Current Events > Co-worker has a crush on me. She is 18 and I'm 26.

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Ps2Twilight
09/01/17 10:38:46 AM
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Dabrikishaw15
09/01/17 10:56:33 AM
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LittleBirdy posted...
The fuck is wrong with you people? There is more to life than sex. Geez.

CE is a pack of horndogs sometimes. Just turn her down by explaining you aren't interested.
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lww99
09/01/17 11:05:24 AM
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fenderbender321 posted...
Zikten posted...
Tadamoto21 posted...
It's amazing how some people are just born lucky. They get breaks in life that they don't even appreciate or want.

things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works


The law of diminishing marginal utility. The more you get of something, the less satisfaction you get from it. Some people are tired of girls and fucking.

Remember when you were a kid, and you opened up that sweet new video game console for Christmas or your birthday? And you were like "oh fuck yeah this is the greatest thing ever!!!", but then years later it was just an old piece of junk that you never used anymore? Girls are no different.


Literally comparing women to a video game console. Lol.
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Banjo2553
09/01/17 11:11:06 AM
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Ps2Twilight posted...
Your first mistake was actually coming here for advice, my dude.

Pretty much. Everyone's gonna hound him for not wanting to bang her.

Honest answer though, if she ends up coming on to you (if she hasn't done it already...I know some people have crushes but never act on them) then just politely decline. Tell her you're not interested in a relationship right now. Saying it like that most likely won't make her think that it's something to do with her (even though it is considering circumstances).
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TimmyTurner1716
09/01/17 11:29:02 AM
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That_Happened posted...
LittleBirdy posted...
The fuck is wrong with you people? There is more to life than sex. Geez.


I don't see the problem, then. If you ignore her advances then you never have to date her, and you don't mess up your work life. Unless the idea of her occasionally flirting with you just cripples you, I don't get why you have to do anything at all.

That would be sexual harassment if she were male but of course women are not held accountable
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That_Happened
09/01/17 11:33:33 AM
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TimmyTurner1716 posted...
That_Happened posted...
LittleBirdy posted...
The fuck is wrong with you people? There is more to life than sex. Geez.


I don't see the problem, then. If you ignore her advances then you never have to date her, and you don't mess up your work life. Unless the idea of her occasionally flirting with you just cripples you, I don't get why you have to do anything at all.

That would be sexual harassment if she were male but of course women are not held accountable

I don't think too many guys have been sued for sexual harassment for occasionally flirting with people (and I mean actual flirting like laughing at her jokes a little harder than others, and not simply asking how big her tits are) but if your life is miserable and you wanna get angry about nothing, be my guest.
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sylverlolol
09/01/17 11:35:55 AM
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USANumber1 posted...
What kind of job do you have where you work alongside an 18 year old when you're 26 where you're not her boss/manager and can't use that as an excuse to say sry ethics.

This.
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SaintAkira7
09/01/17 11:55:19 AM
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fenderbender321 posted...
Zikten posted...
Tadamoto21 posted...
It's amazing how some people are just born lucky. They get breaks in life that they don't even appreciate or want.

things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works


The law of diminishing marginal utility. The more you get of something, the less satisfaction you get from it. Some people are tired of girls and fucking.

Remember when you were a kid, and you opened up that sweet new video game console for Christmas or your birthday? And you were like "oh fuck yeah this is the greatest thing ever!!!", but then years later it was just an old piece of junk that you never used anymore? Girls are no different.



Alternatively, it's like if you chase a butterfly, it'll fly away. But if you sit still, it'll land on you. That's a gross oversimplification of it, but you get the gist.

That's not to say one doesn't tire of the endless pursuits: it certainly becomes tiring as one ages. And gets monotonous (at least for me it did).
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Zeus
09/01/17 11:57:47 AM
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LittleBirdy posted...
I'm not having sex with her.


Not with that attitude you're not.
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judasmaiden15
09/01/17 11:59:57 AM
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All of a sudden be in a relationship on facebook or tell her your expecting a new kid with your gf
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Kim Kusanagi
09/01/17 12:01:12 PM
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LittleBirdy posted...
I'm not interested in a relationship.


You don't need to have one to bang her.
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juicebox4
09/01/17 12:02:30 PM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
vashmoto posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
18 isn't barely legal though... it is legal

Is there something you're misunderstanding?


