Current Events > I might have a date tonight...

Topic List
Page List: 1, 2
Twin3Turbo
01/10/18 11:35:16 AM
#51:


_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Honestly, it might just be me or how I text, but I would probably just send a

"Glad to have seen you last night :)"

text and see how they respond and then go from there. Sounds like she's into you so you should get a positive response.

Once she responds I'd say something along the lines of "I hate that we didn't get to talk much during the movie lets grab some drinks at X location Friday"

Once she accepts and y'all hammer out the details, I personally wouldn't text her again until Friday. On THAT date is when I would ask her how she liked the movie.

The above is just how I would play it though. Generally speaking, I personally try mainly to use texting as a tool to set up dates, not to have conversation, at least in these early stages.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/10/18 11:35:42 AM
#52:


_Goggalor_ posted...
krazychao5 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Meh, don't lead with asking about the movie.

Say something like "I had a real good time with you last night and would like to see you more. Are you free this weekend?"


Isn't that kind of bold/forward?

Yes
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/10/18 11:37:40 AM
#53:


Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Honestly, it might just be me or how I text, but I would probably just send a

"Glad to have seen you last night :)"

text and see how they respond and then go from there. Sounds like she's into you so you should get a positive response.

Once she responds I'd say something along the lines of "I hate that we didn't get to talk much during the movie lets grab some drinks at X location Friday"

Once she accepts and y'all hammer out the details, I personally wouldn't text her again until Friday. On THAT date is when I would ask her how she liked the movie.

The above is just how I would play it though. Generally speaking, I personally try mainly to use texting as a tool to set up dates, not to have conversation, at least in these early stages.


Alright, I'll try something along those lines. What do I have to lose?
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz
01/10/18 11:37:40 AM
#54:


_Goggalor_ posted...
krazychao5 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Meh, don't lead with asking about the movie.

Say something like "I had a real good time with you last night and would like to see you more. Are you free this weekend?"


Isn't that kind of bold/forward?


Yes, and that is a good thing IMO. but you have to find a balance that works for you that doesn't feel phony or faked.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5
01/10/18 11:37:41 AM
#55:


Being meek will make you appear wear to the woman. Proclaim that you are interested and it will interest her and signal that you are for real.

But that's just me. Don't do conversations with text messages; it's so much better to talk in person
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/10/18 12:22:05 PM
#56:


_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Honestly, it might just be me or how I text, but I would probably just send a

"Glad to have seen you last night :)"

text and see how they respond and then go from there. Sounds like she's into you so you should get a positive response.

Once she responds I'd say something along the lines of "I hate that we didn't get to talk much during the movie lets grab some drinks at X location Friday"

Once she accepts and y'all hammer out the details, I personally wouldn't text her again until Friday. On THAT date is when I would ask her how she liked the movie.

The above is just how I would play it though. Generally speaking, I personally try mainly to use texting as a tool to set up dates, not to have conversation, at least in these early stages.


Alright, I'll try something along those lines. What do I have to lose?

You've got nothing to lose at this point. Let us know how it goes.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/10/18 12:57:59 PM
#57:


Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Honestly, it might just be me or how I text, but I would probably just send a

"Glad to have seen you last night :)"

text and see how they respond and then go from there. Sounds like she's into you so you should get a positive response.

Once she responds I'd say something along the lines of "I hate that we didn't get to talk much during the movie lets grab some drinks at X location Friday"

Once she accepts and y'all hammer out the details, I personally wouldn't text her again until Friday. On THAT date is when I would ask her how she liked the movie.

The above is just how I would play it though. Generally speaking, I personally try mainly to use texting as a tool to set up dates, not to have conversation, at least in these early stages.


Alright, I'll try something along those lines. What do I have to lose?

You've got nothing to lose at this point. Let us know how it goes.


Lol. She just repeated what I said to her, that it was nice to meet me and she had fun. Not bad I guess. Have to wait and see if she wants to see me again I guess.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/10/18 1:01:20 PM
#58:


_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
How's this?

"How did you like the movie? It was nice meeting you, I had fun".

Honestly, it might just be me or how I text, but I would probably just send a

"Glad to have seen you last night :)"

text and see how they respond and then go from there. Sounds like she's into you so you should get a positive response.

Once she responds I'd say something along the lines of "I hate that we didn't get to talk much during the movie lets grab some drinks at X location Friday"

Once she accepts and y'all hammer out the details, I personally wouldn't text her again until Friday. On THAT date is when I would ask her how she liked the movie.

The above is just how I would play it though. Generally speaking, I personally try mainly to use texting as a tool to set up dates, not to have conversation, at least in these early stages.


Alright, I'll try something along those lines. What do I have to lose?

You've got nothing to lose at this point. Let us know how it goes.


Lol. She just repeated what I said to her, that it was nice to meet me and she had fun. Not bad I guess. Have to wait and see if she wants to see me again I guess.

No you don't. How long did it take her to text you back? In about that amount of time, text her what I said earlier

"I was thinking and I hate that we didn't get to talk much last night. Would love to do that. How about we meet up on Friday or Saturday evening for some drinks"

What's stopping you from texting that? She's waiting on you to take the lead. Take it.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz
01/10/18 1:03:18 PM
#59:


Twin3Turbo posted...
No you don't. How long did it take her to text you back? In about that amount of time, text her what I said earlier "I was thinking and I hate that we didn't get to talk much last night. Would love to do that. How about we meet up on Friday or Saturday evening for some drinks"What's stopping you from texting that? She's waiting on you to take the lead. Take it.

