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LightSnake posted...

okay. So get home, breathe, hydrate and then do as he said.

I'm home now.

I don't know what you guys mean by steps. Essentially, the ultimate goal is to get a stable job so I won't wreck everyone's bank accounts trying to help me and my brother out. Having a consistent flow of money to get what we need is what is keeping him stable. So while I've been looking for work, I am constantly trying to find ways to get money so i can keep stocked on things. My brother needs his spirits kept up consistently or he will tank and completely lose motivation to get a job, and I will likely remain stuck.

Leaving him behind is technically an option but it's something I'd naturally rather not do. It would also cause all kinds of emotional and domestic bullshit that would probably cause me more pain than even what I'm going through now.

I have an online friend who's been helping me for several months to the point where he is now in massive debt and simply said he can't do it anymore.

Now, I don't know what to do. My ex isn't helping me as much now, and she's always broke anyway. I have absolutely nothing to my name, and without people to "pull" from, my specific situation is gonna come crashing down hard. Another friend who is sort of like a guidance counselor to me and who has been keeping me afloat is running into massive credit card debt, and he hasn't been able to help much either.