Yes, I'm not understanding how you can call a group of guys predatory creepers when the girl is of legal age

I agree with you. it doesn't make people creepy, due to the fact that 18 = legal.

vashmoto is saying that you seem to think "legal" and "barely legal" are two different things. the latter is still "legal".. just barely

anyways just do it TC. you're still in your mid 20's, it's no big.
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1NfamousACE_2
09/01/17 12:17:07 PM
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juicebox4 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
vashmoto posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
18 isn't barely legal though... it is legal

Is there something you're misunderstanding?


Yes, I'm not understanding how you can call a group of guys predatory creepers when the girl is of legal age

I agree with you. it doesn't make people creepy, due to the fact that 18 = legal.

vashmoto is saying that you seem to think "legal" and "barely legal" are two different things. the latter is still "legal".. just barely

anyways just do it TC. you're still in your mid 20's, it's no big.


Yes...18 isn't barely legal, 17 would be
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TheCurseX2
09/01/17 12:20:54 PM
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If you don't fuck her at the very least then you'll forever hate yourself.

Unless she looks hideous.
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FrankGoreHOF
09/01/17 12:24:22 PM
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So tell her what you've told us tc

There you go

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donkeyjack
09/01/17 12:25:08 PM
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Do you, TC.
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vashmoto
09/01/17 12:50:55 PM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...

Yes...18 isn't barely legal, 17 would be

What are you doing.
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clyde_frog
09/01/17 1:00:07 PM
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vashmoto posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...

Yes...18 isn't barely legal, 17 would be

What are you doing.


Because 18 is legal. There's no such thing as "barely legal" if she's already hit the legal age.
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Awesome
09/01/17 1:03:15 PM
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yeah 18 is legal and they have features of a woman but most girls that age are still mentally young. older men who go after girls that young are predatory unless the girls are extremely mature beyond their years which is rare, and even then they are still growing.
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AltOmega
09/01/17 1:03:45 PM
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fenderbender321 posted...
...then years later it was just an old piece of junk that you never used anymore? Girls are no different.

EDGY
jk you're probably not wrong
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Fossil
09/01/17 1:07:25 PM
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LittleBirdy posted...
What is with this board? I'm not interested in dating in general. Even a girl my age I would reject. She is a co worker AND 8 years younger. Plus I don't sleep around.

Why did you even make this topic then. It's like you already knew the answer and asked anyways completely forgetting how CE generally feels about these things.

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xxdudeyy
09/01/17 1:19:32 PM
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I would recommend telling your manager/boss first before her so that they know the situation. Workplaces are suppose to have a calm environment with no tension between employees.
After that talk to her but be firm and honest with her. If she reacts negativity, try and make sure your boss is around to see it so that they can handle her and try to keep her in line and stop her from causing any trouble.

You got to make sure you have people to fall back onto to for support and see her as you see her to stop her from trying to cause damage to your life, should it go sour.
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AltOmega
09/01/17 1:26:39 PM
#77:


Fossil posted...
Why did you even make this topic then

The same reason anyone posts on gamefaqs: attention whoring. Even this post.
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PokemonYoutube
09/01/17 1:26:50 PM
#79:


fenderbender321 posted...
Zikten posted...
Tadamoto21 posted...
It's amazing how some people are just born lucky. They get breaks in life that they don't even appreciate or want.

things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works


The law of diminishing marginal utility. The more you get of something, the less satisfaction you get from it. Some people are tired of girls and fucking.

Remember when you were a kid, and you opened up that sweet new video game console for Christmas or your birthday? And you were like "oh fuck yeah this is the greatest thing ever!!!", but then years later it was just an old piece of junk that you never used anymore? Girls are no different.

Dude, that analogy is shit. It only holds weight if you get tired of the same girl after a few years.
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Offworlder1
09/01/17 1:49:20 PM
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@LittleBirdy

Just explain to her your not looking for a relationship or sex, that you feel your too much older then her.

I had a 19 year old flirting and trying to have sex with me at my old job when I was 28, told her I saw her as more of a younger sibling. Then after we both were at a friend's party she thankfully found someone her age she liked and started dating.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
09/01/17 1:49:47 PM
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V-E-G-Y- posted...
Fuck her a few times

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TimmyTurner1716
09/01/17 1:58:24 PM
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That_Happened posted...
TimmyTurner1716 posted...
That_Happened posted...
LittleBirdy posted...
The fuck is wrong with you people? There is more to life than sex. Geez.