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5
01/10/18 1:23:47 PM
#60:


KILBOTz posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
No you don't. How long did it take her to text you back? In about that amount of time, text her what I said earlier "I was thinking and I hate that we didn't get to talk much last night. Would love to do that. How about we meet up on Friday or Saturday evening for some drinks"What's stopping you from texting that? She's waiting on you to take the lead. Take it.


Dammit...be forward!
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/10/18 1:28:40 PM
#61:


I have an infected tooth so I feel like shit atm. I'll try to set something up with her when I feel better, I can't focus atm. Feel like I'm going to hurl.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima
01/10/18 1:29:02 PM
#62:


Once I learned how to be forward, the dating world changed for me. Do it and don't think twice
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/10/18 1:55:43 PM
#63:


_Goggalor_ posted...
I have an infected tooth so I feel like shit atm. I'll try to set something up with her when I feel better, I can't focus atm. Feel like I'm going to hurl.

Whats stopping you from texting her in the meantime? If you send her a text now, it's not like she's going to reply back immediately. Multi-task. Set the wheels in motion.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/11/18 4:01:17 PM
#64:


How do I let her know I can't see her again? Would ghosting be acceptable since we've only met once?
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/11/18 4:13:42 PM
#65:


Well first things first, why can't you see her again?
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz
01/11/18 4:21:58 PM
#66:


Tell her you just got diagnosed with bonitis where sometime in the next 5 minutes to 5 years your skeleton will literally jump out of your skin.

but really

Twin3Turbo posted...
Well first things first, why can't you see her again?

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/11/18 4:56:56 PM
#67:


Twin3Turbo posted...
Well first things first, why can't you see her again?


I have something mentally wrong with me that's severe and debilitating and right now I can barely take care of myself.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz
01/11/18 5:03:48 PM
#68:


are you sure you aren't just scared?
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
--Zero-
01/11/18 5:10:24 PM
#69:


Why didn't you get your tooth fixed?
---
SIGNATURE
... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5
01/11/18 5:10:50 PM
#70:


_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Well first things first, why can't you see her again?


I have something mentally wrong with me that's severe and debilitating and right now I can barely take care of myself.

infected tooth?
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond
01/11/18 5:19:01 PM
#71:


_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Well first things first, why can't you see her again?


I have something mentally wrong with me that's severe and debilitating and right now I can barely take care of myself.

Oh geeze...so you were messing with her? Getting her hopes up and now you're gonna ghost her and she'll always wonder what she did wrong. I'm not calling you a jerk but why would you go to all that trouble to now run away? It's not fair and it's not nice.
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 5:23:32 AM
#72:


mipond posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Well first things first, why can't you see her again?


I have something mentally wrong with me that's severe and debilitating and right now I can barely take care of myself.

Oh geeze...so you were messing with her? Getting her hopes up and now you're gonna ghost her and she'll always wonder what she did wrong. I'm not calling you a jerk but why would you go to all that trouble to now run away? It's not fair and it's not nice.


I have BPD. Lately I've been having severe depersonalization. It's for the best I don't interact with anyone, romantically or not.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 7:08:30 AM
#73:


Also have some type of physical illness right now on top of an impacted wisdom tooth (no infection, but the pain...I could barely breathe when it hit).

I was stupid to think dating was a viable option for someone like me.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 7:10:53 AM
#74:


I want to let her know without letting her know if that makes sense. I want her to know I legitimately had a good time and thst it's me, not her. Then again, there's the possibility she doesn't care and isn't wondering why I'm not texting.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
bknight
01/12/18 7:14:25 AM
#75:


buy the big pack of condoms, not just the 3 pack and pick up some lube while you're at it, some girls hate when you use spit
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 7:16:37 AM
#76:


bknight posted...
buy the big pack of condoms, not just the 3 pack and pick up some lube while you're at it, some girls hate when you use spit


Not going to have sex with her. I don't want to catch feelings for anyone. I'm not dateable.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/12/18 8:03:11 AM
#77:


I was at first kinda excited about this topic but now since youre chickening out....meh

Just tell her that you had a good time but have some personal problems that you need to clear up that might take some time.

Only reason Im helping at this point is for her sake.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 8:12:42 AM
#78:


Twin3Turbo posted...
I was at first kinda excited about this topic but now since youre chickening out....meh

Just tell her that you had a good time but have some personal problems that you need to clear up that might take some time.

Only reason Im helping at this point is for her sake.


Sorry, I thought I could be normal, but I'm too fucked up. She's better off not talking to me.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_
01/12/18 8:22:09 AM
#79:


Also, I don't feel she needs specifics. It's something I don't discuss with anyone. The derealization/depersonalization. Fun fact: I don't look in mirrors or watch my shadow if I can help it. I feel like I'm looking at someone in the mirror instead of looking at myself. Like there is no me and the person in the mirror is someone else. Same for my shadow.
---
Now playing: Destroy All Humans 2
... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo
01/12/18 8:37:16 AM
#80:


Im not gonna give you a hard time man. I have no idea how to fix whatever is wrong with you so my only advice is get help. And I do mean that sincerely
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5
01/12/18 9:53:46 AM
#81:


Twin3Turbo posted...
Im not gonna give you a hard time man. I have no idea how to fix whatever is wrong with you so my only advice is get help. And I do mean that sincerely


That. You will only get better if you try.
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List
Page List: 1, 2