Current Events > Wait...are there many girls that do not like down on a guy? I'm gay so...

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was just curious how girls are with you straight guys.

They're talking about it on a TV show I watch where 3 of the girls said they do not partake in that

My girl goes throat deep thank god.
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They also don't do anal.
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If a girl doesn't want to go down on me but expects me to go down on her, she can hit the bricks.
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in my experience it definitely isn't uncommon
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Butterfiles posted...

in my experience it definitely isn't uncommon

Wow, no thank you
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Why are most girls unwilling to do oral vs gay guys?
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"I don't do that"

"Your sister will"
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they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.
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Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Do many girls refuse though? I mean for gays...I've only met like 2 guys who didn't do it...but that's because they were lazy lovers

CruelBuffalo posted...

Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Do many girls refuse though? I mean for gays...I've only met like 2 guys who didn't do it...but that's because they were lazy lovers

what ends up happening most of the time is that women do it frequently while dating to lure the guy in and then once married they barely do it or stop completely.
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Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Spotted the virgin
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thelovefist posted...

Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Spotted the virgin

i dont get it
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I don't care, I want to fuck. I don't need head.
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Awesome posted...

thelovefist posted...

Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Spotted the virgin

i dont get it

You're obviously a virgin.
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Some women love sucking dick like a junkie loves heroin. Others pretend to like it for the first few months of a relationship and then wean it off slowly because they don't feel the "need" to do it anymore.

Unfortunately the dick loving kind tend to be more...unstable.

/sexistcomments
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I can't imagine going down on someone without the unspoken guarantee of getting some right after.
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it's like 50/50 in my experience. but i've gotten the girls that say they don't/never have done it to do it for me and it showed that they don't know how to do it.

then there's some other girls that love it.

It's not that bad. Psychologically it might be one or the sexiest things you can do. >.>

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.
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thelovefist posted...

Awesome posted...

thelovefist posted...

Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Spotted the virgin

i dont get it

You're obviously a virgin.

LOL
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MrDrMan posted...

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.

i know, i said thats what happens but i get called a virgin for it here by some loser.

every woman knows that theyll end up doing it because the guy will be getting it on the side and they dont want that to happen.
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Awesome posted...

MrDrMan posted...

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.

i know, i said thats what happens but i get called a virgin for it here by some loser.

every woman knows that theyll end up doing it because the guy will be getting it on the side and they dont want that to happen.

It's just annoying. I do it almost every time we have sex. She's just lazy now when it comes to sex.Like she'll complain when I'm not that into it but she doesn't do anything.

I don't get it man. IMO that's just part of being in a relationship. If you get lazy on it of course your partner will look elsewhere.
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going down on guys is fucking awesome

girls are missing out
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Awesome posted...

what ends up happening most of the time is that women do it frequently while dating to lure the guy in and then once married they barely do it or stop completely.

So much truth

Awesome posted...

they eventually end up doing it because men will always end up finding another woman willing to do so.

Not so much this though
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Most women aren't even that good at bjs. The guys I've been with are a lot better and more energetic about it.
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MrDrMan posted...

Awesome posted...

MrDrMan posted...

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.

i know, i said thats what happens but i get called a virgin for it here by some loser.

every woman knows that theyll end up doing it because the guy will be getting it on the side and they dont want that to happen.

It's just annoying. I do it almost every time we have sex. She's just lazy now when it comes to sex.Like she'll complain when I'm not that into it but she doesn't do anything.

I don't get it man. IMO that's just part of being in a relationship. If you get lazy on it of course your partner will look elsewhere.

be straight and tell her you want more bj’s and that you feel she doesnt care about you, because a lot of people do things in relationships they dont want to do but still do it because it makes their partner happy.
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Awesome posted...

MrDrMan posted...

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.

i know, i said thats what happens but i get called a virgin for it here by some loser.

every woman knows that theyll end up doing it because the guy will be getting it on the side and they dont want that to happen.

So you aren't then?
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Are we talking to completion or just to help things along?
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Awesome posted...

MrDrMan posted...

Awesome posted...

MrDrMan posted...

My girl used to all the time now she just never really does. Unless I ask. Shit is fucking annoying man.

She has no concept of foreplay.

i know, i said thats what happens but i get called a virgin for it here by some loser.

every woman knows that theyll end up doing it because the guy will be getting it on the side and they dont want that to happen.

It's just annoying. I do it almost every time we have sex. She's just lazy now when it comes to sex.Like she'll complain when I'm not that into it but she doesn't do anything.

I don't get it man. IMO that's just part of being in a relationship. If you get lazy on it of course your partner will look elsewhere.

be straight and tell her you want more bj’s and that you feel she doesnt care about you, because a lot of people do things in relationships they dont want to do but still do it because it makes their partner happy.

I couldn't realistically say that. TBH she's always cared more than I did.

I've told her she's slacking and she always says she will then doesn't. Right now she "owes me"2 BJs which will never happen.

I honestly see myself breaking up with her anyway. Not for that just for reason.
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I have no problem getting oral sex from my wife be it, foreplay or she wants to suck it off. I personally would rather get off with sex. Not that she isn't great at it, she is. She's given men orgasms before from oral. It's just my preference for sex over oral, unless she just really wants to finish me.