I don't see the problem, then. If you ignore her advances then you never have to date her, and you don't mess up your work life. Unless the idea of her occasionally flirting with you just cripples you, I don't get why you have to do anything at all.

That would be sexual harassment if she were male but of course women are not held accountable

I don't think too many guys have been sued for sexual harassment for occasionally flirting with people (and I mean actual flirting like laughing at her jokes a little harder than others, and not simply asking how big her tits are) but if your life is miserable and you wanna get angry about nothing, be my guest.

Of course me pointing out facts= anger n8ce detective work Sherlock
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That_Happened
09/01/17 2:16:55 PM
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TimmyTurner1716 posted...
Of course me pointing out facts= anger n8ce detective work Sherlock


People flirt at work all the time. Very few are ever sued for sexual harassment. You have no "facts" in this case. Just angry little tears.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
09/01/17 2:39:34 PM
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What the fuck is n8ce?
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ArtVandelay
09/01/17 2:54:40 PM
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clyde_frog posted...
vashmoto posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...

Yes...18 isn't barely legal, 17 would be

What are you doing.


Because 18 is legal. There's no such thing as "barely legal" if she's already hit the legal age.

lol, no. if she's 17 she's ALMOST legal. 18, she is freshly legal, thus; "barely" legal.

god damn guys.
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Vladimirr
09/01/17 2:56:27 PM
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I thought saying "barely legal teen" was something they used in porn but I get where you guys are coming from.
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InstaReturns
09/01/17 2:57:13 PM
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Why make a topic if you're obviously going to do nothing. You either smash or don't
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wah_wah_wah
09/01/17 4:56:26 PM
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LittleBirdy posted...
What is with this board? I'm not interested in dating in general. Even a girl my age I would reject. She is a co worker AND 8 years younger. Plus I don't sleep around.

It isn't the board, it is you. You're acting like someone at work liking you is somehow a problem that you just HAVE to address directly and it's stupid.
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MuayThai85
09/01/17 5:10:39 PM
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Zikten posted...
Tadamoto21 posted...
It's amazing how some people are just born lucky. They get breaks in life that they don't even appreciate or want.

things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works


Pretty much. When I was single, I would have to word hard to try and get laid. When I started dating my wife bitches were throwing themselves at me left and right. I literally turned down 2 threeway offers over the span of 6 months and a threeway is a definite bucket list item that I've always wanted to check off (75% chance my wife does it though at some point.
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Deadpool_18
09/01/17 5:11:18 PM
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What's the problem.
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09/01/17 5:14:05 PM
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legendarylemur
09/01/17 5:17:35 PM
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There's actually less legitimate reason NOT to do anything with her.
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elysdeon
09/01/17 5:34:11 PM
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Lol I'm in the opposite situation of TC, 26 and in love with an 18 (well 19 now) year old I work with. We went out for a bit but it never became anything serious. We get along really well and flirt a lot at work but she doesn't want a relationship. It definitely has it's ups and downs...
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Colorahdo
09/01/17 5:36:21 PM
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Tadamoto21 posted...
Zikten posted...
things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works

Exactly. I would give my right arm if a girl crushed on me. I wouldn't even care if she was 18. And I'm older than TC.


Do you have a nice body? Of course not. Have you worked towards having a nice body?

Of course not
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Robin_Dude
09/01/17 6:16:20 PM
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Tell her you're in a meeting, works every time.
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Trayvon
09/01/17 6:23:45 PM
#98:


MuayThai85 posted...
When I was single, I would have to word hard to try and get laid. When I started dating my wife bitches were throwing themselves at me left and right


this is so true. when I'm single, I am single af. but when I am seeing someone all of a sudden girl aquainrences and stuff I know start flirting with me and hitting me up and shit out of the blue once they find out.

annoying tbh
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Lost_All_Senses
09/01/17 6:27:51 PM
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Colorahdo posted...
Tadamoto21 posted...
Zikten posted...
things tend to be handed to those who don't want them, while those who want things never get them. it's how the world works

Exactly. I would give my right arm if a girl crushed on me. I wouldn't even care if she was 18. And I'm older than TC.


Do you have a nice body? Of course not. Have you worked towards having a nice body?

Of course not


You're basically calling all women shallow in that post. You could of asked if he worked on being a more likable person. Cause if he is anything irl like he is here I imagine he isn't very liked
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Tadamoto21
09/01/17 9:33:33 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You're basically calling all women shallow in that post.

He's right though. Going by my experiences on tinder, girls are very shallow.
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