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Philoktetes
07/14/17 4:53:14 AM
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i feel like its worse for sexhavers

"dry spell" isnt really a concept that virgins have. its their whole life
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MabusIncarnate
07/14/17 4:56:00 AM
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Is "sexhavers" really a word though?

I prefer poon slayer or pussy crusher.
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Awakened_Link
07/14/17 5:08:39 AM
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I've experienced more sexual frustration being with my boyfriend than I ever have being single. So the latter.
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RickyTheBAWSE
07/14/17 5:20:25 AM
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I haven't been a virgin since I was 15, so I can't remember if I was sexually frustrated. but I experience it once in a while when I'm between relationships.
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EnragedSlith
07/14/17 5:23:31 AM
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sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it
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Howl
07/14/17 5:38:23 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it


I feel completely the opposite way. I lost my virginity at 21 and I haven't felt nearly as sex craved ever since then. I went a couple years without getting any after that too.
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ArchiePeck
07/14/17 5:45:34 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it


Yeah, this for me. Once you're in a dry spell, the psychological need for BJs especially just can't be satisfied by anything you do on your own.
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EnragedSlith
07/14/17 9:41:04 AM
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Howl posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it


I feel completely the opposite way. I lost my virginity at 21 and I haven't felt nearly as sex craved ever since then. I went a couple years without getting any after that too.

I think the longest I've gone without sex is like 2 months. I can't fathom going longer.
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Mako_Sharknado
07/14/17 9:43:52 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

Bam
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emblem boy
07/14/17 9:47:46 AM
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When I start having sex I'm curious to see if I get these cravings and frustrations that others get.

I feel like I don't get nearly as frustrated as others do.
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lilORANG
07/14/17 9:48:07 AM
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I didn't care about sex until i got laid. Now i crave it constantly.
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DarkChozoGhost
07/14/17 9:49:23 AM
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It's definitely worse for non virgins in a dry spell, but that doesn't make it not awful before.
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thanosibe
07/14/17 9:51:44 AM
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My wife's sex drive isn't on par with mine, which seems to get stronger the older I get. And it is sometimes frustrating. I never really thought about sex before I had it the first time. I mean no more than normal, and certainly never felt frustrated I wasn't having it. And I was a virgin till I was 23.
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Stick_1_2_3
07/14/17 9:54:34 AM
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Poon slayers because you had it already and you want it even more after the fact. Which is why I think men will still look for other chicks.
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KogaSteelfang
07/14/17 9:58:11 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

This is a big concern for me, if by some miracle I actually have sex once, it might just make things worse if I start craving it more and still can't find a partner.
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Albel-Nox
07/14/17 10:08:49 AM
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I was more sexually frustrated as a virgin.

Dry spell?
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thanosibe
07/14/17 10:09:37 AM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

This is a big concern for me, if by some miracle I actually have sex once, it might just make things worse if I start craving it more and still can't find a partner.
Especially when it's with a person you want more than sex from. I can't count how many times I can walk past the front door and see my wife out on the porch smoking and just want to ..... grrrrr. It's like not even the release of sex all the time. It's also sharing that energy and desire with someone who equally feels the same about you.
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MrPeppers
07/14/17 10:11:49 AM
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I was a virgin in a sexless relationship for a while and that was extremely more frustrating than getting less sex because of long distance now.
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KogaSteelfang
07/14/17 10:13:09 AM
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thanosibe posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

This is a big concern for me, if by some miracle I actually have sex once, it might just make things worse if I start craving it more and still can't find a partner.
Especially when it's with a person you want more than sex from. I can't count how many times I can walk past the front door and see my wife out on the porch smoking and just want to ..... grrrrr. It's like not even the release of sex all the time. It's also sharing that energy and desire with someone who equally feels the same about you.

I'm sad I'll know that feeling.
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Tanoomba
07/14/17 10:15:55 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

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thanosibe
07/14/17 10:20:24 AM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
thanosibe posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
sex didn't become a genuine need until I started having it

This is a big concern for me, if by some miracle I actually have sex once, it might just make things worse if I start craving it more and still can't find a partner.
Especially when it's with a person you want more than sex from. I can't count how many times I can walk past the front door and see my wife out on the porch smoking and just want to ..... grrrrr. It's like not even the release of sex all the time. It's also sharing that energy and desire with someone who equally feels the same about you.

