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DoubleOSnake 09/28/17 2:31:40 PM #51:	why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time --- "Kojima, the man who trolled the world" <cite>DoubleOSnake posted [p:887456265] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
midgar 09/28/17 2:38:33 PM #52:	thanosibe posted... We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me. 11 years in October, here. I'm the same. I know I could forgive just about anything, but we've long since established that's my cut off point, though. We already know being faithful is a mutual expectation in our relationship. It'd be a point if no return for me going forward, trust wise. So no, that'd be a wrap. There'd be nothing TO explain. These things don't happen on accident, and even if it were the first time, it doesn't just happen out of the blue. Especially if it were in our bed, in our home. Dude would have 60 seconds to respectfully get the fuck out my house, though. Unless he wants to die with his dick out. I'd like to think I would keep my calm, as I'm not usually temperamental at all, so I guess it depends on the reaction by the other party and their respect for the weight of the situation. Even if I lost my shit, I know I could never bring myself to harm her physically. So, can she explain? No. She can pack her shit. --- Now playing: BF1, XCOM2, Rocket League, Scrap Mechanic. GT/PSN/Steam: Novidian <cite>midgar posted [p:887456647] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote>We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me.</quote> 11 years in October, here. I'm the same. I know I could forgive just about anything, but we've long since established that's my cut off point, though. We already know being faithful is a mutual expectation in our relationship. It'd be a point if no return for me going forward, trust wise. So no, that'd be a wrap. There'd be nothing TO explain. These things don't happen on accident, and even if it were the first time, it doesn't just happen out of the blue. Especially if it were in our bed, in our home. Dude would have 60 seconds to respectfully get the fuck out my house, though. Unless he wants to die with his dick out. I'd like to think I would keep my calm, as I'm not usually temperamental at all, so I guess it depends on the reaction by the other party and their respect for the weight of the situation. Even if I lost my shit, I know I could never bring myself to harm her physically. So, can she explain? No. She can pack her shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 09/28/17 2:41:11 PM #53:	She can try to explain, but I don't think the message would get through all the blinding fury. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac <cite>Esrac posted [p:887456795] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>She can try to explain, but I don't think the message would get through all the blinding fury.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Paragon21XX 09/28/17 2:47:29 PM #54:	DoubleOSnake posted... why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time Once he enters our home, it should become more than obvious that she currently lives with another man that is obviously her real lover which is essentially his last chance to back out before the point of no return. Any man who sees that fact and continues to follow his dick bears full guilt of the affair. However, I couldn't fully fault him if they only have their rendezvous somewhere else such as his home or a hotel and she lied about having a lover and I find out about their affair somehow else. --- Hmm... <cite>Paragon21XX posted [p:887457150] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleOSnake posted...</cite> <quote>why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time</quote> Once he enters our home, it should become more than obvious that she currently lives with another man that is obviously her real lover which is essentially his last chance to back out before the point of no return. Any man who sees that fact and continues to follow his dick bears full guilt of the affair. However, I couldn't fully fault him if they only have their rendezvous somewhere else such as his home or a hotel and she lied about having a lover and I find out about their affair somehow else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
midgar 09/28/17 2:52:07 PM #55:	DoubleOSnake posted... why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time No ties to this person, they're just some stranger asshole who probably just had his dick and balls on your bedsheets and fucked your wife. I imagine it's hard to have empathy for them, opposed to someone you loved and wouldn't otherwise physically harm. Doesn't mean you're more angry at them, just that there's less restraint and they're an unfortunately convenient outlet for it, IMO. --- Now playing: BF1, XCOM2, Rocket League, Scrap Mechanic. GT/PSN/Steam: Novidian <cite>midgar posted [p:887457422] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleOSnake posted...</cite> <quote>why would you be more mad at the guy than your wife? See this kinda logic from people cheated on all the time</quote> No ties to this person, they're just some stranger asshole who probably just had his dick and balls on your bedsheets and fucked your wife. I imagine it's hard to have empathy for them, opposed to someone you loved and wouldn't otherwise physically harm. Doesn't mean you're more angry at them, just that there's less restraint and they're an unfortunately convenient outlet for it, IMO.