On the other hand, going down on her is hot. I'm ready to give her oral every time we have sex, unless she says she doesn't want it.

Awesome posted...

be straight and tell her you want more bj%u2019s and that you feel she doesnt care about you, because a lot of people do things in relationships they dont want to do but still do it because it makes their partner happy.

Very much so. Plus when I learned skills and got better at oral, she got more out of it, and then in turn so did I. But when I didn't know wtf I was doing it didn't seem to do anything for her, so I'd just rather skipped it then. Then I read up on some techniques and now I know it does something for her, so I do it for that reason, even though it's still a lot of work.
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Sounds like a lot of people here have really lame sex lives tbh
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I can't imagine having sexy time without some sucking
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Asherlee10 posted...

This concept is hard for me to grasp. It really makes me wonder how many women are truly straight. If you're attracted to a man, I would think that most of the sexual acts (at least the common ones) would be a major turn on.

Yeah, I don't get it either. You should want to pleasure your partner and find it really hot to do so.

I don't know if I've just been with a lot of "lazy lovers" or what, because a lot of girls either weren't great at it (maybe lack of enthusiasm) or they did it a lot at the beginning but then really tapered off as the relationship progressed. I'm sure it's not always the most pleasant thing, especially if you are not fresh out of the shower but I always keep the area clean and well trimmed/shaven anyway.

Never actually finished from a BJ before (never had a good one then, I know).. but it still feels good, is fun and good foreplay before the actual act.
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My woman has a small mouth, so it isnt easy for her, but she takes it like a champ.

Tbh, BJ's are fun and all, but they just get me fired up for sex. I can never make it through a full BJ without switching up to intercourse.
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Giving and receiving oral is one of life's many pleasures. I couldn't imagine being with someone long term who didn't give head.
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I can enjoy giving so much I do it mostly for my sake and not his. I get lot of pleasure of it myself as well.
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Finishing in a girl's mouth is one of the best experiences in the world. You guys are missing out.
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Callixtus posted...

Finishing in a girl's mouth is one of the best experiences in the world. You guys are missing out.

It's a power fantasy that appeals to a guys base urges...
I'm not saying it isn't a good experience, but I certainly wouldn't call it the best experience in the world.

I would rather have sex then a bj anyday. Sometimes, *gasp* I would rather play a video game or watch a movie then have sex.
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Dustin1280 posted...

Callixtus posted...

Finishing in a girl's mouth is one of the best experiences in the world. You guys are missing out.

It's a power fantasy that appeals to a guys base urges...
I'm not saying it isn't a good experience, but I certainly wouldn't call it the best experience in the world.

I would rather have sex then a bj anyday. Sometimes, *gasp* I would rather play a video game or watch a movie then have sex.

Explain gays who do it....since me and the bf both do it to each other...

CruelBuffalo posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

Callixtus posted...

Finishing in a girl's mouth is one of the best experiences in the world. You guys are missing out.

It's a power fantasy that appeals to a guys base urges...
I'm not saying it isn't a good experience, but I certainly wouldn't call it the best experience in the world.

I would rather have sex then a bj anyday. Sometimes, *gasp* I would rather play a video game or watch a movie then have sex.

Explain gays who do it....since me and the bf both do it to each other...

A. It feels great
B. It's still a power fantasy that appeals to a guys base urges, gender on the receiving end doesn't matter.
C. I can only assume 69 is really easy to pull off
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My ex loved to give me head, but holy shit was she terrible at it.

Her lady bits weren't also that hygenic, so I hated going down on her as well.
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booboy posted...

My ex loved to give me head, but holy shit was she terrible at it.

Her lady bits weren't also that hygenic, so I hated going down on her as well.

Gag me with a spoon....lol yuck.

I haven't read this whole topic, but in my experience it's fairly common for some women to say they don't but most of them actually do
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Dustin1280 posted...

Callixtus posted...

Finishing in a girl's mouth is one of the best experiences in the world. You guys are missing out.

It's a power fantasy that appeals to a guys base urges...
I'm not saying it isn't a good experience, but I certainly wouldn't call it the best experience in the world.

I would rather have sex then a bj anyday. Sometimes, *gasp* I would rather play a video game or watch a movie then have sex.

It's kind of a power fantasy the other way around tho too >.>

USANumber1 posted...

It's kind of a power fantasy the other way around tho too >.>

I can definitely see that for some of the people on the receiving end.
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Plenty of chicks will say that they don't like giving oral sex but you get a few drinks in them and set a sexy mood and it's all you can do to get into a comfortable position before their heads are in your crotch. I think it's yet another one of those unfortunate downsides of how promiscuous women are treated like shit in western society. Giving oral sex is considered a 'slut' action and girls don't want to be considered sluts so they'll say over and over how they won't suck dick.

It cuts both ways, the last thing you want to do around a group of only guys is brag about how good you are at giving oral sex to women. Making sex mutually enjoyable isn't "masculine" enough for insecure guys who can't get laid, so they'll try to shame you on it.
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