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Geiki Ganger
07/05/17 10:44:12 PM
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Hopelessly in love with a girl who will probably never like me back.

What hurts the most is that she did like me, but I screwed up. So now I'm full of regrets that is killing me. I could have been the happiest person alive and I blew it.

So now I need something...anything, that can cheer me up.

Help?
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known2FAIL
07/05/17 10:44:47 PM
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Time. Sorry mate. Time heals all wounds.
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NOM
07/05/17 10:44:48 PM
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Find a new girl
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MC_BatCommander
07/05/17 10:46:18 PM
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Since when do you like 3D girls
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joe_stalin518
07/05/17 10:48:07 PM
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A joint works , stay away from pain killers though they kill emotional pain but you'll be stuck in the loop of addiction
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Awesome
07/05/17 10:48:33 PM
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ive had that feeling before, shes not the one for you.
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Back_Stabbath
07/05/17 10:48:39 PM
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venlafaxine, lorazepam, clotiapine.
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Allanon23
07/05/17 10:49:27 PM
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known2FAIL posted...
Time. Sorry mate. Time heals all wounds.


This, sadly. Try to keep your mind occupied. Read, play video games, take up basically any hobby that will monopolize your free time.

95% of all dudes have gone through this. You're not alone sir.
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Simon_Petrikov
07/05/17 10:51:09 PM
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known2FAIL posted...
Time.

Literally. You will get over it, or at least it will become easier to deal with. For right now, power through and do what you can to keep your mind of things, I guess.

How often do you go outside and just take walks? Do that some time. Weather's perfect for it.
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alexander37
07/05/17 10:54:18 PM
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joe_stalin518 posted...
A joint works , stay away from pain killers though they kill emotional pain but you'll be stuck in the loop of addiction

Yeah don't do heroin....made that mistake over a girl at 16 and most of the next 6 years were F***ED. Been clean over a year now though and in a tumultuous but manageable relationship with a new girl!
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iosifsvoboda
07/05/17 10:54:45 PM
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NOM posted...
Find a new girl


This you can be perfectly happy with someone else don't worry and the new girl won't have whatever you did to screw up hanging around
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DirkDiggles
07/05/17 10:55:50 PM
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A good friend, $50 in ones, and a strip joint.
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OpheliaAdenade
07/05/17 10:56:00 PM
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Simon_Petrikov
07/05/17 10:56:22 PM
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alexander37 posted...
Been clean over a year now though and in a tumultuous but manageable relationship with a new girl!

Keep on keeping on, bruh.
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awesome999
07/05/17 10:58:36 PM
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What happened bro?

Time will heal. Just make sure you're never alone with your thoughts. Just occupy yourself with something like reading
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Sativa_Rose
07/05/17 10:59:04 PM
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Distract yourself and put yourself around other women are my best two tips
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PiOverlord
07/05/17 11:01:08 PM
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Trust me bro, unless you can somehow find a girlfriend, it will linger to this day, I would know. I still beat myself up constantly over my 2nd and 3rd crushes. Anger, sadness, and a hint of my old feelings are brought up when I think about them and how much I failed.
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Dathrowed1
07/05/17 11:03:36 PM
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Listen to some New Birth
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ShotOJameson
07/05/17 11:03:44 PM
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you'll be ok

sometimes these things happen for the better. Just don't let it make you bitter
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Geiki Ganger
07/05/17 11:12:10 PM
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I'm really surprised by the number of encouraging posts...never expected CE to be this empathetic.

Thanks guys, the replies in this topic really made me feel better.
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Sativa_Rose
07/05/17 11:13:33 PM
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Forgettable posted...
Watch 500 Days of Summer


lol bad advice
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billcom6
07/05/17 11:14:46 PM
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Maybe a summer of depression and isolation will help.

At least, that is what my plan is right now.
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN
07/05/17 11:14:52 PM
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Grow a pair?

Alternatively time and or drinking and hooking up with random chick's.
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alexander37
07/05/17 11:35:05 PM
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Simon_Petrikov posted...
alexander37 posted...
Been clean over a year now though and in a tumultuous but manageable relationship with a new girl!

Keep on keeping on, bruh.

Thanks brotha
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KaZooo
07/05/17 11:46:30 PM
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awesome999 posted...
What happened bro?



This is a huge factor. Like what/how exactly did you fuck up?

I've had some girls use the excuse that they're not good enough for me, and in time I found out they actually meant it. Some deliberately went out with some....bums, to all our friends circle's surprises. The female self-esteem is a crazy thing.
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megamanzero1000
07/06/17 12:17:39 AM
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awesome999 posted...
What happened bro?

Time will heal. Just make sure you're never alone with your thoughts. Just occupy yourself with something like reading


people always say this, never be alone with your thoughts, what does that mean exactly?
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awesome999
07/06/17 1:03:51 AM
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megamanzero1000 posted...
awesome999 posted...
What happened bro?

Time will heal. Just make sure you're never alone with your thoughts. Just occupy yourself with something like reading


people always say this, never be alone with your thoughts, what does that mean exactly?

Don't think about her. Think about literally anything else. Like if you're driving, listen to the radio so that you don't have her in your mind. If you're waiting somewhere, read a book or listen to music or play a mobile game. Don't go to bed until you're absolutely exhausted so that you don't have to lie there with your thoughts and fall asleep immediately. Every time you get a stray thought of her, focus immediately on what you're doing, don't linger

This is basically avoiding reality. You'll have to face the facts eventually but it'll be easier to do later than right now

Anyway, what happened bro?
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TheoryzC
07/06/17 1:14:54 AM
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Sativa_Rose posted...
Forgettable posted...
Watch 500 Days of Summer


lol bad advice

Best advice lmao
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Eat More Beef
07/06/17 1:25:09 AM
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I'll give you the same advice my father gave me after one of my long term relationships dissolved:

"Son, there are two types of people in this world. Those that drink through problems of love, or those that fuck through them."

I drink. Pick your poison. It'll get better eventually.
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Tanoomba
07/06/17 1:29:28 AM
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Date other women. Pick up some new hobbies. Go accomplish something and be proud. You probably don't have any accomplishments, and so you feel worthless. The girl has nothing to do with that.
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gna647
07/06/17 2:05:57 PM
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Geiki Ganger posted...
What hurts the most is that she did like me, but I screwed up



she never really liked you enough then, i mean relatoinships are full of screw ups, and if she doesnt like you after one screw up it wasnt going to last anyways.


IMO only thing you can do is just wait it out. Go out with friends, or even date other chicks if you want. Or find a hobby. Just get your mind off of her
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