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thanosibe 09/28/17 4:21:41 PM #56:	midgar posted... thanosibe posted... We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me. 11 years in October, here. I'm the same. I know I could forgive just about anything, but we've long since established that's my cut off point, though. We already know being faithful is a mutual expectation in our relationship. It'd be a point if no return for me going forward, trust wise. So no, that'd be a wrap. There'd be nothing TO explain. These things don't happen on accident, and even if it were the first time, it doesn't just happen out of the blue. Especially if it were in our bed, in our home. Dude would have 60 seconds to respectfully get the fuck out my house, though. Unless he wants to die with his dick out. I'd like to think I would keep my calm, as I'm not usually temperamental at all, so I guess it depends on the reaction by the other party and their respect for the weight of the situation. Even if I lost my shit, I know I could never bring myself to harm her physically. So, can she explain? No. She can pack her shit. In the here and now, this feels like my natural reaction. But I don't know if the situation arose if that is how I would react. I agree, that, in our case too being faithful was mutually agreed upon before we got married, and why it would be, very hard to forgive, if not impossible. In the end, I am 99.9% sure I'd go for divorce. I am just not confident to say how I would react to the sight of my wife fucking another man. Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there. Then drink a shit ton and then come home and tell her to get out, because I saw and you and you didn't know it. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:887462122] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>midgar posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote>We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me.</quote> 11 years in October, here. I'm the same. I know I could forgive just about anything, but we've long since established that's my cut off point, though. We already know being faithful is a mutual expectation in our relationship. It'd be a point if no return for me going forward, trust wise. So no, that'd be a wrap. There'd be nothing TO explain. These things don't happen on accident, and even if it were the first time, it doesn't just happen out of the blue. Especially if it were in our bed, in our home. Dude would have 60 seconds to respectfully get the fuck out my house, though. Unless he wants to die with his dick out. I'd like to think I would keep my calm, as I'm not usually temperamental at all, so I guess it depends on the reaction by the other party and their respect for the weight of the situation. Even if I lost my shit, I know I could never bring myself to harm her physically. So, can she explain? No. She can pack her shit.</quote>In the here and now, this feels like my natural reaction. But I don't know if the situation arose if that is how I would react. I agree, that, in our case too being faithful was mutually agreed upon before we got married, and why it would be, very hard to forgive, if not impossible. In the end, I am 99.9% sure I'd go for divorce. I am just not confident to say how I would react to the sight of my wife fucking another man. Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there. Then drink a shit ton and then come home and tell her to get out, because I saw and you and you didn't know it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 09/28/17 4:31:39 PM #57:	thanosibe posted... Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there. Getting picture proof would really help if there's stuff like children or assets involved. Adultery can help you make them bleed during the divorce. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:887462684] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote>Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there.</quote> Getting picture proof would really help if there's stuff like children or assets involved. Adultery can help you make them bleed during the divorce.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AliceofInsanity 09/28/17 4:37:23 PM #58:	If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party. <cite>AliceofInsanity posted [p:887462985] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thanosibe 09/28/17 4:38:08 PM #59:	philsov posted... thanosibe posted... Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there. Getting picture proof would really help if there's stuff like children or assets involved. Adultery can help you make them bleed during the divorce. Yes we have two kids at the moment, 14 and 11. I probably would not think of that, but it makes sense to do it. You can never have too much proof on your side in court. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:887463027] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>philsov posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote>Tbh, I'd probably leave without them knowing I was there.</quote> Getting picture proof would really help if there's stuff like children or assets involved. Adultery can help you make them bleed during the divorce.</quote>Yes we have two kids at the moment, 14 and 11. I probably would not think of that, but it makes sense to do it. You can never have too much proof on your side in court.