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MachoManSavage 07/23/17 2:39:08 PM #1:	Don't know how to go upon this situation. I bartend. Girl comes in Friday night with other girls and gay guys. We hit it off. Flirting all night. Get her number. Flirt some more. I find out she has a kid and a boyfriend. Ugh, sort of conflicted now, but still heavily interested unfortunately. Saturday night, she walks in. A bit too soon, but whatever. Right behind her is baby daddy (I looked over her IG the night before). She legit brings him to my bar. After a night of intense flirting. I gave her the cold shoulder. I wasn't rude, but I definitely wasn't the guy I was the night before. I was perplexed at the awkward situation I was put in. Her gay friend comes in wondering why I'm so quiet. I'm thinking "really"? Just now she texts me again. What do CE? --- A proud wrestling Smark, because we know better than you. <cite>MachoManSavage posted [p:883451849] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Don't know how to go upon this situation. I bartend. Girl comes in Friday night with other girls and gay guys. We hit it off. Flirting all night. Get her number. Flirt some more. I find out she has a kid and a boyfriend. Ugh, sort of conflicted now, but still heavily interested unfortunately. Saturday night, she walks in. A bit too soon, but whatever. Right behind her is baby daddy (I looked over her IG the night before). She legit brings him to my bar. After a night of intense flirting. I gave her the cold shoulder. I wasn't rude, but I definitely wasn't the guy I was the night before. I was perplexed at the awkward situation I was put in. Her gay friend comes in wondering why I'm so quiet. I'm thinking "really"? Just now she texts me again. What do CE?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachoManSavage 07/23/17 2:50:18 PM #2:	bamp for halp --- A proud wrestling Smark, because we know better than you. <cite>MachoManSavage posted [p:883452406] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>bamp for halp</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 07/23/17 2:51:11 PM #3:	what did she say in text? <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:883452449] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>what did she say in text?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachoManSavage 07/23/17 2:56:06 PM #4:	TheDarkCircle posted... what did she say in text? Hey stranger --- A proud wrestling Smark, because we know better than you. <cite>MachoManSavage posted [p:883452686] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>what did she say in text?</quote> Hey stranger</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/23/17 2:56:31 PM #5:	Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:883452708] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 07/23/17 2:57:47 PM #6:	Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:883452774] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lawlfulcoptors1 07/23/17 2:57:55 PM #7:	Cleo_II posted... Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. --- ~~too cool for a cig~~ #stopsmokingstopcanceralumni <cite>Lawlfulcoptors1 posted [p:883452781] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 07/23/17 3:01:23 PM #8:	Assume two different scenarios here: A) She's interested in you, and B) She's not interested in you Scenario A): So far she hasn't done anything explicitly wrong, by most relationship standards. She got a bar guy's number, talked to him in a friendly manner. Some girls just do this for fun. Point is, she has an out so far, which might be why she didn't see anything wrong with bringing the guy in. If you actually want anything to happen here (and I can't say I advise it, the drama sounds potent), you can't be the one to initiate. It has to be on her, otherwise you are the homewrecker. If she wants to play on the side, she needs to be the one to cross that bridge. Scenario B): You may have misread this entire scenario, which would also explain her bringing in the baby daddy. In either scenario, you basically just need to carry on as per usual and not make any moves until she does. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z316/CeliaOfTheSky/Pinky0926.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:883452906] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Assume two different scenarios here: A) She's interested in you, and B) She's not interested in you Scenario A): So far she hasn't done anything explicitly wrong, by most relationship standards. She got a bar guy's number, talked to him in a friendly manner. Some girls just do this for fun. Point is, she has an out so far, which might be why she didn't see anything wrong with bringing the guy in. If you actually want anything to happen here (and I can't say I advise it, the drama sounds potent), you can't be the one to initiate. It has to be on her, otherwise you are the homewrecker. If she wants to play on the side, she needs to be the one to cross that bridge. Scenario B): You may have misread this entire scenario, which would also explain her bringing in the baby daddy. In either scenario, you basically just need to carry on as per usual and not make any moves until she does.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aelia 07/23/17 3:04:32 PM #9:	Did she think you wanted her number because you want to be friends? Rofl. She's shady af. --- En Taro Tassadar FFBE FC: 970.089.321 \| 1017 Orlandeau <cite>Aelia posted [p:883453073] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Did she think you wanted her number because you want to be friends? Rofl. She's shady af.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iron jojo 07/23/17 3:05:39 PM #10:	Lawlfulcoptors1 posted... Cleo_II posted... Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. --- vickfan-chucky they hated Jesus homie chuckyhacks-who teh hell is "jesus homie" <cite>iron jojo posted [p:883453132] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lawlfulcoptors1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ManLink4321 07/23/17 3:09:04 PM #11:	iron jojo posted... Lawlfulcoptors1 posted... Cleo_II posted... Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. --- The Hero of Hyrule. <cite>ManLink4321 posted [p:883453270] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>iron jojo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lawlfulcoptors1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote></quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachoManSavage 07/23/17 3:14:10 PM #12:	Cleo_II posted... Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama. It wouldn't be the first time an attractive Asian girl sucked me into drama. The only difference is now the boyfriend is a jacked up 6'6 Russian guy. pinky0926 posted... Assume two different scenarios here: A) She's interested in you, and B) She's not interested in you Scenario A): So far she hasn't done anything explicitly wrong, by most relationship standards. She got a bar guy's number, talked to him in a friendly manner. Some girls just do this for fun. Point is, she has an out so far, which might be why she didn't see anything wrong with bringing the guy in. If you actually want anything to happen here (and I can't say I advise it, the drama sounds potent), you can't be the one to initiate. It has to be on her, otherwise you are the homewrecker. If she wants to play on the side, she needs to be the one to cross that bridge. Scenario B): You may have misread this entire scenario, which would also explain her bringing in the baby daddy. In either scenario, you basically just need to carry on as per usual and not make any moves until she does. She was heavily flirting with me. Trying to kiss me, explicitly saying sexual stuff, grabbing my butt. Granted, she could just be messing around, but it does seem like she wants some. And she definitely is initiating things so far. I just jumped on the ride. Aelia posted... Did she think you wanted her number because you want to be friends? Rofl. She's shady af. She gave me her number and begged me for mine. --- A proud wrestling Smark, because we know better than you. <cite>MachoManSavage posted [p:883453513] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Ignore her. Don't get sucked into the drama.</quote> It wouldn't be the first time an attractive Asian girl sucked me into drama. The only difference is now the boyfriend is a jacked up 6'6 Russian guy. <cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>Assume two different scenarios here: A) She's interested in you, and B) She's not interested in you Scenario A): So far she hasn't done anything explicitly wrong, by most relationship standards. She got a bar guy's number, talked to him in a friendly manner. Some girls just do this for fun. Point is, she has an out so far, which might be why she didn't see anything wrong with bringing the guy in. If you actually want anything to happen here (and I can't say I advise it, the drama sounds potent), you can't be the one to initiate. It has to be on her, otherwise you are the homewrecker. If she wants to play on the side, she needs to be the one to cross that bridge. Scenario B): You may have misread this entire scenario, which would also explain her bringing in the baby daddy. In either scenario, you basically just need to carry on as per usual and not make any moves until she does.</quote> She was heavily flirting with me. Trying to kiss me, explicitly saying sexual stuff, grabbing my butt. Granted, she could just be messing around, but it does seem like she wants some. And she definitely is initiating things so far. I just jumped on the ride. <cite>Aelia posted...</cite> <quote>Did she think you wanted her number because you want to be friends? Rofl. She's shady af.</quote> She gave me her number and begged me for mine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MachoManSavage 07/24/17 1:05:44 AM #13:	Bump. Home from work. I sort of want to text her. Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea? Because it is but my brain is cloudy now. --- A proud wrestling Smark, because we know better than you. <cite>MachoManSavage posted [p:883484992] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Bump. Home from work. I sort of want to text her. Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea? Because it is but my brain is cloudy now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aristoph 07/24/17 1:08:31 AM #14:	MachoManSavage posted... Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea? Jacked up 6'6" Russian guy. </topic> --- PSN ID: Aristoph http://www.youtube.com/user/SotCRules <cite>Aristoph posted [p:883485101] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>MachoManSavage posted...</cite> <quote>Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea?</quote> Jacked up 6'6" Russian guy. </topic></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 07/24/17 1:11:11 AM #15:	She sounds like a massive skank. If you do hit it, wrap it up tight --- this just here so I ain't a smelly sigless user <cite>NOM posted [p:883485209] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>She sounds like a massive skank. If you do hit it, wrap it up tight</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 07/24/17 1:13:19 AM #16:	you dont do anything. she has a man. find someone else <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:883485287] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>you dont do anything. she has a man. find someone else</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 07/24/17 3:18:34 AM #17:	^^^^ Like it's not even a question --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:883488970] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>^^^^ Like it's not even a question</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiritSephiroth 07/24/17 3:23:00 AM #18:	MachoManSavage posted... Bump. Home from work. I sort of want to text her. Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea? Because it is but my brain is cloudy now. Dude get the fuck out now. You can find someone else. --- http://i.imgur.com/GNk8cVz.gif http://i.imgur.com/oH2WTnb.gif http://i.imgur.com/e76ObTJ.jpg <cite>SpiritSephiroth posted [p:883489075] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>MachoManSavage posted...</cite> <quote>Bump. Home from work. I sort of want to text her. Can someone please tell me why this would be a bad idea? Because it is but my brain is cloudy now.</quote> Dude get the fuck out now. You can find someone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_____Cait 07/24/17 3:25:13 AM #19:	sounds like trouble. Stay away. --- ORAS secret base: http://imgur.com/V9nAVrd 3DS friend code: 0173-1465-1236 <cite>_____Cait posted [p:883489130] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>sounds like trouble. Stay away.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Looked gf 07/24/17 3:26:37 AM #20:	MachoManSavage posted... She's shady af. --- http://i.imgur.com/otLaOxa.gifv <cite>Looked gf posted [p:883489169] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote><cite>MachoManSavage posted...</cite> <quote>She's shady af.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shnangyboos 07/24/17 3:28:51 AM #21:	Pass. I would never trust a woman who hits on me while she's with someone else. As far as her showing up with the guy, maybe she didn't have a choice. Like, she told the guy she was going to the bar with friends thinking he wouldn't go, but he says he wants to, now she can't say she isn't going because that would look suspicious as hell. --- How's my posting? Call http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/182361-human-resource-machine for any comments or concerns. <cite>shnangyboos posted [p:883489225] in Weird happ... [t:75596627]...</cite> <quote>Pass. I would never trust a woman who hits on me while she's with someone else. As far as her showing up with the guy, maybe she didn't have a choice. Like, she told the guy she was going to the bar with friends thinking he wouldn't go, but he says he wants to, now she can't say she isn't going because that would look suspicious as hell.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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