell her you know she's sorry but it's still over, and you don't feel ready to talk to her. Even if that's not how you feel, just be the bigger person

Unless you want to talk to her....
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Syntheticon
01/24/18 12:40:42 AM
#47:


ManSpread posted...
I found out she was married to a 59 year old man, then she tried blaming everything on me is an extremely abridged version of it
Maintain radio silence, do not engage, repeat, do not engage.
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Paragon21XX
01/24/18 12:46:18 AM
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This is the one with lupus or something and deluded herself into believing that she is the mature one when her lies were finally exposed? Don't give her the satisfaction of closure: block her from contacting you.
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ManSpread
01/24/18 12:51:49 AM
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Paragon21XX posted...
This is the one with lupus or something and deluded herself into believing that she is the mature one when her lies were finally exposed? Don't give her the satisfaction of closure: block her from contacting you.

yup
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iClockwork
01/24/18 12:56:16 AM
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Yeah you have nothing to gain from talking to her if you already know shes a shitty person.

Ignore her. Don't dwell on it.
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josifrees
01/24/18 12:59:17 AM
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The only way I would communicate with her is if you were on a phone call and I would just go blah blah blah blah whenever she tried to talk until she got pissed and hung up
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