I'm sad I'll know that feeling.
Some people, even when they still care about someone still have different sexual needs/desires. I think that's why I was never sexually active until I was ready to commit to a person emotionally. Because sex for the sake of sex doesn't seem appealing to me. So knowing she's not on the same page sexually as me sometimes, is yeah frustrating, but it isn't going to provoke me to go looking somewhere else, because I want to have sex with her. Not just have sex.
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Sphyx
07/14/17 10:21:03 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
Is "sexhavers" really a word though?

If it isn't, it should be.
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RickyTheBAWSE
07/14/17 12:52:55 PM
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MrPeppers posted...
I was a virgin in a sexless relationship for a while and that was extremely more frustrating than getting less sex because of long distance now.


oh yeah! I did have a long distance relationship that I forgot about. yeah, I definitely know what sexual frustration feels like.

met a chick who was just visiting, tried the long distance thing, got difficult, I messed around with chicks near me, confessed, game over.
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Gorbachev
07/14/17 12:53:41 PM
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MrPeppers posted...
I was a virgin in a sexless relationship for a while and that was extremely more frustrating than getting less sex because of long distance now.

You didn't lose it until your mid-late twenties? Damn.
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MrPeppers
07/15/17 9:34:44 AM
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Gorbachev posted...
MrPeppers posted...
I was a virgin in a sexless relationship for a while and that was extremely more frustrating than getting less sex because of long distance now.

You didn't lose it until your mid-late twenties? Damn.


Yeah, but you live and you learn. Never again, lol.
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tremain07
07/15/17 9:56:55 AM
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Alright then, sexhavers, I have a question; Is battle sex real? Apparently you and your partner fight sexually for 5 minutes and the person who finishes first loses. Apparently women have been victorious more than the men by a large amount.
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FighterStreet
07/15/17 9:50:04 PM
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it's def worse for virgins
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Tadamoto15
07/15/17 10:04:16 PM
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FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

This. It's so bad. I find my female cousins attractive and deed to them. I deed to anime girls. I deed to girls that I knew growing up who are married now. I search youtube for videos of people kissing and deed to them. I'm thinking about buying one of those anime sex pillows.
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Tanoomba
07/15/17 10:26:02 PM
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FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

Nah man. At least you're stuck in fantasy land, which isn't nearly as bad as having something good, and then not having it anymore.

It's like... you cant get addicted to heroin if you've never had it. You're able to go on living without needing a "fix".
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Haldol
07/15/17 10:31:00 PM
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Stick_1_2_3 posted...
Poon slayers because you had it already and you want it even more after the fact. Which is why I think men will still look for other chicks.
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donkeyjack
07/15/17 11:04:56 PM
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Tadamoto15 posted...
FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

This. It's so bad. I find my female cousins attractive and deed to them. I deed to anime girls. I deed to girls that I knew growing up who are married now. I search youtube for videos of people kissing and deed to them. I'm thinking about buying one of those anime sex pillows.


Uh what?
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KogaSteelfang
07/15/17 11:09:34 PM
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Tanoomba posted...
FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

Nah man. At least you're stuck in fantasy land, which isn't nearly as bad as having something good, and then not having it anymore.

It's like... you cant get addicted to heroin if you've never had it. You're able to go on living without needing a "fix".

You know we still have normal urges and impulses, right? It's like you're automatically addicted whether you ever have any or not, just we can't get that fix like you guys can. Sure it means we don't know what we're missing, but it's not like we're not having the same urges as everyone else.
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Tanoomba
07/15/17 11:23:40 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Tanoomba posted...
FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

Nah man. At least you're stuck in fantasy land, which isn't nearly as bad as having something good, and then not having it anymore.

It's like... you cant get addicted to heroin if you've never had it. You're able to go on living without needing a "fix".

You know we still have normal urges and impulses, right? It's like you're automatically addicted whether you ever have any or not, just we can't get that fix like you guys can. Sure it means we don't know what we're missing, but it's not like we're not having the same urges as everyone else.

"We"? Everyone was a virgin at some point.
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Tanoomba
07/15/17 11:30:33 PM
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Conflict posted...
Tanoomba posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Tanoomba posted...
FighterStreet posted...
it's def worse for virgins

Nah man. At least you're stuck in fantasy land, which isn't nearly as bad as having something good, and then not having it anymore.

It's like... you cant get addicted to heroin if you've never had it. You're able to go on living without needing a "fix".