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 09/28/17 4:46:09 PM #60:	AliceofInsanity posted... If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party. Strongly disagree. Communication and compromise is the essence of any good relationship. If Momma's got needs and she's never told her husband, that's 100% on her. There are potential solutions with various levels of husband involvement and/or approval. Having a gangbang at their place while he's at work and unaware is a terrible decision. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:887463429] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>AliceofInsanity posted...</cite> <quote>If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party.</quote> Strongly disagree. Communication and compromise is the essence of any good relationship. If Momma's got needs and she's never told her husband, that's 100% on her. There are potential solutions with various levels of husband involvement and/or approval. Having a gangbang at their place while he's at work and unaware is a terrible decision.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Action53 09/28/17 4:53:39 PM #61:	I'm a cuck and often hope to walk in on that If I wasn't, I could shoot both of them and get off scot free due to my state's "heat of the moment" law. Only both, I'd go to jail if I shot just one --- Plsbemeantome.sarahah.com <cite>Action53 posted [p:887463842] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>I'm a cuck and often hope to walk in on that If I wasn't, I could shoot both of them and get off scot free due to my state's "heat of the moment" law. Only both, I'd go to jail if I shot just one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thanosibe 09/28/17 4:54:38 PM #62:	philsov posted... AliceofInsanity posted... If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party. Strongly disagree. Communication and compromise is the essence of any good relationship. If Momma's got needs and she's never told her husband, that's 100% on her. There are potential solutions with various levels of husband involvement and/or approval. Having a gangbang at their place while he's at work and unaware is a terrible decision. 100% agree. Nothing builds a good relationship like honest communication. There are many things my wife and I have opened up sexually to each other that have made our sex life and marriage in general that much stronger. Because we are not afraid to talk and ask things and respect each other's responses. I don't think there is anything we haven't said no to each other about. But if there was, I think either of us would respect that, and at least try and meet halfway or find an alternative solution we were both comfortable with. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:887463903] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>philsov posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AliceofInsanity posted...</cite> <quote>If the reason stems from you being unable to pleasure her sexually there should be absolutely no anger toward either party.</quote> Strongly disagree. Communication and compromise is the essence of any good relationship. If Momma's got needs and she's never told her husband, that's 100% on her. There are potential solutions with various levels of husband involvement and/or approval. Having a gangbang at their place while he's at work and unaware is a terrible decision.</quote>100% agree. Nothing builds a good relationship like honest communication. There are many things my wife and I have opened up sexually to each other that have made our sex life and marriage in general that much stronger. Because we are not afraid to talk and ask things and respect each other's responses. I don't think there is anything we haven't said no to each other about. But if there was, I think either of us would respect that, and at least try and meet halfway or find an alternative solution we were both comfortable with.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nativengine 09/28/17 4:55:14 PM #63:	In that moment, probably not as I'd be an angry, pissed off wreck. After the fact, I'd be wanting to know why and where to go from there. <cite>nativengine posted [p:887463936] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>In that moment, probably not as I'd be an angry, pissed off wreck. After the fact, I'd be wanting to know why and where to go from there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AliceofInsanity 09/28/17 4:55:53 PM #64:	Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation. <cite>AliceofInsanity posted [p:887463981] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thanosibe 09/28/17 5:03:47 PM #65:	AliceofInsanity posted... Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation. I can agree to that too. I am incidentally reading up another book on female ejaculation and g-spot stimulation to level up my skill set, and, there's some history about the exploration of female sexuality at the start of the book. It is really is surprising how much women enjoying sex beyond vaginal stimulation has tried to be stifled, and how many myths and outright lies have been spread in the last century to keep women where men wanted them. Personally for me I love getting my wife off first. The time you put into pleasuring a woman will always reward you exponentially. Or at least it does for us. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:887464422] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>AliceofInsanity posted...</cite> <quote>Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation.</quote>I can agree to that too. I am incidentally reading up another book on female ejaculation and g-spot stimulation to level up my skill set, and, there's some history about the exploration of female sexuality at the start of the book. It is really is surprising how much women enjoying sex beyond vaginal stimulation has tried to be stifled, and how many myths and outright lies have been spread in the last century to keep women where men wanted them. Personally for me I love getting my wife off first. The time you put into pleasuring a woman will always reward you exponentially. Or at least it does for us.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 09/28/17 5:09:26 PM #66:	AliceofInsanity posted... Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation. Having a shitty husband doesn't mean it's okay to be a shitty wife. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:887464744] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>AliceofInsanity posted...</cite> <quote>Partly to blame is the toxic masculinity mindset that pervades many men where they completely disregard sexual desire in women. That in the first place makes many women feel they cannot even approach the topic of conversation.</quote> Having a shitty husband doesn't mean it's okay to be a shitty wife.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cj_WlLL_VVlN 09/28/17 5:14:06 PM #67:	She'd probably be too busy trying to pull me off the dude (which I understand doesn't make sense but my gut reaction would be to hit him). Anyways I'm not sure if I would or not. I'd leave for the night and try and figure out a plan based on financial needs of the relationship and then figure out how to come out as far ahead. Definitely wouldn't forgive though and would probably post it on Facebook after the fact to be petty. --- The gamefaqs moderation team knows dogs capable of being offended, cant laugh at a joke, and like to punish jokes that are acceptable on prime time TV pg shows. <cite>Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted [p:887464955] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>She'd probably be too busy trying to pull me off the dude (which I understand doesn't make sense but my gut reaction would be to hit him). Anyways I'm not sure if I would or not. I'd leave for the night and try and figure out a plan based on financial needs of the relationship and then figure out how to come out as far ahead. Definitely wouldn't forgive though and would probably post it on Facebook after the fact to be petty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BillWardsPants 09/28/17 5:15:48 PM #68:	Dead girls can't talk. That is precisely the reason this scenario would never play out to begin with. --- As a wise man once said, "Fool me once, shame on...shame on you. Fool me... you can't get fooled again." <cite>BillWardsPants posted [p:887465057] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>Dead girls can't talk. That is precisely the reason this scenario would never play out to begin with.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 09/28/17 5:17:34 PM #69:	FFVII_REMAKE posted... You come home early from work. You hear some sounds in the master bedroom. You open the door and see your gf/wife fucking another guy or multiple guys. She tells you "wait! I can explain! Please!!!" Do you let her explain? I mean, she could if she wanted, but it wouldn't change a thing, she's not gonna be my SO anymore. --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:887465134] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>FFVII_REMAKE posted...</cite> <quote>You come home early from work. You hear some sounds in the master bedroom. You open the door and see your gf/wife fucking another guy or multiple guys. She tells you "wait! I can explain! Please!!!" Do you let her explain?</quote> I mean, she could if she wanted, but it wouldn't change a thing, she's not gonna be my SO anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoGCyN 09/28/17 5:20:52 PM #70:	EnragedSlith posted... DifferentialEquation posted... Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her. --- --- <cite>DoGCyN posted [p:887465309] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote>Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her.</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
1NfamousACE_2 09/28/17 5:22:44 PM #71:	No --- #Free OJ Simpson <cite>1NfamousACE_2 posted [p:887465401] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>No</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gguirao 09/28/17 5:38:43 PM #73:	What needs to be explained? --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. <cite>gguirao posted [p:887466305] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote>What needs to be explained?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Knowledge_King 09/29/17 10:54:58 AM #75:	DoGCyN posted... EnragedSlith posted... DifferentialEquation posted... Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her. --- http://www.warwithwords.com He Who Leads: Global Ebook Award Winner:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CE0TLLM <cite>Knowledge_King posted [p:887507191] in Would you ... [t:75821443]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoGCyN posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote>Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her.</quote></quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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