Current Events > Is it ok to be friends with a lot of women?

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Honestly, I'm not the most attractive guy in the world. Whenever I go on a date with a girl, it never gets past the first date. They always say something like "we can be friends if you want, I have a ton of them"

So, I'm not dating anyone but I have a lot of girl friends. They seem reluctant to talk to me, but whatever

Is this good or bad?
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

They seem reluctant to talk to me

doesn't sound much like friends to me, more like you want to believe they are.
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You're never getting any from a single one of the women who put you in the friend zone, you decide if that's good or bad.
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

They seem reluctant to talk to me, but whatever

Why do you think these people are friends?
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slut
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

They seem reluctant to talk to me

doesn't sound much like friends to me, more like you want to believe they are.

But they said the word friends
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voldothegr8 posted...

You're never getting any from a single one of the women who put you in the friend zone, you decide if that's good or bad.

Ohh I was hoping I could try to get back with them. One woman even said she doesn't want to be in a relationship at this time.
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"I just want to be friends" generally means "I'm not attracted to you, but I can't tell you that because guys lose their f***ing minds when they get rejected. Please don't threaten, harm or insult me, and back away slowly."
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its the "polite" way to reject someone

don't take it personally...

i literally only befriend attractive women. the ones i make an effort to chat with and send memes to. the "how u doin" if you havent seen them in a few months

the uggos on my friends list HELL NO
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That_Happened posted...

"I just want to be friends" generally means "I'm not attracted to you, but I can't tell you that because guys lose their f***ing minds when they get rejected. Please don't threaten, harm or insult me, and back away slowly."

Not gonna lie, I do lose my mind when I get rejected

I get rejected a lot, can you blame me
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nothing wrong with female friends as long as you know that you're most likely not going to get any pussy. I'd rather hang out and be in company of a hot woman than a dude tbqh
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Oddly enough, the best way to "get back" with a girl you were friends with is to break all contact for awhile. Better yourself, then reconnect later when you've had more female acquaintances.
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

Not gonna lie, I do lose my mind when I get rejected

I get rejected a lot, can you blame me

If you're unattractive and unappealing, yes I can blame you. Better yourself.
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smoke_break posted...

nothing wrong with female friends as long as you know that you're most likely not going to get any pussy. I'd rather hang out and be in company of a hot woman than a dude tbqh

yeah it's good for your social standing to be friends with many hot women, even if you don't plan on preying on them
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I don't see why it'd be a problem so long as that's your expectation from the interrelationship (i.e. you're not expecting to get some when they obviously don't want to give it). Friends are a good thing and usually underrated from what I've seen when dudes overreact to a girl wanting to be just friends with them. >_>

ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

They seem reluctant to talk to me

doesn't sound much like friends to me, more like you want to believe they are.

That said, this. All my girl friends I talk to almost daily aside from a few.
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