You know we still have normal urges and impulses, right? It's like you're automatically addicted whether you ever have any or not, just we can't get that fix like you guys can. Sure it means we don't know what we're missing, but it's not like we're not having the same urges as everyone else.

"We"? Everyone was a virgin at some point.


Obviously he's referring to people who want it but can't get it.

I thought that's what this whole topic was about? Dry spells vs. Virginity
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KogaSteelfang
07/15/17 11:38:58 PM
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Conflict posted...
The difference is that a person who's going through a 'dry spell' still experienced it in the first place. The other group can't say that.

You know that quote "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"? Of course that's referring to relationships but it's literally the same principle.

This.
Plus, having been a virgin at one point =/= staying one forever. Obviously the virgins wouldn't know what actual dry spell is like, since ours is perpetual. Still, you guys can get your "fix" and have enjoyed it while it lasted, and know you'll be getting it again. youre dry spell may in fact be more intense, but it's momentary.
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Jabodie
07/15/17 11:41:19 PM
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Sexhavers for sure.

I haven't had sex in so long that I've basically receded into viriginity. The urges are not nearly as bad as it would get like one week without sexual contact back in the day.
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Tanoomba
07/15/17 11:41:42 PM
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Conflict posted...
The difference is that a person who's going through a 'dry spell' still experienced it in the first place. The other group can't say that.

You know that quote "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"? Of course that's referring to relationships but it's literally the same principle.

That's a BS quote. Sometimes ignorance is better. It's like the millionaire who loses all of his money. It'd been better off to just not have had that money in the first place than to live in the past.
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KogaSteelfang
07/15/17 11:45:55 PM
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Jabodie posted...
Sexhavers for sure.

I haven't had sex in so long that I've basically receded into viriginity. The urges are not nearly as bad as it would get like one week without sexual contact back in the day.

How long is that, if you don't mind me asking?
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Jabodie
07/16/17 12:01:21 AM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
How long is that, if you don't mind me asking?

2.5 years homie.
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KogaSteelfang
07/16/17 12:02:44 AM
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Tanoomba posted...
Conflict posted...
The difference is that a person who's going through a 'dry spell' still experienced it in the first place. The other group can't say that.

You know that quote "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"? Of course that's referring to relationships but it's literally the same principle.

That's a BS quote. Sometimes ignorance is better. It's like the millionaire who loses all of his money. It'd been better off to just not have had that money in the first place than to live in the past.

Um, in this scenario you can just get lucky and all your money and wealth comes right back though. Yay for you! The poor person gets to see you as a rich person, then temporarily low on funds, then back on top of the world again. It just takes a bit of effort on your part and you're set again. Of course that has to be more stressful than the poor person whose never experienced a good life and still has to listen to the rich guys cry about being poor until they get rich again.
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KogaSteelfang
07/16/17 12:03:51 AM
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Jabodie posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
How long is that, if you don't mind me asking?

2.5 years homie.

That's a decent amount of time, so now wait about 12.5 more years and see if it doesn't start weighing on you more.
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Jabodie
07/16/17 12:07:13 AM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Jabodie posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
How long is that, if you don't mind me asking?

2.5 years homie.

That's a decent amount of time, so now wait about 12.5 more years and see if it doesn't start weighing on you more.

I lost my virginity just before I turned 18 if that's what you're getting at lmao.

Definitely worse once you've started.
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KogaSteelfang
07/16/17 12:13:08 AM
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Jabodie posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
Jabodie posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...
How long is that, if you don't mind me asking?

2.5 years homie.

That's a decent amount of time, so now wait about 12.5 more years and see if it doesn't start weighing on you more.

I lost my virginity just before I turned 18 if that's what you're getting at lmao.

Definitely worse once you've started.

That's not what I was getting at, not at all. >_>
But whatever, obviously you guys who have sex are way more frustrated than any of us could ever be. So I'm done.
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Anteaterking
07/16/17 12:17:56 AM
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Year to year it's probably worse for virgins. Week to week, probably for dry spellers.
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PokeRocksUSA
07/16/17 12:28:43 AM
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I feel like sexual frustration can manifest itself in plenty of horrific ways for a virgin, whereas someone who has had sex before would just need to jerk it and they'd be good for a bit considering that they have had the satisfaction of it. I remember the idea of sex looming over me throughout my early teens-- in a sort of fearful curiosity of the unknown.

Of course I haven't been without some sort of sexual activity every week since I started, so I could be totally wrong on this.
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